I went to the market to buy some groceries. My beloved wife made a list of items and asked me to not bring junk food so she could keep up with her weight. Wish granted, I only brought vegetables, meat and such. But it happens to be Sunday today, so immediately when I came back, she saw the stuff I bought and said I didn't have creativity to bring a dessert, and that I should've known better.
Question: How do you call this behavior? Could it be butthurt? Or is it more suitable in the whining category? Help me to label specifically this path of action please!
DO I NEED TO POST A FUCKING DICK PICTURE TO GET A RESPONSE ON THIS TRAP INFESTED FORUM?
Screw you guys, I'm going home!
Matthew Jackson
File for divorce. That's what I'd do.
Also fuck you for picking a wife with your dick.
Michael Garcia
She probably has an underlying issue with you that she isn't comfortable with addressing. So she vents the pent up frustration at any opportunity she gets. Most likely a small matter like a pet peeve. Alternatively she could just be bleeding out her pussy. Trust me user, I'm right about some things.
Jordan Sanchez
There is nothing you can do. You'll always be wrong
Dylan Jenkins
Slap the cunt, she's the one who's supposed to go out and do the groceries in the first place. then slap her again with your filthy sandals.
Lucas Reed
you should tell the fat cow that dessert is junk food and she needs to stop packing her fat mouth with everything her fat fingers can get a fat grip on
Xavier Clark
Who cares? Let her complain. At least the stupid bitch is dieting. I wish I could find a bitch who cared about not being fat. Take her stupid ass out for ice cream then. Then eat her asshole.
Ayden Nguyen
Are you a psychiatrist? This.. Unfortunately this is illegal where I am now... Sometimes I wish it wasn't LOL
Adam James
Just remind her she's fat, as you carefully measure how much ranch dressing she's allowed. What's the fucking problem?
Kayden Mitchell
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William Reyes
Gaslighting.
Hudson Stewart
Ding ding ding
Gavin King
man i can't believe this is actually a thing! you just nailed it!
but then again, is this a women general behavior? I don't have much experience with other women...
Elijah Wood
>Are you a psychiatrist? I am not.
Jackson Watson
Just show her the list and tell her she didn't want any dessert.
She is being delusional. Not really honest to herself, that's what it is called.
Zachary Walker
Wat. Did you meet your wife yesterday? How do you not know her properly?
Henry Thomas
It's not women general. It's specific to people who don't know how to communicate properly. Basically, it's abusive behavioural conditioning. Don't react to it. To apply it to your situation above, when she attacks you for that, you reply with something along the lines of "you asked me to support your effort, I did. There is no ambiguity in your request. If you want junk food, ask me for it". Don't get sucked into an argument, don't allow her to shift the goalposts, just stick to your line.
Best way to avoid gaslighting is to not play the game.
Joseph Nguyen
Oh god. Follow this anons advice He knows his stuff!
Off topic, but our equivalent to the bystanders' perspective in this video is if a Korean man was riding around chicago on a scooter spewing indecipherable gibberish in his respective language.
Justin Taylor
Should have got her fat-free desserts
David Flores
op, apologize and ask her where you can call in an order, and go pick it up, desert from wherever she chooses.