Can we have a vent thread just tell me what really is pissing you off whatever it is no matter how small or big

can we have a vent thread just tell me what really is pissing you off whatever it is no matter how small or big.
> work at gas station in sjwville Minnesota
> constantly walking on eggshells as to not get fired
> my manger hates me only because im a male
> i make a few mistakes at the start of the job
> work harder than the people who were already there
> we have transgender kids
> little shit whips candy at me because i dont remember his little fag name
>bag of swedish fish right on the nose
>tear swells nose hurts and this little shit is smiling at me like he did something great
>grab shit by dress color and escort shim out of the store and yell half an inch for his face to never come back
>cops came talked to by manger nothing happened
>threaten to fire me but i don't care

Our company is losing our current contract, upper management gets to keep our jobs but everyone else is being let go. We can't tell the employees or we will face termination. I have friends who work under me and I want to warn them but I need my job.

shit man that fucking sucks cant you start a rumor or something to let everyone know?

My husband doesn't initiate sex with me anymore. Like ever.

maybe he is just waiting for you to start it

I use to hate everyone, but now I don't even care. It should be freeing, but it's really just depressing. I could care less about this world, and the worst part is that ideology is leaking into me. I just don't care anymore, and it's not ok.

I have to start it every time. He says he's tired. Or not in the mood whenever i bring it up.

>grab shit by dress color
>dress color
>color

Minnesota, eh?

fuck i had mommy spell check it to

maybe try something really freaky

>Veteran
>Went through he'll adjusting to civilian life
>wife was only thing keeping me from being statistic
>Many great times over last 7.5 years
>wife was on xanax for panic disorder
>New doc has her prescribed antidepressants instead 2 months ago
>her libido and emotions are gone
>my hell is now hers
>she wants divorce but says can't imagine life without me
>only remembers the bad times now
>nothing I do or say works
>only widens rift
>isolating herself from her close friends too
>they are contacting me trying to help her too
>know the feeling of being a husk and just wanting to blow away in the wind
>can only keep fighting
>Not for the marriage
>for her sake
>too tired to think between work and doing everything in power to pull her back to reality
I'm just so fucking tired, but I can't watch someone I love become just a husk. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy

i use to be that way to until eventually i just grew out of it nothing is permanent so just try chilling and see how shit goes

Are you fat?

uhhh i dont really know what to say or do about this. i was expecting this level of venting maybe try smoking weed i dont know man im like 20 so

Tried that. Same response

Nope. Average. I was starting to get chubby but i lost the extra weight.

There isn't an answer, just silent horror at this point.

have you gained weight maybe some exercise will help it makes you feel better to

i dont know what to do for you maybe you should see a professional

She's a psychologist, it's kind of funny when you think about it.

I've actually loat 56 pounds so far. I'm back to average weight. A little on the skinny side. I mean i could stand to buff up a little. Gain some muscle. But that was the first thing i did. Its been going on for a while.

make him think your having an affair maybe that will get his blood pumping

How often are you around each other? Quality of time>quantity, it's easy to get numbed out sexually sometimes.

Nah. That would just piss him off.

Also try to get him on L-Argenine, could be an issue with penile sensitivity he's too embarrassed to talk about.

We take at least one day a week to spend real quality time together. The rest of the time i don't see him much. But i did just adjust my work schedule so I'll have more days off. Hooefully that will help.

Maybe

haha yeah

It's shitty to have to not 50\50 enjoyable things, but try doing things he enjoys. Don't bring up sex for a while, then do something that used to set him off. In my case it was my wife's lips grazing the back of my neck. Hopefully it works.

I've been concentrating on just things he likes. Not mentioning any kind of return. But i don't know. I worry that maybe he's just changed his mind or isn't physically attracted to me anymore. Which might sound stupid. Hopefully it gets better. We have been together for almost 10 years.

Trust me he would say if he wasn't attracted. Maybe midlife crisis, penile sensitivity/ED. While I was adjusting, I had all three and couldn't sack up to tell wife until a year or two ago. It's an awkward thing to even mention to a doctor, much less a lover.

Yeah. I'm just frustrated right now. Its been a while for me. I'm trying to give him space about it. It'll get better. And i didn't marry him for the sex.

No one stays married that long for the sex, only he can fix it. It's shitty seeing another couple going through similar things.

Yeah. I love the bastard. I wish i could help. But i think like you said its something he'll have to fix or come to me about.

If it's like me, I just lost my zeal for life. I had every ounce of joy sapped from me and didn't feel anything but self loathing, apathy, or resent towards everything. I got fed up just constantly receding eventually and just focused on moving forward and not dwelling, I'll never be the same man I was. The worst thing he can do is force himself to act like nothing is wrong. Live in the the fucking moment and don't stop for shit, it's how I got out of my slump

I've got some stuff planned coming up that might help with that. Couple of concerts he wants to go to. A new game. Maybe a new tv he really wants.

Well best of luck user, you are a good spouse.

Well thanks for talking to me user. I better go to bed. I have work tonight.

Thanks. Same to you. I try. I just want him to be happy in the end.

I'm sorry man. :( .

Fuck.

I guess getting in a better shape can't hurt, even if you are average atm.

Just Get Naked, works 9/11 times

>3 days till 1 year since splitting with ex
>she was an absolute bitch to me
>drove me to the brink of suicide
>emotionally abused the fuck out of me
>lost so many friends
>so many opportunities to see people gone
>comicons wasted
>never really was interested in sex but she'd always start it and i just did it
>had no privacy
>always arguing
>convinced myself it was still love
>still get hate messages from her friends
>generally dont think about it because new partner has helped me deal with it
>reminded often enough that she broke me
>emotionally and physically
>keep getting anxiety attacks at work and bouts of hating myself
>haven't told partner yet because she'll blame herself

When does it get better?

At least you have someone, user

It does, stop letting the negativity get to you user. You are letting the cunt win by even letting it bother you, laugh at how obsessed she still is.

after a year it gets easier user, i went through the same thing. Ended up just isolating myself and watching Smallville

Literally nothing made me feel better then seeing Supes get shit on every episode by Lana Lang.

My recent ex fucked the janitor at her work behind my back, got pregnant with his kid and aborted it. Got the fuck out of there and moved out, nasty bitch still pissin me off.

thanks anons

Do you best to keep that shit outta your mind, thinking about the past is a killer user. take care

Tell your manager that you identify as a double gender queer m2f2m trans or something. Say you keep your male pronouns because the partiarchy forced them on you and without them you feel naked and raped. Blame any other fuckups on people triggering and raping you. Once she starts doubting you say that you started taking hormone pills that should help you ( get some mints and put them in a pill bottle). Once that ploy fails announce that you are a trans nigger (now you can steal stuff).

>meet a girl I knew back from 3 years ago
>we hang out a lot, and after a month we started fucking
>user, I have feels for you, but I didnt want to get in a relationshep (it was too soon)
>she pushes it until I get in a relationship with her
>the first month is great, fuck a lot, do a lot of things together, she fits in my life
>second month, oh user I have to start giving clases after work to support my parents
>ok wiht that, family is family
>a slow year pases, sexlife down to a pitty fuck every three weeks
>she doesnt want to hang around with me
>she says im boring and I never want to do anything, fuck I travel 4 times a year, and do a lot of thing incluyed partying...
>start to be distant as unconciusly im bracing myself for the impact
>I start to care less and less, I tell myselfthat she has to care for the relationship as I did...
>she doesnt
>shes shocked when I agree to broke up, she was waiting for me to beg or something
>with the relationship ended I fell free, Im at the top of the wave, feel alive like never before.....
>fastforward 3 months, its my birthday, a friend of mine congratulates and in a dick move tells me shes with other one
>I fight the urges to see who this is, I lose
>hes that guy form work I told her he was trying to fuck her, now he does
>she even puts nice thing in facebook for him to read, she never did this to me
>she has a ton of pics with him, she never did this with me
>she has fight with her parents to have more time, she never did this for me....
>crumble and fall