How did you get over her?

How did you get over her?

Help me Sup Forums, please...

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Go take a look at these this girl will take her off your mind

4 years, married to different person, still suffer/cry at night.

Yikes how did it end

im 4 days in and i dont know what to do 1 year and 7 months just gone like that.

Decided she was not worth using a single joule of energy on. First couple months spend time with friends.
Also that fucking cliché of fucking someone new is 100% accurate. I know you don't want to, and I know it sounds dreadful and stupid, but it's true.

What about her are you stuck on?

by fucking lots of other "hers"

Never did Op... Never did... Jusy uhhh... pretend it's ok. Eventually you'll get good enough that people will believe you.

Ya dont. It just doesnt fucking happen

this lol
also noone else is responsible for your happiness. only you are pussy.

Cutoff all contact with her, no text/calls/email/fb. Everything. Everything that reminds you of her,every little thing tou saved from here or the things yall did together, receipts, movie stubs, parking tickets, everthing. Delete her from your phone, contact list everything.
Improve yourself. Go to the gym, improve yourself to spite her and over time you'll be able to say her name out loud and not feel anything.
Its going to hurt.
It going to hurt for awhile but BELIEVE it or not you'll FIND SOMEONE else.
Your not alone I'm trying to handle this too.
Be strong OP, be strong

Weed helps. As do hallucinogens.

Got single, a better job and got my shit straight. Now I have a apartment, disposable income and don't have to put up with some clingy, jealous, broke ass she-devil bitch that's gonna suck my life force dry.

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this man helped me alot

by realizing she is worth nothing and its just your shitty hormones making you think you need her. You don't. In 10 years you will look back and be glad of ignoring your "feels" even when you see her as she walks around unhappy with two kids and never with their father.She tries not to seem like she notices you but its TOO LATE ITS TOO LATE YOU HAD YOUR FUCKIGN CHANCE BITCH YOU HAD IT a\oihsf\
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She hurt me. I can feel my heart aching just like once before. Still I can't get her out of my mind. It's not even like we were together, we were just playing as she would say. But that was more than enough. Even though it just started out as some "fun" it became real enough for me in a few days.

On top of that I work with her. We used to play with each other a bit just one hand under the desk. No porn just some caressing and stuff. Locking eyes together. Those eyes...

She knows I love her.

That comic is pathetic bullshit. Dude in the top panel needs to work through all that on his own instead of expecting some virgin mary bitch to come fix it for him. Take charge of your shit and other people will recognize it, nobody likes to see a grown ass man wallowing in this shit.

Thanks i get fat fingered with trying to help the Sup Forumsros

Is it just me or does it seem like most women need a man around all the time? I noticed all the chicks ive dated are always getting fucked before or right after we break up. Stayed single over a year now and i keep taking trips to other towns to get laid so i dont have to deal with commitment after i get back in my car and go back home.

You do not. You just learn how to live with the pain.

Just move on. Easier said than done, but, it's really all you can do.
You're gonna suffer. You're gonna have to deal with it. It's inevitable.

The only thing you can do, is go out and sleep with other women. I know it doesn't sound good right now, but once you finally pass the mourning phase, it'll get easier.
Just bang other chicks, and eventually you'll find one that will make you remember "her" less. You'll never forget about "her" completely, but it gets better OP. Trust.

I stopped talking to my "best friend" of 11 years about a year ago. We were never technically in a relationship, but, we were best friends, were together every minute of every day, and we fucked like rabbits. I loved her more than anyone, and I still think about her all the time. But, I've had a few girlfriends since, had a few one night stands, and I think about her less and less.

It sucks at first, but there's light at the end of the tunnel Sup Forumsro...

dude...

Legit best advice so far.

1) Never meet her again.
2) Make sure there will never ever be something between you and her. Like insulting her or whatever.
3) Find other ones, even just to get a little crush on. You'll understand she's not the only one.

been 2 years and I still think about her every day
enjoy your suffering gay boy

For me it has been 25 years and I still remember every song of the mixedtape we used to play in her room in the dark. How the candle made patterns on the walls....
We are anonymous. we never forget.....

A secret for you user;
You want to get over her?
Simple, find a surrogate, take her to a secluded safe, secret spot, shoot behind ear and put down the well, repeat until sated.
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Nice. Too bad my demons are what drove her away. Now as i try to handle them i think it may be to late.

For me, when my trust in her faltered a tiny bit, they came out and talked from me, and god fuck me with every sentence it was worse and worse and I couldn't stop.
After that we didn't talk for a few days then she asked did you calm down?
We continued playing, and now it happened again. I think I just fucked up big time now.

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kill yourself

Pain

I didn't

is this a feels thread now?

Went to uni and met better people
gg ez

I know this has already been said multiple times but it's the answer

Fuck other girls. Flirt with other girls. Trust me OP, once you start getting back in the game and flirting back and forth with hotties, you completely forget your ex. Once you fuck another girl though, you 100% don't care about your ex.

The more you think about her the more you will hurt, so just toss everything away that reminds you of her and get back on the playing field.

2 days of weed and beer, and recalling all those times she was an irrational retard.

Works like a charm.

well , you cant , it's been what ? , 18 years since then ? you cant forget them user

I tried and nothing.
Fucking is not enough for me, I keep thinking about us in the bed. Not fucking, not even lovemaking, just laying with my arms around her, sleeping deep.

personally i like to think of all the freedom i now have and all the extra cash i've got to spend. also it's one less person to give a shit about.

as for an actual tip, try to use your time to distract yourself into other shit e.g. hobbies or w/e u like

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You magnificent cunt

Honestly man the best way is to just stop thinking about her. Remove yourself from any and all forms of contact with her. Never speak of her, stay away from the subject as vigorously as possible. Also, lean on your friends; they're there to help out.

I got over her by going out more and meeting people. I realized I broke myself up and down for the old one and it almost - ALMOST - got in the way of the current one. I'm a writer and I most of my inspiration came from the last one. So I wrote like a motherfucker. For months, man. Then I got it all together, printed out my letters, journal entries, messages and whatnot, burned them all up and went straight to the bar and ran into my current girlfriend. I don't believe in fate or destiny or the whole Everything-happens-for-a-reason bullshit, but goddamn man that was divine intervention.
I think about the old one every now and then, but ultimately I understand it wasn't healthy nor were we a good match. I expected too much from her and she didn't want to put forth the effort.

I'm not going to lie, though. It's hard as fuck. But it gets easier. Delete her from social media (I don't really use social media so that wasn't too difficult for me).

Best of luck, m8.
Oh, and I watched Gladiator nonstop for like 2 weeks after the breakup. My man, Russel Crowe is my literal savior.

Now I see her at random parties with my friends and coworkers, and I'm generally unfazed.

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The best way to get over someone is by getting under someone else

damn

Same...my girlfriend broke up with me at the beginning of this semester. Had been together for almost a year, she met someone else over the summer and didn't tell me till we got back to school.

idk, fucking someone else did make me feel better for a bit. I have kept having contact with my ex so maybe thats why I still think about her.

We work together.
Not many friends who prefer the free fucking around. Kind of friendzoned me.

I know a one step method.

Problem is that I'm well endowed but I can't get hard if I feel nothing for her.
This milf from last night for example was with a semi and it was not good.

Fucking quit. Like, just get out as quickly as you can. She's a woman and the one thing I can guarantee is she will befriend every one of your coworkers to get under your skin. You're not 'losing' or 'showing weakness' by leaving; you're moving on. You don't need to feel trapped in your place of business, especially with an ex-lover.

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It's been about 7 months, haven't got over it and still think about her pretty much every day. Tried to be with someone else and I felt nothing, advice? It's messing with me more than i'd like

I can control my feeling like spock.

I can't, only 2 of us for the whole season. Even though she hurt me I can't do that to her just for revenge or some shit. That's not me

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What line of business are you in?

Before her I had someone and it was almost the same story. A month of well being then BOOM get rekt. Sometimes I still think about her. About those few hours I was genuinely happy.

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@op TRP is all you need.

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Let your awakening ccommence now.

Storage/warehouse part of a big retail shop. We care about online orders, delivery and similar shit.

Weed, friends and restoring and old classic.

you stop being a faggatious subhuman and man up

Why do they always cheat Sup Forums?

something is wrong w/ u. ur selection of partner or ur act w/ partner

I married her.

Ok I got ya. Still highly recommend leaving. At this point you're at a fork; in one direction you're stuck helping her out, in the other, you leave and you're free but sure you might have a little guilt leaving her alone.
Now, if you're trying to get over her, I strongly urge you to leave.


However, if you're still hopeful, talk to her about it. I mean, you're conflicted and she's the source; that merits at least a conversation.

I just kinda touched it out until my feelings became nothing

I saved up enough guilt since I have a girlfriend. She loves me but I'm just okay with her and that's not enough for a relationship. In the past few weeks I've been lying to her constantly and I will move out in 2 tops.

Hopeful is a pretty strong word. She jumped on me then said enough then jumped on me again. Now she told me it's enough... well... we'll see...

Are you angry? You sound angry.

First thing,you probably wont.The best you could do is not think of her.Try not to remind yourself.Find someone else.If you keep telling yourself it wont help,it aint gonna get better.If the second chick is not passable,find another one.Life's too good to be hung up over one girl.

My ninja get out of your current relationship, and leave your place of business. It's not fair for the girl you're with, and it's not helping you in a positive way. Listen to the golden advice; 'delete everything about her'. Outa sight outa mind. It works.

It's been two years. We talked a year ago. She hit me up last week after not talking for a year. It was brutal. I told her I still loved her and she bolted. I'm never going to be over this bitch. God damn it. I just couldn't play it cool. Stupid stupid stupid stupid stupid.

would not recommend this

I started hunting.

She left me because she got engaged to some guy after cheating on me for 3 months. She's getting married in December the day after she turns 18. Before you freak out our relationship started and in high school and I'm 2 years older. She's pissing her life away and I hope all her kids end up Zika babies.

>the guy she left me for is 25

Yep, thats it right there
Anytime you lose something, ask yourself if you're going to miss it in 10 years. Nothing is forever dude. There wouldn't be so many divorces today otherwise haha. Some married couples even only wait for their kids to grow up to go apart

Same user. We were together 3 years. So now to blow off steam I disappear in the woods

What do you mean by playing? Boy you better not still be banging her

Like this. Feeling much better now.

I know what you're going through OP. My first real "Her" took me almost 2 years to completely get over. I found the most effective method was to re-evaluate myself. Work out, do stuff you love doing by yourself, learn to enjoy yourself by yourself. Try some superficial 'flings' for a change, just get laid for the sake of it. To regain confidence is everything. In the process people often end up in a new relationship without intending to.

laughed way too hard at that pic

Same but i fell deep into alcoholism

Same, also. That's just what I drink in a week. It's not (entirely) for the reason OP mentioned, but it seemed to fit here.

By realizing she brought out the best me, but when she left she didnt take that part of me with her. She only took her toothbrush and tampons. Fuck her op. You will get someone better.

Fucked her sister
And have continued to fuck her

Just used her to get to the sister in the first place

Don't be a bitch, love is just a chemical reaction that ensures you breed, you don't have to love just one person your whole life, humans aren't monogamous by design

Time. Only thing that helped

They're always a part of you. I still have dreams about this girl from 5 years ago even though I've been dating my current girlfriend for 3 years. It's really weird.

By not being a bitch. Shit sucks but if you honestly use this pathetic, dumbfuck photo, you'll never get over her. If your happiness revolves around someone else, you're fucked.

Fucking hell... Going through some of the same shit. I can't stop thinking about "her," but we study at to places far from each other. Worst thing is, is that I just can't look at other girls the same way anymore.

I'm with you there man, I fucking hate women because of one girl. But that didn't really interfere with my relationship with my current gf.

I never did...
And she hates me a lot for what i did and i cant get over it...

What'd you do?

im gonna greentext the whole story of this, so get ready.
Also im foing this so i can get it out of my chest, my fucking love life sucks dick

Have you tried getting her back? Explaining what's going on? It might not be too late. People break up and get back together all the time.

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Can't really say I hate women because of her, can't speak for your situation. I'm the idiot for falling in love with a friend I knew was going to move far away. We aren't together, but I have never felt so strongly for someone else before. She's the reason I don't really want to hook with other girls, and it's fucking irrational on my part I know...

Are you trying to say you like someone else than your current gf btw?

Have you tried apologizing?

>Be me
>Be stupid as hell 17 years old twat
>Be dicking arround in internet forums about shitty tv show
>Met a grill who is kinda cute and really into the same shit as i
>Talk to her a lot and in no time became close friends
>Fast forward 1 or 2 months
>She breaks up with looser bf
>Timetostrike.jpg
>Ask her to come to my place for a week (she is from another city)
>She comes
>We fuck a lot
>We fuck A LOT
>We both fall in love like a pair of stupid teens
>Be in realionship for almost a year
>I cant belive my fucking luck, but...
>A new challenger approaches
>A motherfucking Vasco jackasss steps into the relationship
>Fucking takes the girl for himself
>FelsBadMan
>Fast forward 1 year
>I talk to her again, she broke with the Vasco couse he was an abussive jackass
>Try again with her
>Even better than before
>I see her more than before couse her parents buy me tickets for the train and shit to see her (couse im poor as fuck)
>Feels Good Man 2.0
>About 1 year and a half now since i started again with her
>Its not going great now
>She is having a ton of problems with university
>I dont know how to help
Cont?

Go on tinder and try to get some girl , fuck them or hang out with them . Worked for me and my friend , worst you can do is to watch porn and stay alone