My wife got fat, and i hate her for it

my wife got fat, and i hate her for it.

i even feel shame when she hold my hand in public.

divorce fags, how easy is it to get divorced?

pic not her, but very related and very similar.

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Hopefully she'll divorce your shallow ass before you figure it out.

Do you hate-fuck her?

no, i cant even get hard with her. i just leave the house when she starts feeling me up.

fat bitch detected.

thats what you get for getting married faggot.

if shes not satisfying you anymore, just fuck women on the side.

i am trying now, but the skinny ones seem a little too picky, and im not even fat, or ugly.

The difficulty is completely dependent on where you live.

Why not go for murder instead?

i dont hate her enough to kill her. just enough to not want to be near her while people are looking at me. i feel shame.

Just start making her salads and go for walking trips, you got this Op !!

My wife got fat too. Was chubby, now landwhale.

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and the ugly people losers that smell like shit and is ugly like the ugly bitch try to hurt the popular people cause is pathatic and outnumber everybody and try to control the socitry and the ugly people losers smell like poop and try to hide all the attrative people while the ugly people losers are out in the front that nobody want to see

last time i mentioned her weight she got all bitchy. i dont bother with it cause she starts bringing up the kids and home and shit and it just pisses me off too. i have kids as well and i dont have stretch marks on my stomach and ass from fat.

and the ugly people losers smell like poop like the ugly bitch that never did anything but try to hurt the popular people the ugly way cause dont want to look abd cause smell like crap and is ugly

Fuck off idiot. If your partner put on so much weight they became repulsive you'd be out the door

Depends on where you live defines the laws. Kids involved will complicate it too. How fat are we talking user? Like Lena Dunham fat where shes just a blob, or a refined curvy fat that is pleasant to the touch. Also, have you become a fatty as well and perhaps projecting on her?

most women are picky im general, just chat as many as you can up and use sexual innuendo here an there while slowly progressing more overtime. If the girl is actually interested in having sometype of sexual relationship, she'll play along with the innuendo herself.

Easy, first
, kill yourself...

OP is this her? What's the deal has she got a gut and gunt now? Or just the arms?

she was skinny not much ass but had nice curvy looks. now she has a stomach like she drinks and has no ass at all. its really disgusting. went from 130 lbs to 200. and I only found out because she went to the doctor and i saw her papers.

oh, they also told her she's prediabetic. now.... ask me if she's taking care of her weight?

im 6 feet and 180 btw. dont have abs but dont have a belly either. its embarrasing to even walk around with her.

Hard. Just fucking kill her and be done with it.

have you asked her to get thin?

she got mad. i left it alone cause i wanted to punch her fat face. like i said before, i now hate her.

That sounds pretty bad. Never been and have no intentions on getting married any time soon ... But if you are not attracted to your wife anymore that's a problem. Either she'll want to work on it with you, or she won't. If she doesn't want to work with you then what's the point in being married.

I'm in the same situation however not married nor have kids.

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i'm confused OP. are you asking Sup Forums whether we think you should divorce her or not, or how to divorce her?

So why you didn't beat the living shit out of her?

>she was skinny not much ass but had nice curvy looks. now she has a stomach like she drinks and has no ass at all. its really disgusting. went from 130 lbs to 200. and I only found out because she went to the doctor and i saw her papers.
Hmm, that is a rather large Marge. How tall is she? Is this something that you feel you can help her change? You better get her in shape or get the fuck out, because diabetes will fuck her shit up. If you love(d) her user, I hope you'll get her motivated to lose some of that ass without fat shaming her. Use the medical diagnosis as the catalyst. Tell her 'we're both getting a little older sweet lovergirl, lets start power walking around the neighborhood. I don't want to lose you, sweet princess." Give her a couple of months, and if she can't get it together, then do the needful.

Everyone, this is why you establish early on in the relationship that physical attraction is important to you as well as attraction to the person's character. You say their appearance is part of who they are and plays in to your sexual fulfillment. And you also need to take care of your own appearance. That way you establish that your relationship is one where neither of you will let what happened to OP's wife happen to you.

Trust me. It is not a shallow thing to say. It just means you want to be attracted to the entire person, not just part of them. I did this with my wife after a decade of handling relationships the wrong way, and I feel dumb for not having thought of it sooner.

Insecurity Sup Forumsro, why not say you want the household to go vegetarian? See what she says??

i am going to divorce her. just fear the blowback. cause im a man.

i live in a country with pavement, electricity, traffic lights, and potable water and shit. i cant just beat the shit out of anyone, no matter how much i want to sometimes.

Dude just leave her then. Don't do anything stupid that's going to get you in trouble. It's just going to be a drain on both your mental state and wallet until you leave.

>Tell her 'we're both getting a little older sweet lovergirl,

lol. she's 27. i am 40. been married 3 years.

That would just save him the time of figuring it out

No, civilization doesn't turn every man into a pussy. It's just you.

seems like you have only a few options.
Divorce instant.
Or tell her that it cant go on this way and if she doesnt start to care about her health you will need to divorce. Even if you have children, its better for them if you two get divorced as if you two would have a fake relationchip based on love for each other.

good jesus losing fat is easy as fuck if you have motivation! If she doesnt want to change even if you tell her you will divorce her, then punch her in the face before you go. :)

>lol. she's 27. i am 40. been married 3 years.
Well, its true brother. Are kids involved? How has her mother held up over the years? That will be a big clue of expectations.

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She's the one on the right

Go vegan. She'll lose a shit tonne of weight.

>She's the one on the right
Top or bottom pic, or both? If both, then why is her friend laying on the pounds too? What are they doing all day?

>we're both getting a little older sweet lovergirl, lets start power walking around the neighborhood. I don't want to lose you, sweet princess
Fuck this is terrible. I hope you have never said anything even close to this pathetic crap. I really have to assume you have never been in a relationship or even talked to a female to even think this bullshit.

>Are kids involved? How has her mother held up over the years?

yes, we have two. and her mom is fat too, but she was realy skinny when i met her. i could easily pick her up and fuck her standing up. thats why i put two babies in her. she was hot.

he's lying. its just random pictures.

>the skinny ones seem a little too picky
That's all women:
>okc study:
>despite MSM saying women are less shallow, more forgiving on looks
>women say 80% of men are below average looking
>men, despite MSM and porn constantly showing stereotypically "beautiful" women
>men rate women on an almost perfectly distributed bell curve
Past that:
>women are the most likely to vocally shun gender norms
>but stick to them like glue when it comes to dating
>on average,
>women don't initiate
>women don't pay for dates
>women don't decide what to do on dates
>women do as little as possible in dating
>women basically expend the minimum resources to attract men
>taking the easiest route to getting what they want out of it
>because they can

There are a lot of women that break from these norms. But the vast majority rarely do. Our only option is to play the game, and try to have fun doing it.

Fucking Christ, mate

kek

They both got married. Married women tend to expand because they don't have to "impress" men anymore. If your bitch stays thin after marriage, she's looking to upgrade.

Can you stop, please?
Even gore is better.
Broken bones>broken dreams

i used to be in same boat OP.
this is how i handled it:
>me: grill i am walking with something on my mind for a long tiem now
>fat: whats that user
>me: over the last few years u have made some impressive #gainz
>me: you are no longer the person i fell in love with
>fat: whaaat? sadface.jpeg
>me: yes and i didnt want to hurt your feelings ..but you live only once and for that reason i dont want to grow old with someone i am not physically attracted to. i just dont
>fat: cry.webm
>me: if you really love me you should dedicate to reverse this.. look at me.. i am also hittin the gym FOR YOU (inner kek)
>fat: okay i will! tears.mp3

so she started diet and got personal trainer. she is fitter now then the moment i met her. it all comes down to if whe loves u enough to change.

I'm still very young, but after reading and seeing this kind of shit Im afraid to get married, because my wife will eventually become fat or ugly, Its a thing you cant avoid, feels bad

>Fuck this is terrible. I hope you have never said anything even close to this pathetic crap. I really have to assume you have never been in a relationship or even talked to a female to even think this bullshit.
I know. Human emotion and empathy seems to escape you. To name it is to claim it. I am married with children, and have poked over 70 pussies in my lifetime with my above average cock. And I am a highly skilled cunnilinguist as well.

Kek, speaking as if all Vegetarians are fit and healthy, pretty sure its all the cakes and sugary drinks the reason she's got so fat. Fucking Vegetarians, no protein getting to their brains.

>while people are looking
Who cares what people think? If you can be happy with her, be happy. If not, be a fucking man and break up with her. Even if that means divorce.

Do you exercise? Do you eat well? Every goddamn study, ever, has shown that if a you keep up on a good diet and exercise, it will rub off on your partner. Find things that are fun and active. Go fucking hike or something. And keep in mind that female metabolism slows much earlier than male metabolism-- so if she's getting fat now, and you're eating the same shit as her, you're next in 5 years.

>Can you stop, please?

no, cause im mad and i want to run away but cant. suffer with me fucker.

I married a larger woman (huge tits) - she blamed gluten for her size and was always on about healthy eating, making a real big deal out of it. She kept 'slipping up' and having McDonalds 'blowouts' though, I'd find McDonalds wrappers in the bin and stashed in her car. Dumped her fat lying ass (she also lied about money) by 6 months time. Dump and run bro. I'm now fucking a 24 yo a 29 yo and a 34 yo, I'm 42.

>yes, we have two. and her mom is fat too, but she was realy skinny when i met her. i could easily pick her up and fuck her standing up. thats why i put two babies in her. she was hot.
Sounds like you need to drink a few alcoholic beverages each day to take the edge off, and make her walk around the block several times. Shes not beyond redemption if shes 200 pounds, but the diabetes will complicate it. Get a better diet going.

Can you cite that for me? I'd like to read it.

>If your bitch stays thin after marriage, she's looking to upgrade
Who hurt you annon?

Its easier to kill her. Make her over dose on pills so it looks like suicide/accident

should have dated Asian.

Kill yourself then cause there's no way you should have to deal with that. Unless of course you're UGLY

>Do you exercise? Do you eat well?

yes and yes. like i said before, i am older than her by more than a decade, and im in way better shape then she is. and that makes me particularly more angry. we go out somewhere and there's skinny women all around and i feel uncomfortable when she hugs me or holds my hand.

she is making ME feel bad for HER weight gain. fucking pisses me off.

Just be smart about it. Don't marry without a contract. Think with your head, not your balls.

>Unless of course you're UGLY

i am not ugly. i met her when she was 21 and I was 34, almost 35. that should tell you something.

sounds like ya should start fucking other girls

Tells me she was desperate.

I can
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Are you making the food? Cause if you are, start with changing foods with healthier alternatives. My gf and I had gained about 10kg or 22lbs in your language.

I started by changing fatty foods with less fat, like sour cream with cottage cheese (we have something called kesam which is a smoother type of low fat cheese). Don't buy soda. If you're desperate, buy a sodastream. Eat more chicken, or basically white meat. Just look out for the 100% chicken and not the one with added salt and water. Eat more vegetables and reduce the portions! That is important! Also, start hiking or just move more around. Take the stairs instead of escalators and elevators.

If you do this you will reduce her weight. I started this in March this year and my gf and I have already lost the 10kg/22lbs.

Lol all that says is she's a gold digger. Clearly she's not with you for the looks.

lol. did a nice flip on it. i give you that.

So now you're what, 40+ good for nothing piece of shit who can't even handle his wife?
You deserve each other.

Doesn't matter how many pussies you've punched. Using the phrases sweet princess and sweet lovergirl back to back is pathetic as hell.

there are fat asians too dude.

>So now you're what, 40+ good for nothing piece of shit who can't even handle his wife?
>You deserve each other.
So salty.

im not rich. just attractive.

>Doesn't matter how many pussies you've punched. Using the phrases sweet princess and sweet lovergirl back to back is pathetic as hell.
Thats your opinion. My dick stays wet with pussy, so fuck what you heard.

I don't usually suggest ultimatums, they rarely work. But you're at the end of the relationship without one. Tell her to get healthy (don't say skinny, you'll just end it there) or get divorced. Don't give her a specific benchmark, tell her to work on it. If she does, and she loses weight and gets healthier, applaud her. Tell her it's great, tell her she's awesome, and ask how much better she feels. Then tell her to keep going until she's actually healthy and attractive.

yes but the majority keep themselves in better shape than the whites.

OP, when I met my wife she was fucking hot. Fucking HOT. She's only 5 foot 5 and she weighed about 105 around 8 years ago. She shot up to 200 during pregnancy, then after shes hovering around 165.

I love her, shes the coolest shit ever, but all these fags saying youre wrong for wanting out are....... faggots.

My wife and I would fuck all the time, everywhere. Now shes ashamed because she looks terrible, not curvy fat, fucking middle aged man fat. Gut, chins, fuck. So she mopes around and lays on the couch all fucking day after work and she eats because shes depressed or whatever. I can't say anything because she explodes in anger.

A woman who is never angry and is chill 99% of the time explodes in rage when I try to fucking help her. She's totally different. Our house is a fucking disaster, clothes, garbage, she never cleans after cooking.I clean the house spotless, 1 day later it's a fucking wreck again. No more walks, hikes, beach, she even gets weird when were going out for food.

And I have to be pleasant about all of this because my son is always around, listening to everything.

I would love to get the fuck out of here but I can't. She has a large italian family, which means If we separated, I would literally have to disappear. I hate to think what her uncles would do to my body after they cut my fucking head off.

>14 year difference
You certainly are more rich / established / experienced than 99.9% of the people in her age group.

THAT FUCKING SUCKS

>Don't marry without a contract
That shit doesn't work anymore. The progressives have infiltrated the courts, and they can throw out prenups for basically no reason at all-- it just has to be "unfair" by some asshole's standards. Nevermind that a contract is supposed to be binding as long as it was legal when signed...

Lesson here: never get married, under any circumstances. It's a fucking trap.

Sounds like shes depressed homie.

op here. your life is exactly as mine. except no italian family. knowing im not alone makes me feel weirdly better. sorry about your troubles.

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Would fuck this piece at each stage of her fatness.

Contract Enforce-ability is an issue and why those very common EULA/ToS things you scroll down to the bottom of and Accept without reading aren't legally binding. Just because something is written down and signed doesn't mean it's foolproof. There's a reason you hire a lawyer to make the contract and not do it yourself.

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This one isn't exactly fair. Highschool/college sports players tend to get bigger once they stop playing their sport, but continue the eating habits that fueled said sport.

Of course, this assumes her jersey is actually hers from a team she used to play on and isn't just something she wears to pretend she cares about her man's sport.

Why should one have to spend their life with someone that repulses them? That's just mean.

Although, really OP your mistake was in getting married. Why did you do that? Or did you just not think it through?

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>claiming that was human

Look, m8. She's already got the fatgirl hairstyle when she was "thin". If you thought that wasn't a warning sign, that's your own fault.

op here. this is more or less what im dealing with.

>There's a reason you hire a lawyer to make the contract and not do it yourself.
Even those get tossed now. It can be fully legal when signed, but when circumstances change (he starts a business, she sits on her ass, pays someone else to raise the kids, gets fat and sloppy) a judge can overturn it based solely on lopsided provisions. It doesn't matter if Johnnie Cochran wrote the prenup, if the judge can overturn a legal document on a whim (as the legal precedent has been established) you're fucked. Just don't get married.

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She will lose weight when you dump her i guarantee it.

>op here. this is more or less what im dealing with.
As our (((jewish))) friends like to say, it could always be worse. Get her walking around the block every day, cook healthy meals, and fuck her pussy off.

They always do!