Just found out my wife's been cheating on me

Ryder Long
Ryder Long

Just found out my wife's been cheating on me. We have 3 kids, and the guy was her friends husband. He has two kids and his wife is pregnant.

She was just telling me how much she loved me an hour before I found out. She tells me that she's done with me but she still loves me. We will be finding new apartments to live in tomorrow and out kids are gonna be split 50/50.

Can somebody please talk to me? I won't be going to sleep tonight and the kids will be awake within 4 hours. My family just fell apart.

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Oliver Martinez
Oliver Martinez

Stay strong my bruddah.

Your woman is false queen.

False queen is de deval.

You are strong Ugandan Warriah.

We shall show u da wae.

Mason Scott
Mason Scott

you have 3 Kids you´ve done your duty on making kids now is the time too re-enjoy you live ....if she cheated on you she wasn´t worth it ...fuck other woman and be happy ...there is always a way

Luis Phillips
Luis Phillips

Does his pregnant wife know? Or do you have the pleasure of sitting her down and telling her?

Jaxson Jones
Jaxson Jones

how to the fuck do you split 3 kids 50/50 ? do you cut one in half ?

Andrew Perez
Andrew Perez

that's the way of the world. leave her im in the opposite situation, im the bull.

Gavin Ross
Gavin Ross

Just kill her and the kids. Confront her friend and fuck her to get back at her husband

William Sanders
William Sanders

Sounds like it's time to get some revenge sex from the prego chick. You can't get her more pregnant

Nathan Perry
Nathan Perry

Hm 3kids.. Make dna test maeyby not your kids... She cheetet not the first time... Trust is Dust

Juan Hernandez
Juan Hernandez

I'm upset that I laughed at this

Jordan Rogers
Jordan Rogers

THIS!!! DNA PARTNER.

Aiden Garcia
Aiden Garcia

fuck her friend then lol
serious note: fuck her. Spend time with your kids, don't let them get brainwashed, and buy a Porsche and live ur midlife crisis.

Luis Bailey
Luis Bailey

Or OP could revenge fuck the guy? Call it even?

Nolan Gray
Nolan Gray

shit man. stay strong through this is all i can say. I haven't had a problem like this myself, but with any major life trauma/change, I'm finding that sticking strong through the first part is the hardest, after that it gets easier.

So just keep that in mind. It gets easier.

Jaxon Foster
Jaxon Foster

I tried to call her phone and her husband answered, I just said "where's colby?" (The wife). He hung up and turned their phones off. It was 1:30 am so they were asleep.

Adrian Thompson
Adrian Thompson

Your family didn't fall apart, your wife tore it up. You'll be depressed for a long time but remember it's going to be hard for the children too, try not to let them blame themselves. Keep an extra keen eye out for changes in their behaviour at school.

Xavier Murphy
Xavier Murphy

Sup OP, my Dad went through exactly the same thing about 10 years ago. From having watched him deal with it the best advice I can give is to make sure you keep your relationship with your children as healthy as possible. Don't make the kids become part of the discussion and make them feel like it's their fault. Reassure that they are still loved and whatnot. As for yourself, just go and do some things you've always wanted to do but couldn't because of your wife, just focus on loving yourself and finding the things in life that make you happy again. Pretty brief advice, but thats a summary of how not to slip in to depression too badly

Colton Miller
Colton Miller

Which one and a half kids are you getting?

Charles Bell
Charles Bell

We have 3 kids
kids are gonna be split 50/50.
Do you cut one of the kids in half?

Jordan Murphy
Jordan Murphy

How old are your kids?

Ethan Hill
Ethan Hill

Stay strong, bro. That's a lot of shit to deal with, but it's just life throwing another test at you. Hopefully things work out for the best for you.

Thomas Gutierrez
Thomas Gutierrez

Easy, kill her.

If you're a numale kill yoursef.

Luis Carter
Luis Carter

women are whores, idiot. sorry you had children before you figured that out. at least 3 people get to grow up in a broken home because of your stupidity.

Angel Richardson
Angel Richardson

Make sure you tell his wife. Fucking scumbag deserves it.

Brody Anderson
Brody Anderson

Get a lawyer.

Luis Adams
Luis Adams

my wife cheated on me and got pregnant

stay stron op. it's gonna sting for a bit but don't drink, smoke or do drugs. get help from therapy or a doctor. talk it out with people.
stay fit and healthy and let time do its thing

Blake Williams
Blake Williams

Forget about your soon to be ex-wife. Raise your kids right. That'll be your top priority, especially after the divorce unless you want to kids to slowly turn into degenerate genderqueer idiots with daddy issues. On the other hand, your life will become slightly more simple and much more freedom.

Landon Cox
Landon Cox

2 1/2, 4 and 6

Jace Thompson
Jace Thompson

he meant split the time to see them ie post separation time you fucking retards

Benjamin Bennett
Benjamin Bennett

get a lawyer
she did wrong, so she should not be let near the kids, let alone have custody
if you need to leave your job to be a fulltime single dad, so be it
sue her for support
throw her out of your own house
stop her credits, seize keys, throw her out
tell her friend so she does the same
tell her parents, coworkers and whatever group she goes to
you did nothing wrong, she ruined your life and that of the kids so ruin hers
strike fast, and strike hard
no remorse

Jordan Bailey
Jordan Bailey

I don’t normally do much other than shitpost but I’m going to be real for a second and assume this is legit.
You’re in shock, for now don’t try to do much of anything because you’re not thinking clearly and your emotions are wrecked. She isn’t thinking clearly either. You need some time to process shit and decide on the best way to handle things, for now just try to be practical and think of the kids first. Take some time to think things through and figure out what to do next. Women are emotional and like to think everything can be sorted out immediately, this will not be sorted out immediately so stand your ground and be clear that you need time to make any major decisions.
For what it is worth that sucks and I genuinely feel for you.

Jeremiah Rogers
Jeremiah Rogers

Tbh, I'm excited to have the freedom, but it's gonna be hard sleeping by myself.

Colton Young
Colton Young

revenge, that's a good quality!

Noah Cook
Noah Cook

Thanks user. I thought she was the one. I didn't even believe real love existed until I met her. Turns out I was right in the first place.

Nathan Thompson
Nathan Thompson

kids split 50/50
3 kids

So you get 1,5 of your kids or

Caleb Cooper
Caleb Cooper

How did you find out?

Owen Bennett
Owen Bennett

my parents divorced so i can tell
worst thing you can do is to neglect your children
show them that you love them
and have an ear for them
they maybe gonna suffer and dont want to show it

Ryan Wood
Ryan Wood

Get a lawyer.

Immediately separate finances.

If you want to stay married to her, tell her parents and friends that she cheated on you.

Red flag... the other guy is protecting his wife which means they aren't splitting up. That means your wife will be hung out to dry, caught between you and the other guy. When the "grass is always greener on the other side" scenario falls through, she will come crawling back to you. If you want her, lay out the rules... full transparency, counseling, no contact with the other guy.

If you don't want her, see the lawyer.

James Cooper
James Cooper

This is good advice. I would add that you might want to talk to a therapist. Relational trauma is pretty much impossible to heal on your own.

Josiah Watson
Josiah Watson

Are you fucking retarded?

Liam Thompson
Liam Thompson

It will take some time before you get used to a different life, including sleeping on your own. Also, got it right. A therapist could help you deal with the relational trauma, which I suspect you have or will have.

Luke Diaz
Luke Diaz

These posters have excellent advice, elements of are applicable as well.

The most important thing is your mental health. Don't get baited into doing something that makes you look bad, whether that's in front of a judge or the cops. Your strength and resilience as a calm, immovable and solid father is your best asset in the proceedings that follow.

There are millions of fathers on the internet who have been where you are - look for a fathers group or a men's shed in your local area and share your experiences - they will lend you their strength.

Source: I'm a currently-practicing family lawyer in Aus

Blake Hughes
Blake Hughes

This.

She has already done the pathetic woman thing of "rationalizing" her shitty decisions. She probably has decided she did the right thing for her and the kids.

Make her regret her shitty choices. Make her realize how important you are, and how fucked up what she did was. No remorse, no mercy.

LAWYER UP NOW!!! SUE FIRST. Do not let the bitch start hitting you up for 800/mo in child support. You will end up one of those dads who live in a shitty apartment because all their paycheck goes to child support.

Charles King
Charles King

Sorry b/ro... They are too little to understand. But alw.ys remember its vot theyr fault. Love Them because they need YOU. Forget your wife and let the time make is job.
good luck

Parker Morgan
Parker Morgan

I got you fam, talk if you wish.

Bentley Jones
Bentley Jones

Stay americunt bro

Joshua Wood
Joshua Wood

you are now aware that despite having all the relevant information freely available to them at all times, men are still dumb enough, in our current year of 2018, to trust women and get married

Joshua Bailey
Joshua Bailey

Have it differently, like take it less serious than media tell you to think. Take like a levers way out and talk to her that you may wanna do it too. Research pickup techniques on this book by neil Strauss and go for a more open happier life.
OP

Luke Walker
Luke Walker

Do you have a good friend or sibling you can rely on? If so, you probably should call them now, tell them what happened, tell them that you are sad and confused and need someone to be around and help you.
Let her take care of the kids today. She was prepared for this, you couldn't have been, now you need time for yourself. No use in having a slow meltdown with the kids around.

Leo Bailey
Leo Bailey

Move this over to /adv/, OP... You don't want this version of Sup Forums talking with you atm.

Carter Kelly
Carter Kelly

Says a /b/woman?

John Perry
John Perry

Been there done that it sucks man.

If you have any suspicion whatsoever that any of your kids are not yours, get them DNA tested. You can get a saliva kit at the drug store that you mail in. If it comes up not your kid, you might have to get the test repeated if you want out of paying child support for that kid.

Ryan Jones
Ryan Jones

My brother had a similar issue with his ex. He decided for the kids sake to walk out and leave her for a few days to get some space and time to think. When he went back she baited him into hiring a wall. 2 days later police came and arrested him for criminal damage in his own home. He got a warning and that was it. But she then used it to get him out of the house citing fear as a reason and threatened a restraining order if he did not leave. He lost his house he worked hard for. He sees the kids when she says so, she is married with a new baby and 3 lodgers in the house and still claims he does not pay her enough child support. He lost his calm for a few seconds and now she has him on a fucking short leash.

Moral is, don't play nice. Don't leave your home. Don't get angry.

Kevin Peterson
Kevin Peterson

... Da wae?

Brayden Robinson
Brayden Robinson

man I'm still a baby compared to you, so I don't know how this experience feels

but I wanna tell you I sincerely feel bad for you and want you and your kids to get over this

stay strong OP, you'll get the support you need

Ryan Rogers
Ryan Rogers

Which timeline is this?

Luis Wilson
Luis Wilson

My mistake, this version of Sup Forums seems pretty decent.

Kevin Perez
Kevin Perez

Op this is an opportunity! An opportunity to become a fucking playar. Buy yourself new crib buy a sick sports car and start selling ketamin. Live the live!

Luke Anderson
Luke Anderson

get a good lawyer and make that cunt poor

Joshua Reed
Joshua Reed

Going through this right now user. Get a good lawyer and tell him everything before you do anything.

Luke Nelson
Luke Nelson

I snooped in her phone after suspicions and weird behavior

Chase Myers
Chase Myers

Whadya find?

Charles Bennett
Charles Bennett

We have 3 kids
kids are gonna be split 50/50

so each one get 1.5 children? cool

Noah Gutierrez
Noah Gutierrez

no, the kids themselves will be split, in half, 50/50, down the middle

I suggest he makes her watch

Cameron Brooks
Cameron Brooks

Him asking for videos/nudes, hee obliging, she said "if I loved him, I wouldn't be fucking you. "

Adrian Lopez
Adrian Lopez

Just get with the wife of the person she cheated you on with. Now you have something in common.

Xavier Rivera
Xavier Rivera

Came here to post this. Stay strong OP

Kayden Jenkins
Kayden Jenkins

Are there faithful women at all? My gf broke up with me too & react like the biggest bitch. To see this make me think, that you just fuck women & nuffin more

Joshua Brooks
Joshua Brooks

Quit bein a cuck and whoop the guys ass. Get HIM to leave her alone.

Xavier Flores
Xavier Flores

No.
That's why you gotta treat them like hoes.

Jaxon Rodriguez
Jaxon Rodriguez

Kek

Jaxon Edwards
Jaxon Edwards

Tell her you will kill her because you are unstable and depressed, she will be forced to take the kids. You still can visit on the weekends if the kids will feel like It. Leave it be. Try new things in life, maybe fuck some 20yo girls. Wife will eventually come back from her fucking adventure and your pathetic life will be whole again. Just keep yourself busy meanwhile. Cheers.

Lucas Cruz
Lucas Cruz

Murder suicide is the only option.

Literally the only option.

Your kids will be grateful not to have to grow up in a shit-tier broken family.

Or... U can take then out too if you want to be together forever.

Your choice.

James Bennett
James Bennett

cut them ALL in half.

Asher Watson
Asher Watson

she said "if I loved him, I wouldn't be fucking you. "
What she say about that last part when you confronted her?

Also, I hope you got screen shots or video recordings of that shit, it'll come in handy with the lawyer.

Colton Robinson
Colton Robinson

The bitch ruined two families because she couldn't be any less of a cum whore

Caleb Walker
Caleb Walker

Kiss your paychecks, home, cars, and most other belongings goodbye

Luke Evans
Luke Evans

Go die in a hole, cuck... Seriously awful advice.

Jonathan Ross
Jonathan Ross

She said that?? Or are you not OP?

Levi Cruz
Levi Cruz

Not sure if they have mens shed in New Zealand. Im assuming its NZ from time zone.

Camden Bennett
Camden Bennett

Think about this:

If you were a woman and your husband cheated on you and then informed you that you are breaking up and splitting the kids etc how do you think YOU (a woman) would react?

Do you think a woman would just comply and then go to bed thinking she wont be able to sleep tonight?

No. A woman would go insane and take the kids to some hotel or some BS and then sue the man for ALL THE MONEY AND CUSTODY because he broke their home and her pathetic woman heart.

Now think about what you have to do to her. The Cheater and ruiner of your life. Think about the message you are sending to your kids when you normalize and accept the fact ahe BROKE their lifes.

Call a lawyer dude, dude.

Chase Robinson
Chase Robinson

Call up her pregnant friend, offer details & a revenge fuck or 10. Cum all over his kid inside her womb. Won't fix the situation, but at least you get to fuck his wife and ruin him too.

Bonus, you get pregnant sex with someone not carrying your child. You'll cum buckets inside her.

Logan Bennett
Logan Bennett

Jesus fuck he's right

Lucas Moore
Lucas Moore

Pregnant sex is best sex, can confirm

Jack Young
Jack Young

No

Adrian Martin
Adrian Martin

Yeah, no.

Maybe? I mean, if she's interested. You probably should both heal through therapy, though.

This. DNA test all three.

Basically, but minus the unnecessary spending. The divorce will cost you so so much financially, physically, and emotionally. Focus on healing, maintaining a healthy relationship with your kids, and your future without your ex.

This. They might need some therapy of their own. Don't expect them to admit it. Just pay attention. Their lives are changing drastically really soon, and they will notice the difference with their parents.

Yes, get a good lawyer.

This. Consider working out to get out any aggression.

Sadly, this.

Most of this. Not sure about the job quitting part.

Browse nudes on occasion.

This. Though, you should always wear a condom if you do stay together.

This. My ex was in a divorce group that really helped her. They're all interesting people. Find a good one.

This. But how do you test your kids without it affecting them? Surely, they'll know... unless it's part of a doctor's visit.

Not this.

Jace Russell
Jace Russell

continued...

This.

So not trusting does pay off.

Keep a record of shit like this. It'll help you during the divorce.

Not this. Maybe he lured her in. Maybe she sought him out. Still, she chose.

Definitely not this.

This. The benefit to communicating by chst, email, and txt is thr record you get to keep.

Evan Young
Evan Young

Oh yeah dem big ol' tiddies will be bulging and ready.

Tyler Price
Tyler Price

who the fuck told you that we needed your opinion on ALL the posts?

Evan Peterson
Evan Peterson

Kill her with ur supreme knowledge

Anthony Johnson
Anthony Johnson

Lol

OP, get a lawyer. Fuck that bitch up, keep your kids and get alimony. Her fuck daddy can pay it for her.

Leo Wilson
Leo Wilson

OP, you deserve something more than a 50/50

Jonathan Murphy
Jonathan Murphy

This is the tough kind of shit life throws at you some times, I'm sorry for you OP, mostly because of your kids and the fact that you may have been dedicated to give them a good life.
There is no excuse for your wife, she betrayed you and your kids, the children should stay with you on the grounds that you didn't run off with some hussy and separate them from eachother because you didn't want to live with your wife anymore. She is a bad parent by all means and she is the only one who won't pay for this, you the children, you've been wronged and she gets away scot free.
Can't tell you what to do other than be strong OP. Love your kids like you always have, do your best for them and don't provoke hatred towards your wife. Kids aren't dumb, they will know when they grow up that their mother put herself over them and hurt everyone for her own sake. That's all I can say.
Mind if I ask your age?
Good luck man.

Benjamin Nelson
Benjamin Nelson

I feel for you man, really. Marriage has it's downturns and some of them can get you pretty hard. Boredom of everyday life is the worst.

I'm married with 2 kids and I can't imagine how fucked up I'd be if my family were to split apart like that. I don't care much about the wife, but not seeing my kids every day would be terrible.

Good luck to you, don't give up !

Noah King
Noah King

Speaking as someone who has both done this to someone and has had this done to them here.

OP never asked for advice, he just wants to talk. He's not going to listen to advice now anyway.

Marriage is faulted by design. We're not meant for it. All that really remains is if you're going to want to take her back if she changes her mind. And to be honest, your decision on that will probably change over time too.

Eli Gomez
Eli Gomez

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=lhNamm9HcBo
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Idfv4wyWfSs
Watch These Videos they will help grind you.

Benjamin Turner
Benjamin Turner

OP just get a gun and change some lives, that's what most Americans do

Oliver Long
Oliver Long

If you love her, fight for her

Landon Richardson
Landon Richardson

I'm 26. I feel pathetic wanting to hear her out because I wish there was a way to stay a happy family. She says they didn't fuck, but they did exchange nudes.

William Long
William Long

Be an hero

Cameron Brown
Cameron Brown

Fight for used cum-filled goods?
That's gay, cut her off.

Landon Wilson
Landon Wilson

I feel your pain, my wife ran away with my best friend and I really really miss him!

Juan Edwards
Juan Edwards

If you're only 26 then divorce and move on. You'll find another woman in no time.

Jacob Hill
Jacob Hill

neckbeard retard

Ethan Sanchez
Ethan Sanchez

the happy family was a lie, Im sorry OP. Trust me, the best way to handle this is by getting a lawyer dude.

Also why do you think she would tell you they fucked if they did? Obviously shes lying about just the nudes, shes a cheater and she probably has cheated on you not just with this guy. Isnt he a friends husband? How much of a sick person is she that shes ruining 2 families?

Think dude, its not worth it.

Julian Garcia
Julian Garcia

I'm 25 and I'm getting married in July.
It may be good that you are this young, you can move on and you can still be a good father to your kids. I wouldn't go looking for women like people are saying, you clearly love your kids more than you love getting pussy, which is a good thing. Get through the first steps of this shit, establish to your kids that you will be there for them ALWAYS while your ex is bound to fail.
DO NOT allow the whore to take your money, she took everything else and she has a man to pay for her. Once you've gotten into a rhythm you may find that you are open to finding a new person to spend time with, but if I were you I still wouldn't pursue it too hard. You will always be a father and you should try and act responsibly even in your personal affairs.
You will make it through this, it's just going to be hard.

Oliver Foster
Oliver Foster

Also this, she ruined her "friends" family too.
She literally fucked over the people that care about her, the only way she could have done worse would be if she killed her parents or something.

Owen Cox
Owen Cox

She says she does not love you to him. That's a hard thing to hear but if it's true then the choice is already made for you.

Start making your exit plan now so you have the best outcome for you and your kids. If you can keep it amicable then so much the better but plan for the worst. Make sure you are the one driving it. Or she will.

Carson Barnes
Carson Barnes

Autism and cuckoldtry is a better quality ;)

Caleb Watson
Caleb Watson

Herion. It solves all problems. You'll be saying kids, kids who?

Juan Reed
Juan Reed

Don't go 50/50 with assests if she cheats she can get lost its ur money none for her stay strong dude women are whores go fuck a bunch of grills or hookers what ever floats ur boat feel sorry that stupid shit like this needs to happen you were obviously in love when you had the 3 kids but she hasn't committed if you want to turn ur kids against ur mother make sure they know she was the problem. How old are your kids BTW?

Parker Peterson
Parker Peterson

Dude if ur her friend and her husband break up go fuck her after the divorce

Angel Flores
Angel Flores

2 1/2 4 6

Matthew Ramirez
Matthew Ramirez

wow 3 kids at 26. you sound like a roody poo

Robert Sullivan
Robert Sullivan

Wtf? Just forget it and revenge-fuck someone else to make it even. I bet you were already bored with your wife anyway. She's just a partner now, not a sweet princess from your dreams. What I'm trying to say is she didn't lose much of her value by doing that. She was already exploited by your cock before that.

Samuel Reyes
Samuel Reyes

Dude that's totally fucked up the worst thing is that she didn't even talk to you when she was having doubts these kids are so young and will be scared for the rest of their life all because of this bitch was selfish. Proves that she doesn't care about the health of your children and your childrens future. You will get through this make sure the whore regrets everything she did! Contact the other female and ask for her side of the story if she says they fucked they most likely did. Good luck

Sebastian White
Sebastian White

I have de solution.
Don't marry unfaithful whores in the first place.
You got what you deserved for trusting the cunt.

Christopher Hill
Christopher Hill

Once you hit puberty, kys faggot.

Julian Thomas
Julian Thomas

You're a ridiculous cunt, you fake-edgy piece of shit. Please be aware that you're going to die alone and untouched by any woman.

Henry Reed
Henry Reed

Try calling while he's away at work.

Luke Reed
Luke Reed

What if she becomes a whore at some later point in life?

Elijah Young
Elijah Young

IT'S A NEW LIFE M8!

Just don't think "it would be better if this didn't happen". How can we say things like that when we obviously cant even understand the franction of what actually is happening. There is so much to find out in our life, so much to explore. Don't be a greedy bitch dreaming for an another life. Life is life.

Colton Gutierrez
Colton Gutierrez

Bullshit. Your wife is to blame, to be shure. But the biggest problem with your wife fucking another man is your inferiority complex.

In my opinion, if something is worthy, you should fix it when it's broken, not throw it away.

Isaiah Cox
Isaiah Cox

Do this immediately. Trust me. She will do so and you need to have some protections in place now if you wanna ever see the kids or have any money.

Please take the advice. Get a lawyer. Monday.

Jackson Gray
Jackson Gray

Man... I know that this sucks. I can only imagine how much.
Don't take her back, not even if she uses the children as an excuse.
She may say that she loves you, she may even, but she broke anything resembling trust.
Don't go down without a fight, you did nothing wrong, you are NOT the bad guy, no matter what she might use as an excuse.
Tell the other woman, if the dude was single i would get it, but he has a family of his own, so fuck him, preferably with something sharp.
Get a lawyer! If you go down, at least it will be swinging.
Again, she broke the trust that you had, if she valued that so lowly, why would you ever trust her again, she could have discussed it with you, but she chose to go to another mans bed instead, knowing that it would fuck not just her own family, but also anther up.
She clearly had no respect for either you, your children, your friend, or her children.
Think about how long it would have gone on if you hadn't found out? would you ever have known?
Get angry (not violent), get stubborn! You will NOT be treated this way! She gambled YOUR family away for what? Some dickpics and a compliment? FUCK THAT!
Hold your head high! Take pride in your struggle! Don't lay down! You are worth more than that!

Ryder Allen
Ryder Allen

he's being edgy but he's right

William Bennett
William Bennett

don't go down without a fight
this 100%. you can't trust her now, she has her own retarded perspective. Make sure you end up financially secure and your kids in competent care. Don't think too much or cry, forget petty revenge, just move fast

Owen Sullivan
Owen Sullivan

I wish you all the best, hope you get through it, lots of people already said things I would have said. I can't imagine how difficult this must be for you, but I hope you make it through and get some happiness in your life in the future, all the best.

Elijah Robinson
Elijah Robinson

Guys just don't know how to pick women, that is their own problem, and they have the right to want to marry and have a family.
I will agree that it's slim fucking pickings these days. You're practically trying to find the emptiest sperm bank you can find with the smallest doors.

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