ITT: Sexual behaviours you're not sure are common or weird

ITT: Sexual behaviours you're not sure are common or weird.

Mine: Don't know if fetish or secretly widespread, but I'd love to see my wife suck another man's dick blatantly right in front of me.

Lemme explain. Before I got married, I had a reputation for being somewhat of a womanizer. Occasionally (rarely) I would do things like, e.g., make out with a man's wife right in front of him while I was at a bar.

Now that I'm married, for some reason the thought of being that other man kind of turns me on. That sting of jealousy. All I've told her is that I would like her to dress "sluttier" when we go out. Show her off like a trophy. She doesn't want to do it at all though. She was raised super religious catholic. But it would give me quite an ego boost to see her flirting and getting all this attention from other men, only for them to see her go home with me at the end of the night.

Maybe I should explain it to her like, being a man who wants to show off his expensive exotic car?

TLDR: is it weird that I want my wife to dress slutty, flirt with other men, and maaaybe even suck another guy off right in front of me? Or is that desire more widespread than I think? How can I convince her to at least dress sluttier? And finally, what are some sexual things you're into but you're curious if it's just you or if it's common?

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Is generic porn spam all that you have to post?

I'm in the same boat about the dressing slutty when we go out part with my girlfriend. It keeps getting worse to where I keep buying her these outfits and she asks "where will I where this?"

Eh that's all I had on my phone that was relevant.

I've told her that such clothes are something I would never want to see her wear in front of friends/family (which is absolutely true). Only when e.g., we were on vacation or something where we wouldn't meet anyone who knows us.

Everyone wants to show off the fruits of their labor. Whether that's acquiring enough money to buy an exotic car, or being attractive enough to land an attractive woman. Not sure about how to get her to dress more sexy though

Oh I'm different. I want her to post risque selfies and have her tits an ass out in front of my friends.

It's your choice.

>wierd or not common on Sup Forums
>posts the most spammed fetish imaginable

fucking retard cuck

Kinda the same boat....to an extent. Been loving the idea of having my girlfriend go completely commando in tighter shirts/tiny skirts or short dresses. And having any gust of wind flash her ass and bare pussy to anyone who happens to be around in public.

Wouldnt want anyone to actually do anything to her or for her to do anything to them. Its just a hot showing off/slight embarrassment for her thing that gets me off

I guess it's just that lusty jealousy part that turns me on. Sexual jealousy only. Basically what I used to do with other men's wives/gfs when I was younger. But this time I would be on the other side.

I wouldn't want her to get emotionally attached to any of our friends, so that's why I only want her dressing/acting slutty in front of strangers. At the end of the day I still want her coming back to me.

Out of curiosity, have you ever considered the possibility of your girl getting emotionally attached to one of your friends, and then end up leaving you for him? I feel like that's a very real risk when you involve friends.

Ok you answered my question then. So it's common enough to be spammed.

I'd still like to hear other people's thoughts about it since apparently I don't visit Sup Forums enough to know it's common.

>Wouldnt want anyone to actually
>do anything to her or for her to do
>anything to them. Its just a hot
>showing off

OP here. I agree. That part about wanting to see my wife suck another guy off is definitely more fantasy than reality. But getting her to dress sluttier and act dirtier is definitely something I'd like to happen for real. Like I said, an ego boost.

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I wouldn't mind seeing my girlfriend/fwb sucking another guy off, as long as I got to keep video of it. I tend to always video girls sucking me off, and have built up a collection over the years. My fetish would be watching myself to jerk off, and sometimes posting my own porn.

Swinging. My wife and I fuck other people in front of each other once a month. Sometimes it's only my wife getting fucked while I watch and vice versa.

Huge tickling fetish here! It's not quite mainstream, but it's more normalized than it was 20 years ago.

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>ITT: Sexual behaviours you're not sure are common or weird.

i spend a lot of time fapping to scat porn, which used to see somewhat deviant, but now seems more mainstream. i'm not sure.

Has this caused any trouble in your relationship? How long have you all been married? How long have you been swinging? Is it usually the wife fucking while you watch? Or is it usually you fucking while she watches? Or 50/50?

Also, do you ever do it outside of swinging scenarios? Like at a pool or a bar?

>Has this caused any trouble in your relationship?
It's made our regular sex much more passionate and intimate, and we have tantric sex twice a month.

>How long have you all been married?
6 years

>How long have you been swinging?
Just under 2 years

>Is it usually the wife fucking while you watch? Or is it usually you fucking while she watches? Or 50/50?
Depends on who we swap with, but usually we both have sex with the other partner and only if my wife is feeling particularity kinky will she lock me in a chastity cage and fuck another guy in front of me. Sometimes I'll be fucking someone and my wife will be teasing the other guy by making him eat her out but not let him fuck her.

>Also, do you ever do it outside of swinging scenarios? Like at a pool or a bar?
There's an old retired couple that we met at a swing party that we meet up with frequently since they have specific tastes that we meet. We're otherwise strictly monogamous and don't do it anywhere else.

Reminds me of something that happened to me recently while watching porn i ran into a vid that killed my boner but as i watched it more and more it got harder and harder.
I found a vid of my wife giving a deep throat blowjob that in in itself was crazy but the blow job was fucking hardcore and in such a way ive never treated her or expected for her to perform. I mean ive held girls heads down spit on them but never to my wife.
Well after a week or so i decided to confront her about it she said it wasn't her but i knew better so i got her drunk one night and asked her again and she reluctantly admitted it was her began to cry telling me how this guy *forced her to do it and that she was ashamed for a second i felt bad for her but the thought of her being used turned me on even more so we ended up agreeing that its only fair for me to make a vid of her doing the same to me so now im completely fixated in treating her like an object and of course sharing the vid. whats worse is that i think i have such a low opinion of her now that the possibility of sharing her with some friends and really treating her like the whore she is its turning me on when before i thought never possible sad thing is I love her and i know if i keep going down this road ill have so little respect for her that i will loose respect for myself in turn hate her and leave her. anyways heres the vid i found and essentially what ill do to her but im still on the fence on even sharing it online. the reason i share this vid is because its already out cant erase it now.

part 2

haha fucking scat porn is not MAINSTREAM you animal. Jesus christ.

Anyone else like to tie people up and brush their teeth?

Nice. I always record girls blowing me. I'd probably do the same.

Lol you a dentist?

probably the most fucked up thought i had about all of this is playing the vid on tv while forcing her to deep throat me then having her send the vid to the guy that uploaded the vid I guess its just about humiliating her now but im pretty sure if i do that in turn im humiliating myself

>There's an old retired couple that we met at a swing party that we meet up with frequently since they have specific tastes that we meet
how old and what tastes?

Did the other guy have a bigger dick?

I collect uniforms to have sex in

So have you let her suck or fuck others since discovering that video? If so did you enjoy it? If not would you like her to do so?

tl;dr is tl;dr

The wife is 70 and I don't know the husband's exact age but it's around 66-68. He has a pee fetish and my wife enjoys giving it but not receiving, so when we meet up my wife takes him to the bathroom where he lies in the bath and my wife stands over him and pees on him. He'll then lick and suck her pussy, thighs and bush. Meanwhile I fuck his wife bareback and cum in her, then she'll cradle my head as I cuddle into her chest and suck on her breasts like she's breastfeeding me.

> Fingered by my gf while she suck my cock
> fisted by my gf
> licking her asshole very deep
> get her to piss in my mouth and on my face
> biting and scratching untill we bleed

Itt cucks anonymous

i just found the vid and confronted her about 2 weeks ago so i haven't done anything about it but the idea of her fucking other guys doesn't turn me on as much as having her *feel so bad about the vid i found that she lets me do anything i want to her because i discovered shes a whore. I might let another guy in to dp her but it would need to be a beta so i can control all situations treat them both like shit. I like the idea of finding some nice beta guy that has no experience teach him how to fuck..i feel really bad about guys that either because of autism or ignorance have never had a gf i rather give them a fuck than some dude i know can get laid

Swinging isn't cuckolding

You inbred cuck

maybe a little...that shit doesn't bother me tho im comfortable with my size and wouldn't want it to be any bigger or smaller

I have a room with a big mirror so when I get a blowjob it looks like a porno with myself as the protagonist.

>I'd love to see my wife suck another man's dick blatantly right in front of me

literally the most popular thing right now
bonus points if he is black with a cartoonishly large penis

Way too many people are falling for this cuckold kikery

Just go to a swinger party dude... I dont know if you are serious, but fuck, its not that hard. If you both are okay with anything, just do it.
For me it depends... I had a (somewhat ugly) girl, who really liked hard stuff. Bondage her and just push my dick down her throat and just keep it there. Spanking. I fucked her in the ass with a vibrator in her pussy in Prague in a hotel room while I looked out the window - beautyful city, I love it. So this girl... I wanted to share her with a friend, but my friend pussied out. Shame.
But right now I'm with a young 22 years old girl. I really started to love her, and I don't want to share her at all. (Of course she will cheat on me, or I will fuck it up somehow, but right now it's perfect)

So, it depends on the girl, and your relationship. If you both are into it, just do anything what you want.

Ps.: If you are a fucking troll and made me type all this shit, just die please. k tx bye

go to a swingers party lol
even if he decided to share his gf/wife going to a place with where sharks feed is a terrible idea especially for the first time.
he needs to find someone that to him is beta have true control over the situation all aspects of it. because he wants to keep her and the only way to keep a girl that you share in my opinion is by always being the one in control because women are stupid and confuse dominance with love

I'm the guy from above that's been swinging for 2 years Swingers parties, at least the ones we attend, are not places where sharks feed. The first time we went we were made to feel very welcome and comfortable. We didn't swap partners at all the first two times in fact, we just had sex with each other with others watching. Anyone who goes to a swinger party looking to take advantage of a couple is in for a bad time, not least because it's usually much more expensive for a single male to attend that for a couple, and because there's zero tolerance for disrespectful behaviour.

>collect uniforms to have sex in

winrar sir

Could you stop trying to pushing your cuckold agenda on us? This stopped being funny some time ago. If you can't have a decent relationship in your life stop ruining it for everyone. You are like this junkie who can't fight his own addiction so he tries to drag other people with him so he feels better about himself that he is not alone in his descent to the bottom of human self-respect.

I am bi...love getting fucked and sucking cock and even dressing a little..and I have a long held desire to be feminized by some women and have them watch me get fucked by a guy...

>how this guy *forced her to do it and that she was ashamed


BS- that is a cock hungry slut who is proud of her abilities...dont let her fool- she like to be used like that.

OP here. Thanks for the graph, that's a better answer than I expected. I feel like an idiot for not knowing about "cuckolding" until right now. Doing some searching it looks like cuckolding is moreso a bunch of beta fags letting their wives walk all over them and cheat on them. I'm not into that aspect. Perhaps I've always been more on the "dominant" side of things as far as vanilla sex goes?

What I'm into is more just:

(1) the ego boost of taking a girl home from a bar after so many men have been trying to get with her, and

(2) just to see what it's like being the guy whose wife flirts with another man. (Like I said, for most of my life, I *was* that "other man". Just curious to experience the other side). Dunno if I still want her to suck another man after the first impression I got when I searched "cuckold". The idea of it still turns me on I guess, but only for the ego boost thing.

I definitely still want her to dress sluttier in public though. Cheeky shorts and a crop top that shows off her rock-hard abs. (Got her to wear crop tops, but it seems like she get more jealousy from other women than I get from men. Still an ego boost. Fatties gon fat). She's mostly resistant to wearing cheeky shorts in public.

I've considered going to swinger parties but the problem with that is threefold:

(1) most people are old
(2)most are fat or skinnyfat, and most importantly,
(3) it just doesn't seem slutty if you dress provocatively in a situation where *everyone* is dressed that way. The idea of her looking like a slut is what turns me on. Actually, my wife has told me that she is ok going to places like nude beaches, but that kind of defeats the purpose.

Thank you all so much for the feedback though.

you sir are a poet

wanna suck cock with a girl, and share the facial with her.

>(1) most people are old
I'm 28 and most of the people I see at parties are 35-45
>(2)most are fat or skinnyfat, and most importantly,
I'm not from the US, but the people I see are not fat
>(3) it just doesn't seem slutty if you dress provocatively in a situation where *everyone* is dressed that way
Most people don't dress slutty for these things.

Funny. I wonder if that's related to wanting to see your girl suck someone else's cock.

Doubt it though because the thought of me sucking a cock disgusts me personally. On the other hand, I've always wanted to see my wife's beautiful dick-sucking lips sucking a cock from third-person. Just to see what it looks like.

I fat once every few days but I only finish about once a month or so. It's not that I'm deliberately edging, I just stop being into it halfway through and see no reason to continue.

I've never cum with a girl, only while fapping. I've had girls suck my dick for like an hour and get nowhere.

Actually I really don't see much of a reason to pursue sex if I can just fap. I know my body better than any girl does so why should I bother?

*fap, not fat. Fucking hell.

>I'm 28 and most of the people I see at parties are 35-45
>I'm not from the US, but the people I see are not fat

Wish that was true where I'm at. Whereabouts do you live out of curiousity?

For reference, my wife is age 36 and 5'8 at 115 lbs. That puts her at 17.5 BMI, just slightly underweight where women ought to be. Of course, I'm in the US where people think she's anorexic and think BMI 30 is "average". (It's actually medically obese). So that's what I'm working with where I'm located.

that's pretty fucking hot

Feel you bro, I have trouble coming too sometimes since I need my kinks to get off, but just put your mind to it and you'll get there.

I'm from the UK, but I've also been to one kink party in the Netherlands.

I've been told that I reignited the spark in their marriage.

cuck

You want control of that woman. It's not about her pleasure. It's about you seeing and being able to control that she is with someone else. It was arranged by you and you are being vicarious. Nice try though goy.
It basically means you have/had a troubled relationship with your mum.

There is something very sexxxy about watching my wife be dirty with her toys. Never done it for real. But she does drive me crazy when she gets what she wants.

Gotcha. Makes sense, the rate of obesity is definitely lower in the U.K. than the U.S. it especially sucks for any "alt" people who are classically attractive (which anyone can be if they put in a little work and didn't eat too much). I work a desk job, lift only 3x a week, and I have clearly defined abs. Same with wife. Only attracted to women with visible ribs and collarbones. Apparently that's too much for most Americans.

I'm this post btw:
Have you ever been to the U.S. by any chance?

Only on holiday to see family.

OP here.

>It's not about her pleasure. It's about you seeing and being able to control that she is with someone else.

Definitely, no doubt about that. Hit the nail on the head.

>It basically means you have/had a troubled relationship with your mum.

I'm confused about this though. Can you please elaborate?

UK here, 27 with a 23 year old tight girlfriend.

How can we get involved with these parties?

Need to share her while she is in her prime with as many cocks as possible.

So I take it you've never been to singer's clubs in the U.S. Where in the U.S. have you been btw?

I was introduced through a friend of my wife. If you live in a city see if there's a local kink group on Facebook since they organise one party I frequent. There's almost always an entrance/membership fee so be prepared for that.

Only swung this side of the Atlantic. DC, Boston, and Vermont.

Ok thanks. Does this club have quality control? I.e., do they let fat/unnatractive people in? That's the main problem I've had with U.S. sex clubs in my experience.

There's no specific quality control standard, but there are expectations of personal hygiene and such, as well as other rules that discourage undesirable people. They're a pretty non-judgemental and accepting bunch of people. There's even people who go to these things specifically to fuck fat people.

OP here. Damn. Don't misunderstand me everyone needs sex, but it kinda bugs me that they let these fats hang out with us humans. It's ok to let them indoors but not pet dogs or cats?

Don't get me wrong, everyone has their right to have fun, but why do they make establishments where they're allowed to interact with people who actually have self control? Shouldn't non-fat people have the option of hanging out with other non-fat people without having to be exposed to the fats?

They aren't American sized people that come to these events, and if you want to have a fat free swingers club, you can always run your own. There are 2 rules that discourage so-called "gross fat guys" from coming to them:
>single men are charged more for entry
>all partners have to agree to the swapping of a partner for sex

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Nice, sorta same here. I like it when other people enjoy seeing her nude or even having sex. Especially because she's religious, prudish and shy. So I know she's my trophy.

hotwife is the name of your kink.

I like biting, hitting, clawing, choking, etc. to my partner.

Post nudes then cuck

Not that guy but I'm not worried about that with my girl because I'm not a beta boy and I know I'm better then anyone else

I get so turned on.

- Bimbo