Could we have a dark feels art thread? I don't have much. But I need it guys.
Could we have a dark feels art thread? I don't have much. But I need it guys
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My sent pictures of herself to get boss.
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She tried to lie and cover it up. She insists nothing but pictures has happened. That it's only been going on for a few weeks. Only three pictures.
My wife*
And I don't if I can believe her I love her and she really was the one person I trusted most in the world. I want to believe her I think I do. And it's almost not the fact that she sent pictures it's almost more the fact that she lied to me covered it up.
We have been having money troubles for the last 2 years things have gotten pretty rough and she said that it wasn't something that was supposed to happen it just did but she did it because it felt good that it was like a release and Escape that was almost like it was some alternate universe where all her problems didn't exist.
It's obvious to me that if she doesn't think this is a big deal, she probably never thought your relationship was a big deal. I wouldn't know how hard that would be to get over, but she is obviously having no moral troubles when it comes to what she did. So why should you? Fuck her, man. Break up with her and let her cry.
I have two kids with her so I can't divorce her and leave I can't leave my kids. If I divorce her I don't have anyone. She'll get the kids I will have nothing.
Sorry to hear that mate.
Do you want advice or are you just looking to vent?
That's the thing is I found out about this last night we had a big talk, and I don't know what to feel I don't know what to do. I don't know if I want advice if I want what I want.
She says that she's going to get another job and cut contact. But right now we need the money if she just quits we're fucked.
I think that she fucked up, and that she really does want to make it better. But I'm missing trust now. how do I get that back?
Did she get any profit from it? Raise? Better hours? An extra donut in the break room?
You need to figure out if you want to leave or not
If you're going to stay then you need to talk to your wife or consider marriage counselling.
What she did was unacceptable - the lying most of all. You're supposed to be a team and to look out for each other.
That's the fucked up thing, she just got passed up for promotion. So I guess the tits can't be that great right?
I agree that she should get a new job
But the issue isn't really the money, it's the lying that concerns me and how it sounds like she tried to justify it.
She's going to be home soon and we're going to have another talk. One where I won't be so angry or I want to burn the house down or break her in half.
I mean reasons aren't really the same thing as justification. And I can understand the logic sort of behind it. These last two years have been really stressful and and I've buried my self in video games trying to pretend like the things that are problems in my life aren't there. I can understand the appeal behind it. It still pisses me off it doesn't make it okay but I can understand.
That's a good idea.
Being angry isn't going to get you anywhere and would probably only work against your interests.
But the hurt and feelings of betrayal are justified in my estimation.
It really sounds like you're feeling trapped right now which is a terrible place to be. You need to figure out how you can take charge of some aspect of the situation because this isn't good for you.
Your right. I am trapped. I wonder what I can do.
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Stop burying yourself in video games and start learning a new skill set so that you can earn more money.
It's time to dig deep and be the man you know you can be.
Show your wife that you're going to fix the money situation and that you've got a plan. Give her something to rally behind.
Ive had this happen to myself aswell, not that I was ever married, but the end of a relationship.
I even caught myself subcontionsly doing the same thing.
One of my ex's started to become more and more distant, less sex and while this was going on she started to put herself out there, send pictures to people, hang out with friends and come up with reasons why i shouldnt join.
It's scary to just have a clean break, since you risk jumping with out anything to catch you.
If there is allready some one there waiting for you, it feels alot easier to go.
The fact that she lies about and by an extent even blame you for what she did, by saying its not really her fault she just wanted a place where she didnt have to feel shit about the situation you put her in.
The trust is never going to come back.
I'm sorry user.
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uhhhhh i ddidnt read the tread LOL but look at this bitch on the bottom right. She Knows
i wish she was blinking or something so she isnt looking at me so directly
Art knows. these people, painted such a way forever, they know. they'll look forever.
The differences is she never really became distant. We still did things hung out had sex regularly just regular stuff nothing changed.
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It's beautiful. And apt.
Thank you
I'll be going back to school in the spring and the money from that would really help. Hopefully I can turn that into a degree and do something good.