Anyone feel like they rushed into a serious relationship and starting to regret it.
>Be me, young guy >The world is my oyster >Decide to go long term with landwhale >End up moving in together and getting engaged >Everything was good until one day it just wasn’t and I don’t know why
She doesn’t know anything is wrong yet, but the sex is lacking, she’s slowly becoming more and more unattractive to me. Having more and more interest in other women (I’ve only had sex with 3 women her being my only long term). Think about my other female friend a lot these days. I wanna be free, but I’m engaged and she has no where to go if I dump her. Any advice /b?
Justin Davis
Break off the engagement. Don't get married.
Besides, you know that's why you're posting – to be given permission to break off the engagement.
I hereby grant you permission.
Life is short.
Noah Martin
dump her nudes
Christian Walker
Am not an asshole, just want an out
Carson Sanchez
Sleep with more women. You're going through a normal cycle of desire.
Kayden Morgan
this op had a friend in a similar situation took him a good few months but he was way happier once he decided to be honest
Angel Sullivan
My only problem is she would have no where to go. She moved in with me out of necessity.
Mason Adams
take responsibility for your actions you pussy
you got yourselv into this situation and you know how to get out of it
Camden Barnes
Get out OP. If you want an out, here's the one I used on my gf of three years: "I'm not happy anymore."
She can't beat that.
Caleb Phillips
>dating guy for 3 years >his fam loves me, basically consider me their child >boyfriend leaves state for college >mfw no sex and regrets of not ever having a hoe phase
Or at leashed dated more. I was also in a committed relationship for 5 years prior to this one
Easton Williams
How landwhale? Be merciful and dump her now.
Connor Reed
At first I was excited to be with someone I really liked but it’s truly overrated I never get any alone time I can’t fuck whoever I want she always wants to cuddle and shit and it just makes me angry. I hate feeling attached at the hip.
Jose Morgan
long distance never works
cut the cord and give me a ring
Joshua Hall
how old are you? Those numbers don’t make sense? why can’t you have a ho phase now?
Juan Ward
I’m 6’5 250 she weigh as much as me at 5’6
Carson Edwards
Being a slut is over-rated. I'd know. The people you come into contact with are usually assholes, empty, both. If you're really in a committed relationship, go visit him. If he's hot, keep him. >>his fam loves me, basically consider me their child That's a very good sign.
IF you really need to, get on a dating site and cheat a little. Get it out of your system. If you cheat - no trails. Your date must never know who, where, what about you. Not your phone number, not your car plates, nothing. People you meet online are generally fucked up.
Dylan Sanders
Break up. Give her exactly 1 month to find a new place. Although that really depends on if you have a lease and who signed it.
You aren’t married. You owe her nothing. You don’t need to immediately throw her onto the streets, but ultimately she needs to take care of herself
John Rodriguez
honestly, I think I just got used to having someone around all the time cause of my first relationship. But now I feel like I didn't mind being around them all the time was for sex
Leo Ward
What if she an heros and it guilts OP for the rest of his life?
OP, you broke it, now you gotta pay for it. Q. how old are you both?
Jace Roberts
23 she’s 24
Adam Martinez
I definitely agree that everyone ultimately needs to be able to be able to care for themselves she’s damaged though, so I feel really bad
Anthony Ramirez
Dump her and get on with your life.
Why does she have nowhere to go? family? job? etc?
That's a awful lot of manipulation, imho.
David Cruz
I know, it sounds weird. I'm 20 and dated one of my good friends from middle school. We ended up dating into high school until I broke it off.
I'd have to end things with my current boyfriend, which I don't necessarily want to do. There's just drawbacks to the relationship
Josiah Walker
that sucks and i understand that's hard but that's not your responsibility. she'll figure it out.
Michael Robinson
Hoe phase is just for catching a STD
Jose Gomez
No, she'll kill herself.
Jason Lopez
That’s where I’m at now, I’ve known my current girl since middle school, and I’m just not into it anymore.
Camden Ross
Yeah, I'm actually gonna visit him next month. And I've thought about dating sites but honestly wouldn't even know where to start
Luis Baker
Ask Jim Carrey about that.
Ryan Roberts
Also another reason I haven't just done it and broke stuff off with him
Caleb Martin
what's her name?
Benjamin Cox
Nice meme, I may want an out but if she can’t handle a break up that’s not my problem I just want to make it as easy for her as possible because it’s nothing she did wrong, I’m not or anything just bored.
Adrian Edwards
adult friend finder Set up a free account, post a picture, anything, your bog toe. You'll get 1000 requests. Do some email back and forth, meet. It's that easy (for a girl). Be that ho.
Jose Cruz
>Anyone Every guy ever
Brandon Cook
Nice try my gfs dad.
Wyatt Kelly
again, not your responsibility. also, if you earnestly believe that you should help her get help, whether you stay with her or not. no partner should be so reliant on another that breaking up means a suicide.
as an extension of that, probably a big part of the reason you're not happy with the relationship is she's getting more out of it than you are, essentially. relationships should be partnerships where *both* parties are better off as a result of the relationship. your relationship sounds one sided which is never a good formula.
Jacob Robinson
>I may want an out but if she can’t handle a break up that’s not my problem I just want to make it as easy for her as possible because it’s nothing she did wrong >I just want to make it as easy No, cut and burn. Don't prolong it. Don't give her false hope becasue you're being nice. Trust me, one day it'll be you on the recieving end. That's how women do it.
Cameron Evans
3 years in and I'm feeling it now, my gf got fat and she's never going to get fit because she's had some injuries and anyway she doesn't eat properly, at least we used to have plenty of sex but when we moved in together the spark died a bit, and like the other femanon said about not having a hoe phase, I feel the same and I really want to
I mean I know what has to happen but I just can't do it
Jack Hall
>select life difficulty >easy mode: female >start
Blake Gomez
does it start with an H
John Edwards
Does it start with an H?
Isaac Mitchell
god damnit lincoln...
Levi Harris
Do it now, rip off the band-aid. Here's the thing...even if you DO actually pull the trigger right now, you're going to wish you had done it sooner. You'll start feeling better almost immediately. It's like magic. The feeling of freedom after an overdue breakup is almost as good as falling in love in the first place.
Logan Sullivan
The out is,you're an adult, you don't need one. Get a grip. Life is short. You will be dead soon. Game over. Don't be unhappy if you can simply change the situation
Charles Flores
I like the way you think, user
Daniel Gonzalez
I'm a guy. Adult friend finder is usually 2 or 3 people if I'm lucky. Oldies and fatties. And I'm a fucking chad.
Read the reviews about it being a total scam and that none of the women are real...they are, just online, women can be very picky.
Xavier Flores
Idk I wanna be free but I’m not sure if it’s just because I feel smothered or if it’s because I don’t like her. As a person she’s great but I’m starting to just feel frustrated and uneasy I don’t want to hurt her feelings but I also don’t want to make the wrong choice.
Juan Evans
That's pretty bad. Why has she not lost the weight?
Tyler Nelson
It’s more my fetish for big girls or at least it was.
Adrian Miller
Depends on where you live too. I'm not far from Chicago so that on top of being a girl, I know I'll get a lot
William Smith
Hope you also get turned on by large medical bills, large coffins...
Levi Wright
Sort of OP...sort of... I got into one, without really thinking about it. and wev'e been together over two years now, live together. My gf is VERY attractive, and shes good for me. It's kinda weird but i didn't realize what a bad person i was until i met her (i wasn't evil but i was very morally defecient) And she is kinda slowly helping me become a better person.
But i miss my womanizing alot, i was fucking good at it. I know alot of people on the chan are hopeless virgins but its never been an issue for me.
I keep hoping my my desire to fuck around will just go away. Im trying to leave it behind because i have a great gf and it's time to grow up. But jesus its hard.
Jack Rivera
>Or at leashed dated more >at leashed >leashed
Really? No one gonna touch that 12 year old nonsense talk?
Thomas Evans
let her
realistically, she wont do it.
but even if she did, the only alternative is to slowly kill yourself by supporting her
don’t let her drag you down
If yu aren’t married and don’t have kids, you are free to leave at any time you wNt
Owen Wilson
You’ll always want to fuck other people no matter who you’re with bro.
Oliver Jones
Not really into womanizing. Just want to make sure I make the right decisions before I get married.
Jason Long
Some wastes of flesh get off on staying in miserable situations
Wyatt Adams
FOMO is a real thing, and you have hella guilt. Look at it this way, your gut is telling you something is wrong and it isn't going to go away because you 'figured something out'. I'm 36 and this is just my experience, but I have never regretted listening to my gut. I HAVE regretted not listening to it. Many times.
Cameron Taylor
Sorry I've committed a grammar sin in my drunken stupor, Lord user
Benjamin Baker
>IF you really need to, get on a dating site and cheat a little. Get it out of your system. advice from an idiot. You dont do this kinda shit. You just dont. And ussually the people that do, have fucked up lives in many other ways, its shows a lack of general honesty in their complete character.
Noah Jackson
everyone knows you don't nitpick spelling and grammar unless you have nothing else to add
Juan Lewis
god I hate everything about you
Isaac Mitchell
Op agrees with this btw
Connor Bailey
>an out You're young She's fat with no prospects in life You're not married You've no obligation to carry her dead weight around just because you feel guilt.
Get the fuck out OP. Oldfag advice to the young
Dylan Ward
at least we have something in common
Xavier Stewart
Sounds like you may have an impulse control problem. I recommend therapy.
Jonathan Peterson
why do i love you
Jace Hughes
>cheat a little actual rationalization this is why I hate people
Josiah Howard
This a million times. A fucking whore (which all woman are biologically programmed to be) will swing from relationship to relationship with about as much intelligence of a monkey. You will find a girl who you love and want to marry then all of a sudden she isnt interested and you find out from a friend she is already fucking some other guy. You think that shit wasnt planned? Ditch her its the nicest thing you can do, tell her you just cant do a relationship right now as you and your buddies have planned a trip to pataya, thailand to go fuck ladyboys in their boipuccis. She will respect your honesty and leave you without drama. True story
Eli Torres
Thanks for the diagnosis ?;-)b
John Perez
who hurt you user
Joseph Richardson
or she will say she can't live without you and will khs and it's all your fault
but that's still no excuse to stick around, just the other side of the coin
Carson Gray
If you don't break up with her, I'll kill myself.
Lincoln Ross
>>Everything was good until one day it just wasn’t and I don’t know why I would take a long time to think that over. This could stem from about 12 million different things.
Samuel Anderson
This is why so many women are single and can't find a man by their late twenties to mid-thirties If you go down this path,you will be forever alone by 30
Colton Perez
If you dont kill yourself, ill kill myself
Isaac Williams
being this bitter
William Bennett
OP, you aren't exactly committed, but it you walk away for the reasons you stated....you are going to be running from ever relationship here on out
Owen Thompson
Out. Now. Rip the fucking band-aid off.
I fucking promise you that you will feel better after you do this. You have no idea the weight it lifts off your heart.
Ian Clark
You'll be overwhemed with requests.
Tyler Perez
As someone that was a cheating douchebag for a long time. Don't do it. Just don't. It's just plain unkind to who your with, I emotional really fucked up a couple of people. Didn't care until i realized just how much damage I really did. Don't do that stuff to someone that cares about you. Just don't.
Michael Perry
Why don't you all just kill the bitch in question, she can't kill herself if she's dead
Nolan Thomas
If you dont kill a bitch, ill kill the question
Dylan Russell
I'm a single man that won't date a woman my age, because if they are single, there's a damn good reason why. They are usually single mothers and/or cheating sluts that are looking for the next person to support her kids Fuck that shit
Jose Lee
I'm kinda fucked Sup Forums
What should I do?
>whole family died >life fucked >know a gal with some money who just bought a house >6 months later I'm shacked up with a gal who is a solid 7-8 but is just as crazy on a 1-10 point scale. >FF to today, I've started a new business. doing well but, I'm getting into constant fights because I'm not washing the trash before I throw it out or some shit like that. >I cant leave now because she'll kill herself. >Also, my company is established at her address.
WTF should my drunk ass do?
Isaac Bailey
Thats fine, just dont be a cheating pos yourself
Adam Evans
how'd fam die I recommend therapy. Most people are way too scarred to try it, it can do wonder though
Jordan Baker
I never cheated in my life, I never needed to know if the grass was greener
Alexander Morales
good man
Kevin Richardson
It's a toughy OP, have we learned not to get into relationships without REALLY thinking about it?
Cooper Green
drugs and suicide. its a strange thing finding a family member with their brains leaking out the side of their head
Lincoln Hughes
Yea, get a good therapist. People that don't even have really heavy stuff like that can benefit from it. I'd say you probably should consider it
Carson Ross
I'd end it
Although Ive been with my high school sweetheart and now wife for 5 years, 4 of which were long distance while I was enlisted in the military. We have a son now and I couldnt be happier. Everything worked out and she's still hot. Idk man just do what makes you happy and forget about her
Aiden Bailey
40yrs of experience simple jack, about to get married. This is how women operate until they hit menopause and then freak out with lack of direction, cut their hair short, dye it purple then go on a trip to India to try to make up for being a vapid cunt. I have several good girl friends who I see do this to good guys over and over. Even if they have a house and kid together. Girl gets bored, girl wants new and exciting, girl starts emotional relationship with new chad, dumps old chad and takes half his shit and then repeat. Girls are simply programmed to find the beat partner. That may be you till a new chad comes along. Relationships are a game where one person isnt satisfied enough and will eventually leave. Until you cant be fucked chasing new pussy or something else. Then settle for a safe option who loves you more and get married.
Oliver Jones
Yes and no. Been dating this girl since October, don't really want to be fully committed to anybody. She is need as fuck and takes up a lot of my time. That said, I found out I have genital warts while I was dating her so I'm kind of waiting for those to clear up before I make any decisions regarding us breaking up. Idk, like she's perfect with regards to womanly duties - she cleans shit for me, takes care of me when I'm ill, cooks for me, etc. But I'm not terribly attracted to her plus, as I said earlier, she's needy as fuck. What do you think Sup Forums?
Caleb Perry
sounds like some faggy shit to me
Daniel Gonzalez
Hahahahaha does she make you brush the dogs teeth too and wipe its ass with toilet paper? You know she may just be fucking with you and laughing with her friends behind your back..
Carson Lopez
>implying it's your son and not your wife's sun
Robert Gutierrez
Break up with her but give her a little time to figure out where she'll go (assuming she can handle it)
Carter Hernandez
went through the exact same thing user. get into a relationship and didnt like feeling completely attached to someone at all times. Break it off and move on, youll probably be much happier