Hey Sup Forumsros, 26 yo Virgin here who needs your help

Hey Sup Forumsros, 26 yo Virgin here who needs your help
Tomorrow I am going to have sex with this girl that can't know I am.
Need instructions for sex, 101 stuff.
Do you switch positions? which ones? How much time for each one? Do you talk or grunt during sex?
All I know is from porn so I don't have a reliable base,also last 3 girls I tried, it was a total failures because of anxiety and nerves.what if I cum too fast or can't get it up?
The reason I a virgin in the earlier days was because I was insecure of my 16x12.5cm dick and now it got worse.
We are going to her place to watch a movie, how do I proceed?

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Come on boys, I need to make sure this goes well, share your experiences with me

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Ill bite one sec

Honestly dont overthink it, most likely youll start by making out, and that starts to lead to tit grabbing ass grabbing yadda yadda. Id recommend kissing her neck and sucking on her tits before anything, do that until you feel she starts getting hornier than start playing with her clit while you kiss her

Dont forget to pull out and spit on it to keep it wet about every 15 to 20 seconds imo.

I usually try to make her cum before sex because then shes way hornier and the sex is just better. You should probably start missionary and just keep at it until you feel its time to change it up. In regards to the anxiety I feel that bro, try and meditate today and also DO NOT JACK OFF TODAY. Youll be much hornier tommorow and if your not gay you should get hard. And if shes not a bitch she wont be too hard on you for cumming fast

The hole is further back that you might think

Start talking about her father the second she says shes about to cum.

>will have sex with a girl that can't know I am
she doesn't know what? That you're a virgin or that you're going to have sex with her?

>Do you switch positions
you won't last long enough to switch positions. But personally I do like 3-4 positions, 5 minutes each approximately. I talk because I'm bored, don't do it it's cringe as fuck. Just breathe heavily, but don't groan like a caveman.

>what if I cum too fast
this is an inevitability

>what if I can't get it up
viagra

>how do I proceed
Two ways:
1) Chad way: while in the middle of the movie, shout "BORING!!!" then grab her hair and drag her to her bedroom to commence the act
2) Normie way: progressively increase physical contact through the movie until you feel like you can go for a kiss without it being weird then go on from there.

I'm out for some RedBull don't expect an answer until a least 40 minutes.

Fem user here, some girls like when you cum quickly. Its like "my coochie was so good he couldn't help but cum"

This, it made me gf hornier and wed go for round 2

Suck her penis first.
Skip the foreplay go straight to eating ass the second youre alone with her.

girls like it if you stick it in their ear, you should do that

First. Learn how to write properly.

Lol
>5 minutes each

More like 2 pumps n dump... faggot

You need to do three things:

1 - Let her kick you in the balls and tell you your shrimpy dick is useless.

2 - Tongue fuck her ass.

3 - Jerk off on her asshole and lick up your mess.

Was thinking about masturbating right before but I guess it's not a good idea
Isn't that a porn thing? won't she be disgusted by it?
I should aim for making her cum with mouth and hands before going in..is that realistic?She can't know I'm a virgin
,Ok, also if it goes well, should I be aim to be dominant(pull her hair, grab neck...)
Also how bad actually is the size of my dick, will it make it too bad for certain positions?(ie not being able to reach the hole or feeling nothing for her?
Eating ass without asking?I'm on my phone and writing with one hand, on my second language.
Thanks guys for all the advice you are giving me

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Definitely eat ass, it shows you care. Tell her to do things to you in a commanding voice, pull my balls smack me in the chest, nibble my ear . It shows you are in control of the situation. Punch the tip while you cum. It gets good distance that way. Last but not least don't put the pussy on a pedestal.

I will use a condom, but should I ask her if she wants me to cum or if I can cum on her?

Who cums in a condom? It's her reward, let her see it leave your body.

dont use a condom and cum in her pussy

Another big question, for some reason with every girl I've gone to bed to have sex(4 failed attempts so far) wanted to fuck with the lights off.
I thought lights on, or low light to better see what you are doing was the usual way to do it?
>Inb4 you are too ugly
That's not the reason, I'm at least 8/10 physically before you see my dick

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Ok I'll ask her where she wants it, she has a nice ass for it
Also, since Im a virgin, I always avoid talking dirty/sexting with girls just so I don't hype things up, am I doing right?

Just make act embarrassed and you end up in a femdom, and trust me, that is exactly what you want.

Unfortunately I won't have to pretend being embarrassed
Also what do you think aboutAnd

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Is it weird if I ask her not to suck my dick? Im not comfortable with it

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>seriously Sup Forums dissapoints

Ram it in
Accidently slip it in butthole
Choke her
Spit in her mouth
Slam as hard and fast as possible
Throw money at her and tell her to clean herself up while smoking a cig

Does Sup Forums even porno
Help this incel

Actually it's just completely involuntary, I avoid fucking girls because I am a virgin.
I have plenty of chances because of my looks and personality tbh

It's not completely involuntary I meant

Ssupersus

just go along with it

Obviously everyone is different but when I want some I just get up and tell my wife, “Hey. You. Come here. Now.” She knows to stop what she’s doing, stick her bare ass up in the air for me, so that I can slip into her pussy from behind.

I start with shallow rubbing the head in and out against her g-spot, and as she starts to drench my cock it just naturally pulls me in deeper until I’m balls deep with my head nestled firmly within her fornix, nearly against her cervix. So lubrication and foreplay just takes care of itself.

You know that contraction thing you do to make your dick swell and bounce? That’s what I do, so that my whole cock throbs and pulses within her. Literally that’s all I have to do to make her cum, the moment she starts to buck wildly against me and I feel her pussy gripping hard against me I know she’s there. All it then takes is an added to very gentle forward and back movement of a few millimetres each time to make her cum again a minute later. If I want a third orgasm from her, that’s when I start rubbing her clit.

No crazy banging like a porn star (although that is fun at times), just a deep connection with a focus on slight, gradual, but powerful movements. There’s something primal about being filled completely with a rhythmically throbbing cock. Only problem is I’m usually cumming buckets inside her within three minutes. Which she still appreciates because it means her pussy felt good enough to make it happen so quickly.

Every woman is different and so are their pussies, some may feel cavernous and your dick will always feel too small to please them; others, you’ll fit like a key in a lock and be just the right size and depth for each other. I know it sounds counter intuitive but just focus on your own pleasure and doing what feels great for you because if you’re having fun, she usually is too. But doing shit that gives you no pleasure is only worth it if you know she’s into it.

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The cringe is real with this post. I bet your wife is ugly af and misshapen.

Thanks man for taking the time to make such an elaborate response
What to do if the pussy feels too "cavernous"?

It depends, if you can see she’s getting no pleasure from you, try a different position. Another good one is having her on her back with a pillow under her lower back, it raises her pelvis and allows you to enter at an upwards angle. It basically means your head is pressing against her g-spot, which you’re hitting as you thrust rather than just sliding straight past. It feels pretty amazing both ways.

If you want to make her cum with just your fingers, just play with her pussy until you can comfortably fit two fingers inside, rubbing up against her g-spot with the “come hither” motion is one way of doing it, but the better way is to almost slap the tips of your fingers up against the front wall of her vagina repeatedly. Rub her clit in a circular motion with your other hand and she’ll probably end up squirting. You’d be amazed at how easily women lose their heads over this trick. I’m not explaining it well, but you could probably find videos on Google or Pornhub by searching for fingering tutorials. It shows you the technique and how easily it makes them cum in real time.

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Shit in her bed while fucking her and see if you can cum before she bucks you off in rage.

OP asked for advice and he’s free to take or ignore anything that’s said to him, except I’m trying to help him with ideas that might work better for him than “just bang her like a pornstar bro stop being such a virgin”.

How about I just keep fucking my wife the way she likes to be fucked, and you can keep giving your cocker spaniel 30 seconds of disappointment.

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For sure rub one out before hand. Booze can help you relax and take away a bit of the feeling making you last longer.

This is like anything else. At first it's a big deal then it's just part of life. Still fun though. Good Luck

PS Take care of her first if you can.

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>Tomorrow I am going to have sex with this girl that can't know I am.
She'll know.
Your first time is always awkward and shit, that's just par for the course. Just relax and go with what feels good and don't stress and you'll be fine. Tell her your a virgin and you'll both be at ease
Communication will help you tons for your first time, and in general as it helps you understand what each other are into

>Do you switch positions? which ones? How much time for each one? Do you talk or grunt during sex?
Yes, whatever you want, as soon as I get tired or cramp in one position which is like anywhere between 1-10 minutes or more or less. Yes, give feedback and receive it otherwise you're just being autistic
>total failures because of anxiety and nerves.what if I cum too fast or can't get it up?
As above, be honest and communicate you'll both be at ease and have an easier time. If you jizz too fast you feel like an idiot but have the decency to finger her, eat her out or cuddle or whatever the fuck she wants, then you go home and spank one out and hate yourself for 10 minutes til next time
>The reason I a virgin in the earlier days was because I was insecure of my 16x12.5cm dick and now it got worse.
wat
>We are going to her place to watch a movie, how do I proceed?
You don't watch the movie. You make out with her as soon as she's receptive, move her to the bed and normally you both get your kit off and fuck but since you're an autistic virgin you'll more than likely anxiety-out and be awkward so just ask if she wants to fuck, then strip and proceed accordingly

t. someone who was also autistic virgin once
God speed tardo

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OP, here's the best practice for a chick you're with first time.
>makeout
>place her hand on your junk for over the pants stroking
>more makeout
>begin to grope tits
>makeout
She might stop rubbing your dick, that's fine
>rub her, I recommend not going into underwear, either over pants or over panties
>makeout continues
>while rubbing her with one hand, your other hand makes her grab your erection
>makeout
>top off
>makeout while fondling
>lick nipple
>suck nipple
>one brand gropes, other hand now rubs her. Get a good purchase on entire vagina because you don't know what you're doing. Your center finger runs through center, paying attention to clit, it's ok to ask her to move your hand to where it feels good. Legit my first time the girl moved my hand because I was just wiggling my finger in wetness thinking that was right.
>finger into vag, rhythmic movement
>important to kiss the moment you know finger is in to share her breathe when she moans
>continue for what feels like forever, you're getting her revved up
>place her mouth on your dick
>run fingers through her hair,grope tits, compliment her
Cont

Trips, appropriate. Final:
>optimal to cum during this time, it'll improve stamina for sex
>after either cumming or you are getting bored proceed to eat her out. At this point you'll have clear view of clit. Don't just eat out clit. Contrary to what people say you need to service entire area at a 75%clit, 25% everywhere else ratio. Simple bottom to top rhythmic licking. After about 10-15 licks start licking your ABCs on the clit and immediate area. It's ok to breathe hard on her or poke her with your nose, she can't even feel it while being serviced so don't be self conscious
>she is either going mad by now and begging for you, or she cums
>enter missionary and have fun, lick neck, kiss, gentle bites, grope
>pull out when you cum, intertwine fingers
>you'll be ready for round 2 in either seconds or few minutes
>start missionary again, after you know she's warmed up place her legs over your shoulders and adjust her angle to where you know you're hitting the g spot
>either of you cum
>prepare for round 3
>kiss and get her doggy
>grope and kiss, spank
>by this point you'll feel confident you're not a virgin

Just cum inside her, it's natural and she'll love it.

This time even if everything else fails, at least I will eat her out good
I HAVE to make my best effort to pretend I'm not a virgin, maybe just bad at sex or something
>Wat
When I was younger I was very concerned about the size of my dick 16x12.5 cm so I avoided sex. Now, at 26 yo on top of the dick insecurities, I have the virginity issue and all that stuff making it worse.
I have to hide the virgin stuff because I am very attractive and I get a lot of attention from girls so everyone around me thinks I have a good sex life but I just keep it private.

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Geez man that was just perfect, so helpful