I want some advice from you Sup Forums - you're no fucking white knights like these cucks on reddit - so here is my story.
We're together for almost 2 years now, doing stuff regulary, we're quite happy and also have an healthy, great sex life.
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tl;dr She wants to meet a guy that hates me and i hate him but she refuses to take a step back voluntary , even if it hurts me and i feel very disrespected. She feels caged it because of this and i fear that this feeling might be even worse for us.
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So yesterday she just casually told me that she was going to meet this guy in a café on tuesday and i immediately felt so fuggin disrespected and hurt. It's not only because we just had this huge dispute a week ago and then when we thought we're going to be okay and trying to be more understanding of each other she just drops this bomb!
She KNOWS that i very much dislike her meeting other guys.
She KNOWS that he hates me and i hate him
She KNOWS that it would hurt and disrespect me and i've told her so in the past, especially about him.
Also this guy just pop's out of nowhere - they didn't even like text for months and now they wanna meet. It's not so much about not trusting her and being jealous or insecure, that's a whole other box. It just feels like that my future wife should respect my emotions and something like NOT meeting the guy shouldn't be too much to ask. I mean i feel like i shouldn't even have to ask - if something i do hurts her - i'll stop. Because i value our relationship and her much higher than almost anything. She thinks otherwise and it's like taking her freedom from her like wth. There are certain rules within a relationship and you've got some responsibility.
it's not like she cant meet male individuals whatsoever but i'd like to know them first and i also think that it's kinda strange to meet other guys in a serious relationship.
Tell me something.