Sup Forums redpill me on looking past looks

I went on a date back in the summer with a woman thru mutual friends who thought we were a good match. And we were a good match. Closet Trump supporters in a highly liberal big city, so lots of fun has been had in the past month. We have the same goals in life, she makes it a point to show off her motherly skills, cooks dinner nightly, and is definitely wife material.

But looks-wise, she's lacking and I struggle with looking past it. She can do wonders with make-up but only a couple times a month for a work event or fancy dinner. Am I really being this shallow by thinking this is a problem and letting it bother me? Can men fully turn off the "visual creature" aspect in their minds and appreciate all the better qualities that really matter? After all beauty fades, but attitude is forever.

She does everything right. Fucking the daylights out of me daily and cooking is plenty, but she does so much more and treats me like a king. I've fucked hotter women, but they ended up being trainwrecks and not marriage-material. This one is different. Do men who look past looks still end up with fine wives and offspring? Do looks really matter at all in the end?

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Is she white?

Legit wife material is becoming rarer and rarer

Who knows, she'll probably end up divorce raping you just like any other woman out there.

wasted

kill yourself murrifat

Noice

kek confirms

C-CHECKED

Women whether ugly or hot is blue pill.

All women are sluts and whores no exception.
Ugly women just hide it better because they have to actually find some talent to attract a mate.

what did kek mean by this

DELETE THIS

This is very true.

re-read what u wrote as if someone else posted it. what would your response be to someone who posted this? i say stay. do you honestly think its possible to find better marriage material?

Nice digits, m8. Came from another thread after I realized the GET.

Shadilay, brothers!

Yeah you should probably not marry this woman.

Kek really, REALLY doesn't want you to marry this woman.

>Do looks really matter at all in the end?
You should be attracted to the one you're with. That's a simple yes/no question. It shouldn't matter if they're a 5.5/10 to you, or a 9/10 to you. If you think they're not attractive 'enough' then yes you're being shallow.

>She does everything right. Fucking the daylights out of me daily
>I've fucked hotter women
Eh, you're both subhuman hedonistic baboon garbage and I don't care what happens to your relationship as you don't deserve happiness anyway.

Rate her out of 10. If she is at least average looking you are an idiot to reject her. Ultimately though, attraction is a reaction, not a through process. Ask yourself if you really care about her looks or if you care about how OTHER people think she looks.

fucking this
I don't want horny sluts, I want someone who I can marry and make a home with.
And also who is up for some procreation.

WASTE

why kek

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>Do looks really matter at all in the end?
Clearly not since your parents fucked each other and then kept you around

This.

All that matters is if you're attracted to her. Obviously there will be other women you'd rather fuck. But does she arouse you enough in that way?

If she's at least a 6 or 7 out of 10 to you then keep her. But if she's 5 or below and you really can't get the attraction up, look for better. Desire is not negotiable in a relationship; it's either there or it isn't.

Well, 2 things:
Face is important but not much you can do to change it. However, you CAN change your body to a great extent. If she's a fatty or someone who neglects her weight/shape, then I'd say it's definitely an issue.
But I have yet to see a woman who is sporty and /fit/ and unattractive.

This does not bode well for romantic relationships.

Waste! I hate you so much

Just post a picture of her.

Let user rate her. We are your friends.

consider that your warning about her, op.

You know that your timeline is fucked up when someone out there is letting the communications of an egyptian chaos god through random number generation play any sort of role in making huge life decisions.
However, kek is as kek does. Heed his warning, dump that ugly bitch. She has poor genetics anyway.

>kek has spoken

you should read that aloud to her, OP. film the reaction, too.

>Fucking the daylights out of me daily
>motherly skills
I laughed, more like slut skills.

fug

Yes. We're both Irish, with long-time American families (1750s & 1830s), blonde-haired, and blue-eyed.

Again.. lets see. We'll be honest with you.

Thank you, good advice. I've legit searched for a wife for ten years and had teetered on giving up for a bit. She fell into my lap, and came pre-redpilled as a bonus.

Fuggg

>Irish
Marry her. Irish people are naturally ugly anyways. Get that potato blood going man. If you hesitate, she might dump you to get blacked.

I started going easier on more homely whites when I started appreciating white features more.
How'd you rate her?

hexes of truth

Regrettably checked, sorry OP

nice get, but she's got a better than I do and seems to enjoy hers more, so we're on more even ground.

>5555
all these gets

irish and women btfo

Dude. You're acting like a girl. If shes the one, then shes the fucking one. Sounds like she looks average and you're just starting drama. Unless shes a fat lazy fuck, wife her. Or quit wasting her time.

Just pull the trigger you fag. How bad can she really be in the looks department? Sounds like she's wife material

I already felt terrible for thinking this way, and this just confirms it. But I think the fact that she's really into me makes up for it.

wtf I hate women now

marry her and have at least 3 kids.
Your bloodline is in your hands.

Don't marry her if you're not attracted to her. You'll be spending your entire life with someone you think is munted.

The hardest red pill is realizing this guy is a Satanic Atheist Mod that thinks the world owes him something because he managed to lose the plot in his own life.

I don't know who he works for but clearly pushing the ideologies of threads with his LE EPIC "1 Post by this ID" TM don't believe the truth guys praise kek he he!

But yeah guys keep falling for this shit like a bunch of dump goats.


Watch how anti Christian threads popped up after last night when I first called him out.

They where even making death threats in threads with rolls last night.

Mate don't be a fucking idiot and marry her.

> Can men fully turn off the "visual creature" aspect in their minds and appreciate all the better qualities that really matter?
OP, I grew up in a fucking white trash neighborhood, where half of the male population was wrapped around the finger of a woman who looked like a less morbid Momma June.
I don't have a problem with them, and I don't have a problem with you, but unless this woman is horrendously ugly or outlandishly fat, you're not doing yourself any favors by not giving her a chance. I know a lot of people who turned down a lot of really, really sweet partners. "He wasn't manly enough, he was too much like my brother, she had a big nose." Those sweet people ended up happily married, and the other assholes are still fucking single, miserable, and hopped up on prescription meds to this day.

>The hardest red pill is realizing this guy is a Satanic Atheist Mod that thinks the world owes him something because he managed to lose the plot in his own life.

lol I'm just your average Christian user who happened to get a GET, you got the wrong guy.

Beloved, believe not every spirit, but try the spirits whether they are of God: because many false prophets are gone out into the world.

I made this for you.

If you want to be happy for the rest of your life, never make a pretty woman your wife! So from my personal point of view, get an ugly girl to marry you. :^D

Ops gonna be a lonely old fag over some digits

Not sure what the image means but thanks brother

hows that wasted ya big ol fag

Im pretty sure there are ways you can train yourself to be more attracted to her.

youtube.com/watch?v=Tq2xAPJvwrA

Marry her and then fuck hookers every now and then.

The truth is m8 any girl, no matter how hot she is, will look plain after you've fucked her a few times

It's called the coolidge effect and it's a real pain in the ass. I look back on girls I lost interest in and there are a few I'd kill to fuck right now.

Imo long-term relationships are dumb unless you've sufficiently played the field, and you should continue to do this until you want kids.

Otherwise you won't understand women, you won't know how to treat them and you won't be prepared to walk because you won't realise how many women are out there and how easy it is to get hold of another. And of course the best women will sense this and you'll have no chance, and you'll have to settle. You are far more likely to end up being some woman's bitch in a sexless marriage and or get cucked.

If you've been in a relationship for 5+ years and you're happy then fine w/e, just my 2 pence

you think looks is what got your grandparents through 60 years of marriage?

jesus christ man, real love is teamwork not physical appearance. Internet has given you unrealistic expectations.

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Fucking Red Pill Sexts for the win!

You can either make white babies with her or let the jews win

When you make white babies with her and she divorces you, takes half your shit and raises the kids to be libtards who resent you and all white people, who wins then?

If she can perform her duties as a wife (not just "wifely duties") then she's worth it.

Otherwise all a woman is worth is her looks.

I want to have a romantic relationship with Sakura.

physical attraction is important but that feeling dies after a while. once you get to know someone truly and youre used to that person the look aspect is the least important thing to you.

With that, my wife is pretty hot even after two kids.

Im 35 shes 28.

Doesnt matter how awesome she really is I still get peeved by shit. Its the way it works.

Do what you think is right or do what youre ready for. If youre not ready to settle down dont settle for less if you know you might be able to do better.

If you have actual feelings for this person, dont be such a bitch. Pump that bitch full of your seed and breed us a couple ugly kids.

Maybe stay with her longer and see if you can eventually look past it. If you can't it's ok, I wouldn't blame you. Mutual happiness is very important in a relationship.

Listen to this m8.

Kek confirms the decline of western culture

Nice digits and you're right

The Eternal Cuckold

The thing about women is that there are so many ways society has come up with to improve their looks: make up, clothing, jewellery, grooming, even surgery. Ever see pictures of porn stars without make up on? They're average at best. Just get her into making herself look good, and you'll be fine.

If you get married to someone and it works out, they're gonna get wrinkly and shit no matter what they look like now.

You're gonna be married to a physically unattractive person for most of your life, so just focus on someone you get along with just fine.

Kek speaks

Women are shit and you should get your rocks off with the hot ones while you can.

Blessed be thine wise words, oh lord Keku.

If you want to marry her it literally doesn't matter what she looks like

In 20 years you're both going to look like shit

Even a young, hot wife is going to be ugly in 20-30 years. It's far more important that she acts like a wife.

Beauty fades, but bitchiness lasts forever. Your "dilemma" is why tons of hot women wind up childless and alone with their cats, because no one measured up.

>Watch how anti Christian threads popped up after last night when I first called him out.

I regularly make anti-Christian threads because it's a retarded, weak religion that keeps people intellectually bankrupt.

I think that if she is wife material in all senses except looks you should respect that and continue. If you are completely not attracted, that won't work, but if we are talking a 6-7, stick it out.

I have loads of friends who married some woman because she was hot, but is a bitch. These guys don't have nice lives.

Also once the looks start to fade (and they will) you will be left with a depreciating asset who knows shes depreciating and will act out to regain the attention her looks once got her.

In contrast the woman you describe probably knows she has to be a good person, and will therefore be a very loyal partner, and will help you in many ways.

Having a wife with a good heart and with her head on straight is worth weight in gold. It also will not go away after 10 years, whereas looks will.

If her cooking is good, that will also matter to you very heavily after 6-7 years in relationship.

Source: Am married and have kids.

Future divorce confirmed.

That is the gayest gift i ever saw

if her looks can't get you hard then leave. You'll see beta orbiters in here saying looks don't mean everything or telling you to get past it but that is bullshit because all relationships start with physical attraction.

In this day and age, finding a woman like that is like finding the holy grail of relationships.
Honestly, looks fade anyway so you could go after a bird that will look better but is otherwise incompetent and she will eventually look as ugly as you think your current girlfriend does.

I'd stay with her.

It depends on how successful and/or attractive you are. I'd say I'm about an 8 or so physically and I'm planning on being a surgeon so I can probably marry 8-10s. The problem is finding an 8-10 with a 10 personality.

But yes if she's like a 7 then stick with it if you want to have a lot of kids

I had the same problem with my last boyfriend. He was perfect in almost anyways. He had a good job, good family, handsome, nice body, good personality. The only problem was that he kinda had a small cock. He was only 12cm long and maybe that's not super small, but it was not enough for me.
Before you think I'm some kind of super whore or something like that you should know it wasn't easy breaking up with him. I felt super bad about it, because it's seems such a trivial thing. It just didn't work for me.

OP's not a teenage girl though.

....dang G

We can't answer that for you, only you can.

Just remember that looks fade, so they aren't important in the long-run

OP, Im 36, been single now for almost 3 years after a relationship that i had a hand in screwing up. She was pretty, we were younger when we got together.

In your mid thirities, all that will be left is older divorcees, young stupid girls dating you for money, slightly less young girls that are single with kids, race traitors that are just now realizing the err of their ways, fat trailer trash, and the batshit insane.

If you're lucky enough, at any age, to find someone who you get along with, with mutual goals, and a good earning job or esrning potential, of child bearing age, with the same goals. Someone who cooks and cleans and steals your sweater because it smells like you and looks at you with love in her heart, and swallows your cum, and hugs you when she sees you're struggling...

YOU GIVE HER YOUR EVERYTHING AND YOU DONT EVER LOOK BACK

fuck appearance, Im telling you from age and experience, if you have a cahnce at happiness with someone you enjoy take it, because between getting older and society getting shallower it will become harder to find that girl every day.

this

As much as i hate to say this. Im starting to think this guy is right.


Just last night my brother who married a single mom ( bad decision blah blah wahtever meme you want to say they have both made serious fuck ups in their past)

Anyways hes been married to her for a while. started a company is doing well in life. He has a drinking problem. anyways we were drinking yesterday. his wife comes home is automatically mad and assumes he is drunk. we spent the whole day cleaning the damn house and he does one fuck up which is start a fire without opening the vent so it gets smoky in the kitchen and we have to vent it out for an hr. She gets super mad starts yelling at him pisses him off (causing him to further drink obviously) and instead of swallowing her pride and apologizing and talking it thru. She just leaves his ass behind to drive somewhere. so i try to talk to him and calm him down. And after a while he makes me take him to a strip club. She comes back starts freaking out. Finds out where he is. and is now super mad talknig about "shes done" but its like. that shit could have quite easily been avoided if she just did not assume he was wasted right off the bat.


Anyways im worried about him. He married an american women who is a single mom that has not given him a kid yet.

And if she does leave im just worried about his company, because i can easily take him to any other country to find a hot young wife that WILL give him a kid that will cook for him and not bitch.

Anyways dont marry western bitches. They are fucking scum. Can't cook without bitching or doing their god damn role as a women.


Eastern european women and latina women from the actual fucking country (not usa) are about the only women WORTH marrying.

This pic is the type of girl that is raised in the west. shes good whore. good fun good fuck. But if you marrry her. BIggest mistake possible.

jesus fucking christ...
Also that girl in the middle looks awful.
BTW your bullshit is creeping slowly eastward, there is a forming consevative core in women and a slutty wing that only does makeup all day and looks who to fuck so he can buy her an iPhone 7.

You probably are kind of ugly and she looks past it.

If you can get it up for her then that's really all that matters op. I've had ones that I can only fuck in the dark.

Just keep in mind, women age poorly.

They all get ugly in the long run. Go with it.

Well from all the eastern euros i know. you guys can fight it back., you are not pussiers and you are not afraid to openly say fags and trannies need to leave or get the fuck out your country.

Just stay strong at least you guys have a great basis to resist all that shit.

The western people are pussies. and just care about "feelings" and shit more so than their culture.

Its funny cause they hate mexicans, yet even mexicans are not pussies and can still call out fags as fags and trannies as sick "beings". Also our women know that if they can't cook or be a proper women, she is gonna be a used up whore and nothing else.

Ya see the way this women dresses? In america men do not even have the balls to openly tell women that it is fucking slutty to dress like that. Because they would than be "sexist" Im so glad im not a white american because i will gladly say thats a fucking slutty way to dress and if i see this on a women. i know she is good for sleeping with and nothing else.

Rule #1, never marry when the other person has kids. I refuse to raise someone elses bastards, dont care how pretty she looks, you will never know if she likes you because you two have something or if it's purely for the kid, and if that's the case, dont want it. I know a ton of men who do that, they marry someone too pretty for them and it becomes so obvious to everyone.

luckily i lucked out, my fiance is white, german/swiss, even though im not really white? I dont know. But op, me personally, I would never get with someone if you cant get passed on looks, that should be a deal breaker , cause if this is someone oyu want to spend the rest of your life with, eventually after a few years it will dawn on you.

Won't hold cooking fail against you but letting kitchen fill with smoke, responding to negative energy by getting drunk, then going to a strip club at a time like that? Dumb, weak, degenerate actions. She wanted a father to her child, not some chucklefuck.