Is watching porn the same as cheating?

My girlfriend just said that if I continue to "get off" to other women on PornHub, then she is going to "get off" to another man's dick IRL, since "it's the same thing"

I have tried reasoning with her with examples like: "I don't really see the pornstar as a person, but as a visual aid to masturbating, whereas a real dude is more of an unobjectified sexual aid", and "it is impossible to catch bacterial or viral diseases from watching porn"

She already has a "date" lined up for tonight if I don't commit to not watching porn and if I don't block all major porn sites.

Am I in the wrong?

>PornHub

Shit taste desu, she should dump you for that alone.

if not bait break up with her. she's not on your team.

You're already being cucked

Time to find someone else

Not bait. And I think you're right. Sounds like she already had a side piece in mind anyway...I just don't want to be without real pussy for a period of time.

get out OP

Bait
Leave her if not

Even if you stopped watching porn, you now know her mentality. Fucking leave.

I hear you all, but as to the question, am I wrong for thinking that there's a difference between watching porn and literally getting dicked by someone other than your SO. She's making me feel crazy for thinking this way.

But I tell you that anyone whose girlfriend mentions another man has already been cucked in his heart.
- Matthew 5:28

>not using gf to get off
you deserve to be cucked

Fuck you and your slide thread

She's just using this as opportunity to come out about cheating on you while guilt tripping you in the process.

She's probably just looking for an excuse to dump you.

On the other hand, if you have a fulltime girlfriend and STILL need a lot of porn, maybe there's something off about your chemistry. If that's not it, maybe ask her to make some porn of herself so you can use it when she's not around.

Not bait, but if I told you any more about our relationship it wouldn't help my case. Like the fact that she has been married twice and cheated on both of her husbands when she suspected they cheated, even though they still haven't admitted to cheating year(s) after the divorces

>Another "Date" lined up

You really need to be told the right thing to do?
Leave.

>watching porn at all
she would leave you if she was smart

but she's a woman so she's stuck.

For one, if you're in a relationship, it's essentially cheating. You're jerking off to another person. At least use your imagination instead. Fuckin degenerate.

Also if she has a date lined up, she's been talking to other dudes, it's already over, drop the bitch.

Jesus Christ man get it together.

>on point leaf

What's the catch?

she's just looking for an excuse to fuck another man

If you don't break up with her before this 'date' then you're the cuck

No you're not wrong. And she's crossing a boundary. Up to you whether you respect yourself enough to enforce it. Were it me amd my significant other said that, ahe'd be done.

i have no idea why you would involve yourself with such trash. Get out now.

Break up with her

Also not pol

We don't live together. She was supposed to send me lewds last night but didn't respond when I checked in till hours after (around 11:30), saying she forgot and that she had been getting her new place in order.

This. She's crazy. Dump her and find someone else who's not fucking crazy.

What she really needs from you right now is patience and understanding.

Give her the time, space, and support she needs. Let her know she can go out and explorer her boundaries safely, and then come back to your safety, and still be loved.

This is what a real man would do for someone he loves.

Your wife is a degenerate, if this is true, and you should dump her.

But yeah, watching porn is a lot like cheating especially if you've agreed not to watch it. Even then I don't get why people do it. Just have your wife take some hot pictures or even make some movies with her, and that's all the material you should need- or better yet just have sex with her when you want to have sex.

It was like two years ago that during a fight my husband told me that he had masturbated to porn just to spite me and that he would always find his old girlfriend more attractive than me and even though he took it back and always insists that that wasn't true and he never watched any porn, I've never felt happy since then. I'm prepared to live out my days in a constant state of depression until I die. I'd probably kill myself if we didn't have children. It was very painful hearing him say that he had watched another woman and got off on it.

spoken like a true woman

Why aren't you watching it together?

She's looking for an excuse. She'll bang some other guy anyways.

>girlfriend
>mastrubating

You are already lost.

Good lay, no chance of getting her pregnant (cords cut on her end)

The less porn you watch the more leverage she'll get.

Just bang her 4 times a day till she's tired of it

She's not worth staying with. If she was she would have dumped you the second she learned of your porn habit.

>Matthew 5:28

But that quote literally says the opposite and actually describes what OP did first. He was the adulterer by that book's standards.

Tell her to watch porn too. Tell her that if she goes on that date then you will break up with her. Done.

She thinks it's "gross" or "funny" depending on the day

>wants you to stop watching porn
>cheated on 2 husbands
Wow OP just dump her already. She's already got a history of cheating and it sounds like she'll do it again or at least use the threat of cheating to bend you to her will

>girlfriend
Literally no problem if you break up with her

Also, on the subject of porn, women ain't always in the mood.
Tell her you'll stop beating your meat to porn if she will give you cummies everytime you want.

read between the lines dip shit

she is saying "Fuck me more"

as you waste your jizz on computer movies

So if you don't "fuck her more" she's going to find another dick that will

hurr durr

Yes it is. And besides that even if you didn't have a girlfriend. Porn and masturbation is degenerate. It's a sin, just don't do it ever. Besides the Bible tells you lust for another women is a sin and if you are masturbating you are obviously feeling lust. Don't masturbate, your girlfriend is right, you are wrong.

You are giving horrible advice. Porn should not be tolerated

No, his girlfriend is keeping him up to high standards. Maturation/porn shouldn't be allowed.

What a pussy

You're a pussy

Dump her and don't look back.

Watch her fuck him while you masturbate, its a win - win.
Especially if hes black

She probably masturbates to BBC porn (all women prefer black men), so she's being hypocritical.

kekekekekeke

give you cummies

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

awesome

You my friend are right. The Bible does not want you to masturbate or feel lust. That is the word of God. Don't masturbate.

You watching porn is just an excuse for her to cheat and have the moral high ground. Dont do it break up with her.

Op here, calling /thread/

Thanks, I just needed it reinforced that this was toxic and I need to get out. She'll fuck this other dude tonight probably and I'll get drunk, but I'll find more stable pussy I hope.

Thanks y'all , happy new year

If you're not lying, then your gf has already taken that other dick and you're a cuck if you don't leave her.

Sexual gratification outside of marriage is degenerate

Don't you dare ever say that, masturbation/porn is one of the most cruel things. Not just for his girlfriend but to yourself, it's pure degeneracy. Porn destroys the soul it destroys the mind. It's absolute sin. God designed our bodies that way as a direct punishment against falling to the temptation of sin

Sorry dude but when it gets to that state she is already cheating on you.

Any kind of talk like, "Maybe we should take a break," means she has found someone else.

If a relationship is a bad, a man will break it off. A woman will hang around til she find's someone else. They "don't go barefoot to buy new shoes".

Sounds like she is looking for an excuse to cheat on you or leave you. She is obviously thinking about it as she brouht it up, and she is trying to justify it and frame it as your fault.

Sorry bro.

Even if I'm wrong, she is a slut and a bully to equate watching porn with having sex with someone else.

It's ridiculous so there's obviously something else going on.

Sorry for the bad news but you're better off without her.

Never, EVER listen to women. That's like rule ZERO.

Rare

Can I start a shell company on your island?

she has already been cheating on you and is just being a vindictive cunt otherwise you'd not have to watch porno.

I said this to her and she said "if you can't go two weeks without getting laid then something's wrong"

wait for her to go, and when she's gone move all her shit to the sidewalk

Goddamn it, Sweden

Thats Zerubbabel 43:21 OT not Matthew.

Virgin here.

I think getting off to porn while in a relationship is not okay, but I don't approve your girl saying "It's the same thing if I cheat on you".

I'm no expert on sex (As said above) but I assume men need sex more regularly than women, so inevitably it's hard to stay satisfied.

Try to negociate for more sex to keep your balls empty. If she refuses, try to find a compromise (Would she accept you masturbating to drawings instead? Would she accept you masturbating with just your imagination?)

By the way that's not really Sup Forumsitically incorrect

She even has this dude in her phone under a girl's name. His name is Jimmy, she has him in as "Jamie". Always pissed me off

Cheating women often blame men for their behavior. You've set yourself up to be her next sad story she tells at the end of the bar as she looks for a badboy/whiteknight/cowboy/astronaut/doctor/billionaire to piss in her mouth and slap her while they fuck later that night. Joke's on you.

give me 3% of the profit ya

Shit, give me 1% yearly of whatever you want to put in a bank account, tax free. I will do it for you. open a joint account.

Can't withdraw teh money, but neither can you without both signatures. Make a binding agreement. And bam, your money is tax free.

I would be more than happy to do that too.

She's using the whole porn thing as an excuse. She's been fucking this guy on the side already, and is using this issue to justify her cheating to herself.

Besides, if she is that willing to fuck other men in order to get her way, she would do it again and again. She's a whore and you need to kick her ass out.

Congrats on getting with trash what the fuck did you expect

Dude I like how you are spreading the Gospel against masturbation and porn, but sex without the intention of having a child is degenerate.

You're a pussy

This. Masturbaters are cucks, they FUCK themselves to the thought of others having REAL sex. Fucking cucks.

That was sexist, that's what porn does, makes you sexist. Sir I want you to stop masturbating.

THIS! Masturbation is a sin and degenerate.

this

She wants you to stop jacking it and start fucking her more you fucking idiot.

You're not wrong but you can't reason wirh women. Just lie to like every other hetero man learns to.

the something wrong is she has already been cheating on you.

She threatens to go out on a date if you watch porn. Keep her for now bit find someone else. Start over bruh

DUMP
HER
ASS

>already has a "date" lined up
drop her desu. This kind of high maintenance shit is not worth worrying about

women are so fucking terrible at equivalency it's painful

What's the point in watching porn?

I could understand if you're a loser that can't get a gf, but what's your reason? It's some kind of cuckoldism?

I just went 2 years without even a kiss, and it was nice to have something kind of frequent, even if she is literally bipolar

>I think getting off to porn while in a relationship is not okay
It's never ok.

Don't say that. Masturbation is one of the most degenerate things, I think it's her moral right and obligation to break up with anyone who masturbates, PERIOD

Than shes already been cheating on you. Trust us bro, shes not worth it. She's damaged goods and wants the caravel and a stable cuck boy at home.

>Am I in the wrong?
You are only wrong if you don't break off the relationship and kick her out of the house.

>She already has a "date" lined up for tonight

Sorry to break it to you but she's already fucking around on you.

She's looking for an excuse to take another ride on the cock carousel.
Dump her immediately

break up with her immediatly, shes is a trifling hoe

seriously tell her to enjoy her date and that her stuff will be by the sidewalk.

Either she's already riding cock carousel, or she want your dick as much as possible.

You can still fuck her. But don't marry her for God's sake!!!

dump her tonight,if she's threatening to cheat on you she's scum

sex without children is not degenerate you fucking retard.

Had a GF like this. Get out now OP. She is a vile woman.

She's already taking side dick if she really said that.

Show the cunt studies that prove men are "horny pigs" so she'll believe you. Don't try to make yourself look like an alpha bad boy but show her those studies done by (((((feminists))))). She will either stay with you because "all men are pigs" but you're her pig and she's used to you or she'll dump you going for other man because "not all men are pigs"(which is gonig to happen anyway)

O hai Poland how are you?

She's been fucking him a LONG TIME m8.

Real shit, If you make her cum and she acts like this then maybe y'all are sex addicts. If she ain't cumming then you got a problem bruh

If she decided to break up with him, fine. She can do that and then go fuck whoever she likes. That is not the case here.

Dump her. She's already looking for a reason to hop on some side cock.