Dating someone with different political beliefs

Is this a bad idea? I tend to take politics seriously which would likely lead to too much conflict for a healthy sustained relationship. Note that I'm not talking about minor things like a 10 vs. 15% excise fee on something, but about major political and philosohpical issues.

Also I can't think of any married couple I know which takes politics seriously but has serious political disagreements. All of the girls I've dated have either been slightly conservative and religious or apolitical so I really don't know if it would make any difference.

Only special snowflakes are offended my opposing opinions.

I didn't say I was offended, and I wouldn't be, you can't control how the other person feels either, they might take it very seriously, plus I care about stability if I'm looking for a long-term marriage with children.

Then this should be the easiest thing in the world for you.
If she freaks, she's not going to be stable.
If she doesn't agree and doesn't freak, you're good to shoot your goo.

True, I guess one of the only guaranteed awkward parts would be talking to your children about politics.

Married to a centrist with lib tendencies, the fights get bad

The angry sex is amazing

mistake number 2. Talk to them about news and let them draw their own conclusions. Don't give them your opinions, let the learn to research things they care about.
Don't let them turn into most of the people on this board.

lol, do you have kids? How are you planning on raising them ideologically? Just avoid it altogether and let them choose?

Do the arguments ever cause any actual problems in the relationship?

i'm currently doing this
girls will date you as long as your a stronger man than they're used to being around (e.g. beta cucks)
turns out they really dont know why they have leftist beliefs
if they can listen and you have a coherent argument with evidence, they'll believe you

Yeah, sounds like what I was thinking, avoid talking about politics unless absolutely necessary, but if pressed to it just be honest about it and present good arguments. One on one it's probably not bad with women, from experience it's much easier to deal with them like that since they don't attempt to appease or form a social consensus and can just deal with you personally.

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she deserves it

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Yeah, she's pretty hot, but actually answer the question and don't turn it into just thiccposting, don't want it to get taken down.

if she looks like that who gives a fuck about political beliefs

Most of my friends are liberals, not progressives but they still argue with my about a lot of things. We're all wise enough to not throw out friendships away just because we argue a lot.

Hell, one of them is black as night and knows what I think of blacks and still remains a friend because despite our conflicting political interests we share multiple hobbies and enjoyments. All of us also share a common bond in being extremely cynical and jaded.

It's not just about sex, if you're looking for a long-term marriage or commitment there has to be some shared level of agreement between the spouses for it to work out. I've known tons of people who get into unhealthy relationships just built on sex which fluctuate wildly and unhealthily.

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Liberal girls get soaking wet for unapologetically conservative men. Don't go full 14/88 but if you are "socially acceptable conservative" you will be a sight for sore eyes to a girl who is used to being around nu-males who keep checking their privilege. Even better if you get a chance to meet the nu-males and be alpha around them.

Seriously. How much money do I need to make in order to get a girl as hot as her?

Women are easily converted so this is really a non-issue. This is unless your specific specimen is a retarded, annoying, thick-headed cuntmouth. If she's like this then you're a fuckwit and a cuck for being with her

Good game and in shape, you need some money, but $65k a year should probably be good, maybe a little more, if you're willing to work hard you could get an engineering or software degree or the like and make that type of money or more with a relative level of certainty.

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>I tend to take politics seriously which would likely lead to too much conflict for a healthy sustained relationship

You just answered your own question. If you meet a girl who you like but is a huge leftist then it won't work. It depends on the degree of how much of an ideologue she is. If she's someone who's also serious about politics but leans left it won't work out. You'll get into arguments about political issues all the time and you don't need more arguments in relationships.

If she's someone who has liberal opinions but doesn't really care about politics then it could probably work out. Women are quite malleable so girls like that can be persuaded to adopt your views pretty easily. Most women who don't care have slightly liberal opinions on social issues because women emotionally react before they use logic and reasoning to understand things. Therefore, something like abortion might seem like it should obviously be pro-choice, because it sounds good, but when looking at the details her opinion could easily be swayed.

Just don't date a girl who's loud or obnoxious about her opinions if it's left wing

if you're even considering this either you don't take your values seriously or you don't take your relationships seriously

I just ended a relationship not even twenty minutes ago for this ayy lmao

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Most of my girlfriends have been liberal.

It always causes problems at some stage. I don't recommend it

Literally everyone on Sup Forums of you're not a national socialist fascist woman hater

Finding a white girl in my country who isn't
>A: A loose, irresponsible cunt who throws her pussy around because "muh sexuel fredum"
>B: A liberal SJW
>C: A feminist
>D: All of the above

is fucking impossible.

Finding an attractive, white Christian woman who hasn't taken more dicks than the Richard page of the phonebook, who wants to be a mother and can respect a man... In CANADA is a pipe dream.

Finding a woman who is ONE of those things is a pipe dream

So expecting to find an attractive national socialist, non-feminist, non-sjw, Christian with virtues and a low mileage vagina who wants to be a mother and takes family seriously is like walking into a hardware store and asking for a can of tartan paint.

okay, have some hips + thiccness
Is it that they're easily converted or that they just don't get as ideologically invested as men and don't care as much about this stuff?

I'm halfway through my CS degree and plan on moving to a big city like Seattle or SF even though they're liberal as fuck. I should make 6 figures soon after graduating. I'm 6 feet tall, but I'm also Mexican. I don't have a problem with it but I know it's objectively a lower status than other groups of people. I'm willing to get in shape though. Think I have a shot?

probably the former

shit no the latter I meant

This is true, but honestly never compromise your values for some girl. You're a weak man if you do this. There's plenty of girls out there who can be redpilled pretty easily, that's the way women are.

If you're truly confident in your beliefs you would never compromise them for pussy

Depends on if you have game or not senpai. Considering you're lurking on Sup Forums probably not, but you might be an outlier.
Sounds too bad senpai, hopefully you can work through it.
So you're saying you shouldn't consider it at all?

Women's beliefs are "Whatever everybody else is doing." Unless you are literally a member of Isis or something, she will agree with you just to agree with you. They don't think for themselves. This makes marketing to women frighteningly easy.

This woman isn't attractive to me desu. She's got a really fucking weird body ratio. Way too much up top for what she's got going down on the hips. So likely fake tits, plus she's about 60% butter face. Not terrible, but damn it's a pretty average, if below average face.

This

Oh shit, when did we get the word filter back.
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It's the Mother of all bad ideas. Don't fucking do it.

Look at this roastie slut

> that they just don't get as ideologically invested as men and don't care as much about this stuff

From my experience it's this. This one German leftist girl always thought It was cute and funny when I was openly and blatantly racist/politically inappropriate. She'd call me mean and a bully jokingly and never truly gave a flying fuck about it.

Then my other girlfriend was openly NS because of me I suppose. Even though she was always vocal about it, I know she didn't really get it. She had these dumb comments about how Japs and Chinese are going to unite against us, with other similar inane trash opinions. Also she considered herself a "feminist" but it didn't prevent her from choking on my dick.

In reality I'd say 99% of the women don't really get politics. They basically emulate their other half and poorly at that.

Damn. It has to be growth hormones in milk or something. Look at older photos in black and white of women, even just from the 70's. Breasts that glorious didn't exist

das it

> Fake tits
Do you know what fake tits look like? Hers obviously aren't fake, are normally affected by gravity, and have a very natural shape to them but I can understand you not finding her attractive.

What is good game? I've never seen it. I've always thought it was a myth and it meant basically just being a hot guy.

The tits are real, been with a few busty girls.

>This woman isn't attractive to me desu
If you are a titty guy, she is incredible.

>tfw very interested in spiritual studies in my personal life and pursue them daily but i don't believe in sacerdotal intermediaries so i'll never be able to chat up cute non-materialist girls at church

where do i even go anymore.. i have no idea...

You know there are different kinds of titty inserts. Hers look like she got the tear drop augmentations instead of the round blob ones. Having titties up to your collar bone is a pretty big red flag. I could be wrong, but still, her titties are up too high

>tfw born 100 years too early to experience sexbots that are indistinguishable from tittymonsters like this
it's not fair lads

>They basically emulate their other half and poorly at that.

Holy kek this has been my experience almost nine times out of ten. Women almost never form an original political opinion, and often times when you discuss with them they don't even try to at least articulate what you said in a different way. They always just say the most cringey things that you can tell they said just to try to impress you.

Social intuition basically, being attractive is pretty important for men, but not the be all end all. Basically you need to know what a chick will want reasonably in a given social scenario, plus not be boring, be able to improvise, etc. It's kind of nebulously defined but that's because it's an intuitive social concept, it's pretty hard to train and most people just "get it".

It's not opposing opinions that would bother me, it's stupidity.

She's got a lazy fucking eye though.
I'm a titty guy, but I like my titties to be firm and perky, something that has a bit of give in my hand but doesn't feel like it's like loose goo,
Firm, good play, maybe like 30-40% max depression, no more. Tits that I don't have to hold up with both hands to suck the nipple like a half full hefty bag of custard

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> Having titties up to your collar is a red flag
It's because they're so big they extend more vertically, they look as natural as any ones I've ever seen, they don't weirdly define gravity or anything, and they form the really nice smooth defined blob shape that all large naturals do, there's no weird distribution or shape.

>I'm 6 feet tall, but I'm also Mexican
>but I'm also Mexican
You might benefit more from climbing lessons user.

alternatively, settle for goblin-like mestizo women

you sound like you know a lot about these things. can you tell me more?

>there are men out there right now who have had intercourse with this woman
>you can't even get a 4/10 to match with you on Tinder

God has forgotten about us

We'd have to see her topless to be 100%

pic related, similar looking while contained in a shirt, but I googled "Large fake breasts"

If you look at this pic here
You can see based on the shadow from her neck to the crest of her tits indicates a convex curve from the start of the bust just like fake titty girl here

I mean an anonymous Vietnamese flyfishing board isn't the place to do it, just look it up, the internet makes pretty much everything accessible, also each guy is just neurologically wired differently. Just get in good shape to make sure your foundation is solid, do well in school to secure a good job, and go and spend more time at social events interacting with women to intuitively learn how to do it, it's a lot better than just reading things.
Thanks for the vomit user

Most women are easily offended about things they don't understand, and even explaining the situation you have a 50/50 chance of pissing them off for showing them up.

if you're both not zealots than there should be no problem
i'd say a parents who disagree on political issues sometimes but are able to communicate with each other and respect one another would be a great influence for a child

Because like financial entrepreneurs who don't give a shit what they have to do as long as it's profitable,
Guys who are successful with women put more value on getting laid than they do on themselves.
Not that I don't play that game when I get bored but I don't live that life style.
I won't debase myself or undermine my values to get laid on a regular basis.

Like that scene where Quagmire met Peter on Family guy, remember? 3 women, each one totally different, one was a feminist, was was into macho dudes and the other was something else.
Quagmire pretended to be all 3 of those things to sleep with them.
That's why some guys get to fuck women like this

Floppy tits are the best man, you're missing out

>What is good game?
watch Suits
be like harvey specter

For some reason I fuck a lot of women even though I'm quite a sperg irl.

Anyways I don't think my strategy with girls is anything unique. Basically what I do is just go up to girls I'm interested in meeting. Usually I try to get an excuse to start talking to them, like for example if they're in my one of my classes or something. I won't just got up to them if I have never seen or talked to them before, but if I know them from somewhere then I'll try to start a conversation.

Anyway basically I'll just start off with trying to get them to tell me interesting things about themselves. Basically just what they're interested in, I let them talk not me first. Then I'll find something I can reasonably relate to. If I really can't relate that well with their topic, I'll just bullshit it and act like I know everything about it. After I can facilitate a good conversation/discussion about something, I'll start to make jokes about that topic and see what they find funny. Once they start to laugh more and get more comfortable the conversation gets easier on both sides. After I'm done talking to her and I think I've made a good impression, I'll give her a compliment. It always has to be rather benign like asking her name and when she tells you it, say "that's a pretty name" or something.

After you've given them that confidence and you've made them comfortable with your humor/talking ask for their number or ask to take them out on a date.

I'm 6 feet and have a nice face and I'm fit. Nothing amazing honestly pretty normal looking dude. But this works almost every time

It's probably how you're explaining yourself.
I've had that problem, but it's been really rare.
At least 50% of talking to women is picking up on their body language AND knowing how to counter it.
You can't seem like you're threatening them while you explain your opinions.

Faggot, you wanna fuck some slut's big tits, that's what escort services are for.

Anybody who marries a shitlib because she has big tits deserves to be cheated on with every nigger in town and robbed of his life savings.

Three months into your marriage she's the only who'll be getting any. And she will find a way to clean you out.

Don't do it, user.

I've dated a few girls with large floppy tits, but I swore off them when I almost died, She rolled over in her sleep and I almost suffocated, I had to bite her tit to get her to wake up.

This.

You can find a big tit THICC goddess on backpage for $120 per half hour instead of risking your lifesavings to fuck some liberal whore who will probably cheat on you with some niggers a few years into your marriage.

I can stomach libshit stuff to a certain degree. Hell, I'm a bit liberal myself. My breaking point however, is people shilling for shit like 'NO HUMAN BEAN IS ILLEGAL' and 'RAPEFUGEES WELCOME'. You can stay the fuck away from me if you're that kind of person.

>The political ideology matters more then the health of the offspring and their offspring

Don't make me get my rake out, leaf.

i go out often but i always end up being the weird kid my friend brings along everywhere.

They look nothing alike.

And what is that ho doing in the woods?

>dating women with opinions

Good women follow their man's political beliefs

WTF for? What happened?
Why do you keep doing it then?

>Don't let them turn into most of the people on this board
what did CTR mean with this?

>What is it called when a shill calls someone a shill?
I'm not ready for this shillception

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Just ask to go along or go to a bar on your own time and chat up women.
Doesn't have to be a shitlib, just someone with important differences of belief in general, besides you might meet a person and come to like them and then at some point they reveal important political beliefs which they hadn't before which conflict with yours, that doesn't mean you still don't care for them and want things with them to work out, I mean Justice Scalia and Justice Feinstein on the US Supreme Court were best friends despite diametrically opposed political beliefs.

>being NatSoc is bad
>>>/reddit/

What do you mean by floppy? For some reason I conflate it with saggy, big is different, like you can play with them and move them around and hold parts of them and squish them, etc. with your hands. If that's what you meant then yeah, they are the best.

>implying i ever said it was
>being this butthurt over literally nothing
Simmer down there Snowflake, you're in danger of melting

I'm engaged to a liberal. We are both very politically aware. Been together a year. It takes practice, but you have to learn how to just not discuss politics except for interesting anecdotes. If you try to pull her to your side, it will result in the relationship failing. Also, it helps if you really love them.

Knock er up dude

She's not that hot. She just has a magnificent pair of tits. Tits actually get boring. That size is almost reaching diminishing returns. She'll be complaining about back problems all the fucking time, talking about cutting them off. Then she does it, and you're married to a flat chested average brunette JEW. Her face is average.

>this entire thread tl;dr
>scan through and stop on pics of Titties McGee

> It takes practice
What specifically do you mean? How do you have to change/control your behavior?
Why, do you have experience?

Never explain why you believe what you believe. Instead, show her. Find uncomfortable situations.

Explanations to women are cuck behavior, only explain to men who understand the language of rationality.

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>butthurt
lmao
just proved my point

I'm still practicing. She's good at not sharing her opinion, but I'm really outspoken, so I'm the one that really has to tone it down, but idk if you touch the stove top enough times and get burnt you learn not to do it anymore. She's also the nicest person I've ever met, and I don't say that because I'm engaged to her, so my situation may be unique.

>She just has a magnificent pair of tits
>magnificent

did you get lost on your way to reddit friend?

I've been doing it lately.

The cultural marxism hasn't hit as hard as the us in México, but there's a lot of people who think of themselves as revolutionaries and antigovernment but do fucking nothing to make a change, just fb posts and sharing shit.

I've been dating a girl that kind of fits there, had no issues, she isn't radicalized.

Most of the left are people who want free shit because they didn’t understood capitalism or don’t know how to use it. You know, some people get a political stance because they want to make a change in their lives or be meaningful, if you get shit done with your ideology they will likely turn to your thing or accept it, because it works.

She isn't Jewish, and I personally think her face is actually really good, between 7.5-8.5. There are valid concerns about the boobs, to be sure.
I don't see how you think they look anything alike.

did she weigh 400lb or something? push her off you beta

Is magnificent a reddit word now? I stopped going back in 2012 went it starting going downhill fast.

She's like a 7.5, and I would fuck her brains out. I'm just enlightening the young man about how big tits obscure reality, bruh.

>be me
>join the navy out of highshool cause no direction and bad grades
>girlfriend thinks we can stay together
>goes smoothely for years.
>deploy out to sea in April of 2016
>barely able to maintain communication
>come back on NOV 9th.
>shes gone full Hillary but appears to only support the feminist, whatever shes a girl she can support women etc. etc.
>eventually make it back home
>she says she doesnt know if my views conflict with hers
>explain my views havent changed at all, still largely libertarian
>she says we can probably make it work
>out of no where she says "I cant believe they want to make a muslim registry"
>"yeah I liken it to a gun registry, its wrong and only used to target people they dont like"
>she just stares
this eventually led to us breaking up, after which she turned into a vagina hat wearing, Refugee welcoming, marching SJW. She swallowed the koolaid so hard.
She said she couldnt be friends with one of her female friends because "she said people who voted for Trump werent necisarrily hate voting"

that was my life, be careful because if she things politically different she probably is willing to listen to Huffpo and friends who will probably drive you apart.

It ruined a 6 year relationship because trump said something about grabbing pussy.

Shabbos goy

I always attack things from the angle of "I don't really agree with 'x' but I can understand their viewpoint" and explain it from there, then say things like "I think there's extremes to either side and each side has different parts that aren't exactly correct. If there was a correct answer in most cases, it wouldn't be a serious political matter"

women are malleable, if you can't convince them of your political beliefs you deserve to be cucked