If i have a son how do i make sure he doesn't turn into pic related ?

If i have a son how do i make sure he doesn't turn into pic related ?

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Get him into sports at an early age.

Name him Chad

i want him to be normal and stong but i don't want him to become a mean chad, how do i do this

Its up to him.

If hes an unlikeable guy thats not your fault

i need some advice regarding this as well. i've had a really hard time due to isolation and social maladjustment and i only got over it by force of will, i would like my little gypsies to be better fit for society

bumping for you brit

i mean at an early age you can shape their personality

If you are asking this in a Malaysian Cookery Forum you probably aren't fit to raise a child.

Eh. True but that doesn't mean when he turns 18 he won't be an antisocial loser.

Anyway who knows what will happen in 18 years. No point in trying to predict the future. Just fix whats wrong at the moment.

Shit wrong board, i thought this was a place to discuss the papau new guinea school system

It's hard to mold your child's personality to exactly how you'd like him to be.

But honestly, the best thing you can do is be a normal, strong man yourself.

A boy will more often than not emulate his father if he is guided in the right way.

The most important thing is to spend time with him and build a relationship.

Get him to socialise and get him to do some chores

My dad had me doing sports from 4 years old and teaching me all kinds of skills but It won't change shit genes as I've been a no friends NEET since I dropped out of highschool at 16

keep him the fuck away from this place

spend a lot of time with him. There's nothing worse than having a distant and uninvolved father.

Learn him about Sup Forums at a very early age, gradually he'll become more and more alpha like us

Yeah it's not guaranteed to work, kids are still their own people at the end of the day.

should i just let him use the interwebs only for homework

idk if thats too far

this hits too close to home

Always tell my parents about my non-existent internet friends & long-distance girlfriend.

Don't let him have a personal computer.

Too far IMO, censorship only breeds curiosity.

shit, that is very sad

i went to a mini market to buy toilet paper and a mini soda, when i was coming back, i kind of hear some girl voice yelling "ugly, psst, psst"

i dont know if that was to me, im thinking here, the thing that isnt the first that happen

im going back just to see if that happen again

Don't ever let him browse Sup Forums if you want him to be happy, avoiding the redpill means a life in blissfull ignorance, it is a life I miss.

baseball and drum lessons. worked for me

Don't get a divorce.

Spend time with him a lot.

Be supportive of him and let him know that you love him.

Be the kind of man you want him to grow up to be.

>I dropped out of highschool at 16
why?
are you white/germanic?

and try to understand him

try to put in his shoes
if he is skinny, buy him a whey protein and go to the gym with him so he can become fit
that will get him some girls

Delet this thread this fucking shit doesn't help me to cope with my suicidal thoughts!!

underrated

I grew up without videos games bc my dad didnt want to spend money on it, so the only thing I had when I grew up was a gameboy (the brick-sized one, no colour). And I do more stuff when I dont have internet so Id say not using internet is a great idea, atleast while growing up so he doesnt become too attached to it.
My little nephew is always on his phone or playing ps4.

Can we get a Sup Forums feels thread?

Buy him an instrument and teach him a sport. I had to do it for myself, better a father does it instead

Fucking Jews ruined Christmas

this

when he's young keep him away from too much technology so he won't become a slave to it like all those kids you see with ipads/phones nowadays

then once he grows up a little he can use them responsibly and become the shitposter we need him to be

how old are you user?

where is your father?

i hate father, he only care about himself so i cut any contact with him

>be a normal, strong man yourself
>a boy will more often than not emulate his father

This. Be the man you want him to grow into. Sons instinctively emulate their fathers, even without being consciously aware of it. My father wasn't the best man, and now it's a struggle for me to try and overcome some very negative character traits I picked up from him without even realizing it.

I did not want to feel those feels. Im so happy that i make my dad proud, that user is such a sorfy sap.

make sure your kid grows up eating healthy, vegetables and red meat, high testosterone stuff. No sugar jew allowed and make him work out

its the best way to make sure he doesn't become an unhappy beta

>weak faggot can't admit to being a NEET

Make sure he knows there's nothing wrong with being a shut-in NEET as he grows up. Also make sure he knows about the superiority of 2D women.

Just start off by putting small amounts of alpha brain in his baby formula, if you notice any errant behaviour you need to balance it with anthroplex because too much alpha brain stunts growth of the prefrontal cortex and this increases aggression in the child. When he starts to go through puberty you really need to get him on the cell tech, 4-5 scoops a day should do it and just make sure he gets enough exercise and doesn't sit too close to the TV and he should turn out just fine.

Teach by example.

If you're not a loser, your son will probably not be a loser

and teach him to always pay his debt

GREECE, PAY DEBT

You need to sleep with your son on the back seat of your car.

In industrial area.

Did you turn out fine?

While a solid thing to do, it won't always work. I got into every sport under the sun when I was younger. Still ended up dropping out of HS at 15 being friendless. I got my shit together later in life but I don't have more than 2 friends and still no GF at 30. I mean I can if I really wanted to I just don't care right now.

Looking back, the best thing that would have helped me be more social and more confident (I was lacking this severely) is if my dad was a better father figure. Don't get me wrong, I love my dad, and he did provide for us, but as far as personal relationships go it was non existent. I would have loved to have a father who actually wanted to spend time with me and take me camping or fishing and just talk to me about problems I may be having. Fuck I'm tearing up while writing this now.

It's a board for discussing Zambian flower arranging you idiot.

Anyway to answer op's question
>make him play sports from an early age
>limit his time on his computer
>teach him life skills, like diy
>when old enough bring him out for a beer
>gradually redpill him
>teach him about girls
>don't be a mean asshole to him if he's not turning out they way you want
>make him get a part time job as soon as he's old enough
>don't spoil him

...

No

NOT~
PAYING~!

My dad was an alcoholic untill i was 11, my mom kicked him out and i hadnt seen him till a couple years back. I'm 23 now and i'm a football loving guitarist in a metal band. He's clean and we have grown close. I guess it all worked out in the end

#1 Don't be a crying, pussy dad like in your pic

so why he should follow your advices?

Be a role model. Don't fill his life with "character building" activities, unless you're a shitty role model, in which case constant karate and soccer is probably your only option like most parents.

Make him learn to play piano if he's smart, sports if he isn't. Piano is something I've always been bitter about, because you have to learn it young to be great. My parents wanted me to make my own decisions,but I did nt know any better.

You know, that son has no social status, and that sucks. But it does seem like he's at least trying to be a good son to his dad. So he's halfway there. It could really be much worse.

If he was a shit, he would not give a fuck about his pop being upset, and just keep playing minecraft. Instead, he is trying to spare his feelings, and actually giving minecraft a rest. Who knows why the kid doesn't have any friends, I'm a social retard, and hate most people, but even I have a few really close friends, and even a local bar and bowling alley I can go to if I feel like socializing with other people. And that's after 2 of my closest friends died. I still have other ones, and like I said, I'm a social retard.

He definitely shouldn't, I thought it was a fairly obvious joke, I knew I should have gone with super male vitality instead of cell tech.

Stop using him like a tool for treating your own insecurities. Consider the fact that he is supposed to make his own life with accordance to his goals and needs, not yours. All those dumb parents who want to train their kids like dogs sooner or later discover how much it backfires.
Also that father in greentext is a massive faggot.

it's shit, you can only be good at piano with child abuse - 6 hours a day practice after school eight hours on weekends - I wish I had my childhood back. Also to have any sort of career in classical music you have to constantly suck jewish dick, everyone important is a jew.

for easy mode just buy your kid a bassoon, if you own a bassoon that's enough to get you employed

t. concert pianist

Man, I wish I had a dad like that!

His father let's him go out to party all night and this cuck goes to sleep in a parking lot. One of the most pathetic things I've ever read.

Boy Scouts or equivalent.
Seems like 1 in 15 american anons here got their eagle badge

if you have to ask, then the answer is 'don't have kids'. faggot.

This.
But it won't work for everyone, like myself...

I was into sports, but autism always wins. The problem is that there is social stigma against "nerd" behavior, so people with the problem turn towards the internet for friends. However, you can't develop strong social skills through the internet.

Make him feel loved and valued.
Sports, hobbies, typical manly things are all secondary to a basic supply of affection and kindness.

My own parents just alternated between ignoring me and telling me I was going to hell. Unsurprisingly that has sort of fucked me up.

Actual Pedagogue here:

I'll attempt make this as simple as I can.

The lack of a social network is usually due to poor social skills/self-image (social competence). And this is developed at a very early age.

Social competence you may call the child's capacity to integrate thinking, feelings and behavior to succeed with social responsibilities and develop positively.

By this I mean children must be able to regulate cognition, feelings and behavior to achieve social goals in the short and long term.
They must be able to understand and analyze social situations, solve problems, set goals and predict the positive and negative consequences choices can get.

THIS DOES NOT HAPPEN BY ITSELF.

This requires the parents being involved in their childrens lives.

Playdates are very good at an early age. From they are 6 months old. They are capable of making friends with other children already at this point.

Expanding on this, a child needs to interact with other children as they grow. Activities, sports, hobbies etc.

But most important of all: Let the child PLAY!
The vast majority of a childs learning happen through playing. This almost up to 11-12 years of age.
This is a safe arena for the child to "act" out it's thoughts and experiences in everyday life. To develop actual understanding. Often together with others.

If anyone has got any questions on the topic, ask away. I'll stick around for a bit.

This. I have cuck genes, but alpha brain has turned my children into high tier alphas.

This guy does something he doesn't want to in order to make his dad happy.
This is exactly how you want your son to be. Who cares how popular he is if he is a piece of shit with no values.

Well i am 30 and I wish I had a dad who was like that here let me give you some tips.

Start a college fund when they are young that way if he does decide to do some shit like school you can pay for everything. Leaving him hanging at 18 will create a neet. Get him into a lot of hobbies not just football or shit you like to do. Genuinely find a hobby he loves doesn't matter what it is just do that hobby with him don't fucking force him into a hobby. Change when he wants to change also whatever hobbies he wants go to groups or conventions to sort of meet people who do what he does. When you put him in school kind of push him forward joining a school group that is related to his hobby. Give him everything he needs to succeed in his life. Also don't fucking fight with your wife or have a bad relationship in front of him

Finally don't fucking move around the country or school to school very much you really shouldn't ever do that. You want your kid do grow up with people he's been friends with sense he was in school.

This isn't 100% but it is just my experience also never blame him for not succeeding unless it was 100% his fault. I mean you don't always wanna baby him but don't blame him for how the world is he doesn't have control over it.

I recommend this. I got my eagle badge and I believe the program is still worth it regardless of the gay and tranny shit going on. Most Troops depend on a church as their charter organization and thus have to listen to them to stay open, so while the BSA as a whole may agree with the gays the churches might not. My troop in particular is pretty based and all the scout leaders I've seen come and go seem pretty redpilled. Also from my experiences most scouts are white.

Somewhat unrelated story:
>going to a post campout awards ceremony
>it's in a high school cafeteria
>show up
>"huh, those guys standing around outside don't look familiar"
>mfw some neo-nazi group was having a meeting at that school at the same time as us
>mfw their uniforms looked extremely similar to ours
>mfw all the parents at the ceremony were awkwardly trying to not acknowledge the nazis a few rooms down the whole time

This pretty much. Just teach him how to be a man and set a good example of non degenerate behavior.

All this is horseshit. Plenty of kids who have playdates end up like flakes. The real problem is that the kids don't make anything of themselves, which is hardly assured if they have "playdates." In fact, it likely makes it less likely.

Didn't really read OP's pic, but the main problem is that the kid is a failure, not that he isn't social.

As to your "solution," again, totally worthless, as I can speak from experience.

>boy scouts
nice way to get diddled

If the scout troop is following the official rules there should be no opportunities for diddling. Granted in the real world that doesn't necessarily happen.

I can relate.

You just have to properly socialize him from a young age, and be there for him to keep him from making any big mistakes.

Basically, watch King of The Hill and take notes from Hank and Bobby.

I played a lot with other kids, but I did not turn out fine. Might be because the country's language was not my native language, but I played with kids speaking my native language too so idk.

sad

Story?

>As to your "solution," again, totally worthless

I never gave a solution.
I gave simple advice on how to assist children developing good social skills.

I mentioned playdates as this allows a toddler to interact with someone else than just parents/other adults.

>totally worthless, as I can speak from experience.

Strange how my experience of teaching children for a decade along with raising three kids have proven these methods useful.

Get a vasectomy. This is how I turned out but on top of it I'm an opioid addict.

As evidence of this, I present the opinion of Karl Witte's father on whether it's necessary to have "playdates," or friends at all.

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"It is indeed a foolish and highly injurious idea that children cannot be merry without other children."

I'm not surprised that, as a "pedagogue," you rely on the popular, "progressive" idea that a children's development rests primarily or almost entirely on socialization, which is balderdash. I'm sure socialization is very common in barbaric, even savage societies, in which you will find the children and adults even totally unfit for anything requiring the mind or abstraction.

i know you can add parent mode on your network so kids can't go on lewd sites.

would that be a good idea

at least son is considerate to fathers feelings...better than most neets

These are simmple directions for the "massive" challenge it is to raise children well.

Language is of massive importance for a child. Especially in kindergarten/school.
Difficulty of communication over time is damaging for a child development. But even young children are capable to master two (sometimes more) languages at a time with proper guidance.

I would think they would then either get smut from their friends, public computers, or learn how to computer and work around the blocker

Lol I played sports from the age of 5 until I was a junior in highschool (Wasn't good enough to make Varsity football so end of the road). It didn't stop me from becoming a pathetic neet virgin.

>I gave simple advice on how to assist children developing good social skills.
I think you identified the wrong problem, and so has everyone else in this thread. The problem isn't that the kid is unsocial, but that he wastes his time playing Minecraft.

>Strange how my experience of teaching children for a decade along with raising three kids have proven these methods useful.
Kids in gangs must have something similar to playdates, yet I would hardly say they have competent "feelings and behavior to succeed with social responsibilities and develop positively."

i would check if he is installing any vpns on his pc or using and proxies

Look I'm as straight as you can get, and I hate faggots. My son came out as gay and I told him I didn't want him living under my roof anymore. He moved in with his sister and he's dead to me. But I have no shame in saying that I visit TS escorts and have blown my load many times in their tight asses. I even have a couple of beautiful TS babes who do dom work and they throatfuck me, let me rim their holes and come all over my face. This has nothing to do with being gay. They are women with penises. The penis itself is not male, it's attached to a woman.

A PENIS IS A PIECE OF MEAT. A piece of meat does not affect my sexuality. Do you let someone call you a pervert if your penis touches a pork chop? No. It wouldn't mean you were a porcinesexual.

A penis is flesh. A beautiful lady having a different shape of flesh will not change my sexuality. No matter how many of them I let inside me or how many I beg for their seed. I don't need to be called gay by narrow minded busybodies. How come this concern for policing sexuality only happens to straight men.
For sake of fuck, DO YOU REALLY THINK GEORGE MICHAEL WAS IN HOUSES IN LONDON HAVING SEX WITH LADYBOYS he could afford it but no he was a gay he liked men he would never be with a transgoddess because he realised they were women. Maybe if he would have avoided all gay activity and stayed with traps he would still be with us today, the dirty faggot God rest his soul

Unfortunate truth.

become a sports fan go to local sports bar = friends

There is always a way user, and sooner or later the kid will figure it out. If the kid has any device with internet browsing capabilities they will find a way.
t. watched porn on my psp when parents told me they had shit to monitor my computer use (they probably didn't since they're tech illiterates)

should i be okay if my son watches porn

i know him coming on Sup Forums will effect him a lot but what about porn

Did you respond to the wrong thread?

>wastes his time playing Minecraft.
Because he has shit self-image and social skills.

What is your deal with playdates? I mentioned these as good for TODDLERS. Not for older children.

And on Witte, I'm not even disagreeing with you here.
Witte learned as a child from a combination of teaching by curiosity, intrigue, humor/sarcasm and incorporating fun learning games into everyday activities, BY PARENTS ACTUALLY INVOLVED IN HIS LIFE.

To be honest that's a good son, since it's clear he cares about his Dad. I think as long as my son finds his own way in life I'll be happy for him.

this!!!!!!!!!!!

Anons does this make sense to you?

>have kid
>kid does something
>makes something
>or draws
>or writes
"ok son"

>growing up
>accomplishing things
"ok son"

>is now an adult
>gets a job
>puts all his income to household
>nothing in return
"ok son"

>son why has it been years since oyu last had a gf
>son why don't you get a drivers licence, all your friends got it
>son why don't you buy yourself clothes
>son why don't you get yourself a phone you're missing out

This is with me. For anything I did, never got any value out of it. It cemented a belief that I don't deserve anything and that I'm obviously not meant to enjoy things.

So why bother? My biggest goal for now is to be able to have a nice meal every day.