How do we solve the single mom epidemic?

I was thinking about it last night. Do you think if we removed cash welfare the single mother epidemic would decrease? since there would be nothing it it for the mother in terms of money. lots of women like to get child support and welfare and sit on their ass and do nothing while saying they are "independent"

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like food and items for the child instead of money I mean

get rid of all alimony/child support

abortion and birth control?

remove all government programs that subsidize it, such as alimony, and change divorce laws so that people keep what they got themselves

Women would still fuck irresponsibly. They might have more abortions if they knew there were no government bucks waiting on them after squirting out a child but that wouldn't alter their hedonistic tendencies. If you also outlawed abortion you'd simply end up with more orphans.

round up all chldren from single mothers, like them up against a wall and exterminate them

Women do not get custody anymore. It always goes to the father.

That exists. It's called WIC and is fucking annoying for everyone else in the grocery line when a woman is trying to use her WIC voucher because the transaction takes forever.

Give more power to the men in cases of divorce and separation so men aren't afraid to get into marriage contracts with women. Stop the welfare state so women who want 10 babies as a single non-working mother can't afford to do that shit any more. Others will learn quickly. Believe it or not, having babies and getting welfare is a strategy many of them use. Being a single mother with babies that the taxpayers pay for should never be a fucking strategy. Stop accepting this 'friends with benefits' promiscuous culture, and bring back good christian values. There are plenty more, but this would be an amazing first step.

This is an honest but politically incorrect answer.

We have to basically change the moral culture, either back a little bit to what it was (where staying loyal to someone was a stronger value), or start a new movement based on that same principal.

Besides abuse and cheating on someone, there are really very few reasons to get divorced or not to stick with someone who you've had a kid with.

But women are having an era of being extremely unrealistic/entitled ( I know that sounds bad but men aren't off the hook either ) where they will divorce a man because he's not a fantasy, but just a real man.

They've been sold on the idea that there is perfection, but more importantly, they've been sold on the idea that you make decisions based on whether to stay with someone based on feelings.

In real lasting marriages you aren't always going to feel great about each other, or situations, etc. things get tough. A husband needs to be treated like a family member again, instead of a stranger who you ended up with.

Kids might have fights with their parents, or have periods of time where things are rough (remember not talking abuse here) but they stay together by choice.

Men and women used to do that too. Divorce has to be taken more seriously, somehow. And single mother-hood.

As for men - obviously flaking out because you don't want to raise a kid, is the same dilemma. There used to be a taboo about running off on someone, or at least, pressure to marry them if you had a baby together. Once that social pressure was in place, men got married and actually found out 'hey, this staying it out thing isn't that bad'.

There are many more factors involved I could mention a few more but instead of writing a novel I think you guys get the idea. Our culture has gotten rid of a lot of safeguards against single motherhood, stigmas, taboos, etc. and they need to either be dialed back in, or replaced with the same values, under a different form.

Give them $500 each to implant 10 year IUD at age 16.

I think these are probably in the right direction. It's certainly painful and degrading towards the family and society that men are a significant part of the equation.

Perhaps as some have suggested here, actually treating the man as an equal when it comes to child custody laws, divorce laws, etc, alone would go a long way to fix these problems.

> Do you think if we removed cash welfare the single mother epidemic would decrease?
no, women get pregnant regardless.

Free contraception is cheaper and prevents the kids in the first place.

*aren't a significant part of the equation (Typo)

You have to also fix the situation with family court, like respect prenups and no alimony/child support for no fault divorce.

If we did this along with what you say about eliminating welfare the situation would solve itself.

No, alimony and child support is there to prevent men from abandoning wives and children. The problem with it today is that feminists removed the obligations on women's end while keeping those obligations for men. What needs to go is no-fault divorce and single-mother welfare.

Euthanize them when they get to the maternity ward.

Then when some broad comes into the obgyn looking for fertility treatment tell them "how about we just skip all this expensive stuff and I'll give you a live baby now?"

If we owned the culture, we could shame them into hiding like the whores they are

No gibs for whores

Make legal to kill

Welfare is half the problem, the other half is family courts.

But yes, when you decrease financial incentives to do a thing people will do that thing less.

I agree in principle but honestly this is a natural outcome of promoting choice and freedom over morale and principles.

The reason our country (at least for the US) was great in the past was a set of guiding morals towards family, prosperity through hard work and promoting entrepreneurship.

Those morals are all but gone in many parts of the US and western culture due to the increasing liberalization of universities. "Critical theory" and other such sociological theories promote the break down of traditional values in order to transform a people into "a socialist paradise". Those who have read any critical theory will know this. Not surprisingly, most theorists were Jewish.

Thought of this once. When the mom finds out she is preggo she has 30 days to tell the father, otherwise she is on her own. If she tells the father and he is cool to be the father the kid lives, if not she is on her own and can get an abortion.

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this. Empower women. They own their body and are responsible for what is growing in it. (Unless somebody decides to help them out)

Yeah I knew we had that in the sate I'm in since I was a bagger. Didn't know it was a national thing.

You don't. You wait for the inevitable collapse of our degenerate society and the following several generations will be good.

We don't have a choice. We get to pick between single mothers and various sluts and crazies who don't want kids (or waiting till you're like 40 and hoping to snare a young war widow). Deal with it and give single mothers a break.

>men abandoning wives and children
Maybe niggers do, but men are more likely to stay than women. Women always want the most Chad-tier man. Also if you remove the obligations, then men can leave cheating women without consequences.

shart marrying single moms. it's really not that complicated user.

Another problem that would be slayed with the universal basic income

the problem is that we've made being single profitable for women. we need to fix divorce laws for one thing, ans also get rid of alimony and child support, not just because it's making the single motherhood problem worse, but because it's really unethical to make a man pay for the well being of a family he's not legally allowed to be a part of.

we also need to start making women paying the same amount in taxes as men if they aren't married.

commie get out

Seriously, you guys all lambast big daddy government for making single mothers and then want big daddy government to fix the problem. The human race has one or two more apocalyptic wars and inhuman orgies of carnage in it before the AI takes over and the time after that, like the time after a forest fire, is filled with new growth and moral rectitude, and it happens not because of any government initiative but because everybody soft and hedonistic is dead.

You just remove the incentives from it.

>implying women don't already have this

20-30yo single moms are for pump and dump only kouhai

They look like a nice family.

Remove the welfare state completely. The trapeze artists will perform better with no safety net beneath them.

Anyone on public assistance who has already had at least one child should be sterilized. At the very least, make them get deprovera shots.
We do it for our dumb animals, why not for dumb humans?

you're part of the problem

Addressing mental health.
I grew up surrounded by them, and can list 4 who I knew personally off of the top of my head. Wanna know the common factor that those four had in common? They were all fucked by daddy/grandpa at a young age.

Never let any of the otaku cunts on here tell you that this shit doesn't damage kids, by the way. I've never seen a more depraved, vulnerable, or emotionally self-destructive approach to romance than what I've witnessed in these four people. It was something they were never able to move past.

Same reason we don't eat dumb humans? We're not fucking animals.

Single mom success story here. OP, I do think that removing the cash benefits would help because I saw first-hand 9 women trying to sell me their kid's Ritalin and getting day drunk for every 1 (me) working hard and trying to graduate college and get out of subsidized housing (aka the heroin hotel).
Would you believe I was told by my case worker (the person in charge of doling out my food stamps) that I was not allowed to work while I was in college because I would "get too overwhelmed and fail?" Would you believe I had to go over her head to get special permission to do internships while I was in school so that I could support myself and garner job skills? AND I made President's List (4.0 GPA) while I did it!
The whole single mother welfare thing is 100% rigged to keep women poor and dependent on public programs. I barely managed to get out of it because I have gumption and I don't take no for an answer.
Graduated last May. Got a high-paying job with great benefits because of all of my internships I did. Living on easy street now. As far as I know out of 50 or so single moms in my social circle I'm the only one that made it.

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Just draft unemployed young men and invade your neighbours for fuck's sake.

That's how it's been done forever.

>Lets get rid of single mothers by making everyone a single mother

>you are part of the problem
Please, a used up roastie under no circumstances ever stable relationship material. But I guess taking care of your wifes son is the noble thing to do right?

>on Sup Forums
>success story
pick one

>single mom
>on Sup Forums
>a success
these things are mutually exclusive

you guys seem to forget that women need to hop on a dick in order to get pregnant. there are A LOT of dudes who are serial impregnators and just want to make a kid and leave. most women don't want to be single mothers. If you don't want single mothers, you should fully support abortion

OH OK I'M SURE NO MEN IN THE WORLD HAVE EVER FUCKED IRRESPONSIBLY. SURE. OK

Just take Vasalgel mainstream.

Guys don't want to be shafted by 18 years of child support.

They'll stem the single mother epidemic.

Ironically the guy I got pregnant with turned out to be a pedo. Found gigs of cp on his laptop when I was a few months pregnant. Made the decision to be a single mom a very easy one any way.

10/10 Would share a Cul-de-sac

>I agree in principle but honestly this is a natural outcome of promoting choice and freedom over morale and principles.

I agree with that too, I think. I'm not down with the jewish conspiracy part of your post, but I do hear you and feel what you're saying.

Vilify spending money on marriage. Vilify spending money in general.

only black women have 10 kids so they can get all that welfare. they never get married. giving men more power in divorces just increases the chances that the kids will be FUCKED UP youtu.be/NzspsovNvII

No
The welfare abusers you imagine are a mirage.

It's soldier 76 in real life!

i like how everyone ignores the completely logical and provable answers like this one

Give people the latest iPhone in return for permanent sterilization.

>young punks get off my lawn

>dependent on drugs
>slowly take them away
>dependent on daddy government
>slowly take away the welfare

You shall be spared from the rake.

Not mutually exclusive.

Abortion plus sterilization is fine. Of either gender, I'm really not picky.

Stop fucking them, make sure they know why, live your own life, find a conservative chick while ignoring the parasites.

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Even single moms that make it are not really dateable material.

After your kids and your career, how much time is left for a significant other?

My mom was single for 10 years without welfare. She had a job and tons of money from my Dad kek.

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Force men to take responsibility for their children.

Some baseline statistics would be good.
What is the average age of a single mothers first birth?
Is there a difference in poverty levels between poverty levels of single mothers whose first birth is at different ages (e.g. teenagers are overwhelmingly poor, whereas single women in their 30s with their first child are not poor).

At a complete guess I think teenage pregnancy would be a marker of single motherhood and the problems associated with it.
Extend compulsory schooling until age 24 when the brain has fully matured.