Is it acceptable to hate your parents even when you are well into your adulthood?

Is it acceptable to hate your parents even when you are well into your adulthood?

I'm 33 now and my parents are the typical Boomers: got easy rides, walked out of education into jobs, always had strong support, and after divorcing left their kids utterly nothing.

I am now an office manager and make a basic wage. But it's nothing close to the opportunities they got. And not only that, they treated their children as disposable when it didn't suit them. They were just too obsessed with greed and status.

As much as I have tried to fight it, i still detest them. They feel more like an embarrassment than anything else, literally the archetypal Boomer who shat me out while they got it all. How does that work?

Don't tell me to man up either. I've probably gone through shit that 99% of you NEETs wouldn't understand. It has been day to day surviving sometimes. Nobody chooses it.

I just keep thinking what life could have been.

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Man up faggot

Stop crying, bitch.

Man up faggot

maybe stop being a bitch for starters

Don't be such a fucking pussy

>I have multiple degrees
which means literally nothing now that those jewish student loans have made college fucking worthless since every university doesnt give a shit and just passes you through to take your money.

...

You act nice so you can inherit their stuff

ignore the faggots in thread.

do this:
>try to keep in some form of contact with your parents
>try to focus your ambition in life
>be a go getter

TLDR: i'm a 33 yr old manbaby, please read my blog

What a crybaby bitch. You sound like my brother and sister. Both are working shit jobs for low wages.

I make more than either of my parents ever did. I took risks and made opportunities happen for myself.

OP is a faggot.

I agree with the employed man with the cigar. If the faggot has degrees and no money, why is he dressed up and on his phone?

Yes provided you have valid reason. Teenagers will 'hate' their parents out if the usual angst, which is rightly dismissed. An adult with solid rationale for the hatred is justified.

Did your parents extinguish cigarettes on your flesh? That would be an acceptable reason.

My parents are Gen X, they were fairly young when I was born, and they did an okay job. Our relationship now is better then it has ever been.

>Honour thy father and thy mother.

That is what "man up, faggot" means. Don't be such a beta cuck.

>boomers leaving a single cent unsquandered before they die

Right.

Holy shit where cab I buy this, please leaf have mercy

parents are retarded.

If they were stupid enough to have kids, then theyre kind of, y'know, retarded.

How can a beggar afford a cellphone?

Man up faggot

>I have (((degrees)))
>I will take anything
>Can I get a chair? My feet hurt.

Many such cases. Sad!

develop a skill that an employer needs you millennial faggots
you don't get a gold star for just showing up
go fuck yourselves

Man up faggot

Pole here. Its the English culture. I dont know why but English parents just dont care about their children, its sometimes shocking. Not much can be done about it except when you have your own kids raise them with love and dont treat them like garbage.

Crop out the guy in the suit and his speech bubble, then on the wall behind the millenial photoshop in a window with a Help Wanted sign.
Then it's an accurate respresentation of reality.

Work for 6 weeks during Christmas to buy your lifeline

You are a huge queer.
That's basically all there is to it.
But I will humor you for a second, you pathetic waste internet data.
You're mad at your daddy because you are a literal failure of a man, correct?
You feel like the world should have been handed to you because working for a meager living is above you.
Your father was given everything?
His father?
Your great grandfather and their fathers before them?
All given a silver spoon overflowing with opportunities so ripe they only had to reach out and grab them.
Do you think that's true?
Or do you think somewhere in there someone had to pull their shit together, press their nose to the grindstone and forge their own path in this world, however difficult that may have been. Facing uncertainties and doubt around every corner. Finding wives and starting families. Conserving resources to make it by during tough times and this finally being able to shuffle the fuck off knowig that they at least made a dent in life and their progeny exist to carry the flame.
Truly a novel endeavor.

And then there's you. A humongous whiny little toad, so sour that you're not the cats pajamas that you've taken to badmouthing your ancestry. I assume you have no children to worry about placing in your same situation because I couldn't imagine a women being able to stomach your constant cuckery long enough to conceive children with, so I won't bother with the rhetorical question.
So this is where the story ends.
Your bloodline disappears shortly after we have this conversation because you die alone in your apartment, wearing VR goggles, beating off to Asian girl/black dude porn.
All because you think crying on a Taiwanese croquet forum about your father is more important than proving to the world you have what it takes to be successful.

>homeless
>has a suit and phone
Also his "multiple degrees" are in useless shit like gender studies and other useless shit

Shut the fuck up my father started out with the same job as me but he earned x3 as much as I do when we adjust for inflation and cost of living.

So you blame him?
Ok homo

buy that sure is what everyone wants to believe huh? That'd be the easiest narrative to swallow anyway.

tasty fresh pasta

You're judging him too harshly. He resents his parents for not investing in him like previous generations have done. It seems that parental investment has diminished significantly in the western world. Our parents failed to 'pass the torch'.

in any case, you don't seem much older than 18, if that, so you really have no business talking down to one of your peers.

Maybe he was better at his job. Maybe people liked him more than you. Maybe you're an entitled millenial shit who believes you should be validated for simply existing. Kill yourself

ITT: people who literally have not gotten past the childlike state where they view their parents as supreme beings and are incapable of actually criticizing their faults. Truth is your parents are human beings and, just like any other human, if in your eyes they are worthy of disdain, and it sure seems like they are from your post, then disdain away. It's not like this board hates boomers for no reason after all.

Sure thing pal.
My third son is being born in 2 weeks.
I've been married for a decade and have worked every day since I was sixteen.
bet you're contributing much more to the world though so please continue. I need guidance. Please be my Sherpa to a better life.

>Is it acceptable to hate your parents even when you are well into your adulthood?
Absolutely

No, I blame the current economy and situation that puts me in this shitty spot of earning almost minimum wage even though I'm qualified.

At my age my dad already had his own car and was about to buy a house, I can barely afford to rent a room and am using my dad's 20 year old car.

I had to basically work for free for two years to gain enough experience for anyone to ever hire me for any pay at all. And I had to rely on my parent's help to get anywhere, meanwhile they did not.

I feel ya OP. You aren't alone. My dad recently died, and at least you didn't literally lose tens of millions in inheritance because your father decided to remarry a Mexican whore (full on native, not even Spanish Mexican) with two kids.

>live in the city
>has multiple gender study degrees
>I'll take litterally any job, but nothing that pays under 40$ an hour

I always thought the "get a job" thing was bullshit. but holy shit I applied at a factory and got the job instantly for 20$ an hour.
if you can't work with this you can't complain.

It's hard as fuck work but it pays well enough that I would never complain.

So why are you here?
This thread is about homos who blame daddy for their shortcomings, not people talking about how the economy is down so life is rough.
But to your point, was your grandfathers situation the same? His father? Shit comes and goes. Rise with the tides or cry and drown. People starved in the streets during the depression and I guarantee there are people much worse off than you through no fault of their own, some of whom may end up achieving more than you do, so spare me the sob story. Everybody's got one.

Because I'm tired of being called entitled when I have to deal with a shitty situation I did not cause. The people who benefited from it are now calling me entitled.
Fuck off.

you either realize your parents are fucking retards and could have ruined you with their idiocy, or you realize they were always the sensible ones and they become good friends

thankfully i got the latter but i have a friend who vehemently defended his parents' stupidity for years and years and as soon as he went off to school and got some perspective he came back and essentially disowned them

The reason I hate boomers is that they passively let the jews flood our countries with shitskins.

>office manager

Enjoy getting automated in your mid 40's fgt

You have to deal with the shitty situation.
I'm sorry. That's reality. Is life hard? Indubitably, but being a man means sucking up your tears and sniffles and pushing on for the good of yourself and your family. People are capable of making so much out of so little. It's incredible.
Others literally bellyache on the internet and lashout at people encouraging them to not give up.(you)

Nice

>Is it acceptable to hate your parents even when you are well into your adulthood?

As far as I'm concerned, yes. I feel exactly the same as you OP and I'm in a somewhat similar situation myself.

Don't let them guilt trip you, fact is they failed in their moral responsibility as parents and you must never stop reminding them of that. They hate it and until they can accept it, it's only right that you should constantly remind them of it.

in Canada you can sue over a will and their "wishes" say what you like, at least we don't lets stupid whores take our money

You did not make that money yourself... I wasn't given shit hated my parents and live a life without owing people shit. Do something about your shitty situation. Listen to your peers and grow a backbone already.

Learn that degrees mean nothing, and that the ability to accomplish goals is more important.

I thought whites didn't what it's like being poor
youtube.com/watch?v=xCHfH0WABTY

Why should we think you are being honest, or even have our interest at heart (even indirectly)

I'll check in and say that I had a moderate-to-rough middle-class upbringing surrounded by leftist bullshit. Spent a few years in the military and grew away from my family's ideals, now I openly tell my father that his neglect and system blaming prevented me from growing into the most ideal member of society I could be. Lots of catching up, but I feel like at 26 I'm on track. Don't hate yourself for understanding what went wrong, hate yourself if you do that to your own kids.

Hate is pointless. The best revenge is to git gud at life and prosper by improving yourself. Learn what your values are and embody them. Revel in your work. Invest and save your money. Don't reveal your power level until absolutely necessary.

One of my parents has been close to death or dying sunce I was about six. February the 7th my mom died. Last Friday my dad had 4 strokes in one day. I never had time to hate them.

Man up, nothing is easy. My parents are 38 and my Dad spent most of my childhood in prison, I didn't inherit jack squat. Get over it.

I understand what you mean when you feel as though your parents failed to pass the torch in any way.

>Father would always come home after work, drink a 6 pack in his undershirt and sweat pants, order pizza for dinner, and pass out before my mother (whom he hated) got off work.
>This continues on for my entire life until I am old enough to move out.
>19 years old, never was shown a single thing that a father should teach a son. Learned how to shave, cook, drive, exercise, and all of the other important things a father should teach his son, on my own.
>Fast forward ten years
>Parents are now getting a divorce as father was having sex with an Asian woman on the side once he retired.
>Both are now financially ruined due to Shekelstein attorneys.

Boomer parents truly are the worst. Every time I deal with either of them it is nothing but stress. I know not all families are like this as I have seen happy older married couples. I just had the misfortune of being raised by complete shits. How I didn't end up a complete failure is beyond me.

>after divorcing left their kids utterly nothing
Nothing? You forgot crippling psychological issues.

It's acceptable, because it's how you feel.
My boomer mother wasn't nearly as callous. She is irresponsible and irrational, but she loves us very much, and much of the grief she experiences later in her life comes from feeling like she failed us (my older brother most of all).
I can tell you that if you hate your parents, they probably gave you a reason to. It's more than just having faults as a person.

>he didnt surpass his parents
maybe they just knew you were a waste

Kill them.
I recommend using poison. Something that isn't instant so it isn't obvious

Alright, guys. Listen. We need to have a talk here.
DOOOON'T.
DON'T DO THAT!
No.
NO!
Bad subhuman! Bad!

Nigger detected.

Here in South America patricide is the norm if the fucker can't keep his penis under control or the whore can keep the leg closed

>typical baby boomers
So basically borderline narcissistic sociopaths who would literally throw you under a bus for a social security check

Yeah fuck them!

ITT
>americans snidely talking about manning up
European economic situation is very different to the american one. No good jobs unless you have connections these days.

>No good jobs.
Whatabout the shit ones?

I'm in my 30s and I hate my parents too.

Probably the thing that bugs me the most is the expected me to get straight As in school. I remember getting a report card of solid Bs and they whined and bitched about it.

When I was in my 20s I casually asked my mother over lunch what kinds of grades she got while she was in high school. She made a dismissive hand motion like it didn't matter and said, "Oh Bs and Cs."

Ha, Bs and Cs for her, straight As for me... or I had to hear "user these grades aren't good enough wahhhh."

I haven't said "I love you" to my parents in years... because... I don't love them. I love them as much as they have made it possible for me to love them.

Heaven forbid they want a better life for you than what they had.

>office manager
>basic wage
That's how I know you're larping.

Yes. They're fucking gross.

The expectation that I get straight As bothers me and always will.

It's not even a good metric of financial success. Only stupid people think that good grades matter when it comes to becoming financially success.

Other things matter a lot more than numbers.

Fuckin'...I thought that way when I was a child, then I got older and realized how the real world works.

A boss doesn't necessarily like the employee most who performs his job the best. A man who sits down, silently does his work, performs the best, and then goes home. No, the boss probably likes someone else better, a man who talks about current events and goes to a bar after work with the boss to get a couple drinks. The boss is likely to give this guy the fuckin' promotion over the other guy.

Your performance, at work or school, is not that fucking important. Lots of other things are more important than having the best numbers on your report card or job performance review.

Yes, it's more than OK to hate your parents because boomers are fucking scum.

>did 5 years in college to get a mechanical engineering job
>graduate with a 3.3, still have little prospects
>have to take a job as a contractor with no benefits
>make slightly less money than they did dropping out of high school
>told that I should be grateful for what I got
>my wages and job opportunities are fucked because they import h1bs

Fuck boomers. Can't wait until they die.