Ok. As someone who has the same goals and values you do (though I am male). Here is my honest advice:
- It wont be sustainable. This guy won't commit to the basic understanding necessary to do what you want - much less to the harder and more costly choices and challenges that Must come down the road.
I get that women basically parasitize men for their resources, and that's clearly what you're aiming for here. You get a few points for 'looking past' his flaws and appreciating his values, but odds are that wont last.
For women, the 7-year itch is real. So all you'd be doing is kicking the can most of a decade down the road, then risk losing it all.
That said, you're a woman, so odds are you could just divorce-rape him and get the benefit of his resources without needing to commit to him physically or emotionally.
You really have come to the wrong place for this. My honest advice; find a good man you're willing to commit and submit to. One who will be a sound and reliable leader and pater familias. Otherwise, your inherent female instincts will eventually kick in and sunder the whole thing.
Right now, you know this. You're just grasping at straws hoping someone will tell you;
>No, it will be Okay. Go with this simp and it will all be fine. You don't need to worry about the challenge of dropping him and finding a new man in a rapidly shrinking dating pool.
Unfortunately, its not the case. So there's the hard truth. If you want to achieve your goals, you're going to have to accept this setback, acquire a better partner, and build from there. Otherwise, you're building on a shaky foundation that cannot help but give way, eventually.
Buuuut, you're a woman. And women operate on emotion rather than logic, so most of this will be lost on you. I won't be replying further until you perform due diligence and post tits.
Either way, good luck. You have a good plan and I should be so lucky as to find a woman with those values and goals.
