OK. Masturbation is degenerate, I accept.
I've been trying this break to collect myself and get over this weakness.
But I can't get over it.
Couple days pass and I always give in.
Feels like I'm trying to get off of Heroin or something.
Only way to combat the urge is to never get bored and that is unavoidable.
Help me.
Seriously.
>Obviously avoid pic related stuff but gotta get attention somehow.
maybe there is an adult edition.
ok
so
let me clue you in on this little secret
next time you want to masturbate
dont
The drive to reproduce is strong in all creatures. But if you feel like you're jerking it too much, a change in habits is required. I find that I feel better mentally and physically if I don't jerk it for a while. It's about channeling your sexual energy into something else productive. Read a book, do some pushups, whatever it is you need to do, if you want to stop.
Access to unlimited HD porn has ruined a generation of men.
I'm in the same boat. I've found out that you really have to preoccupy yourself and NOT look at gifs in your OP and fantasize. I've gone weeks without looking at suggestive things and fantasizing got me to cave.
stop going to Sup Forums
Masturbation ok
Porn no ok
>falling for the nofap meme
First of all, if you are going to browse Sup Forums or other websites like it where you might be exposed to pornographic images, before you do so, turn pictures off on your browser.
Secondly, take physical exercise each and every day; and also make yourself leave the house and go for a walk if you are ever on the verge of relapsing.
Thirdly, be moderate in your diet. Too much food is a provocative to lust.
Fourthly, take cold showers every day.
Fifthly, force yourself to get up early in the morning, no matter how tired you are. This will ensure that you go to bed as quickly as possible in the evenings.
Sixthly, shun idleness, and keep yourself occupied with something useful during the entirety of the day.
A couple of useful resources:
You need to pray. I pray the rosary.
And if these boards are your problem, you need to stop using them.
Watch this video, it will help.
youtube.com
For more information see here:
mostholyfamilymonastery.com
What is wrong with it? Faggot
fuck we fell for the
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and go insane?
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Do pushups every time you feel the urge. Eventually you just dont want to do push-ups. Worked for me
Try noporn first.
So you are saying you have no will power over your primal urges? If it were easy, everyone would do it.
>Read a book, do some pushups, whatever it is you need to do, if you want to stop.
Yeah as I said do stuff that distracts you and doesn't let your mind wander but really that urge is when I am bored always comes and no gf handy makes it difficult
who still does
im not 13 anymore
dry only leaves me frustrated
>meme
sure
thx! Best responses yet.
Will take advice
This
Then find something else to do and your problem is solved. You are bored and you waste your time by fapping. Do something worthwhile or waste your time with something else, your choice.
Have sex or focus on something else it is not hard. Excellence is not an act but a habit. It will get easier if you consciously try for a bit, I promise.
Here's a cool trick
Whenever you feel something you don't want to feel, take your attention into the feeling 100% and just keep observing it. It will disappear before too long
You said dry does not satisfy you then don't go straight to dry, fap to fb pics or something. Porn is the main issue.
GTFO not a Sup Forums question.
OP should remember sex is sin and a bilateral orchidectomy and penectomy will end his evil urges. This can be done at home and a rich dom would pay well to make OP a nullo.
>Have sex
if that were an option currently I wouldn't resort to jerkin it.
>inb4 get gf
you can't have a gf all the time
>You are bored and you waste your time by fapping
Im not doing it simply because I have too much time on my hand that is not it.
But rather if I do something that bores me thoughts start to wander.
I can't do it either.
Try setting a different goal for yourself, like not watching porn and only masturbating every 2 days or something.
Yeah but always fall back after at max 7 daysbut usual 2-3 days for me... that is exactly what I want to be able to avoid
>make yourself leave the house and go for a walk if you are ever on the verge of relapsing.
Dont make him end up in jail for public masturbating..
I tried it once. Went weeks without porn or masturbating. Then i had to take a flight to Holland and before take-off i was overwhelmed by this uber-horny feeling.
Went to the bathroom.
Touched my flaccid penis when i got it out of my pants.
Cum all over the place.
It was one of the weirdest situations related to masturbation i ever had.
Oh and i wasnt fantasizing or anything.
I was just there in my seat waiting for everybody to settle down for take-off.
And all of a sudden, this feeling..
I was actually trembling..
>that is exactly what I want to be able to avoid
I don't think you actually want to stop masturbating for forever,
it's going to be very stressfull to fight the urge every day,
and it's not going to go away
Sounds like you've been brainwashed by nofap advocates
Masturbation every now and then is normal and has no negative effects on you,
doing it too much or watching porn too much might be harmful for you yes
Try this OP.
www.covenanteyes.com/
It not only filters the porn website, but also sends an email for a person that you trust if you try to go in a porn website or see pornography on internet.
Other than that, I recommend you to pray the rosary everyday. That helped me a lot, believe me, please.
But what if you're like me and have trained your Kegels so much that you can come without touching yourself?
Next time you want to wank go have a shower.
Or just fucking wank bro enjoy it but don't do it everyday and DO NOT WATCH PORN
>t. Pornfree for 372 days
You might as well enjoy it while you can because as you get older you won't be able to do it as much if at all.
There is nothing wrong with masturbating. Those are your natural urges. The problem is porn. QUit porn and run your imagination
LOL, you're supposed to replace jacking off with fucking a chick.
"stop masturbating" doesn't mean "become a Mormon"
Well idk if Im gonna go that far and not planning on going months without at least finding an equally desperate girl if it helps survive till I get a qt.
wait.....
>Went weeks without porn or mastur
how soon did this happen since you stop jerkin it?
This. Or cut your dick off.
>t. Pornfree for 372 days
good job dude
I've been taking cold showers for the past 2 weeks, and decided yesterday to stop watching porn
>you've been brainwashed by nofap
no no ,
but going for 5 days or so should be possible from time to time without going insane that is all or without too much effort put into it at least.
Jerking it is good for your prostate too. If you don't like porn just close your eyes and imagine some girl at the grocery store or something.
I take hot showers and the last minute or two I turn it to the coldest.
Cold showers are fucking life change desu
I actually do the same
Yeah my wife was pregnant at the time. I saw those topics here about no fap months and thought i'd give it a go.
I was in 4 weeks and 4 days.
It was like nature taking over or something.
Like my brain was done with it and the stuff had to go..
>n email for a person that you trust if you try to go in a porn website or see pornography on internet.
WTF Not doing that till I have achieved a confident level of self control and just don't wanna fall back into the rythem but still I wouldn't do that
>t. Pornfree for 372 days
Man, feel pathetic saying this but
impressive dude gj
>you're supposed to replace jacking off with fucking a chick.
You never broke up with your gf and didn't get back with a girl within the next month or so????
...
wtf happened to my webm?
there's nothing wrong with jacking off, just stop conflating it with watching porn and jack off to fantasies, its the visual stimulation you get addicted to and fucks with your head like you are already fucking multiple women and all the over the top fake shit in it is real life
we need help. pic very related.
don't make me look in those folders to find the full webm of her walkin up and abck, please.
This
I have same problem. But I'm fat with a small dick so there is little possibility I will get the real thing. I probably won't quit.
This guy has the best advice:
prison O.o
go skateboarding. It helps me to channel my masculine energy in a different way.
Are u unable to go to sleep without masturbation?
That shit has been plaguing me for months.
>Are u unable to go to sleep without masturbation?
no, not all. It is more during the day and in the morning of course...
yeah occupy yourself
>my masculine energy
que?
I've abstained for two months before.
I've also done it more than 20 times a day.
I've never seen any difference.
just looking at the guy makes me want to stop masturbating actually...
Read Mein Kampf, there's a potion discussing young men and ways to deal with this energy they have
If you don't jerk off you WILL have wet dreams. Your subconscious will jerk you off in your sleep, it's unavoidable.
>Read Mein Kampf to controll urge to masturbate
>I've also done it more than 20 times a day
for what purpose?
Pornography is very harmful to women because it normalizes sexual violence against them and does a poor job of teaching kids sexual education. Im glad you are abstaining from supporting this misogistic industry OP.
I moved to Alaska 2 years ago, last poon I had required buying a plane ticket.
>Your subconscious will jerk you off in your sleep
hot
recreation duh
desu dreams are filled with porn if masturbating or not or even having regular sex... propably not gonna change for a while.
yeh ok if it makes you happy
Someone has to find out.
Repent and accept salvation through Jesus
try embroidery
Swing and a miss.
...
*tips mitre*
You had me until cold showers, that's not ok
>Masturbation is degenerate
How so?
Also, what does degenerate even mean?
>Also, what does degenerate even mean?
Newfag detected.
Something is degenerate if it is counterproductive for the individual, but also leads to larger societal problems if tolerated for too long.
k This is the best
Thx for the advice all
yeah I mean when i think of beautiful women i feel so manly. When i think of her hips, ass, and also a woman's soft character I feel the direct opposite: tough and strong. I feel this inherent nature to be protective of her. Once you sexualize women too much, you're using this energy wrong. It becomes a sort of fetish.
Learning how to skateboard helped me to channel this boisterous energy into a skill. A masculine skill, because skateboarding is dangerous. It's challenging nature. And if you don't pay attention, you fall. Hard. It also helps to focus on what you are doing, otherwise you'll get hurt.
Does that really work?
I mean doing kegel exercises can be a bit arousing I guess if you can vibrate the penis, but wouldn't you get desensitized to it?
no problem, the guy is right
I never skated
Actually spent couple minutes wondering and looking up if I should buy a skate board to help stop masturbating.... I already have hobbies and am busy usually.
WTF
43 fucking minutes, mate?? I could've been wanking for all that time
True patrician
you'll never wank again after u watch that mate.
seriosuly am still watching 30 mins in.
Dude is on point and uggly as fuck so that helps to.
Bro go swimming. Swimming is a great exercise that works practically your whole body, and keeping you busy at the same time.
But skating is also cool, just hard to get into when your older
It means, while it might not necessarily be perceived as harmful, the trait can be proven to cause harm for you, others or most importantly to future generations of society if not suppressed in some way.
Start going out more u cant masturbate in public can u
Start by not watching porn, getting a gf has been a good substitute for me
...
>Something is degenerate if it is counterproductive for the individual, but also leads to larger societal problems if tolerated for too long.
literally the first time someone actually attempted to give a reasonable answer to my question.
Counterproductive to the individual in what way?
>getting a gf has been a good substitute for me
well yeah but when there is no girl in my life that is where this issue becomes relevant
You need to study and understand the past in order to understand the state of mind you are in right now.
We are living in a post Nietzsche, Foucault, post-structuralism-modernism driven by Neoplatonism.
Meaning: (((THEY))) "liberated" you in every socially aspect deconstructing virtue and morality in exchange for you being a docile lefty faggot who is a slave to his passion and shuts the fuck up when the Kommisar say so or vice versa act when the Kommisar wants e.g. he activates you to fight against people who are standing up for the moral law aka LOGOS aka the essence of GOD to prohibit pornography but you then pushed by the Komissar unknowingly to protest people like that, even assassinate them just to that you can gratify your passion and being a degenrate slave you were born and designed to be.
kek, But pooing is fine.
kek'd
that was the irony of the post
cut your balls off
Ok, so
>getting a week without funny stuff
>but keep watching it without playing with my pepe
how do i just quit famalam