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Did you go to school with blacks? If so, how did it effect you? Does coexisting with other races really make people tolerant?

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I went to school in a very small town, zero blacks.

I think for me it was the other way around, I see how they act, I see how they stay in small packs, it disgust me, not everyone of them but most, on average they're dumber than whites, the smart ones don't act like apes...

They were violent, they tended to be the ones that destroyed the school grounds (Destroyed there lockers/garbage cans) they also were the loud and were the ones that disrupted class more often then not, over all coexisting with them made me less tolerant.

I wonder if he can even spell his name.

They were violent. Loud and boastful. Overbearing and lacking intelligence.

Went to school with Iranians, Iraquis, Russians, Polish, Jews, Morrocans, Turks and Africans.

Times may have changed but the only real troublemakers were degenerate germans whom fathers looked like Hulk Hogan back then.

I went to a nigger school. Lived in a nigger neighborhood.

They're every bit as bad as you think they are, and worse.

went to school with a lot of blacks. But I was in advanced & gifted classes, so I didn't really interact with them much. We had one black guy in our classes but his dad was a dr. and they lived on the beach (not your typical hood nigga). This was also back in the 80s & 90s when blacks didn't have the confidence of a black president and weren't as bad as they have been since 2008.

On a side note, I do remember back in elementary school, I had to sit next to a black kid and he stole my pencils - so no OP, I definitely became less tolerant of other races.

Well my school was like 50% sandniggers so the must shit was done by them

pretty much this.

They were always the ones sticking pencils in brand new computers fans and fucking them all up, losing their brand new textbook after the first week of having it when the idea was they were supposed to last a few years etc. etc. stealing gym equipment etc. stealing from peoples bookbags etc. being way to blatant about drug dealing and getting everybody caught etc. being violent over petty shit and baiting out everything

nogs will murder eachother over a hq of weed kek

>Did you go to school with blacks?
Yes, mein fuhrer
Our private Christan school just realized it could get massive gibs if we had a couple blacks from the inner city (Chicago) and a bunch of Asians

Needless to say they justified it using the Bible and the few minorities I'm still friends we on Facebook apperantly use every opportunity to Complain how racist that school was
They simultaneously complain that we have no culture and also that any display of culture aside from theirs is racist

We didn't get the sand nigs in mass numbers till after I was done school, but I was near the end of high school when we brought in the somalians those fucking niggers made me hate everyone from Africa really fast.

Complete opposite, being around a bunch of blacks and mexicans will make you hate them. It's only people who live in super white places like Vermont believe that everyone is the same and diversity is good BS. I grew up in the DFW area and I'm fully aware that blacks and mexicans are nothing like us. They're loud,stupid and violent

>Overbearing
Cuck

>Be me in an all white plus some hispanix in TX
>3 black kids move here, all brothers
>the football coach convinces everyone to pitch in and help them get a place to live since their mom is broke and their dad is absent
>3 months in, one of them cracks a kid's skull on a sink in school after he tried to snub him on a drug deal
mfw the only crime I ever heard of in my school was because of one of only three black kids

>Did you go to school with blacks?

There are no blacks here. And if I missed any, they're not allowed on school property.

>has black friend
>cool dude
>also a klepto
>mfw

All my schools were 99% white

I can't say I hate everyone of them, but most that's for sure. Here in Belgium we treat muslims and blacks like children, we support them financially, it's a fucking shame, the worst is that they complain, if they want to succeed the only thing they have to do is work, university is free.

I had only like 6 blacks in my highschool of about 1,000. Most of the kids were racist by default, would say nigger and shit as long as there wasn't one present. Out of the 6 blacks, 1 got arrested for being a drug dealer and 1 for 2 armed robberies. In such a low crime area it really is odd to have two kids arrested for felonies only a few years out of high school.

>school
>blacks

No, the school I was sent to did not have blacks, also didn't have any Jews. It was a good school.

They always smack their lips when they don't like something fucking niggers

It's not that bad as long as the blacks act like whites.

had only one cunt that was black that lied about his grades and stole food but that's about it

Yeah we pay them(Government subsidies, Welfare) more then most people get working its a fucking shame some dune coon/nigger families pull in $4 dollars a fucking month sitting on there asses not learning the language and they destroy neighbor hoods(Kicking in basement windows and destroying back/front yards, stealing from yards/pools/sheds)

Immigrated to US when I waa still fairly young. Clueless parents put me in a school that was 50% or higher black. It red pilled me for life. I would probably be some sjw if I had never experienced that.

$4,000 dollars a month not 4. depending how many children they have.

Every nigger in my school would chimp out in lessons and try to fight children 2 years younger than them.

I went to an inner city school so yes. Niggers are terrible and everyone that has to actually be around them hates them. My 10th grade English teacher called the hallway outside her room "Compton" because it was always full of niggers taking their shirts off and fighting and getting tazed by the cops

>Did you go to school with blacks? If so, how did it effect you?

Yes, It really didn't. However, once I joined the Navy and spent years on a ship, my tolerance for niggers evaporated.

Had an argument with a nigress in the hallway. She reported me to admin and said I used the term "you nigger girls". They had no evidence and I was a better student so nothing came of it.

Fat thot was walking up the stairwell, I was the only one there. I was behind her halfway. Her thot friend ran up to her and smacked her in the ass about 5 times, then ran off around the corner, leaving me there when she turned.
She threatened me and I said the cameras recorded everything. What a nigger.

>top 100 school districts in country, sub 2% nigger population- and almost 2/3 of the blacks in school were dindus and nogs

They are the ones that always start a fight in my school.

It relies on you experience with them, whilst I do not treat them as a lesser, I do believe that multiculturalism and multi racialism have negative effects on society. The ones I grew up with were pretty chill, they were cool with my racism and one was blatantly racist themselves.

I can't say we had much problems with blacks here

But even kids in elementary school self-segregate on their own

Yeah, there were two black kids in the entire school, one was in my grade and the other, who was couple grades above me, supposedly pissed her pants in the middle of class once. At first, I kinda considered him a friend, but as the year progressed he became increasingly more hostile for seemingly no reason. So one day I snapped and called the chimp a nigger. Naturally, he reported me to the office but being the sly bastard I am, I denied it and told the principal I was being framed and the nigger constantly bullies me. So nigger boy here gets infuriated that reporting me backfires, so he tries to fight me in the locker room. My 10 year old self floored his dumbass, best feeling in my life. Fuck niggers.

>Does coexisting with other races really make people tolerant?

No it's quite the opposite.

Small town England. One black family. Single mother two boys. Older boy used to beat young kids including me, younger boy was literally retarded. Mother left them alone in council fucked off with some nigger to Birmingham. Older boy quit school younger one couldn't read. Saw younger one years later with a bunch of blacks acting like they were in a woorstar video. Both would steal anything not nailed down like it was instinct I mean anything even things of no value.

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My first year of high school I became very closes friends with a half black. You know, mallado. He's one of my best friends today, I don't really think it's their races that's the problem, but the shitty nurture they get from childhood.

>Does coexisting with other races really make people tolerant

No. As a child you will grow up, learning not only from your teachers, but also from your peers and your own adventures.
Racism is discovered, not taught, however, people with prejudice opinions are retards who believe anything they're told.

Here they get around 1000 buck a month if they've worked for at least 1 years here, and around 120$ per kid per month, it's not astronomical but considering that they have "free" healthcare, free education they're lucky I'm sure they would be happier in Congo.

In my case it was the opposite. Being away from black people helped me to be less racist. I grew up and went to school with a proportional amount of black people. They all acted like violent, thieving sociopaths. I was raised to not be racist, but I couldn't help thinking there was something wrong with black people after my school experiences.

After I graduated, my view of black people in general normalized when I wasn't constantly exposed to them. I worked retail for a while in a different state and it started to come back, because most of my black customers were misbehaved and constantly tried to pull bullshit to get free services. In my new job, I don't interact with black people at all, and I have fully overcome my latent racism.

So, in short, I don't believe that black people are inferior. I think what we have is a generation of black people without a good, early family environment which has caused them to be violent, immoral misfits. And, in my case at least, being exposed to that type of behavior proved to be worse for my perspective of their race.

>mallado
Kek

>488

Seeing niggers chimp out and fight everyday then having librals telling me its my fault they act like that red pilled me
>they are chimps

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God, fucking this. Niggers have absolutely no critical thinking. I remember once in the lunch line some nigger smacked his nigger friend on the back of his head and then ran away, and I was behind the guy. The chimp thought that I did it and was trying to fight me in the lunch line. I tried to calmly explain to him "Why the fuck would a stranger smack you in the back of the head for no reason when I'm just trying to get lunch?" but the nigger had no frame of reference for how civilized people act so he wouldn't have any of it

But then his friend smacked him in the back of the head again while he was looking at me and I think he realized he was an idiot. No apology, of course. "I'm sorry" and "thank you" and "please" aren't words that exist in the nigger vocabulary

I really hope this is bait

I went to a 85% white school, with a low black population.

The blacks still lumped themselves with eachother.

We got all the upper-middleclass Surinamese who fled here after Surinam imploded.
They're fine - even if the kids try to act gangster their harts aren't really in it. (and their parents would beat their asses if they weren't taking their studies seriously). It's kind of like Iranians in the US I imagine, all the educated ones fled overseas when shit went down in the 70s.

The Antillians are by and large the worst problem. Poorly educated, dependant on welfare, prone to shitflinging.

In my school, there are 4 in my year. They like me, two of them love me, they have this fascination with me being Greek and they think we're all in the mob. 3 are from Kenya and one is from South Sudan. They're nice and don't cause trouble.

A few. In middle school, one asked me how much hair I had down there. Another that sat in front of me in english typed sex in really big letters and kept turning around to look at me. Kid had a weird eye patch, too. None of the white boys were ever like that.

You went to school during the Apartheid period in South Africa?

I live in South Africa and I have throughout my life come into contact with them. First in a rural primary school where I was the only white guy and had to make friends with them, they often trick or scam you if it meant they get a short term gain, then in High School where they would sucker-punch people (always in packs) and never do a straight up man to man fight if there was a dispute and now in university where they are all stuck up assholes with massive inferiority complexes and delusions of grandeur.

Fucking this

They're allowed here but they only go to try to beat up 5th graders since the 1st to 4th learns in the morning and they can't wake up for that.

They don't actually go to school tho and the ones that do end up kicked out because of how violent they are.

Seeing my homeroom teacher call the whole herd to scold them for a few kids is one of my best childhood memories.

Something that is funny is that every ethnicity universally hates the Afghans because they're obnoxious little stupid shits.

From a small town (98% white), still had a handful of blacks that were adopted by white families and also a couple of mulattos

A few had some basketball american tendencies but nothing too extreme, just acting out stereotypes they learned from TV probably since they were otherwise really whitewashed. Although at least one of them really tried acting hood when he went to uni even though he was adopted by a fairly wealthy white family which I always thought was funny.

Wasn't the cause of me becoming racist or anything but I knew I didn't want to live around a lot of them

I went to both a predominantly White and predominantly Black schools. I'll give it to you raw:

White school:
>homo-eroticism among the boys
>more easy going
>more activities
>being smart isn't praised, but isn't mocked unless you're super introverted.
>bigger variety of cliques (smart, sporty, fashion obsessed, loners)
>the girls are worshiped as angels
>'alphas' are dicks, but were mostly sports freaks.

Black school
>having too much fun/smiling/being openly cheery as a male is seen as weak and gay
>ridiculing others in a funny way elevates your status
>smaller variety of cliques (loners, extroverts)
>women are not pedestalized as much as the 'alphas'.
>being alpha isn't being good at sports, its' being able to fight or being a rebellious extrovert.
>being smart will make you an outcast, introverted or not.

Yep. Middle Georgia and it was a formative experience. Their really are niggers and black people. There are far more niggers unfortunately. It's like they have no self control and their culture rewards bad behavior. They all want to be seen as gangsters which should tell you all you need to know. Fuck success I want to steal shit and shoot other niggers.

looks like europe got the good blacks

>Went to school in Birmingham suburbs in the 90s.

Saw my first non-white, at school, when I was about 9. He was a Sikh and we were amazed by his turban.

Went to a Church of England school after that. Literally 1 asian in my year, only a handful in the others.

Senior school; one black guy and a few Asians in my year. By the time I left there were a hell of a lot more Asians.

Sixth Form was the deciding factor for me. Gangs on Pakis everywhere, the games room and the park behind the college were no-go areas for whites. Regularly heard stories about gangs of Pakis robbing and beating people up.

Right-wing ever since.

Yes and all they did was chimp out and listen to ''gangsta'' music the entire time. If anything it has only opened my eyes to how niggers truly are.

In sophomore year they stole my sisters DSI i had to play pokemon heartgold with my friends

Isn't that funny? White kids and immigrant kids will listen to hip-hop and Beyonce crap. Most of those kids hang-out with each other.

But the black kids always stay together. They self-segregate. Even in my community college most of the Haitians stayed together. The Nigerians tended to hangout with others.

I went to a wealthy rural school with only 2 or 3 blacks. Fortunately they were adopted by hard working white families and never caused any trouble. Would be considered "uncle Toms" by nogs.

WWII was 70 years ago, mate. You can stop hating yourself.

There was 2 somalis. Everybody liked them.

My school slowly transitioned from 20% black to about 60% black by graduation. They were horrible creatures. They caused 90% of all issues. They burdened the teachers and schools resources by peaking in grade 3 and being shuttled along to high school.

The blacks would be graded on a curve in high school, especially if they played football and were consistently held to lesser standards than whites.

Grew up in a 67% African American town in Georgia.

>Was beat up for being white
>constantly had anything stolen, multiple bookbags, books, wallets
> try to fight back, get jumped by group
> teachers literally want to off themselves
> couldn't have anything nice, always got destroyed in a day
> lunchroom literally had steel gates to contain lunchroom fights
> mfw the left says they act like that because I'm a racist.

Yeah, some were pretty all right, cool guys. but most of them, 80%, only talked to the FEW black people in the school, and never interacted with anyone who was not black or a wigger. They spoke with poor English, despite being raised in a largely white community. Really formed a tribe. Kinda sad to see actually, because even when they were a SUPER minority only like 3 out of the like 25 talked to any whites.

Even at a young age, 6 to 8 years old. The blacks were often raised to hate whites.

There were certain few blacks who were quiet and just do their homework.

There ones that got along with the whites and hung out with them on the playground.

Then there were the ones that were so heavily cultured into isolation that they stayed away from anyone who was outside of their cult, they acted very hostile and hateful towards those who were not part of their group.

I went to a 1/2 black 1/2 white school. Most of the black girls were all right, just kinda stupid and not having all that firm a grasp on reality. Like thinking if they wore a bra during sex they wouldn't get pregnant. Or stuffing their panties with toilet paper to make their butt look bigger. Or interrupting class to brag about how much she masturbated to Usher, thinking this would make guys like her. Who the fuck puts those ideas in their heads, anyway?

The guys were nearly all wannabe thugs. 99% were ignorant fucks who literally wanted to grow up to be in prison gangs and honestly thought this was a cool idea.

I recently graduated from a somewhat small French Catholic high school in a English town in southern Ontario not far from Toronto. We got a lot of black kids from that came from or had heritage from French speaking regions in Africa. Every year there seemed to be more and more black kids by the time I graduated the black kids were on there way to becoming majority.

Most of the black kids were ratchet as fuck, homegrown black kids were decent people, but the other blacks were unreasonable and loud. If you had a class with some you could forget trying too learn, most teachers couldn't get control and would like those niggers do whatever they liked, to an extent.

They would downright refuse too cooperate and would talk, sign, walk around and do as they pleased as other kids were trying too learn.

Most of them didn't even come from uncivilized places in Africa, I'm not sure where, I didn't talk to them, but I'm fairly sure they weren't from shit villages, they came from civilized areas.

On the plus, i can't same the same for other schools in the area, but there wasn't much bullying or fighting amongst the students in general, and if the black kids fought, it was usually amongst themselves

no because i didnt grow up in an african country

I don't give a fuck about guilt or WW2, it's just the reality I experienced.
Mind you I am 35 now, my schooltime was a different one than the one people face today.
I never had problems with immigrants, maybe just because I knew how to handle them? I have no clue.
I remember german guys from my later classes visiting me for projects (I still lived in that immigrant-riddled shithole at least next to it) getting harrassed the moment they left the tram.
Nobody tried that with me back then and this is not about muh alpha.

Lol i know what school it is.

>There was 2 somalis. Everybody liked them.
Wrong, I hate them both.

Says the faggot living in an ethnostate

We almost do not have blacks here in Moscow, so no
Also there were no non-whites in my groups

I eventually went to a private school where there was only one black kid.

His parents were wealthy and every once in a while he would try to act like a thug, but it was hilarious because he was far from it.

I called him snowflake several times.

I went to school with one black guy, who was actually an east asian pretending to be black.

Post feet

They'd ask for money all the time or have something to sell.

There were mostly whites in my school, and the few chinese blacks and poos there were extrememly whitewashed to the point that race wasnt an issue. Real revelation came when i was in uni and there were 30,000 arabs everywhere that didnt speak english, were totally ignorant, used to march in military uniforms with isis masks before anyone even knew what isis was. Were violent and used to be tons of unsolved stabbings at my ni which would be too racist to blame on the perpetrators, the muslims. ALso hundreds of rapes probably causes by muslims and never investigated because it would be too racist. Still got the evil white man warnings from profs and TAs during one of the rape "outbreaks". York University Toronto

Over half my class was black at a point,
I feel it made me more racist, for all the bullies were black, and they did their weird black people things (stealing, groping, dancing, fighting, etc.)
However, I also learned that there are some exceptions to the stereotypical nigger, probably a genetic 'defect'
So I had a black friend, he was basically white was it not for his ethnicity.

My school was half white, half non white. The Asian kids were good , pretty funny and some of my close friends. For the few years I spent there I met only one black kid who was decent, really quiet and nice. All the other niggers were loud, disruptive, overconfident yet stupid, and generally attention seeking. Pretty much all of them would accuse anyone of being racist if they dared ask you to be quiet. One of them even read out a poem during class about how the reason black girls are so loud is because they were silenced for so long. This was a pretty good school by my area's standards, so at least there wasn't any real violence.

Small town in mass. Had a black, but he wore sweater vests and acted whiter than probably half the school

>It's only people who live in super white places like Vermont believe that everyone is the same and diversity is good BS

I used to live in Burlington, VT a few years back which is essentially the Portland of New England. The sentiments you presented are 100% true. What's funny, however, is that it is actually a pretty segregated city. The north end is pretty much where all the blacks and other ethnic (dark) minorities live and to no one's surprise it's a mostly crime ridden shithole. In Vermont.

Of course all the rich, white progressives and trust fund students at UVM who live just a few blocks away (small city we're talking about here) completely ignore this and pretend like it's not an issue. They love their little pets so long as they keep their distance. So glad I don't live in that city or that toxic progressive state of mind anymore.

The black kids I was with were very loud and tried their best to impress the ladies with their strong attitude. But honestly, that's just a group mentality really. When you speak to them alone, they're pretty chill once they get off the, "I think thinking is pointless, let me act different" train. It's all just a competition to impress.

Black people are usually alright 1 on 1, but as soon as they get around their "squad" they become the actual scum of the earth.

I lived in a majority black area for years, as a child, I didn't hate them, but it was incredibly obvious they were generally more violent and less intelligent than white people.
As an adult I didn't come around to actually hating them until I worked around them for 3 years (My customers and coworkers were almost all black and hated me for being much younger, but chadley and with better pay than everyone but the managers). That job made me realize that blacks are simply the lowest of all species.. They fist fight over absolutely retarded benign occurrences, generally care nothing for their own health, believe stealing is their right as oppressed people, and have a lack of intellect and self-awareness that is nothing short of utterly depressing.

I cant say I hate them now, that would be like hating all wild bears for the mauling of an innocent person. They're simply not human beings and shouldn't be treated as such.

Grew up with a handful of blacks at my Montreal school, not much problems, niggs being niggs, but not enough to hate them. Mostly white, "muh diversity" didn't exist, all minorities act white minus the niggs and pakis.

Middle school, nigg culture is over abundant, I'd almost call it nigger worship.
Niggs in high school were cool by default, as long as they were black (toms and all), like a caste system. A lot of "blacks" came from single moms, mfw.
They and all who dressed like niggs commit all the trouble, but I was no where near them so I stayed blue pilled.
If it dresses like a nigger; it's still a nigger (whites, asians, pakis etc dressed like niggers)

Moved to all white catholic highschool in Ontario, the only problems were the smoker section; most in that group were satanists (actual devil worshipers). The 2 niggers; 1 light skinned satanist, 1 actual dark skinned nigger were huge trouble.
White trash filled the nigger void with their niggerisms, most were the smokers.


I'm ashamed to admit this, but I wasn't red pilled until Colin Flahrety's videos.

I went to elite institutions with a low tolerance for niggery so the blacks I experienced were civilized. They of course insisted on using blackspeak and dressing in "hood" fashion so far as the dress code permitted them though. Fucking niggers.

I had two black teachers, they were both pretty cool and competent in their shit. Worst teachers i ever had was the musicians, didn't matter what race they were, all of them shared short temper no matter what

Back in high school, you had the spics and the niggers fighting almost all the time outside of school. but they kept to themselves since 99% of school was white anyway.

When i went to college, there was a few more immigrants, but it's was still white majority. You never heard of fighting because people were chill as fuck, the worst shit that happened was sand nigger chimping and throwing shit over their FIFA game in the vidya club, they had to make a ban list just for that game.

It's a weird culture they have.

oh yeah i almost forgot about the sand niggers chimping at the internet cafe lol. I saw a guy get stabbed over some playstation dispute

I lived out in the country, but there was still some nigs from a nearby city. Since there was a lot of rednecks, a race war was constantly simmering but never quite boiled over.

I just remember them being really stupid, white kids in class would give articulated, intelligent responses to teachers questions, nigs would give a ridiculous, overly enthusiastic answers, almost like a child.

I went to school in a small city outside Dallas. It was more of a class thing than anything else, Mexicans, Blacks and whites kept to themselves and that's how things were. I was kind of a social outcast because my parents had put me on SSRI medicine, which really fucked up my childhood, the only people who really "accepted me" were a group of Mexicans and Phillipinos. I only made friends with 2 white kids when I was in school.

The issue we had wasn't with the immigrant or black students. It was the teachers who would not enforce the rules with them.

So we enforced the rules. When that didn't work, we stopped obeying the rules. As I left high school after years of this, I found out it finally got resolved.

I didn't go to school with them, but I worked retail (Fagbucks) for a while. The days with all or mostly white crews were usually good. We all shared a common goal to provide prompt, pleasant service.
It wasn't that I disliked the blacks on an individual level--a lot of them were easy-going, even funny--but days where it was five blacks and me were hell. They were all very lackadaisical and took their sweet time with everything. It'd basically be me running around like a chicken without its head, trying to help customers get through within a reasonable amount of time. Black supervisors were the worst; the job was clearly above their heads. It's not like you need to be a genius to be a supervisor at Fagbucks, but you have to have SOME problem-solving skills to get through peak efficiently, and these people completely lacked them.

I went to a small christian private school, all of our blacks, what few we had, either played basketball and were the dumbest people to ever walk the earth, or they were Benji and got a pass on everything they did, no homework today? Homework is turned into extra credit. He could do no wrong. They gave him perfect scores in every class.

I was in AP physics and Calc, and other students would actually do the homework, some sets were monstrous 70 problems long for each class. I tried but I only got like a 50 on some of them. then a chick had to drop out of the classes. Benji repeatedly did not have homework, got 30's on tests with the rest of us, but this one guy was actually getting A's and B's without a curve so the teacher got picky as hell and marked him down for everything. Didn't complete 1 in 70 problems? that's a 50% for being incomplete. How could he and I have the same grade when I barely tried? I would fill some out then just stop caring. Benji even defended him a few times. We had this project and it was insane, while everyone else had an easy topic, like a ball rolling down an inclined plane (Benji's topic he was given) the smart kid had 3D trajectory with air resistance and slopped ground. It was more complicated than everyone else's project combined and he fucking did it.

Beneji didn't have half his work for the project done, still gets an A. The smart kid does everything on dramatically more complex problems, gets a C because some example word problems he came up with included trajectory of bullets and that's violence.

Everyone kind of protested including Benji and we got the grade changed, but it was bullshit and everyone but Benji realized it.

When AP tests and SAT's came by he didn't get over a 3 on any AP test despite being given overrides to be in more AP courses than anyone else. AP classes are a 5.0 GPA which by giving him A's no matter what, made him the Validictorian.

I did in junior high, and didn't have any problems tbqh. But then I hardly had any in class with me. The Mexican girls were the vicious ones, they would throw down all the time fighting over their men.