See a topic saying, "Dude, just be confident to get girls!!"

>see a topic saying, "Dude, just be confident to get girls!!"
>tfw 26 and never had any female attention ever
>tfw missed out on teenage relationships
>tfw went through hellish years of university without any social life at all
>tfw never had any social life or acquaintances since 18
>tfw lift weights but will always be ugly
>tfw resentment is too cyclical to motivate me
>tfw never been to a party or pub or club
>tfw you need friends to make friends / get a gf and after that all you do is jockey for status and act as entertainment for women
>tinder / internet has confirmed that women only care about top tier Chads and have extremely easy lives
>too middle class and quiet for slags, too ugly and nerdy and quiet for middle class girls, don't fit in anywhere

So what do I do, apart from losing all hope and empathy for other people? It seems like society is a major scam. Picrelated, the thought of going to any social event is a joke by now. The only thing people talk about is social subjects.

>So what do I do, apart from losing all hope and empathy for other people?

You go to /r9k/

Just every time you go outside, fight a paki

haircut/ clothing/ get rich

go away holy hell.
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You need to accept the fact that you are the reason you are this unenjoyable person to be around, then try to change the parts that suck, slowly.

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>post the same shit everyday
>expect a different result
youre too far off the deep end now my man, just wallow in NEETdom and enjoy it

Kill yourself. Literally there's no hope for you.

work on your social life first and you will get plenty of opportunities with the ladies.

I'd say it's 90% society's fault, aka other people. Work on your 10% of things and try and change the other 90%.

And I thought I was pathetic! Golly gee, thanks for making me feel better, user!

Get in here manlets, and let's discuss how to save your race.

>you need friends to make friends / get a gf

I'm 34, I was around before all the internet dating shit really took off. And you're right, social networking is huge. I can't count the number of friends I made or girls I hooked up with by meeting them through a friend.

Just be upbeat and positive, don't be a downer, don't be the guy that always has something negative to say or else no one will want to be around you. Be positive, be funny or friendly, and all you need to do is make one good socially competent friend and they can open doors for you. Invite you to parties, take you out for activities, whatever. Just always say YES when you're invited to do something. Don't make excuses.

As far as having to jockey for status or entertain women or whatever, it just depends. There are plenty of introverted women out there who are just as content to sit at home cuddling on the couch watching Netflix with you as there are women who want to go out and party every night. Just find one who's compatible, it's not hard to figure out which way they lean. If she's too into the social scene then detach yourself from her immediately and continue the hunt for a better one.

As for claiming you're ugly - I've found throughout life that we're our own worst critics. We tend to exaggerate our failures and shortcomings more than anyone else would. Maybe you aren't great looking, but you're probably at least slightly better looking than you believe you are. Plus some girls just have really weird kinks or they'll overlook a lot of shit if you have one singular thing they're into. Doesn't matter if you have big ears, crooked teeth, too much body hair, short, a bit overweight, lanky, too skinny, whatever, there'll be girls that either don't mind certain things, or like you more for them for whatever reason. Just try not to be super overweight, that's like the one that brings the most grief from what I've observed, but even that can be fixed through time and hardwork.

Lel

'Teenage love' and clubbing is fun for like a month, then it turns to shit pretty fast.

Make sure you land a high paying job, get a nice car and House, then find girl and make kids

You're 26, men kan make babies until 45 or some shit

Stop moaning like a bitch

just lift and bee yourself

Are you me?

Buy yourself some nice computer/TV screen, movies, food, & good videogames - perhaps a fleshlight or a doll too.

Honestly I'm 20 & I know I'll live the rest of my life this way...

do what you like, you never had that much free time if you don't bother with socials and their rituals.

if you want sex, pay for escorts. they don't care if you are a beta or alpha as long as you pay.

if you want relationships, you seem not to understand that those distractions will not fill the void at all, what so ever. nor does the magical vagina relationship with a bunch of kids do that.

remember love is just a chemical flashbang so you reproduce blindly with what ever your genetics deemed good enough.

Just b urself lol

>Just be upbeat and positive, don't be a downer, don't be the guy that always has something negative to say or else no one will want to be around you. Be positive, be funny or friendly,

Hard to do when you're depression+anxiety+poor+alone

You should really get off Sup Forums. The mind can really fuck itself up you know. Its garbage in, garbage out.

Being confident isnt just a switch you can flip one night, you have to work at it. If you tgink making money would make you confident, go out and make some money. Will being well dressed make you confident, work on that. Have poor social skills? Go make male friends at a hobby or work. Identify the things that make you feel insecure and work to fix those.

But this place is a hateful echo chamber and its doing you no good.

>muh dick
>muh dick
>muh dick
>muh dick
>muh dick :(
kys

I personally see Sup Forums as either a chance to have a nice un-censored discussion when it occurs or raw entertainement.

Tbh I used to be so confident & good-looking, not so since I began warping into depression

You're quiet and nerdy because you lack the intiatory experience.

stop browsing Sup Forums (most important step)

dress better, fix your hair, fix your skin, fix your weight (/fa/ is not actually bad for this)

develop a personality that isn't an insufferable hikkikomori autist that blames blacks and jews for all of their failures (may be difficult for some)

fix self-esteem issues (easier once prior steps are completed)

Good to hear you're in shape. Join a sports club with classes though, it's a great way to meet new people and get into their social circle (considering you're alone). I suggest muay thai or BJJ.

Just enroll in all kinds of classes and events in order to meet new people. Take language courses or go along with a travel group (lots of people are alone there so you will make friends)

will be 27 soon and I am pretty much like you! every fucking aspect!

>good things come for those who wait
>you are quite a catch user, you will break a lot of hearts
>why don't you have a gf user
>when will we see you with a girl user

What I do now apart from my fuck the world let it burn mentality is striving to better myself and try to depend less on family, less on gov...

True but it's circular, if you let the fact that you have depression+anxiety+poor+alone turn you into a mean, unfriendly, or unlikable person, it will keep you trapped forever.

At some point you have to take ownership of the problem, and you have to fight to overcome it. I'm not saying you can mentally "defeat" your depression through sheer force of will, but you can definitely battle against it and do what's logically beneficial for yourself.

Feeling depressed and just want to sit in bed for 16 hours? Fuck that, force yourself to get up and take a shower and go outside in the sun, even if just for 30 minutes. You'll still feel depressed yes, but at least you might also feel you had one small victory that day.

Or if someone asks you if you want to do something, don't just instantly say NO because you feel depressed. Try saying YES and see how the experience goes. Maybe sometime throughout that experience you feel a glimmer of happiness, or you laugh at something funny, or you have one single moment of joy.

Over time, forcing yourself to go outside your comfort zone, you might be able to "fix" your life. You might meet a good friend, or a girl, or find a new hobby, or realize that certain activities are way more enjoyable than you had ever imagined they would be. You can't figure out life unless you actually go out and live life.

>Too much body hair
As an Italian-American, I can say with the utmost confidence that too much body hair has been everything but a turn off. I used to be self conscious as shit about my chest hair, then I realized chicks dig that shit. The only thing I'll do is trim up the pubes a bit before I know I'll be bangin' somebody, and then when it grows back they admit they don't mind it.

t. Hairy master race

Sure, same here

But how long do you spend on here every day?

If you need friends to make friends then you are either completely average or a loser

God tier social skills is when you transition from NEET basement virgin to unapologetic Chad by going to the club every day of the week and practicing social skills.

People will treat you like theyre your friend immediately if you act like you are.

The reason you get treated like shit is because you feel like shit. People treat you how you feel. Work on changing your thoughts and emotions, at the same time as getting used to opening conversations with people to desensitise yourself to it until you can carry positive emotions into that activity.

Sad part is you have to go through hundreds of mega autistimo moments before you get good

>tfw passionate sex 5 times a week
>tfw sunday is for movies and cuddling
>tfw she's cute, submissive and hates going out

Actually, men can make babies for as long as their health and genetics allow them to.
I wouldn't be too sure about it being a very healthy baby, though.

Keep focusing on you goals and stop whining like a little bitch.

good advice

2 birds stoned at once
I like the cut o ur jib sir

>>tfw 26 and never had any female attention ever
>tfw never been to a party or pub or club


>blames women

I dunno, maybe 1 hour per day, up to 4 sometimes?
Just when I'm bored from roleplaying forums or watching pirate shows really.

I just don't have the will anymore. I can't see a fix happenning anytime soon. I feel bland every time I try, & even when I'm supposed to enjoy myself with family & all I get down when I remind myself of all the nasty shit that is yet to come in my life.

In fact when I see how much of a nice, muscular, confident dude I used to be I lose hope completely because I compare that to the mess I've become.

>26
>he still thinks women seek beautiful men

lel, you're dangerously behind in growing up

This.

Take my advice, I'll sort ye out:

Find somewhere online where you can talk to girls as 'pen pal' type things rather than using the likes of POF and Tinder where being a Chad is clearly important

Get used to flirting with a small number of girls over periods of weeks

Get back to me after you've finished this

If it helps OP your story is EXACTLY like mine, except im 28.

i think our parents fucked us over desu even though i love them

Also OP i just want to add, most people will like you until you give them a reason not to. Humans are generally pretty generous and sympathetic so long as they have no reason to be defensive.

Just look at all the people here trying to help you out with advice.

you don't come here for advice, Sup Forums is already infested with way too many normgroids so you won't get any proper answers from them. Take this shit to wizchan, they will show you the truth and the community is way better r9gay

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stop.fapping.

>26
It's fucking nothing, just fix everything about yourself, get a great job with lots of money, buy a house and then start dating when you're 30-35.

Example of one of these websites, need to know. For science.

t. projector

>internet has confirmed
lyl

They do in the west, I heard eastern europe is the complete opposite. Also all the advice ITT fucking sucks.

catfish slags on Tinder

Yeah just make lots of money, working your ass off, so at 30 you can get the left over women that are looking for a human ATM machine that will walk all over you. What kind of shit advice is this denmark?

Well that sucks dude, but just try to realize that you've still got a long life ahead and the quality of that life is up to you.

If you were once muscular and confident and you've deteriorated into something you view as much worse, why not make it your goal to get back to your old status? If you used to lift (or whatever you did for exercise), then you must remember how, go back to the gym and try to rebuild your old body and go from there. Once you have your old body back, even if it takes 1-3 years, your confidence might return as well, and maybe women will start complimenting you more often, which will lead to other positive things. Don't give up.

The exact same thread is on /fit/

fucking crooked-teethed island-nigger

Correct advice.

Holy fuck you're even gayer than OP

Are you an Ahmed?

Join a club for hobby shit to get into contact with other people.

If you cant do it with females because you have never done it and now you are in an age were its abnormal to have never done it, just "train" with prostiutes. After that you dont have fear anymore.

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Dunno nowadays man. I used to use Skype when you could talk to random strangers. And IRC and MSN. The important point is that it has to be a service where people expect to talk to new people as 'friends/penpals' and not just for sex....so not Facebook etc. All I can say is that I got very good at flirting in real life from talking to girls on those things.

A ripped body hard;y even adds a point to your attractiveness scale, I learned this the hard way. Women only care about how handsome your face is and how tall you are. All that time I wasted working out and dieting, now I'm just an average looking guy with abs. Awesome.

Nigrow please - just make as much money as possible. B!tches be knocking down the door eventually. If you want to be a player then go out and fair - it is actually quite fun to make a complete ass of yourself over women. Everyone expects it.

It's easier to say than to do. I've thought about it numerous times, but there's a sort of weight falling on my shoulders. The weight of responsibilities, of being weak, of having no aim in existence, in taking no enjoyment in my real-world life.

If you are short, go into acting. You are f'd as to women they just want tall guys.

Oh canada, setting up some poor NEET to fail.

Start by being socially adept
After that, get rich
Good looks are important too
Everything else will fall into place

>the first letters of each line

I'm not even short (5'11), I'm just not tall. If I go out to a bar or club all the guys that are getting any attention are 6'1+.

Only increases the likelyhood of getting gold diggers. I would rather stay solo desu. They will fuck you over some day.

top fucking kek

I'm a big fan of interpals
language barrier can help ease you into social interaction if you're a real neet, it's like playing on easy mode

I'm 18 and still a virgin. I should kms.

no they don't, it just happens that eastern europe is poorer and being poor usually helps build up confidence.

women only seek approval and will literally take whatever they're offered as long as they love what's being presented as a story.

and your looks literally don't matter, unless you're physically defective. all that matters is your spirit, which will always manifest on your body, no matter how hard you try to hide it.

get some life experience and it will build up eventually, it can be something as simple as putting together an ikea piece of furniture.

by being a basement dwelling scared and paranoid little shit, you will only put yourself deeper into the fairy tale that you created by yourself in your head, as a defensive mechanism.

you know, you're a whiny little shit. as long as it's not your fault, nothing matters, right?

t.freud

"Just become a millionaire bro!"

Exactly right OP. You get it.

If you always do what you've always done you'll always get what you've always gotten. Remember this, user.

27 here.

Get on my level.

You could not be more wrong. I am not a basement dweller, I am 26 years old and have a real job. I go out with co workers, I've been to bars, I've been to clubs, I've been all through high school and college noting what types of guys get the girls. Its the same everywhere, if you're not tall and good looking (facially), you are fucked.

My entire family was able to achieve love and success but I can't. My family is pretty alpha and I'm just some autistic shut in.

25 here. Than I just said "fuck that" and took a prostitute. Weeks later I got seduced by my (not blood related) 8 year older aunt milf.

Get rich. Once you get rich, get a vasectomy because the whores will be trying to steal your seed for that monthly check. Realize that everything a woman does is so that she can find a a mate. See thing for men. We go to the gym, we buy certain brands, we eat certain foods all in the hopes of finding "love". Love is the bullshit chemical that your body feeds your brain when it wants to reproduce. The closest you're gonna get to love is protecting your children, but judging by the way these women are acting lately that is a pretty expensive risk considering if it goes sour society will deem the man responsible. So get rich, get a vasectomy, but don't tell a fucking soul that you can't have kids, and watch the whores come running. They'll eat each other to get to your seed. 25-33 will be the easiest to get because they can hear their fertile clock ticking, but every once in a while you'll get an 18 to 24 year old gold digger, and boy are they duuuuuuumb. Have fun.

Greentext

Or you know just go for younger women.

It doesn't have to be both. I have a solid face but average height (5'10") and have no problem getting girls, conversely my friend is 6'4" but definitely looks like a dork and surprisingly he has no problem getting chicks either. We're also friendly and not NEETs though so I'm sure that helps.

Women are more trouble than they're worth.
Jack off.
Save money.
Live alone.
Do what you want to do without some money grubbing slay trying to take everything you own. Women are leeches who want to be taken care of.

Yeah

Young women are not looking to settle down, they're looking for fun. A 30 year old with some money is not "fun". He's a good option when shes 28

5'10 isn't bad if you're facially really good looking

stop whining, little bitch. you can get to a hundred more clubs and you won't get shit. you know why? because you don't fucking belong in the club. the people can sense your discomfort and you not fitting there.

you let tv and peer pressure make you think that you only have sex and love by being a retarded chad going to clubs. there's tons of cute women all by themselves just in your fucking street, every single day.

you will never successfully imitate those chads, you will never fit in there. stop forcing yourself to live someone else's life ... that's what the 'just be yourself' is all about, you retarded nigger.

i bet you're also afraid to show off your intellect or start interesting debates with those 'friends' of yours that you go clubbing with.

stop deluding yourself, start living your own life and having your own strong stances, stop being afraid of people around you. if you don't get it by nature, you're gonna have to learn it the hard way, dummy. whining on pol doesnt help

storytime

How ugly are you?

Join a club or class of some sort. Nothing serious maybe something creative or hip u normally wouldn't consider. Great spot to meet decent women in a non threatening environment for them. Also consider ditching tinder you will find nothing but shallow sluts there

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You need confidence. In everything you do. Even if its not correct. Be confident in yourself and show them that you are confident. Shit works and female specimen seem to like it.

Every woman here wants chad, like I said things are way different in the west. Anglo countries are nightmare mode for men.

>>Young women are not looking to settle down, they're looking for fun. A 30 year old with some money is not "fun"
A 30 year old man is perfectly capable of partying and having fun too though.

half your country is women, you dense fucking nigger
enjoy being a virgin

Well
>25 year old recently not anymore virgin
>going to a biker party with friends and drinking alcohol
>talking to my aunt , she mentions at some point "you think, we are flirting". i was like wtf, erm no I guess
>sleep over at her house weeks after, didnt think about it anymore
>she crawls into my bed in the morning, starting to seduce
>fuck the shit out of her since she is a hot latina milf
>my uncle finds out at some point
>he didnt kill me but he hates me (understandable)
>eternal guilt and scarred for life although she was hot

Dont make a pact with the devil.

The problem is the biological clock.

End 20´s beginning 30´s it starts to get into settle down and get kids mode.

You cannot win against the biological clock jew.

It could be 75% women, it doesn't matter if they all want 1 type of guy. Also, women live a lot longer so if you actually break down the percentages for young people 18 - 30, there are actually a few more men than women.

drink heavily
>gives you confidence
>makes you content with doing nothing
>triggers certain brown retards of a religious persuasion
>puts in touch with your roots as a white man
>accelerates your passage out of this horrible world of shit
literally find a flaw