I want to fuck girls all of the time, but I don't have it in me to be a scumbag player

I want to fuck girls all of the time, but I don't have it in me to be a scumbag player

What do I do bros?

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Rape and call yourself Muslim

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become and trap

realize that you are a beta-male and stop giving a shit about women. simple as that, either you have it or you donĀ“t.

>>>/b

Fuck off

Find one girl who wants to fuck you all the time. And then fuck all the time.

>caring about women

I can get women no problem, but I can't take breaking a girls' heart.

I broke three girls' hearts in like a month which defeated me

First start valuing yourself more than a pussy.

It will come natural.

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Just be straight forward and honest with them. Works for me all the time. Being formal is also another good thing to do

gb2/r9k/, for starters.

You are immature or a nigger.

We all want to fuck girls ALL the time. Only through self control and focus on the important you can differentiate yourself from the nigger.

>beat that pussy
>get 500 years

Men are 10x sluttier than women lol

I can almost guarantee I did more fucked up shit than my ex, in the time we've broken up

I mean nice as in funny (preferably witty, chicks dig when you come up with shit on the spot), decently intelligent (really just not stupid), fairly confident, and not a total autistic dweeb. That's really all it takes to shack up with an average girl. The ones that go for the scumbag players are usually the 9/10 and 10/10 early to mid-twenty somethings who degrade into hags by thirty.

Says the Spaniard

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looksmaxx
behaviour isn't as important to getting laid as you think, if the guy on the left in pic related acted like a "scumbag player" and the guy on the right acted like a "nice guy" who do you honestly think would get more pussy?

Well obviously you should buy a Suzuki.

I can get girls no problem.

My problem is I can't handle them feeling sad after I dump them, after I bang em

Off yourself

>I want to fuck girls all of the time, but I don't have it in me to be a scumbag player
White knight faggot

you need to abstain from sex for a while and you will have it in you. Every man has it in him he just needs to wait for his libido to recharge. Go no fap and watch your life turn around.

for me is the exact opposite
she fell in love with me like you see in movies and after 6 days she's cold af and keep crying about how she cant see a long relationship with me
i'm rich, handsome,all i want is her to be happy and nothing more,i would never beat a woman
the past week i just cry myself to sleep thinking what i'm doing wrong
im scared i will never found a girl like her or fall in love ever again,she was the sweetest girl i ever knew

This isn't politics, is it? Cunt

You give her the key to your shed on the first date again didn't you? How many copies did you make?

So what you're basically asking is how do I be a scumbag player?

you need a balance in life. yeah improve yourself as a person, do what you think is best. I'm tired of sitting around waiting for men, honestly. I receive 20 men a day wanting to be my wife, and not a husband. Real men have emotions, aren't dough boys. Finding a real hard man these days is like a needle in haystack.

I've loved the same dude for 2 decades, we went to college and now he's soley career driven and wants to BP life. I'm a down right cool chick, offered to buy him a vacation in Germany, and whatnot, and he wants to be a Jew, all scared. Well, fuck you, I'll find my own way and fuck a real man. Either force me or fuck off.

i just want her to be happy and have everything she wishes

thats not real right?

I just rationalize it hard as fuck. Case in point, yesterday I split from this girl I'd been with for a year. She never knew about all the other women I'd slept with in the time she'd been together, and she really, deeply loved me while I didn't really give much of a fuck about her (I was with her that long because the sex was fucking wild). When I broke up with her, she was crying her eyes out. I've had about ten missed calls in the last couple of hours alone, all of which I'm just ignoring. Do I feel bad about it? Not particularly, way I see it is that she's probably better off without me anyway. So that's my tip to you, be a massive arse and treat people like shit, then you won't feel bad when you break things off because it's almost like you're doing them a favour.

Remember the 1980s and 1990s when that symbol was fucking everywhere?

If you're breaking girls' hearts then you're doing it wrong.
>set up a flirtatious friendship
>string her a long for a while slowly escalating from flirting to sex
>fwb
>continue until you both get bored or she gets pissed at you for stringing her along for so long that she lost feelings for you.
>????
>Profit

>Marrying a woman your own age

Heh

If you're a good man, find yourself a good woman.
If you're not a good man, make yourself one.

Get married. This has been the solution for centuries.

>Get married. This has been the solution for centuries.
Marriage is a terrible deal in which you get no power but all of the responsibility and the wife gets all of the power but none of the responsibility.

That thing lasted into the mid 2000's
t.1999

Women these days are shit. There's nothing wrong with girls growing up with a princess complex but when they hit adulthood and their friends convince them to get a dating profile, their ego goes through the roof. I've tried talking to girls open and honestly but it just doesn't work anymore. Women have changed and dating apps are to blame.

run

You have a conscience, it's kind of like ball hair, everybody gets it eventually but some get it earlier than others.

And i can introduce you to a whole slew of women who can outdo every story you have.

A man will lie about how many women he's fucked, to make himself look more impressive.

A woman will lie about how many men she's fucked, but make it a smaller number, so that time she ran a train on the altar of a church with 20 strange men doesn't count.

I'd say 3 out of 10 women I know have taken money specifically for sex, and have no issues with it at all. One woman I know, who is your typical librarian type in public, told me after I fucked her that she was an escort in her 20's, because the car her parents bought her wasn't nice enough. She was upper management in a company for her job. I know a woman who fucked two professors in college for grades. I know a fetish escort, who daylights as an admin for a temp agency.

Men lie to make themselves more impressive.

Women lie to hide their past.

So go on and tell us how slutty you think you were.

Everyone ITT treating women like shit has mummy issued.

For sex? BWAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Every married dude I know has said that the sex tapers off immediately after the wedding. Faster if there's kids. Then they get to experience that wonderful world of "birthday sex". where the only time they get laid is on their birthday.

You're a fucking moron.

Find Jesus.

The guy on the left is why RealDolls and Fleshlights exist. God damn.

>but I don't have it in me to be a scumbag player
you can be everything you want

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Have fun in orbit. I guess.

just be a nice guy :)

Grow a sack, you sniveling faggot. Dump her and find one who isn't a basketcase emotionally. Changing like that in 6 days isn't healthy, dummy.

Start by asking yourself why you attract emotionally broken women.

>convert to islam
>tanning your skin to be "darkish white"
>go to sweden

There you go OP. Enjoy

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His only flaws is the haircut and teeth. He'd look great if those were fixed.

I didn't think I had it in me to be a scumbag either, until recently. I've never even thought about cheating on a girlfriend previous to this.

>been hanging out with a cool girl since November, neither of us banging anyone else, stay over her house ~3 nights a week
>shes 8/10, hottest girl i've banged
>she has a hotter roommate, legit 9/10, also smart
>bang her roommate a month ago after hanging out with her and drinking
>someone spreading rumor we're banging, no proof
>rumor has stuck, everyone believes(knows) its true besides the girl i've been "dating" because she trusts me
>been consistently lying about it for a month now, the evidence is piling up, when the first girl drinks she starts putting the pieces together so I just ignore her until she sobers up and forgets

I like the roommate better but I've been hanging out with the first girl for too long. I'm sticking to this lie like a Clinton, either I lie long enough that it becomes the truth, or I go down with the ship.

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Why do you have to be a "scumbag player" to have sex? Are you that naive, you believe that?

Here's the truth, kid: women like sex, too. And most of them very often just want to get laid, with no strings attached. Why do you think Tinder blew up the way it did? And it's nothing new, Craigslist was my Tinder back when it wasn't well known, i got laid endlessly from casucal connections. I wasn't a "scumbag player", I was just honest - "Hey, wanna want to get laid and have fun, anyone up for it?" - and I'd always get a bunch of responses. We'd hook up, fuck, watch tv, fuck more, she'd leave. If it was good, I'd get an email later on asking if I wanted company. Nobody got hurt, nobody's heart was broken, and nobody was being a "scumbag player".

People get laid every fucking day without being a "player". In college, when I was hanging around hollywood, on craigslist, people were fucking because they were bored. The dorms was a fucking orgy.

Why you have to complicate something so simple, with this "player" bullshit - oh, I know why, because you don't have a fucking clue how the world works, probably because you're hiding in your room all the time. The reality is, you put 20-30 year old men and women together in any context, sex WILL happen. Unless it's YOU, you'll be sitting in the corner afraid to approach or seduce or be seduced, crying about how "unfair" it is, right?

Just buy a fleshlight and shut the fuck up. You'll never fuck girls all the time, because you're fucking afraid of them. All of you idiots who babble about "betas" and "players" are just scared little boys who are afraid a woman will laugh at their little dick, or say no. Wallow in your virginity, dude. If you have to ask here, it's never going to happen.

Fucking degenerates ITT

If you can't even control your dick, you deserve nothing.

Work that shit into a threesome, be a hero.

Get yourself fucked by dudes

Do you think that would please Kek?

Spot the dicklet virgin

So what am I supposed to say after I fuck them, then?

I've broken three hearts in a month, because I've pumped and dumped.

I want to fuck girls and not hurt their feelings when I leave after

Funny, I'm exactly the same. Except three years.

Going through a breakup now. Sure is hard as hell though.

Despite being scum I don't think I am scum so it makes it tough

I don't understand flirting because of the assburgers. I can talk to women and even make them laugh and get them to talk to me for a long time but I can not escalate it sexually at all.

This weekend I met a French girl at a party, cute as fuck, talked to her a half hour, I speak like 5 words of French and we got into the election among other things. Make her laugh a lot, she tells me she likes my hair. Wanted to bang her, had no clue what to say or do, so just said "goodbye" and didn't get any action.

Last weekend, meet a girl outside at a party, smoke a cig with her. Make her laugh, she introduces me to her girlfriends by name even though I literally just met her. Then she starts dancing next to me and looking at me, almost grinding her ass on me but not quite, not sure if I'm supposed to grab her or not, so I didn't do anything and she went somewhere else and I didn't even get a number.

I am fucking sick of this. How do I stop being a pussy and just go for it? What do I do?

Fuck 1 woman all day everyday

Is 7 inches considered dicklet? I think it's at least average. I know my gf likes it.

Imagggggiiinnaaatttiiiooonnnnn

>No seriously, settle down have kids.

>get with girl
>like her a lot, probably even love her
>she is super in love with me and obsessed with me
>i can't help thinking about the things i could do if i weren't with her
>eventually this becomes apparent to her and she splits from me
>i realise how stupid it was to let this happen and spend months trying to win her back
>she's not interested any more
>says we may get back together in future but she can't do it right now
>we barely talk or anything right now
>i don't know what the fuck to do any more
>if i keep talking to her she gets annoyed, if i don't talk to her she forgets me

Literally the shittest thing I've experienced in my life. Lost my best chance at lifelong love because I didn't realise what I had. Small chance we may work it out in future but probably not gonna happen. Life just feels hollow these days.

Learbn to dance buddy, HArness the vibration. Learn to move your body. I did this and feel unstoppable now. Or you can get rich and have job and be boring and she will liek your expensive toys. I have a white gf and im non white so yeah. Learn to dance. Get a mirror. Put it in your room.

Be honest. Start with, "I like you." Converse with her. Ask for her number. Be sure to marry her before initiating sexual contact, and then only touch her for the sake of procreation within the boundaries of holy matrimony. Touch her cheek before you kiss her if you're unsure: if she doesn't flich, she wants to be kissed.

>1999
I was going to say underage. But then I remembered it's 2017. God damn, I feel old.

>tfw too short (5'10) to be a chad
>all I want to do is smash pussy

I am literally turning down hott girls down who approach me on the dance floor because my gf is there. Learn hip control.

Dancing is healing my brothers.

youtube.com/watch?v=6WiPUBFWeis

Have you considered, i don't know, getting married? Like our lord and savior intended.

No smash for you, manlet

give seekingarrangement a try

>Why do you have to be a "scumbag player" to have sex? Are you that naive, you believe that?
Sex is a numbers game most of all the only difference is being a scumbag gets you more of it and a higher probability of getting it vs not being one.
>. Why do you think Tinder blew up the way it did?
Because it is easier then using a bar and gives a far more and diverse selection of both cock and cunt.
> And it's nothing new, Craigslist was my Tinder back when it wasn't well known, i got laid endlessly from casucal connections. I wasn't a "scumbag player", I was just honest
If you would have suckered up to them and been the biggest gentleman you would not have gotten laid using that.

You stood your intentions therefore got what you desired making you a perceived asshole or bad boy (you happily admit you only want sex from them).

Also the numbers factor helped you get laid women on craiglist or tinder look for sex while you don't know what the fuck is on in the mind of a bar chick.
> All of you idiots who babble about "betas" and "players" are just scared little boys who are afraid a woman will laugh at their little dick, or say no. Wallow in your virginity, dude. If you have to ask here, it's never going to happen.
That is implying that is not my fetish. If women start laughing at my cock i get hard and in fact i enjoy being naked around or in front of women.

It is what turns me on.

Sack up, nigger. Birds will come and go throughout your life. If she left you because of some thoughts you were having, she probably didn't love you as much as you think she did anyway. Just live for yourself, do what you want to do, work towards your dreams and fuck a string of other women along the way, then eventually you'll find somebody you actually want to stay with. Don't go out looking for somebody because you're wasting your time and birds won't find that shit attractive.

I've had the blessing/curse of never really being able to give much of a shit about anyone. In some ways, it's shit because part of me feels like I'm missing out on something more, and sex that doesn't mean anything gets kind of boring after a while. In other ways it's great because I can fuck people over 24/7 and not really care about it afterwards. Guess that's why I'm a lawyer though.

How the fuck are you breaking someone's heart - unless you're lying to them, and pretending to date them, and not being honest about what you want? If you're doing that, you're a dickhead, mate. 100%.

If you have to lie to get laid, you're a fucking loser. If you don't lie, nobody gets a broken heart.

Now lie to us that you weren't doing that. C'mon. You're either larping, or lying.

>but I don't have it in me to be a scumbag player

Why? If you know anything about women, you know the women you would be doing this to deserve it a million times over, and you are actually teaching them a lesson in some ways. You are also just doing what you are designed to do as an organism. There is no reason to feel guilt.

Go get your heart torn out by 3 gorgous white women and understand that if you love someone you love them enough to manipulate them to your advantage. This is all a relationships are. Extractive. You can extract what you want after you do the right things. This is the game. You don't break the 4th wall, you don't draw attention to the details you make yourself attractive and put yourself on the meat market.

Women know what they are worth. Be valuble. Be surrounded by high quality people and don't be a bitch. Pussy is expensive as always. You need to earn it. Its not hard. Most men are just as shit as you are.

>not sure if I'm supposed to grab her
Yes you're supposed to grab her. Duh. Grow a pair. A girl will give you all the signals you need to know when to move in and kiss her.

>I didn't do anything and she went somewhere else and I didn't even get a number.

Why would you get a number, you proved to her that she'd have to hold your hand and make all the moves. Hint: women hate that, it's weakness.

A man takes what he wants. You just sit there clueless. Why would they want to fuck a weak sissy? Move in, and kiss her, you'll know in 5 seconds wether you're getting laid or not.

Jesus. I can't believe someone needs this explained. I can tell by how a woman looks at me if she wants me to make a move, they all have that look, when they want to kiss you.

Pay fucking attention and grow a pair. Fuck. How worthless are you?

You fucked up. Move on. There's more than one
perfect" girl. Leave her alone.

>literal shilling

Oh, look, the NEET is telling me how the world works.

How quaint.

>Guess that's why I'm a lawyer though.

could not have been less surprised by this

I'm an autist who started lifting a year and a half ago and recently have just started getting attention from girls. I used to be a dweeb faggot who just jacked off to hentai at home and got called ugly by hot girls when I was 14 and shit so I'm pretty new to this. Now in college. Sorted myself out and all that. Girls think I'm funny and have cool hobbies and am informed about the world blablabla so they like that but I always think "maybe I'm not good enough for you in some way".

Now I can pull them and talk to them fine but I'm still partially brainwashed by the "be respectful towards women ask for consent for every little move" shit feminist teachers shove down your throat and being rejected in the past to actually take charge. I guess I just cockblock myself, I know she probably wanted it but I just couldn't do it.

Next time that happens I don't even care though, I'll go in if I think I have a chance. It's a mental block thing at this point.

Haha yeah, dancing isn't my strong suit. I've been getting better.
I'll definitely try learning some actual moves.

Nice guys finish last so being nice to them gets you nothing. Want pussy? Be an asshole, but with the right amount of charisma.

>Oh, look, the NEET is telling me how the world works.
Not an argument since i am a not a neet and even then you would have to prove me one.

Even then you did not disprove any of the points gringo.
Pretty much this the only problem i have with this is avoiding it at work or even worse having shit breath.

> white american problems


you guys need to realize all the pampering "women" get is mainly an attribute of western, and in most cases, white women. I hate to break it to you, but it's true. In Latin America, especially Mexico, women aren't afraid to be women, and they expect men to be men, same as in the Levant of the Middle East. I won't speak for places like Arabia which take it a few too many steps too far, but the vast majority of the world has known for thousands of years how to keep their women in line. You Western whites, as glorious as you guys literally are, are 70% responsible for the mess you're in. You gave women too much freedom, and now they're trying to take over society by burning it to the ground along with what dignity they have left. My advice is to forget the idea of "White" based off the country they live in, and instead just find a light-skinned girl from the Med, Levant, Latin America, or the Caucuses, and just call it a day. As long as your woman is caucasian and pale to olive, then your white genetics will be passed on. It isn't perfect, I know, but isn't it better to have a child that looks Spanish or North Italian who is raised by a mother who actually acts like...you know, a woman? Rather than some aryan liberal with an inflated ego.

Draw those figures on your desk and all your notebooks n sheeit, it's the secret symbol for saying you're dtf while at school, so if anyone is interested in your benis they will approach you when they see the logo. Also, underageb& OP.

You shoukd be celebrating that, women aren't people they're literal nation wrecking monsters, you should do everything you can to make those degenerates suffer for not keeping themselves pure until marriage.

Not really. The dynamic is flipped and girls are after you, if you've got the money to hang.