I've started dating this Japanese girl, and I really like her, but I don't know how I can reconcile this with my ideology.
On one hand she's a virgin, she's kind, she wants to start a family and wants to be a stay at home wife. She essentially has all the ideal traits of a woman I want.
But I have a lot of concerns, many of which relate to my ideology (National Socialist). And others relate to the potential issues that I've heard with dating japanese women.
For starters, I'm very much concerned about white genocide and mass immigration is a huge issue for me. But by dating and marrying a japanese woman, I'm not only being hypocritical to my ideology, but I'm actively contributing to white genocide and the demographic change in America. I've always wanted a big white family, so this creates a lot of conflict for me.
Another things is my children having a lack of identity. I don't want my children to be some atomized people with no sense of cultural identity. I'd want them to feel like that they are apart of a nation and culture. I thought that perhaps I could simply push western and America and teach them about their American ancestors, but it's not like I can divorce them from their japanese heritage as well. Especially when it's a physical characteristic. I also don't want them to not feel like they don't belong, even though they technically wouldn't be full Americans. And a lot of people would simply see them as asian. And it's not like they would be accepted in Japan either, being half gaijin.
And I also don't really want them to be influenced by japanese culture, nor would I want them to live in Japan. I would want raise them christian and install those values, but It's obvious that my (potential) wife would influence our children to certain aspects of japanese culture. I don't want my kid's committing sudoku because they failed their ACT's or never talking to me about problems they are having.
And that brings me to my next point, and that's actually the girl herself. I know that she may seem sweet and kind and compatible with me, but I've heard plenty of horror stories of after you marry japanese women they become controlling, try and control your finances, and never discuss things with you. I know it's a cultural thing in japan that you have to "read" people to understand them, and I've been trying to work through that with her to get her to be more open with me about things to avoid a situation where I'm unknowingly pissing her off and she leaves one day without saying anything. I have a lot of trust issues like a huge faggot, so I'm concerned that I'm being conned hard and falling for a nice act just to be put into wagecuck status. I don't want to manipulated that way.
She seems really nice and perfect and we have similar interests. It's not like I want to end the relationship over things like this, but I want solutions to avoid future problems.
Anthony Campbell
>HONORARY
No problems there, as a NatSoc, white women need to suffer before they can join public/white life again/
Jordan Jackson
haha. you pedo :3
Jaxson Price
Who the fuck cares about your life, faggot.
Jason Hughes
kys falsefalgger
Chase White
I do. I'm tryna help a nigga out.
Cameron Collins
Anime girls aren't real.
Isaiah Sullivan
by mixing the races you degrade both sides
Charles Hernandez
Tell that the Finns.
Nathaniel Thompson
This.
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Landon King
I tried thi path user. If a Japanese girl dates white guys, she's likely a whore and not a virgin at all, only deceiving you. Your children will have no homeland, it's not worth it, glad I got out when I did.
Follow Commander Rockwell's advice, you can love and respect, even admire them, but you shouldn't mix, let the Japanese be Japanese.
Carson Martinez
She should be with her Japanese husband white piggu!
Zachary Sanders
>Another things is my children having a lack of identity.
That's the biggest issue. Browse this subplebbit for a week and you'll be cured from yellow fever fro good.
Always think about kids first. Better no kids than those mixed race without identity.
Robert Roberts
jesus christ just go on tinder for one hour and see how many (hundredds of thousands) 7/10 + skinny young attractive white girls are on it then kill yourself.
what the fuck are you doing kid
Jason Howard
>better no kids than _ false
Brody Ward
Are you a pedo? Be honest.
Mason Bennett
Leave her OP. Trust me, it is the right thing to do.
Brandon Rodriguez
She's 19, I'm 21
Bentley Cook
son...
Grayson Howard
same position op >aryan posterboy looks >dating nip girl in a serious way
But I already live here...
Samuel Morgan
All that text and you pretty much answered your own question. Are you true to your principles or are you not? End your relationship with her for the former, or continue it and breed mongrel children with her for the latter (it's as simple as that). It will sting immediately after you've dropped her, but you'll thank yourself when you're surrounded by children that look like you and a loving white wife on your deathbed. You have a choice, user - either you choose to racemix and raise a bunch of crazy hapas and contribute to the deracination of humanity or you do not.
Jonathan Reed
You should listen to the men advising you here.
Because if they could, they'd pork your asian girlfriend in seconds. Barring that, they'd gladly watch porno videos of you two fucking if you cared to throw that out. They'd beat it until they fell out of their chairs.
But oh no. Don't date the asian girl. Don't have kids with her. Ideology you see. Yea it's real easy to have ideology when you don't have a hot piece of willing asian ass in front of them.
It's something you have. That we don't. You should just let this be your own journey. Fuck these guys. Do what you think is best.
Elijah Roberts
oh you already Fukushima'd your genes anyway dont worry
Brayden Lewis
What does Sup Forums think of my Qt Vietnamese gf? I'm full aryan blonde hair blue eyes.
Xavier Nelson
OP stop being a cuck and just hit that.
Christopher Wilson
The angel and the devil on your shoulder OP, choose wisely.
Oliver Bailey
wtf I like japanese women now
Jayden Nelson
Literally 80%+ of them will be fat within 5 years
Camden Allen
irrelevant i would fuck anything given the right circumstances
doesn't remove the fact that a white guy who gets his shit together can get a 7/10+ skinny white girl which shits all over any nip shit
Jaxon Johnson
Are you really attracted to her? I've never seen an attractive japanese woman.
Oliver Flores
If its below Taiwan do not insert your wand
Landon Garcia
wow get them pregnant and get a new one then you dumb fuck
how little logic do you have in that empty head of yours
there will always be 18-21 year old girls u can fuck with
Cameron Hill
where are the pixels?
Kayden Moore
even if I'm hideous? I'll stick to 2d
Adam Brooks
Same story here but with a big booty black girl who is swooning over me and wants marriage + mulatto babbies
I couldn't resist burning the coal and now I have a big dilemma. I don't really want mocha kids... but dat ass... and dat eagerness to be impregnated... it really turns me on.
Charles Butler
Just be careful. Most of our women are hardcore gold miners. If you want a family with her just domestic discipline her or one day you WILL find out that she cheats on you with a rich old fat Vietnamese dude.
Aiden Allen
10/10disgustingKYS/10
Bentley Smith
You can date Asians, but you're a fucking retard if you marry one.
I have fucked and dated 4 Asians. All of them revealed themselves to be completely insane as time went on. They are very charming and cute at first, but the crazy always slowly comes out over time.
They're fun little fuck toys but you cannot marry one.
Jaxson Gray
are you facially deformed or a manlet?
Adrian Scott
>tinder kys
Cooper Reyes
You can't find a serious girlfriend off Tinder you faggot, it's just for quick, cheap sex with loose whores looking to cheat on their boyfriends.
Elijah Nelson
How can you date another woman of a different race if you ideology is literally centered around race and dna you fucking idiot?
Find a white woman .
Owen James
shill
sage
Adam Hernandez
Those are Korean. After spending some time in Asia, you can tell orientals apart pretty easily.
Mason Wilson
STOP STEAL OUR WOMAN
Cameron Scott
oh god everyone is fucking everyone since 13 years old dick head
welcome to real life deal with it
the goal is getting laid often and getting peak genetic quality for offspring pls adapt
Ethan Nelson
What a shitty bait. if you are so blind by ideology you are not better to me than a muslim. Go fuck your natsoc quoran
Brandon Richardson
Do they put anything in America's potable water system? Why are burgers this brain-dead retarded?
Alexander Davis
NO! Ours went insane.
Matthew Bennett
I'm married to a japanese,so ill try and help you questions... Do you speak japanese fluently or you have to rely on her english? If she speaks English then you might look her more like the kind of girl wphuwhite that has dreadlocks and likes niggers,chances are she learnt english because she fetishises whites wich can be a problem To base a relationship in fetishisms specially if she is going to live with you in america where she will find plenty other white man. Maybe she didn't learn English to date white man only to travel but then again that's like the kind of girl who dresses in Indian clothes and likes poos in loos spirituality etc etc Maybe she turns out to be ok but in japan i always tried to avoid english or spanish for that matter speaking girls like they had the plague when I started thinking about settling down. Maybe I'm wrong and the relationship turns out great but I'm just telling you my experience.
Easton Stewart
All I'll say is do not take her virginity unless you are prepared to accept all of the consequences, i.e. marriage.
Nips are honorary whites to me, so that isn't a problem in itself, but the cultural compatibility problem is absolutely real, and you should think very hard about it. It depends what this girl's political views are--if they are close to your own already (I'd wager not), then go for it, otherwise, you are in for either hell (making it work) or heartbreak (failure), or both (failing after putting in effort), and you would be better off ending the relationship on respectful terms. In the latter case, you should try to instill some of those values in her before leaving her to her own people.
It's your call, but I strongly advise you to bail before you create damaged goods, at least in the absence of something decisively in the relationship's favor.
Lincoln Cox
> committing sudoku kek. Good one. Can't have them solving number puzzles now.
Lincoln Jackson
Let yourself be happy, you won't worry about this shit or our opinions in 10 years. Enjoy yourself and life
Elijah Bennett
>And I also don't really want them to be influenced by japanese culture
What website are you on?
Connor Ramirez
She lives in America with me, and there are no other Vietnamese here.
Juan Rivera
>National Socialist
You know just quit your relationship with her. You don't deserve her.
Any kind of socialist needs to be removed.
Henry Reed
Enjoy your STDs and child support lawyers you animalistic nigger.
Liam James
What exactly am I looking at
Adam Lopez
>France not wanting to colonize prime Vietnamese qts again.
I look like a square jawed Lovecraft with a tactical bowlcut and acne scars
Evan Fisher
Ich verstehe dich, aber im Osten gibt es recht gute Weiber.
Adrian Campbell
"Raising your half-japanese kids to be Christian"
fuck, thats just all sorts of layers of retarded shit right there. I didnt need to look to check for the American flag, did I?
What the fuck about a JEWISH CULT, post reformation, SHOULD appeal to someone who is neither ethnically or culturally jewish?
The TL&DR of the religion is that THE JEWS are the ones in the right, and that we should do what THE JEWISH GOD wants.
Shinto, on the other hand, says something about spirits existing within nature, and is more akin to shaminism or universalism.
Religion is a fucking disease, and I urge you to wait until your kids are of voting age before you go trying to infect them with your jewish cult, but I'd be interested in hearing how you would justify it. How do you? You're obviously not jewish.
Carter Ward
You don't have real problems. Grow a pair and bang her.
Anthony Cook
good enough just dress well, get muscular and have ur shit together
Ian King
So the general consensus is that my concerns are valid and that I should leave her for the very reasons I brought up.
Breaking up with her will be very difficult, as I do genuinely like her and am invested in the relationship. But I really don't want to betray my principles, my country, or do wrong by my children.
I wanted to find a way to deal with these concerns without outright leaving her, but if there are no other options.
I've not had much luck with women in the past, so when a beautiful girl who treats me comes along it's a powerful temptation.
American (((Education)))
David Smith
Hi new friend welcome to 4 chan,in this board full of japanese weebos you'll find out lots of us knowingly use japanese words incorrectly or call Anime chinese cartoons it's just part of 4 chan culture.
Jordan Taylor
You've got to be fluent in their language if you go foreign even if they are the same race. How could you even get along with their families? How could your kids ever know their families? People need to think about this stuff. My younger brother and I speak Spanish and can communicate with our step family. My older brother can't, and it infuriates him when we speak Spanish. We barely notice the difference and can switch between English and Spanish like it's nothing. My older brother can only speak with a few members of my step family and still can't fully understand them, because you need to understand the idiosyncrasies of someone's mother tongue to truly understand them unless they are genius level fluent in their second language.
Ethan King
Go for it, happiness is what matters at this point and if you ever divorce you still can have White kids. If you adopt a White well it helps for the racial case
Ethan Scott
Fuck of leftist scum.
Wyatt Flores
he's better of without speaking spic, hope he can escape your cultural ensnarement
I haven't had sex with her yet for this very reason. I only want to have sex with someone that I'm sure i'm okay with marrying.
Jayden Foster
Don't be hasty user. While I struggled to come to terms with my own problems of her not being of European stock, it was mostly personality problems and her poor life choices that made me ditch her. I'm probably a bit salty so my opinion should be taken with a grain of salt
(no pun intended)
In the end you should be your own man and make your own choice, I left mine only after much care, attention, and patience, and in the end everything failed. Don't fuck up a good relationship with what you think is a good, decent, humble woman because of as yet unrealized fears, even if she's not European. The fact my fiance was not European was the least of my problems.
Xavier Foster
Just fucking marry her
Joseph Green
LARP
Jace Ward
I don't know a single mixed race couple that got married at their early twenties and spend rest of life together, say for 50 years or so. It always end up in divorce, ALWAYS.
Benjamin Jones
Marry the woman you love you fucking retard
Carson Walker
Then you have my full respect and support. Just find out what you can about her beliefs, not only on politics, but also stuff like why she came here, what she likes about you, etc. God luck with whatever you decide.
Chase Gonzalez
This issue isn't going to go away for you. You should break it off now, before you drain all of her youth years away.
Angel Parker
This is what happens when you pick a gook instead of a beautiful woman