It's really not debatable, unfortunately. This is my biggest problem - I wish women were equal, and I even sometimes wish they were superior. Everyone I meet, I am disappointed by the shallowness of their personality and character, how easily they just play into the absurdity of the system meant to rip away anything decent from them.
I understand IQ is not everything, but the male IQ is 2% higher, and men are much more likely to be of above average intelligence than coagulate around the mean as women do.
Despite school and college classrooms having been gradually re-organized to suit the more feminine way of learning, and despite women achieving higher grades in grade school, men still radically overtake women in math SAT testing, beat them in reading, and only slightly fall behind in writing. The top 100 Chess players in the world are all male, almost every important invention in the world has had a male inventor, most of the only notable women to exist in history are famous only for being a woman to do something many men had done earlier. Estrogen is literally an alcohol, and "Women being more emotional" is not a meme, and if you talk to mtf transsexuals, they can tell exactly how pronounced the differences and fragility in their state of mind are.
I'm also lonely as shit, I have no idea what I'm going to do. I loved my ex girlfriend, and we dabbled in this, but she turned out to be a soulless bitch and shat on everything we had. I dont even think of women as humans, almost, and have the most 'edgy' opinions and views on them.
I understand how it seems like it's a load of cognitive dissonance between thinking they're inferior and femdom, but it really isn't. Someone can be attracted to any obscure fetish out there, and their rational mind would not be obligated to find agreement with their sexual desire.
How did you even make this friend, and is he me? I've talked to a few about this thing, and they just say "not all of them are like that