Why it is not OK for men to show their feminine side?

Why it is not OK for men to show their feminine side?

Would you also want to play with your daughter, Sup Forums?

>A dad who says having daughters changed how he views gender is trying to challenge toxic masculinity with his blog.

>The parenting journal Woke Daddy has become an online hit, with posts such as “coming out as a male feminist and why to do it” being widely shared.

>In it, he said: “I buried it deep, deep down because my environment made it unsafe for me to be sensitive.

>“They (men) are never presented the option in their lives. This leads men to associate vulnerability with weakness and by association, weakness with the feminine gender.”

>33-year-old Ludo Gabriele, who is originally from France and now lives in New York City, decided to start Woke Daddy after becoming a father.

>“How can a father of a daughter not be a feminist? It simply does not make sense to me,” he toldBroadly.

>“I just want to live in a world where my daughter can look for a job and be hired for her skills, and not for the way she looks. A world where she is not short changed on her pay and where she is not sexualised on a daily basis.”

>He now has a team of writers, but as the profile of Woke Daddy has grown, so has the backlash from traditional right-wing conservative websites such as Daily Wire vand Heatstreet, who claim he is “chastising” men who are “playing into the traditional ‘male’ role.”

>And unsurprisingly, Gabriele receives plenty of negativity online.

>In response to his post about why men should be feminists, he was called a “cuck for life.”

>Another added: “Men are GENETICALLY meant to be masculine. MEN are meant to be tough and protective.”

Remember when Dads would be at Tea-Parties just to spend time with their daughters? Now it means pushing a feminist agenda.

>Also those who unironically use the word WOKE need to be crucified

>“How can a father of a daughter not be a feminist? It simply does not make sense to me,” he toldBroadly.

Easily. Feminism does not fight for equality. It's about female supremacy. Do you have or think you might have a son, nephew, father or male friend? Then feminism is not for you.

>be a firm believer in feminism
>get shocked when daughter won't obey you anymore
>WOKE

You can't raise children with political ideologies that train them to resent, attack, scheme, and undermine other people. That's feminism.

Yeah, when I saw this thread this morning my thought was "this is such a quality discussion, I really hope it happens again 12 hours from now."

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Let me guess, his daughters are still 6-10 yrs old. Wait until they get to be teens. He will be a raging conservative by then.

CONGRATULATIONS, YOU WON A TRIP TO THE OVEN!

He's a faggot

t. Have a daughter

>This leads men to associate vulnerability with weakness and by association, weakness with the feminine gender
its like he is capable of understanding but chooses not to...

#WOKE AF DESU

playing with your daughter is one thing, being an absolute cuck faggot is entirely different.

I'm worried for the daughter, guy is obviously pedo.

So men should act like women to break the masculinity mold, in doing so enforcing feminine rolls onto their daughters?
I can play this game too.

>"Daddy, I'm going to a sleepover at Tyrones house"

Toxic masculinity is what they call dickheads who can't get pussy because they're retarded views of men and women.

This place is full of pussies constantly posting "how do we fix women hurr?" and they don't even realize they're still virgins and chicks can't stand them because they see relationships with women as competition they need to win.

If have you TrumpCuck faggots got in a relationship you'd destroy it instantly which would just feed your moronic idea that it's not you whose the baby but everybody else. That's is a definition of a "Trumpian" response.

Maybe try what he did, get rich and marry an escort.

Says a giant cuck faggot. Probably a virgin too. Ever wonder why?

>inb4 HURR DURR FIX WOMEN!!

im not sure I understand your meaning there buddy. are you implying that being a cuck faggot is ok for a hetero man?

Nah, he'll just pay for her abortions or try to get the boys charged with rape.

Do people think its inherently feminine to spend time with your fucking daughter?
You can have tea time with your daughter and not be a fucking faggot, it's called being a good parent.

Is saying 'woke' the best way you can display that you're an ignorant meme chasing anti-west millennial?

What a faggot.
I have 2 daughters. I know how braid hair, I can weave and sew with my wife, I cook more often than my wife.
I'm a 85kg 6'4 Norsk guy who understands how to raise a family. That guy's just a fag.

Those are just the /r9k/ retards

>Would you also want to play with your daughter, Sup Forums?

I bought sims 3 for a girl who I used to sit, we used to make lots of weird characters.

Wish I could have a child of my own one day, but women these days kind of look and act like blue haired cunts.

Why is it not okay? Because men need to be reliable, strong, and unwavering. Nurture is for women. Children raised by a father who shows weakness, femininity, or too much childish behavior will grow up to exhibit strange behaviors.

Men are meant to fight, to acquire sustenance for their family at any cost, and to be the 'face' of the family to the outside world. They can't be children, or mothers. They must be men.

>becoming a faggot just because you have a daughter
Shouldn't the natural response be to become more of a man so you can protect them?

Of course not, I was referring to you after all.

Dude, For real.

Wow I discovered what a cast majority of other men do and have done.
I must become feminist, you should to.
Woke

Thats one way to look at it. I was thinking about how he's teaching her how to improperly interact with men that will eventually bite her back when shes older. Boys, boyfriends and husbands don't do this kind of thing. Essentially shes being taught daddy issues because shes not getting that male role model who shows her love from the male perspective. She's getting a male role model showing her love from what he thinks is female perspective.

When she finds out that this isn't what the real world holds she'll reject it and go into whore mode because thats where she'll find the most attention.

feminim fathers?

FUCKING stupid, i can play tea party with my daughter without her questioning gender roles.

SAGE

>protective
That's the key word. Can't have that when you're trying to flood a country with hostile invaders or otherwise destroy the country and/or its people. Hence the Jewish weapon-words 'toxic masculinity'.

Feminist can fuck off, father's have always had tea parties with their daughters. Mine did with my sister.

>Why arent men men anymore WAHHHHHHHHH
>men should show their sensitive side!

but did you change pop diapers?

He doesn't need a feminine side, he needs a compassionate side. Hitler was someone who taught men how to be complete. To be strong without being a degenerate. Strength and gentleness are not mutually exclusive. Be a Knight, not a gorilla.

there is nothing wrong with showing your feminine side

I'm a cross-dresser but I'll probably make more white babies than most of you

I did when I wanted to give my wife a break after a few long nights, yeah. I mean, it helps that when I was in the AF my routine synced with me helping every once in a while.

>be me
>have daughter
>be single dad
>paint toes and shit
>play dolls
>tell my daughter about gender roles.
You can do things your daughter enjoys and still not be a feminist. Its called being a good father and not a faggot. Not every fucking thing you do has to involve politics.

SHOW YOUR TRUE FORM LEAF!

southern pride :^)

>I'm a cross-dresser but I'll probably make more white babies than most of you
>make more white babies
Is that what you call it when the pearl beads plop forth from your asshole? That doesn't count.

A man being "feminine" is a man who never attained proper masculinity due to female interference in life and lack of proper male role models. It's not something to be proud of.

I have a two year old daughter. I play with her but I don't act like a faggot.

>Another added: “Men are GENETICALLY meant to be masculine. MEN are meant to be tough and protective.”
They say this like it's an incorrect statement.

This blog is one of the most toxic, poisonous things in existence, because it conflates "spending time with your daughter", and "having love for your family" with feminism.

Protip: Men are not actually discouraged from being sensitive. It's just that - like in all things - male sensitivity is different from female sensitivity.

It's just that in our feminized culture, male sensitivity is invisible to you, so you are brainwashed into thinking the only way to be sensitive is to act like a girl.

This is not to say female sensitivity is bad (although in some situations it is not helpful.)

Some examples:

Situation: Friend is gravely injured.

Female sensitivity: Pity, sympathy. A woman will make a big show of crying in this situation. This is one of the situations where female sympathy is less than helpful. While she is more likely to reach out to the injured party than a man, her reaction will make it seem like she's trying to make the situation all about her, and how empathetic she can be.

Male sensitivity: Laughing, joking, making light of the situation. "Holy shit man, that was nuts." Light joking. "Come on man, keep up, you'd think you'd had your leg blown off or something." While it might seem insensitive, it's actually a very male, very sensitive way of addressing the elephant in the room and disarming the awkwardness with humor.

Situation: Friend goes through a heartbreaking breakup.

Female sensitivity: Reaching out, an open ear to talk to, trying to cheer up friend by finding them someone new. Understanding that the friend is going to be out of it for a while. (This is one of the situations where female sensitivity works better than male sensitivity.)

Male sensitivity: Disparaging the ex, dismissing the ex. Will probably expect the person going through the breakup to get over it too quickly. Will try to find active solutions, when in the end the only thing that's going to really heal it is continued support over time.

Just different

no matter what my gf puts up my ass I'm still able to cum inside her

can you say the same?

SAP that fucking toxic masculinity RIGHT out.

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>man makes thread saying having daughters is shit because she becomes a whure
>gets attacked and also gets attacked as a fag
I like this picture, Oh Pee. Also
>all of the above is super bad but if two men get together only one of them becomes a super woman somehow; or both; if two women come together they grow penises; but if man has woman sex he doesnt become womany; estrogen makes dicks grow bigger
Such is stupid life in stupid world, USA

His daughter will reject him as soon as she hits puberty, and the worst part is that he will have no idea why. Instead of blaming his limp wristed parenting technique he'll blame her, and make the situation worse... Many such cases. Sad!

More likely he'll blame himself and all men.

Good points but you know they didn't try to start a healthy debate, this article is pure brain washing

i played pretty pretty princess with my sister when i was a kid, but my parents didnt force me to cut off my dick. i made that decision on my own

I sat a my little girl's kiddie table and was served invisible tea (it was shit), but I didn't wear a fucking tiara doing it

Reminds me to that reddit post where a father is pleading with his son to forgive him for believing his daughter that he raped her while in truth she just didn't want her parents to know she was fucking around.

Reads like a Trump tweet, I like you.

It it ok for men to show the feminine side, jsut not all the fucking time.

Seriously, the only people who have tried to tell me that men shouldn't cry have all been women.

My father, a lifelong republican who fought in Vietnam, hunted regularly, loved Clint Eastwood flicks, was a skilled mechanic, and was an all around badass, taught me that it's was okay to cry about big stuff. He told me that it was only bad when you started crying about petty shit.

She'll simply turn against daddy and be a blue-haired, pierced-face cum dumpster for some filthy spearchucker because she didn't grow up with 2 mommies, so that means it's her job to do everything to make daddy upset from ages 12-35 before she'll repent and start asking where all the "good guys" are to settle down with.

this is possible the most reddit post I've seen in months

go back

>Tea party with my babby

Best part of my day.

Someone screenshot this

The irony of the left is that it often ends up promoting social standards that were worse than anything that realistically existed.

Example:

Reality: Men are discouraged from crying, except in private, or about big things

Feminist propaganda: Men are told NEVER TO CRY, EVER! It's a choice between NEVER CRYING and being AN EMOTIONLESS ROBOT, or acting like a girl!

Feminism: Gains cultural hegemony, propaganda becomes basic social assumption

Result: Men begin thinking that masculinity means being a cold, emotionless robot and never crying at all

The dad is a dumb shit.

And feminism isn't about equality, it's all about women having the traditional rights of men and women, but none of the responsibilities.

>Why it is not OK for men to show their feminine side?
Men are told to ONLY show a feminine side. Anything masculine is labeled toxic, evil, problematic, dangerous, and a bunch of other stuff. Being an effeminate male is the one option being pushed in all media and academia today.

Nigga.

Who doesn't know how to use paint in THE CURRENT YEAR?

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>Not okay to show your feminine side
>I unironically want to gas kikes and slimes
>I also like to dress like a woman when I masturbate
Seems okay to me, user

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Difference between being a father of a daughter and being a (((feminist)))

Last thing I want to teach my daughter is that she can look down on men. Teaching her to be successful in live entails not teaching her to blame all her woes on perceived gender disadvantages. She has to learn that life isn't always fair and nice, and that if she wants to earn her keep in the world that she needs to accept her failures as her own. This is the antithesis of feminism (at least modern feminism) today.

Another thing about this is daughters pick up how a man should treat her based off my interactions with her along with my wife. I would be literally setting her up for marriage failure if I were some limp-wrist cuck. I'm not going to let her assume men are subservient and passive-aggressive, nor do I want her dating one.

t. A father of a daughter

So if I just walk away from a crying woman do I have the autism?

>Do you have or think you might have a father
Trying to cover the blacks?

Depends on the context of why she was crying. Sometimes just leaving her alone to cry is the best option.

>Toxic masculinity is what they call dickheads who can't get pussy
No, it means being a man today