Serious question: How can I stop having sexually submissive fantasies?
For a while now I've been having fantasies where I'm either getting pegged, touched, massaged, or objectified by women.
I wasn't always like this, so what gives? Is there anything I can do to shake this?
get off Sup Forums
It seemed to arise in my early 20s, before that I could only get off on objectifying women.
also pic unrelated.
beyond saving.
Watch more masculine power fantasies and play more masculine video games or something. Or just go MtF and be done with it.
Agp
Start lifting weights. Eat healthy, real food. Stop the porn. CBT
/behavior modification therapy.
Serious answer: Stop watching television. All the commercials are, are women who are dominating of men. Men are generally characterized as morons, especially white men. You go without that for a week and I'm sure you'll be somewhat better.
Stop watching pron
/thread. Work on yourself, quit letting your sexual fantasies rule your brain. Live for a principle higher than base lust. Guarantee your creating these fetishes because you waste your time. Occupy your time and life with wholesome things. If it never goes away just marry some hot waifu with semi dominant inklings and enjoy a healthy sex life. Live in the real world and not the infinitely chaotic trappings of your inner mind. Lastly, don't be hard on yourself, everyone has a demon to fight. Ask God for help, if not God then ask whatever higher power suits your world view. Even an atheist knows something is more powerful than they are.
Good luck.
>pale skin
>natural redhead
>that ass
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I think you're at least partially right.
I don't watch TV at all. If anything it was absent when I used to watch TV.
Easy. Kill yourself. Problem solved.
exorcism
I literally stopped having unwanted fantasies for the most part after a month without porn. That shits not good for you. If you don't watch porn and it still occurs the you may need to take a more serious approach. Youd be surprised by how much you can change about yourself if you control your mind. For some reason our culture has this notion that your mind is the highest part of you, however that position is reserved for your soul (which is where your will comes from). You need to strengthen your own willpower through meditation and focusing on the important things in life. Sex is for procreation, the deepest satisfaction of your darkest fantasies is not necessary for you to live a happy life. Don't let your dick rule you
You watch too much porn. You need to distance yourself from seeing a bitch take it. You need to focus on renewing your masculinity. This sounds like dumb bullshit but you are literally wasting your masculinity jerking off. You probably have a limp dick with little ability to "take" a woman at this point. Ask yourself if you feel a pulse and weight within your dick or if it feels like you are walking around with an impotent nub down there. It can be reversed but cutting out porn is a necessity for it to happen. I was "addicted" to porn a couple years ago. I had to slowly wean off it and would still struggle with relapses. It helps to get in a relationship where you need your masculine energy for sex. Then you can transition from porn to a relationship. It will be difficult at first but you will come back with a new understanding of your health and if successful in cutting out your vice, can focus upon building and building upon your health.
Deeply rooted self esteem/affirmation issues.
These are not politically incorrect thoughts.
These are PC thoughts in today's world.
As long as it's a strapon and not another man's dick then it's totally normal. Pegging, facesitting, orgasm torture/denial is the patrician's fetish.
>Then you can transition from porn to a relationship. It will be difficult at first but you will come back with a new understanding of your health and if successful in cutting out your vice, can focus upon building and building upon your health.
And yet you still have that image on your hard drive. What the fuck user.
What are you talking about? Nobody said anything about this being PC or non-PC.
With cutting out porn you will find your anxiety gradually decrease until you are no longer guided by anxiety. I transformed from an anxiety ridden NEET to a functioning member of society this way.
You should create a "days counter" on the home screen of your phone. When you relapse, which you will do many times, you then reset it and try again. This will give you a new goal to strive for and create a new baseline for your self esteem to develop from.
No porn, no fapping. It's made a massive difference for me in the last two weeks.
>Functioning member of society
lol
Either embrace it or don't, at the end of the day you control your self. Take control of your life m8
It's called Sup Forums
I let my gf fuck me with a dildo, it gave me an anal fissure that opens up whenever I take too hard a shit and can produce almost a tablespoon of blood on the tissue when I wipe, I don't know how homos do it.
So the cure is to realize that all that fetish shit is actually super cringy in real life, try looking on websites for the S&M community and see how autistic everyone who actually does that shit for real outside of fake as fuck porn is.
There is no cure for being a white male, unfortunately.
>With cutting out porn you will find your anxiety gradually decrease until you are no longer guided by anxiety. I transformed from an anxiety ridden NEET to a functioning member of society this way.
HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAH, thanks for the laugh.
Because I can appreciate the aesthetics without being overwhelmed with the urge to pull on my dick like a dumb animal. Nothing is more liberating than talking to women in public, acknowledging their attractiveness, and just letting it wash over you like a wave without feeling any attachment to it. Truly a wonderful state of mind. Meditation is something everyone on this board should be practicing in one form or another.
There is nothing "wrong" with appreciating the female aesthetic, it's even natural to feel some desire. But the level of porno-induced desire you feel for a photograph is highly synthetic and will rot your brain.
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I am. I graduated college, have been in a relationship 2 years, and have a good job. None of this would be possible if I remained a degenerate porn user.
I'm trying to help OP and whoever else seeks to change their life. If they don't want to its on them.
>female aesthetics
>anime pic from a series all about a beta autist lusting after underage looking girls
Nofap will cure your deviations.
Actually have sex with a woman and realize how fucking absurd that actually is
Or heroin, opiates fill the degeneracy void pretty well
Good luck. I fist found myself in your position 9 year ago. And I'm still here (but much further down the rabbit-hole). I THINK the key is to stop watching porn. It would be literally impossible to advance these fantasies without oceans of HD clips where hot women are doing exactly what you've been thinking.
I can't say this to you with certainty (since I've never done it yet myself). But I'm pretty sure that stopping porn + seeking a normal relationship would have the potential to salvage someone even as far gone as me.
But quitting porn is a very difficult thing to do in itself. You have to REALLY want to do it and follow through relentlessly.
Have another nigger. What you've said does not disprove my point.
Switch it around to sexually dominating fantasies, owning controlling and onjectifying females.
Stop watching porn. Or submissive porn at least. Or alternatively watch so much you get tired of it. Ive watched so much sissy porn it doesnt do anything for me anymore for example.
I stopped having them the second I started lifting. Didn't even stop watching porn or anything, just started getting huge. Now I want nothing more than a 5 foot 90 pound qt that I can throw all over the place while I violently fuck her brains out.
Weights and healthy eating are important too.
Only after marrying her, and with the intent of making her my white baby factory, of course.
>sexually submissive fantasies
you're gay, kys
Nah I'm not laughing at you for a claim I don't believe I'm laughing because you give a shit about something that literally doesn't care about you
The faggots says as he posts the coalburning roastie
There's no bigger cuckold than an asukafag
Stop watching porn and don't masturbate for around one month (then you can masturbate once every 7 days). You can brush off this advice and think it's a meme but if you actually want to have a chance at getting a more normal brain back then do this.
Also do cardio and compound lifts.
K.. keep me posted
Start talking to females again an be dominant as fuck. It doesn't take much from a submissive female to make you feel like a man. Forget avout what yiu shouldn't be doing and focus on what you should be doing. And remember, sex os for making babies.
Literally stop watching porn and raise your test. Stop fapping to submissive things, immediatly shut thise thoughts off when you start thinking them
Start lifting weights, taking cold showers, having a good routine sleep schedule. Just inject test if you have to, its not even that bad
Check your water...
Also you are a fag.
you may need to stick a sharpie in yer pooper
I want to achieve 30. Muscle Wizard status.
How is getting massaged by a woman submissive?
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Don't look at drawn or real images of women online in perversion and do not seek out such images. Do not masturbate and do not allow erections. If you begin to get any kind of erection you must immediately get rid of it with your mind. Then you will be free after over 40 days from your predicament, but you will need to maintain this for life.
The only exception I make is I may look at one photo sometimes of a cute girl like in pic related but I probably shouldn't.
You are a Beta Cuck. There is no hope for you.
kys
Lol, I knew a guy that did that shit... we dubbed him Billy Butt.
looks like an escort. definitely a hotel.
>pic related
Your pic OP, only if I come across it by not searching for hot women and then I can only stare at it for usually like seconds. If my dick responds at all it is time to jump away. Also, to add a little more never touch your dick unless you are cleaning it, checking for medical issues etc. Do not touch it when you pee.
Also, to stop wet dreams, wear boxers to bed. You go through more boxers, but sleeping naked under sheets can lead you to have provocative dreams because the sheets will rub differently and could cause stimulation in your sleep.
Seriously this is some of the best advice I have ever given.
Also, CBT I don't know much about and wouldn't recommend but basically all mental disorders stem from or are greatly enhanced by focusing on your dick for any other reason than procreation.
try working out
you'll start to produce more testosterone and reverse the effects.
just do a few pushups every day if you aren't sore. even that would be good.
the "objectified by women" part is normal. Men are Object Oriented Thinkers, we objectify ourselves and other men regularly, so being sexually objectified by women is actually what we want.
That or for a woman to whisper in our ear
>I want you to put a child in me, and then I want you to protect me and keep me safe
since, well you know, that's literally what we do with women.
Quit porn dumbass
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