Srs question for married anons. Does it feel like your life is complete...

Srs question for married anons. Does it feel like your life is complete? Do you worry about your partner cheating on you? Is the grass greener? I want to marry white woman but I'm afraid.

Nothing changes except for your goals.

When you feel your first born in your arms after your wife gives birth, and you then watch that child grow to be a successful adult by your hand. To carry their own first born, your first grandchild. That is when you feel your life is complete

Ooh, right in the feels. I just hope we can all hang on to our wives. It seems that since sex isn't sacred anymore marriages aren't either. I just want to get across the finish line of life with my wife and I and our family strong and stable. I just wish I could quit porn...

OP make good point. Women these days think it's acceptable to cheat/ that type of thing. How can anyone ever truly be sure they aren't?

Marriage changes nothing. Having a child does. Your life makes perfect sense and your priorities will change overnight.

>what could possibly go wrong?

I don't want to be
>that goy
I do think it's worth it but I wanted to talk about the challenges

Dont do it... Its just a piece of paper, and then you are entering a legal unionship with another person.

Imo the only reason, the one single reason to get married is to save on taxes.

T. Divorced and pleased to be so.

Also, having to go to court with lawyers to break up with your cheating spouse is bullshit.

Why we're you pleased to do so?

>prove your not jewbergbrennestein

I honestly think a hit man would be less costly and less emotionally straining but then again I'd make sure I got it right the first time (wife I mean)

This. Only marry before the church but not before the state.

The marriage part is formal; I suppose. I don't get it much myself but I'll be damned if my kid is raised by a single parent (god forgive me for the oath)

SO rinse and repeat.... isn't that depressive !

This. Marriage is a union before God until death breaks that union. It is impossible to divorce someone in a sacramental marriage unlike the civil mcmarriages. If you only have a sacramental marriage and you hold all the assets as the man should then your wife will never leave you

Thats the plan

I'm married for 9 years and have 2 kids already.
I don't really worry because my wife loves me and kids too much that she doesn't want to ruin the family, too traditional since she is from very small town in middle of nowhere.
I feel really complete and my family is very happy, feel like my life really matters and has a purpose like raising my kids right.

I already have it all planned if i get cucked and divosrced.
My gun is always loaded up stateres and my father is always ready to take kids and raise them.

Wife and family for Dear Leader are important.

Without family to help regime, man is useless.

Bump for answers.
My long term gf and I are talking about marriage and kids. We don't make a whole lots of moneys, but our families do and would help out.
Should do? Or skip it?
Any real benefits of children that outweigh cost?

>I just wish I could quit porn...
That's the first step towards a more stable relationship and future. Grow up, man.

>already have it all planned if i get cucked and divosrced.My gun is always loaded up stateres and my father is always ready to take kids and raise them.
How is having this kind of plan ready, a sign of , marriage as a good thing ?

Just like this user saidIt really is worth it.
I'd say do it.

Holding your newborn in your hands and know that he is yours is most surreal thing i ever experienced.

Fine, tell that to the roasties in turn who have zero self-control either but get to hide behind finding the perfect man, after you've gone through the entire stable.

how do we quit porn help us help help help

I had a gf, we decided to get married and even lived together for more than 2 years.

She's with me no more. She didn't cheat on me, just got bored of me.

It's just for precaution.
I don't really believe it will ever happen, it's not really of a plan.

Don't sweat Pajeet, she'll come around after she's jumped off the carousal for the stability and life she always knew she could fall back on if things went south.

Of course your life doesn't feel complete. This isn't a Disney movie. This is life.

Your priorities just change is all.

There's no such thing as "feeling complete". Rip that band aid off now.

Life involves making trade offs. You're always, always gonna wonder if you made the right ones. And you're always gonna wonder how your life would have been given different choices.

Just get yourself to a point where you're cool with the choices you made.

I got divorced, started new career in a new city and met a much younger woman within a month of moving. Life has been awesome since.
Marriage allows for both partners to begin unacceptable behaviours.

Indian women crave alpha white cock, don't blame yourself pajeet. It is the right of every English man to take an Indian goddess for his own even if they are already married. This is a sacred tradition which must be honered.

>Life involves making trade offs.
To whom exactly, compromise in your relationships and marriage is grounds for being left in the cold. It's a meme, you better rip that band aid off yourself now before you get burned. You're in control as long as you maintain, falter once and your another statistic.

Yet it is in your head ! Like Mr. Hyde !

Get married in the catholic church but don't get a civil marriage. Have your kids baptised so they can go to catholic school where they will learn degeneracy is a sin and not an aspiration. With public schooling raising children is cheap. The only extra expense is food. Also government gibs. Have lots of children

That's fucked, dude... Just get a fucking divorce if you need to.

>I'd make sure I got it right the first time

Almost every single men ever believed the "got it right" the first time when he stood in front of the altar.
You generally don't marry a woman you consider to be a whore and expect to divorce you within a couple years.

Get your government to ban and block it

> To whom.

To yourself you idiot. If you become a rockstar, you can't be a pro-footballer.

Learn about "opportunity cost". Even if you achieve unimaginable success, it came at the cost of some other possible success.

>life
No such thing. Existence would be more fitting.

Choose your woman extremely carefully. I am married to the perfect woman but it took a long time to find her.

Also, you are never really married until you become a family, thats the real test.

It's probably because you didn't own a toilet shrine

This board gave it in my head after reading all the scarry stories about burgers getting divorced and paying not just child support but also a fucking allimony.
Sup Forums can do that sort of shit to you.

>There's no such thing as "feeling complete"
>implying
the goal of life is to bust the fabled giga nut. only then will you attain enlightenment.

>To yourself you idiot.
Yeah fuck you too, learn about some civility you mongrel before you try to sass me for a simple statement. Fuck yourself.

>tfw engaged to wealthy korean alpha bitch who is very reluctant to have children in the future and sometimes flatout says she'll never

>tfw she's 30 with good pussy but I'm afraid it'll be too late to get her off BC and plant my seeds to produce healthy spawn

what do? She's obsessed and won't let me just dump her.

I'm married with a kid on the way. I'm happy with my choices, but "feeling complete" isn't a thing.

I'll always want to strive for more

Learn reading comprehension before you spout shit

Most modern women are incapable of the love men feel. To a man marriage is essentially all about love and family. To a woman it represents many other things and love is generally lower on the list. Seeing my parents marriage disintegrate made me never want to get married when I grew up. You're basically just handing over all your money and life to a woman who will probably backstab you if she feels the need to. The courts and lawyers are against you and it's very hard for a man to obtain custody. On the other hand there really are some good women out there. Be very careful to marry the right woman.

Won't let you? Just leave her

Suck my dick, pleb.

Flase puppet !

Agreed !

Typical thin skinned yank

I cried for her a lot. She was my first love, first kiss and everything else first. I still love her and haven't looked upon other women. I wish she hadn't left me. I feel really sad because of her.

Shut up. Please.

1. set up a good prenup
2. hide all your assets well offshore
3. get another phone for a the "fungirls" on the side
4. hire a private detective to find dirt about your wife

>profit

It hurts, but what you'll learn about women from this will help you

Checked and agreed.

Typical pussy who needs to hide behind a proxy flag because he doesn't want to be ridiculed for who he actually is and represents. You're beyond a joke.

>She was my first love, first kiss and everything else first.
You're going to pass that hurdle faster than you think. Move on, go get 'em killer.

From what I've seen you just remain focused on what you were focused beforehand

If you had the mindset of being a good father before the girl is pregnant, that's the aim after your childs born

If you are solely focused on your career and playing those games for some more money then you'll be focused on that and your kid is kind of an obstacle that gets in the way of your career, but can be used as a cute accessory for photographs to create good will in business

If you dont care about work or anything really your kid wont change that

At what age did you meet her, if you don't mind me asking.. I'm at quite a low and nearly another milestone and afraid at this point that I'll be alone for another one to come.

I use a meme flag cos I don't live in the country I'm from, and it's boring explaining that to people over and over.

Inb4: yes, I'm white. Probably more so than you.

She's a lost cause and if you're white you should be with a white woman anyway.

>I use a meme flag cos I don't live in the country I'm from, and it's boring explaining that to people over and over.
Excuse #1.
>Inb4: yes, I'm white. Probably more so than you.
100% European, are you? Put up or shut.

Life doesn't feel complete. I don't worry about cheating but I do feel like there is an ever present sense of boredom. Nobodies fault, life just isn't exciting when you are maintaining things as they are.

Here you go. One flag. I'm not a Pole though, I'm Anglo (with a tiny, tiny amount of Italian)

I dont worry, if i did the relationship would be over. You must trust which leaves you open to being hurt.

I love my wife and trust her implicitly. She is from a similar background to me. Successful parents strong family bonds and relationships. We are a unit and expecting our first child in a few months.

Dont listen to the echo chamber here. You can find good women, they usually come from good homes and close families

im living the monk life. its good.
i was married before. got divorced.
wife was a constant drain on my nerves. happy i got rid of her. never forget that women are forever in a intermediate state between boy&man, meaning they're effectivly a kid in an adults body.

that has a shitload of downsides in a whole bunch of areas and you cannot treat them full equal with honest respect and responsibility. this equlality propaganda "works to a certain degree" but beyond that its unfixable broken. i was recently thinking its not that bad that islamis treat their women like shit (more honest approach).

marriage can work out for you, though you gotta submit towards her arbritary will of a child cause they are simply not able to play by the rules / follow through with common sense and decency. therefore your only option is leaving her or submit to her (=get cucked).

also financially marriage is nowadays the WORST DEAL EVER for a man, even with a contract. The stakes are so unfair and against you as a man, it makes you not take part in this altogether.

I met her when I was 29, I am 35 now. She was 21 and now 27. She came from a stable family with 3 other brothers and she wanted to have a stable family as well as a stable career and to marry somebody similar. She is also extremely introverted, has no social media and generally hates talking to other people except to me. We have our 2nd child on the way and own our home together and have no debts.

They are very hard to find but marrying and having a family with somebody is something not to be taken lightly. You need to find the one that checks all the boxes, can put up with your bad points just as well as your good points and you need to be able to do the same with her. Neither should ever expect the other to magically change for any reason as well because that shit just doesn't happen.

In my experience I found chicks from bad families like from single mothers are damaged goods and only good for a fuck and nothing else. Same goes for social media thots etc etc.

Also, don't get so upset with how an anonymous handle talks to your anonymous handle.

It's fucking pathetic. I understand demanding people show respect IRL. But this just reveals how wounded and fragile your ego is.

I don't give a shit what tone people use with me on anonymous forums.

>Here you go.
Okay?
>I'm Anglo (with a tiny, tiny amount of Italian)
Good for you, I'll wait for actual proof yet again.

Oh I should say she is also extremely red pilled and always was about niggers, jews etc. She is also the granddaughter of a Hitler youth woman and is aware about the reality of our age.

That is also extremely important, fuck anyone who bases things from 'muh feels'