Why aren't young men interested in dating anymore?

Why aren't young men interested in dating anymore?

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I think many are, it's just you need someone worth dating. Someone college age dipshit with gigantic glasses and pink hair reminding you why you're the enemy as you pay for their vegan meal and 3 mojitos just isn't super appealing.

Because porn exists, and women are too much hassle. Why chase the pussy when you can just crank one out to sissy boipucci getting creamed and avoid females craziness

Because they're lazy fucks that won't put in the work for the ass

Hypergamy.

When you're an 8/10 guy, the only women making it really obvious are 3/10 and under. If we keep going down, then there's literally no one for 6/10 males and down because women are simply refusing.

They are collectively revolting against average men by rejecting superior men.

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Your graph shows the opposite though, dipshit

Because I can't be bothered and it saves money

Pretty obviously because we're saying that enough is enough!

I'm poor and I'll feel super insecure about having a mommy gf if I don't have a job.

The jews have destroyed too much.

Porn mostly.
Fucks up their dopamine and testosterone levels.
Guys in the 40s would have killed to see a thigh.
And would have jacked off till sundown

Why would men date when they can bang girls on Tinder whenever/with the prospect of getting accused or rape, getting cheated on, getting married and then divorced

After having used things such as okcupid and tinder, as well as knowing of other men who've used such experiments, the monumental amount of rejection experienced on the male side of things I think has left most of the male population [who've used such things] dejected and with lack of hope.

Itl'dr It's because of online rejection. Or, in most cases, being ignored (which sucks)

Because I don't to want have my life ruined by some degenerate whore.

My ex almost broke me.

Never again.

Get a job.
If you live with your parents get a part time job so it will cover the dates and shit.

>Your graph shows the opposite though, dipshit
Ummmm... user, did you fail math class?
The graph sows that males who are unattractive do not get many messages sent to them. Then the men who are attractive to a greater proportion of the messages sent to them.
If anything, I would've expected a more dramatic graph. We're heading toward a situation in which the top 10 percent of men are getting maybe 75 percent of women. Most women don't mind sharing, so long as they have got access to a very attractive man. This leaves the other 90 percent of men to fight over the scraps of the female population (the bottom 25 percent). This is why I've chosen not to play this game any more. And the women only really want your money anyway.

yea, why the fuck do we have to go chase the bitches. Why it is not reciprocal?? They always wait for our move, always, why?

Dude, I've been through that phase. Then I got with another chick. And she left me crumpled more than the first chick.

Single life 4ever

[spoiler]maybe[/spoiler]

It shows more women are judged average than men who are more likely to be judged below average?

theblog.okcupid.com/your-looks-and-your-inbox-8715c0f1561e

BTW you can also see the effort drop out for higher end people, people avoid them due to imposter syndrome, they dont believe they could have them making some high standard men very lonely. It gets worse, because this effect is NOT MINIMISED under hypergamy.

Yes, this adds to the infertility as the men that women do find acceptable suddenly make those same women feel uncomfortably inferior.

This is why the west will collapse and (((they'll))) blame it on young men not trying enough, as if that's not exactly the point. Yes, boys, becomes needy betas. Women always say yes to the extremely forward guy.

D1g1ts

You try finding a girl whos worth dating when you live in a black/liberal shithole

Because every chick is thinking "Why don't guys just make the first move?"

Most guys don't. a la "Why doesn't he make the first move?"

I get my dating advice from songs about Australian women.

youtube.com/watch?v=XfR9iY5y94s

I am. But I am tired of women's bullshit. So I tend to leave quickly.

Me on the left

They are, they just don't have the money to pay for dates which is why guys would rather cut the bullshit and get right to the sex with things like Tinder rather than waste money on a date that 'might' lead to something more.

Just going out to see a movie can cost $20-$30 when you consider the cost of tickets, popcorn, and drinks. Plus you may have actual dinner to pay for, maybe drinks, and transportation costs, which all add up to make going out on a date fairly expensive.

How many young people can seriously afford all that?

To make things more awkward you have women wanting to mostly go on dates with those few guys that can afford to pay for all that, which then makes it seem like the norm to them, raising their expectations beyond what the average guy could provide.

Feminism is turning a lot of men off.

feminism happened while we were forced into unemployment and then our western culture and future was sold to the fucking middle east.

We are interested, on the whole. Young women have simply been sold the lie of exorbitant material standards.

I am too smart to fall for the vagina Jew.

Dating is degeneracy.

Having a harem is where it's at.

Because computer monitors and porn have come a long way. Lotta dudes would rather not deal with their shit.

Call me a sucker, call me naive. Even after a divorce I still believe in the idea of love.
However.

I have no interest in a meaningless relationship with a banged out whore just because I get lonely from time to time.

Face it. The number of women who deserve a relationship is hundreds or thousands of times smaller than the number of hard working stable men who deserve a relationship.

Some of the "good women" end up in shitty relationships early in their life and get ruined by them.

The bad ones, as much as they might be good breeding material ruin themselves personally with muh patriarchy bullshit

There's nothing really in it for me. I've had a son and as much as I want nothing more than to be a Father again, I won't do it with any woman, and most women are below my standards.

I don't date whores. I don't date girls who think their career is everything, I don't date women who are not charming or pleasant to be around, I don't date women who don't act feminine, actually feminine, not just trolls in booty shorts flashing their feminine goods off.

I want a woman who is strong, sweet, kindhearted, mother material who will support me as a man and be my queen.

Women like the one in your picture OP, disgust me. And that is all women are now and I refuse to take part or participate in that.
It wouldn't be so bad if I weren't socially shamed and treated like shit by women for trying to correct their disgusting behavior.

The cost/benefit ratio is heavily skewed against men these days. When it was closer to 50/50 interest in relationships and dating was much higher.

I'd rather suck a dick

The problem is that we dont know what they are thinking, so the effort to be end humilliated, its not worthy.

Women suck.

Women are fucking retarded thats why. Try going out there and meeting them

I really want to date a girl. I guess I'm picky because I want the hot girl who will love me.

>sees flag

Checks out.

*takes shit on face in middle of self absorbed windbag speech*

Who cares about humiliation, women are just difficult to understand and you need to constantly please them or they look else where

>women go for top looks
>they only want money anyway
pick one

this man speaks the truth

god im agreeing with a leaf

There was a thread in the archives on how women think and it made so much sense. I forgot to save it sadly, but I will give you an example of their behavior. When a woman takes a picture of something in a selfie and points it out, and is smiling or whatever that means she wants an opinion on what she is doing without whoring for it. Its crazy and don't know why they are so fucking scared of opinions but I was red pilled on women mindset a long time ago.

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If you dont have money, you need the looks

If you don't have the looks, you need money

Because white women and millenial culture sucks. The africans can have em for all i care.

it's okay user, I'm dual US/CAD

Sorry I took the time to genuinely respond to the question. Can't get your ADHD prescription filled because the only port the Crew wants to annex is your anus?

ill drop a gem or two

Young men are dating. Maybe its just racist, sexist assholes that aren't dating (because they can't find anyone that will date or have sex with them).

and by "or two" i literally meant two

Dating is a lot of work without much return. I quit for a while to focus on school. Eventually I will pick it up again when I have the time and the resources, but its a pretty labor intensive hobby if you don't have the right tools.

>>women go for top looks
>>they only want money anyway
The two are combined. For women, attractiveness means success, which means wearing good suits, having a nice car, having a personal trainer. When women rate men on attractiveness, they're really rating the level of protection and support they think the man can provide along with the level of social status they'll achieve by being associated with a desirable man whom others want too. There's no contradiction here. Women want everything. It's why I'm staying away.

the ability to have sex without having to bear the responsibilities that come with conception (thanks to contraception and abortion) as created a society where men can treat woman as sex objects rather than treating them like future mothers, hence the death of chivalry and the oversexualization of women

don't like talking to women
don't even like being around them

I went on one date once
it was awful

Because they're lazy and expect women to fling themselves at them without putting any effort into it.

I was on a date with a girl and she started disrespecting me, and at first I was confused. Then I realized what was going on, I told the waitress to bring the check, the girl said "I'm not done" I said "I am" and left. Hahah I still get pissed off thinking about that moment in time.

and most women realize it's called the 1% for a reason.

Religious girls are conservative. It's how I date

meant to add:
"dating" is for those who want serious relationships
young men are not looking for serious relationships, they are looking for sex objects, and therefore, porn, hookers, strippers and bar sluts are satisfying enough for most of them

Nice super autismo joke. If I was a woman I would be repulsed by you and my vagina would be very dry.

women have mastered myspace angles

I have both and in a city as degenerate as NYC, neither matters. I've dated high and low and it's always the same...if you say anything that strays from the radical leftist narrative (i.e. express any admiration for traditionalism) you are dead in the water. Single women in New York are either independently wealthy (and unhappy) or poor and supported by their parents. Being able to provide a comfortable lifestyle is meaningless to them, and there are 10,000 8/10's right behind you. Fucking depressing being here and "making it" only to find white millennial women don't care. I'm done with dating for now.

>And the women only really want your money anyway.

The want a young wealthy chad basically, 50 shades of gay is the hint.

Most guys have no idea how delusional and unrealistic women can be.

Giving our women to the aliens is not the way out sir. It's a battle of the minds, and propaganda

Most religious conservative girls i meet have a dad that looks scarey as fuck. Like this one girl I am eyeing her dad is a correctional officer and hes bald so thats an immediate red flag. Im a family man I want to get to know her family too, but man does that dude scare me.

women are cunts. that's why. only good for sex. that's about it.

Sometimes i've think this way. I have nothing to say to them, i do not share their trivial goals of life and other trivial instagram stuff.

I have a wife and kid so i did my part but if my wife were to leave idk if i could plunge back into the dating scene without feeling jaded and annoyed. If that ever happens i swear im looking for me a black or asian woman to treat me right.

>women only date up
>because of feminism, increasingly less men in Universities and good graduate jobs
>less "suitable" men to go around for them
>entire generation of roasties ageing who will be forced to settle for betas
>lot of men don't give a shit about some "career woman" and would have just wanted a nice homely qt who would be a good wife and mother
>fat, tattooed, behave like men, useless degrees, debt, multiple sexual partners, society that shuns masculinity and disadvantages you in purusing tertiary education/career despite women being over-represented
>drop out of society

an entire generation of women cucked themselves out of ever finding a husband/boyfriend, as well as (((them))) in raising the next generation of worker bots

Because women aren't a prize any more? They're used goods.

>autismo
>if I was a woman
>was
Oh, you're 12 and you still think pirates are cool

(you)
i know you worked hard for that one, so enjoy

Chad

Is that what the woman enablers are into these days? Who knows

I've had different very experiences so considering I'm not rich (though I did always pay for dates) which is it?! I'm decent looking and in shape but that should not be enough according to you.

I just want a virgin, otherwise this would be a million times easier.

This sums it up perfectly.
Men used to have to fight to win the honor of a Lady.
We used to have to compete with one another. That's no longer the case. Women throw their "liberated" bodies around the sexual marketplace from as early as 13/14 to their mid 30s then expect a man to want her.

And the problem is, she settles with a beta male orbiter who's just happy to have someone so he won't be lonely.
Which is why most marriages end in divorce, because relationships aren't relationships anymore, they're selfish facades where both parties are just entering into a mutually beneficial cohabitation agreement.
A man can be codependent because he doesn't want to die alone and a woman can get paid for her services.

>Australian dude knows

>Pick one

No thanks, I'll have Chad's kids but you can raise them for me on your dime! ;)

My theory is that the problem is boys today don't have good father figures, they need to be shown examples of healthy male virility. This is why an experienced alpha-male should place them in a submissive position as he enforces an ideal heterosexual partnership on him. If boys receive training like this for a few years, homosexual degeneracy will eliminated.

This works because after they find themselves begging to be fucked and then moaning like a girl uncontrollably, they'll be humiliated. When they feel the shame of being treated like a woman, and being forced to cum by a merciless big manly cock, they'll seek out women to do the same thing to. Ever wonder why 96% of women have penis envy? it's because of this. Our brains are wired to want to fuck as an evolutionary response to being uncontrollably fucked. Only women lack the hardware to make use of this. This is the only way to solve the problem of feminization, which is why the Greek and Romans knew they had to do it.

what do you think? I've thought of some ideas about the specifics what such a program would look like, if anyone has any questions.


ideally it would be integrated into the education system. From puberty until graduation, when you will be given the right to touch women, to refer to your boypussy as an anus, and allowed to cut your hair.

To be honest I don't really see the point in dating, I am just holding out for sexbots or something to give me the intimate contact that I need every like 2 months and I would never need a woman. I don't like people and don't want kids so outside of just some intimate contact women hold nothing to make me interested enough to work for it.

Lol, just because of 1 bad experience you guys are this jaded?! I'm not saying you did anything wrong on that date but why are you holding it against the next random girl over what the previous did?

I find this hilarious because men will have the last laugh as we take the next generation of women. I know so many girls from my uni who are headed on this path. Its already starting to happen to some and it brings a smile to my face when I see the quiet desperation they are facing. Actually I was at a bar the other day and saw a pretty cute older 20s girls dancing with a middle aged dude. She looked so miserable and dead inside. I made eye contact with her and just started laughing. She turned away. It made my night and my friends and I still talk about it.

we fucked, aint it?

AWALT

And in paralel the non-european pop is groowing inside our countries, and even some of our women betraying all our ancestor's dating tehm. So basically no future for the west.

Read the manipulated man by esther vilar (?). You will probably kill yourself for being a fool for so long.

Look at this fucking guy's face. No matter how much he tries, he can't fuck his emptiness away. He knows no amount of hedonistic pleasures will ever give him a true purpose in life. That no woman can alleviate him of his sins.

This is the modern man. Drowning himself in excess until he feels nothing.

Just seemed obvious .... not hard at all

there's no need to date when you have a waifu

>sex sells

It's strong jaw lines that sell, apparently, as the fashion industry is ran completely by gay, flamboyant twinks.

the only thing you'll have left over from Chad is Shamekas drug resistant gonorrhea in your throat and Cervical cancer.

Because there aren't "plenty of fish in the sea" like we were told growing up.

When you use variables like obesity, children, race, etc, there is only 1 good woman for every 5+ men looking.

For example, im a 30 year old white male living in California. If you showed me 100 women aged 30, 25 will be hispanic fatties, 45 will be married, maybe 30 will be single, of which 15 are obese, of which 8 are single mothers.

There just isnt as big of a pie in a multiculting obese melting pot of a world we live in now adays. Factor in high speed internet with 1080p pron, and women owning the dating game, the math just doesnt add up.
Im just throwing out numbers, but you get the point.

If I could go back in time, Id tell myself to marry my high school sweatheart.

It's a jungle out there

>elbow men out of uni so you can go instead
>get some degree thanks to diversity focused grants and scholarships
>get a cushy office job straight of school from some quota
>decide work is boring, want to get married
>where have all the good men gone?
>why do none of them have uni degrees or good jobs
>wtf men????????

Not him but, it's not really individual girls. I mean, of course it is, but the general trends have ideological underpinnings that have spread far. I'm attracted to femininity, north american culture for the last 30 years has been a clear steer away from that. It's all fine and well to tell women they would be far happier being angry men with vaginas but unless men want to fuck that it's not going to work out. I for one do not.

no, you're not. Some random qt will walk by and you'll forget everything that happened in the past. One day I'm like "stupid whores" the next "wow who's that, she's amazing, and probably an innocent virgin"