How do I quit my porn addiction? I quit for months but just relapsed hard

How do I quit my porn addiction? I quit for months but just relapsed hard.

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Gas the kikes, kill all porn stars, and torch the servers that host porn.

Don't fap to porn, don't seach for porn.

Find a girl to actually have sex with

You're on the right track user. I relapsed a couple of times after going NoFap too. I don't know about you, but every time I went back to porn after 'quitting' I started feeling disgusted both at myself and what I was watching. It became more clearer every time that pornography is an unnatural perversion and it inflicts a quantifiable damage upon your psyche. I can't say for sure that I won't go back again in some moment of weakness, but I guess I'm on the right track.. and so are you. Don't give up believing in your better self.

I'd say start by weaning yourself off it. Stick to pictures instead of videos. Then non-porngraphic pictures.

Premarital sex is even worse because you are hurting someone else

Different guy, but no thanks. They're annoying. I'm also afraid of myself at this point because I might end up choking them to death.

Why would you do that?

Get a wife who's always fucking home in a small house so that you're never alone. That'll solve that problem right away.

"Relapsing" is part of the process. Use the disappointment that you feel in yourself to further galvanize yourself against it.

Deep-set issues. Most of them seem to pick up on the hatred anyway. Also when they're particularly ugly and go out of their way to annoy me, I tend to tell them they are. They're not nice on the inside either.

>How do I quit my porn addiction?
>Gas the kikes, kill all porn stars, and torch the servers that host porn.

>Find a girl to actually have sex with

You should work on that first. I have issues I need to work out too so to be clear I am not speaking from contempt, but from concern.

>You should work on that first.

Too late. Whenever I see some fat shit fucking a chick in amateur porn and they act like they're having fun... They're never good thoughts. They're so indescribable I can't put them into words.

not trying to start an argument, but i don't "weaning" remotely works. if you're a porn addict, the random thought "search for cute bikini pictures" followed by looking at such pictures has a way of becoming a very slippery slope. just as edging becomes wanking, unless you've been wanking so much you can ride that edge much longer.

but maybe that's just me.

It's really hard. I haven't watched porn in almost a year but the images and videos are still engrained in my mind. You just have to fight it. Now I only masturbate ~2 a month and it's only to my own thoughts that aren't porn, but even then I feel immense shame. You can beat it, you just have to be stronger then it. I wish I could give you something better. But when the urges come, distract yourself and focus on something else. Don't force the urges away, just get to a better place and they'll fade away

>I started feeling disgusted both at myself and what I was watching. It became more clearer every time that pornography is an unnatural perversion and it inflicts a quantifiable damage upon your psyche.
i relapsed, disgust, etc. all the signs.

i need a waifu.

It really doesn't solve the problem if you have porn addiction. Also having a girl doesn't mean that you have access to her pussy on a daily basis. I have a girl and we fuck 3 to 4 times a week, and I still watch porn. Fuck this addiction.

Simply moderate it. Abstaining is fucking ridiculous.

It's only too late if you decide it is. The first step there is to stop putting yourself in that situation. I used to get upset when I would say hi to women and they would ignore me. Then I stopped saying hi and I stopped getting upset.

I think that's really bad advice

start a prostitute addiction \

Hey Op, why u love the bbc

>Find a girl to actually have sex with
Doesn't work unless it happens daily or you want to abstain to maximize the facial blast or something. Fapping addiction is just orgasm addiction, so without a change in mindset there will still need to be orgasms whenever real fucking isn't happening.

do you realize how much money the person who uploads the videos gets ? a video that gets REPOSTED gets 500k+ views. thats str8 money.

I have a gf with a healthy sex and I still jack it whenever I can. Doesn't seem to effect my libido at all.

>porn addiction relapse: hard edition
I don't want to know what kind of a mess a hard relapse makes

seven days no fap is my record, it's pathetic

porn is great , sex is better , ive better orgasms when i jerk off to my brothers girlfriend and that one night for a week i couldve plowed her senseless. or my moms workfriend who lived with us for a while when i was 16 in her thongs and tshirt , or that one sleepover of 3 girls and another dudebro at 13 where we had pretend sex with clothes on , or that one girl that got drunk of my girfriends house who straight up asked to fuck and i was speechless but fap to the fantasy to this day.

take these words of wisdom , if a women offers her vagina go for it , even if out of your league or under - when you get post 30s they will become nightmarish fap fantasies to "what couldve been".

man i couldve scored so much more unprotected creampie sex i could write a fucking book about it but because of "muh standarts" and "muh thats not right senpai" i didnt and i REGRET everysingle one of them not getting fucked hard and long as they deserved it.

If you are a true man, you NEED porn. Men need to have sex a lot but since our society is fucked up, we can't fuck every women we want. So get a wife, fuck her as much as you can and fap a lot.

accept failure and learn from it
what triggered the relapse?
can you avoid it?

Sup Forums is not good in this regard
too many threads with sexy women to attract people

thanks rabbi for that sage advice.

>I used to get upset when I would say hi to women and they would ignore me. Then I stopped saying hi and I stopped getting upset.

I don't think I've even once said hi to a woman. Some of them will smile and stare and sometimes I'll stare back sternly and angrily till their stupid faces look away scared.

Your story is how you create monsters. Men are expected to be the ones who approach. Men stop approaching because they can't even get an acknowledgement of existence.

You know the last option is the least realistic one.

why would you stop? all the white girls are fucking niggers anyway m8, we can't compete

The thing is that no fap (in my experience) just makes you so damn horny that you can't focus as well on things. What I've been doing is just edging a few times a week using my imagination or just pictures. Edging gets rid of my desire to fuck things for a while, and apparently doesn't increase estrogen (only ejaculation does).

Maybe I've just fallen for another Jewish trick, but it's working for me so far, since my sexual fetishes are pretty much gone and I don't lose my drive to do other things like I do after ejaculating.

pray

Also, another thing that's fun to do is to go on facebook or a dating app if you're decent enough looking (if not, use a fake pic), find a chick, and string them along for a while and finally telling them that they're ugly pieces of shit that should kill themselves.

It's better than fucking I'd imagine.

Let them hit the wall m8
How old are you?

Move to England after 2018 when it enforces ID verification for porn sites. The nanny state will monitor and censor your internet browsing routine for you so that you can surf government-sanctioned websites with a peace of mind.

We live in a corrupt society of deception, gluttony, decadence. Pure evil. The whole world is like that but especially the west. Jews really do actually push slut culture. I didn't believe the guys here who said that but then I looked it up and one by one it's true. Porn, trannies, gays, women being sluts, it's all spearheaded by the jews in some fashion.
NoFap is a test of what you are as a man and as a human on this planet, to see if you have the strength to reject and overcome the evil thrown at you.

There's a difference between condemning malevolence and turning the molevolence of others into being malevolent yourself and if you walk down that road m8 you're gonna get stomped in life like you can't even imagine

Get yourself a girlfriend. Fuck her every night. Problem solved.

You know it's not that easy and you also know that you probably don't wanna fuck what you're getting when you make it that easy

you have to keep at it, keep reminding yourself why it's a worthwhile effort (you're abandoning something unskillful), keep fostering resolve, a sense of nobility that these unskillful things are beneath you, stick with helpful methods (like contemplating the unattractiveness of the body - break the porn actors down into their body parts and ask yourself what on earth is attractive about these bags of skin, flesh, bones, organs, etc..)

keep cultivating dispassion - it's not about forcefully "repressing" anything as they say. the image is like that of a ripe fruit: it falls from the tree on its own. in the same way, when your insight and understanding has ripened through continuous discernment, you're letting go, naturally, effortlessly.

Thanks. OP can just stop in to the gf store on his way home from work and pick up a gf and his addiction will go away like magic. Not sure why he didn't think of it before.

>gonna get stomped in life like you can't even imagine

I don't care

I've read your posts and I see signs of you in me. I resonate with you but as with everything, we must adapt constantly.
The best thing you can do is realize how bad things are and refuse to take part in it. Don't listen to Sup Forums when they tell you to date sluts and worship women. You have an advantage here. You see the world for what it is and you're a sovereign man who is living in your own skin. Don't fuck that up. There are people out there who would LOVE to make an example out of guys like you. Don't give them that luxury.

Well he can go to the store and hire a whore. Is it somehow better that it's with a woman?

He can also fap without porn, if quitting porn is the issue.

>Then non-porngraphic pictures.
Can you give an example of a non-pornographic pic you fapped to? kinda curious what it could be

I dont know Man, this addiction is hard to quit especially if you've been doing it for years. I'm trying a 4-day system where I tell myself not to do porn for 4 days but every day those 4 days are renewed so I never do porn and I resist the urges by telling myself to hold it for 4 more days.

How? It sounds like he's doing the stomping you cuck.

It is fun. Sometimes just getting confirmation that the woman will fuck is good enough for me. Once they confirm, depending on how I feel, I just ignore them. They always assume I found a better option. Feels good to take them down a peg, and those girls usually hit me up the most after I've rejected them.

You will care. You can say you don't believe in good, fine. But you can't say you don't believe in suffering and the suffering just suddenly stops, things don't work that way. And you're on the right track to learn that lesson the hard way.

Replace it with something constructive. Try to stay two steps ahead of it by keeping busy.

Also you're more likely to relapse when you're bored so get an activity to do every day so that you remain preoccupied.

There's a special place in hell for people who try to create hell on earth for others

This is like telling an alcoholic to simply moderate it.

One is an "alcoholic" because one *can't* moderate it. Likewise a porn addict is someone who blew through the moderation stage a long time ago.

Now, that's a drag, just like it's a drag being an alcoholic. But it is what it is.

When I was young we didn't have internet so I fapped to various fully clothed celebrities or whatever I could find in magazines around the house.

This
There are two kinds of drinkers. The first has no idea how anyone can ever become an alcoholic, he just thinks they must be weak or stupid or something else. But the second kind are the people who can't take one drink without trying to get completely obliterated and just take drink after drink until they pass out.

^ What user said.

The cure is action. Find something to do, focus totally on the task before you.

ohh... thought you meant inanimate objects

Switch to Hentai

Trust me, you won't regret it.

watch some cheapo d rated porn with obvious methheads
you will lose your taste for it eventually

>basis. I have a girl and we fuck 3 to 4 times a week, and I still watch porn. Fuck this addiction.
>sees flag
Wew, remember to confess before taking bread, as it is mortal sin.
Kek

>alcoholic stops drinking = dead
>porn addict stops fapping = ??????

A different user posted that, but I assume that is what he meant. Your imagination and less explicitly pornographic images would be 100X better than black midget tranny anal gape or whatever the fuck is being pushed right now

no it's really not, you're just a deeply fucked up turbovirgin
having a 10 moaning whilst getting properly dicked, is definitely much better than your aspie adventures
never mind the fact that if you know what you're doing, your gf has your back like a family dog and sides with you almost instantly regarding anything, but you just have no idea about that type of shit, since you're a pasty cheeto-assassin fuck whom if anything people would only have sex with out of pity

>Also you're more likely to relapse when you're bored so get an activity to do every day so that you remain preoccupied.

That's what got me this time, after a pretty good nofap run of about two months.

A relaxing Sunday afternoon, but feeling a little bored, and I came across a post on /lit/ of all places that triggered me. Boom. Deep dive into depravity. Exhaustion and disgust.

I cannot stand porn. Refuse to be manipulated by the vagina jew. You give me that pussy, or it's off down the road I go. Not paying for it, not staring at it on a computer.

how about you masturbate but without the porn, you complete dumbass, how have you "nofappers" still not realized this?
> not touching the dick for 2 months
do you want to become some sort of asexual bitchboy or something?

get a wife

There's some anger and jealousy coming through your post. Why?

It is impossible without Christ, but with him it was the easiest thing I have done.

you should read the garbage you've written, before trying to cuckpedal off with your
> projection!
hackusations, you utter sadcase
I'd sure love to see you trying to pull any of your school-shooter type antics, sadly all you have probably ever done is harass landwhales on tinder

Time to kill yourself.

>You know it's not that easy and you also know that you probably don't wanna fuck what you're getting when you make it that easy
No i don't know....
If you find it "difficult" , it just means that you have to fix yourself first. Maybe you have psychological problems...Maybe you're too insecure. Go to the gym , work out...Find a job that makes money....Problem solved.
Maybe you have a small dick and that's why you're insecure ? That i'll admit...I can't help you with.
If you have a big cock or at least...A normal sized cock. And if you're not fucking quasimodo (ugly as sin). Then you can easily find girls to fuck.

Being addicted to porn means that something's missing in your life. I only masturbate to porn if there's no one i can have sex with.
Get yourself a girlfriend....a girl that preferably likes you for who you are. Fuck her very night.

If you're that desperate or if you find this simple task too difficult , you can always pay for an escort/hooker. But that won't solve anything. Because it's expensive and you can't afford to pay for a prostitue every fucking night. Not to mention many have stds. (such as an accumulation of HPV viruses). And sex is never the same when you're doing it with someone who's pretending , acting emotions...

>psychological problems
>Go to the gym , work out
>Find a job that makes money
>Maybe you have a small dick
>Not to mention many have stds.

Passing out the unintentional black pills like candy.

switch to ero manga

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> it just means that you have to fix yourself first.
I know, that's how it works
>Go to the gym , work out
Started 2 weeks ago
>Find a job that makes money
I'm not even 21 and already make net income that's above national average so yes I have a pretty good job
>Maybe you have a small dick and that's why you're insecure ?
I'm not even really insecure, I just don't approach girls when I know that they're in a situation where it's likely that they don't want to be approached, like when I'm sitting next to one in the metro or similar
And what does the dick size have to do with that? I have a pretty good dick, also well above national average and as far as I know women don't have a dick vision that lets them see through my pants
>I only masturbate to porn if there's no one i can have sex with.
Masturbation isn't good for you either way idiot
>Get yourself a girlfriend....a girl that preferably likes you for who you are.
I probably don't put myself into situations where I get an opportunity to meet someone I guess but I don't want some slut from a disco
Even though I have a really good job, I'm still just 20 years old and there is nothing less valuable than a young man - but that changes over time. On the other hand there is nothing more valuable than a young woman - but that also changes over time.
The thing I can always do is improve myself steadily, take the good opportunities where I can get them and otherwise just wait until I'm a few years older and get some 20yo pussy that will pop out some white children with my seed

this this

Why would you go to all that trouble when you can just rape them and choke them out? The Muslims are doing it?

You have a very sick mind and I'd be afraid of myself if I were you

There's no such thing as porn addiction.
It's a meme created by Christfags who get busted cheating on their spouses.

You'll warm up to it when you realize all the effort you put in is for very little gain.

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>I'm not even really insecure, I just don't approach girls when I know that they're in a situation where it's likely that they don't want to be approached, like when I'm sitting next to one in the metro or similar

Well, there's ways around it. If you're too shy, go on a dating website , look for girls you're attracted to. Look for their expectations..(if they just want a one night stand , or long term relationship..etc..) Talking behind a computer will give you more confidence. But then you'll have to deal with a real life rendez vous. If you fuck up the rdv , you'll still get rejected.

If you get rejected , it'll give you insecurities, you'll feel like a failure...Ashamed , embarrassed...That is , you're not not prepared for such scenarios.

On the positive side, you've got nothing to lose. So if you get rejected, big deal , you'll get another rdv...maybe you'll also fail the 2nd , 3rd or 10th rdv.... That'll either give you more confidence for the 11th...maybe you'll be less shy for the 12th...And then ? jackpot !...

Think of it like a video game on hard mode. As long as you're healthy, as long as you make them laugh , as long as you pretend to be interested by what they're talking about...You'll definitely get some results.

I can't promess you that you'll have someone to fuck every night...(if you still live with your parents, you can always invite her at your home and if you're embarrassed about that...You can always aim for the cougars. Fuck them at their place. Some love younger males. The divorced ones...)

Just have fun. Don't take it too seriously. And fight your insecurities by fixing yourself first. Go to the gym. If you're an ugly or very average looking guy. At least fix your fucking body. (and money also helps). Have a sense of humor..)

You're a very bitter and sad person. If you don't change your ways you'll get washed away by the flood and you can't do anything about it
>I don't care
Get a rope and hang yourself then fucking idiot. Better end your miserable and disgusting life before you harm any more others

>harm any more others

I've never harmed anyone. Just making sure you realize that the black pill is the true red pill.

>Even though I have a really good job, I'm still just 20 years old and there is nothing less valuable than a young man - but that changes over time.

Wrong. Sorry man if feels to me like you're finding excuses...If already have a good job ? then you have no excuses...Unless you're fat as fuck and insecure. But in this case, fix yourself first.

>At least fix your fucking body. (and money also helps). Have a sense of humor.

Absolutely fucking pointless.

>I might end up choking them to death.
all women are submissive in bed, no matter how big and tough they act. Be rough when them, choking especially. They'll literally do anything for you if you fuck them right

>Absolutely fucking pointless.

Well, based on what you posted earlier..
I guess it's understandable if you're an absolute fucking failure at life. I mean someone who's thinking about (and i quote):
"you can just rape them and choke them out"

Has got to either be a bad troll , or the king of losers. Again, if these things don't work for you. Then look no further...You're the problem. Maybe women find you repulsive...Maybe there's something creepy about you. That's why you're forced to stick to porn.

Don't try to stop completely, but reduce it to just some nude pictures every once in a while.

>Well, there's ways around it. If you're too shy, go on a dating website , look for girls you're attracted to. Look for their expectations..(if they just want a one night stand , or long term relationship..etc..) Talking behind a computer will give you more confidence. But then you'll have to deal with a real life rendez vous. If you fuck up the rdv , you'll still get rejected.
The thing is, I'm not exactly shy. I can talk to girls very well even (most of the time) and I have female friends. What I meant was that I have to know it is probable that the other person is also looking for someone before I can approach her without having the feeling that I'm breaking the norms of society and I've never heard of girls who go looking for guys in the tram
The online dating is something I've thought about though, I'll probably try that some time soon

>If you get rejected , it'll give you insecurities, you'll feel like a failure...Ashamed , embarrassed...That is , you're not not prepared for such scenarios.
>On the positive side, you've got nothing to lose. So if you get rejected, big deal , you'll get another rdv...maybe you'll also fail the 2nd , 3rd or 10th rdv.... That'll either give you more confidence for the 11th...maybe you'll be less shy for the 12th...And then ? jackpot !...
That's true. Maybe I'm too sensitive. It sucks to be an INFP. But you're right, I've had quite a few disappointing experiences with girls and each of them made me stronger in the long run although I felt obliterated during the first two weeks
>Think of it like a video game on hard mode. As long as you're healthy, as long as you make them laugh , as long as you pretend to be interested by what they're talking about...You'll definitely get some results.
There's a lot of truth in that. I've watched a lot of Jordan Peterson's videos and he also talks about that so I've practiced it a lot over the past months and you really get people to like you very easily if you just forget about yourself for a moment and focus on them and listen
>Just have fun. Don't take it too seriously. And fight your insecurities by fixing yourself first.
I've started that process but I really have a problem with not taking it seriously because I don't like one night stands and I want to find decent future wife material
>Wrong. Sorry man if feels to me like you're finding excuses...If already have a good job ? then you have no excuses...Unless you're fat as fuck and insecure. But in this case, fix yourself first.
Well I'm looking for reasons and that's certainly a factor. I've met a 26yo girl a few weeks ago and I was really into her and I have a strong feeling that I would've been able to land a hit if it wasn't for my age

>Maybe women find you repulsive...Maybe there's something creepy about you. That's why you're forced to stick to porn.

Unintentionally passing out the black pills like candy again

You fuckers fall into this trap so easily because you're all secretly black pilled and you know it's the truth.

Yeah i know, it's hard...