Okay, this is gonna be tough for some to deal with, but it needs to be said - y'all went 14/88 WAY TOO FAST for the normies, and that's the only reason things aren't where you want them.
Leftists understand slow, incremental implementation of their ideals is how they got people on board with their loony shit - if they pushed for WHITE PEOPLE SUCK BALLS back in the early 1990s, they'd have buried themselves. What did they do? Made a long, 20+ year plan to keep bluepilling the normies slowly over time to get them used to the crazy shit they said, so that as they ramped up over the years, the old crazy shit no longer sounded crazy, and maybe the new ideas aren't so bad, either (and people fell for it).
What should the right have done? First, abandoned the division, agreed to work together, and found a mid-point where balance would be struck for a long-term redpilling that'd have tipped the scales.
Civic nationalists, while annoying to me, would have been great allies to say "Well, let's work together, and I'll put aside my GAS THE KIKES talk until we push the left back into their hole, then we can go back to bickering amongst each other". But nope, you had to go all-fucking-in and push too hard, too fast. Did you REALLY think that giving this much fuel for the MUH EBIL NAZEES crowd would work in our favor? Jesus Christ, it was a poor move to go forward this quickly.
If we'd have had the patience to put aside differences and work jointly without the excessive memery involved, we'd probably have had Antifa labeled terrorists by now, but instead, it's flipped and now we're the "bad guys" because you civicfags can't stand anything that upsets you, and you nazifags can't tone it down long enough to ACTUALLY get some acceptance.
This is why the right always fucks up as soon as it gets some power - we never work as cohesively as the left does, and we pay the price.
Learn from this mistake, people.