Is it really a problem if a girl has slept with 30,40,50 etc + men?

Is it really a problem if a girl has slept with 30,40,50 etc + men?

My girlfriend was the town bike back in school and still is an absolute slut. In fact, she's gone through my entire circle of friends (either fucked or dated), easily 70+ men in total (this is a conservative estimate) at 20 and now she's dating me.

I know it's the here and now that matters and I really love this girl but I can't shake the feeling of disgust. She's clean and childfree so I'm not sure where this sense of occasional yet visceral, loathing and revulsion stems from.

I mean logically it shouldn't matter she's fucked loads of guys, but emotionally it does for some reason.

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Bottom left needs to do that on my face.

This may come as a shock to you, but odds are that she will not return your feelings of devotion, if you know what I mean.

imagine how much sperm went through that mouth, extremely hot if you ask me

You'll always resent her, just wait til she calls you the wrong name. Then you'll get it.

Listen to the wisdom.

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most of these girls are fat. wtf man

Those are some surprisingly chunky cheerleaders

That fat bitch on the right needs to put down the fork.

Why are you looking for logic in matters of love, user? It's inherently illogical. It only makes sense from an evolutionary biology perspective. And from there, you can derive your answer.

Your instincts are evolutionarily beneficial to you. They ensure quality offspring and a dedicated, healthy mother who won't sleep around on you. Loose women destroy societies. Loose women destroy marriages. Loose women ruin the men who rely on them.

What's the story with this pic?

Just get out now, there are more fish in the sea

dump her, she will eventually cheat on you, I don't fucking care what you think

you can't make a whore a housewife

Forget about everything except for this scientifically proven fact.

People who have fucked many people lose the abillity to pairbond.
This results in unfullfilling relationships and bad parenting.

>Angels

op is a faggot.

bro PLEASE tell me you don't eat her pussy...

because you know you are just one in the hundreds she will have sex with, you are not special, there is no love, just bestiality. Dump her.

>girls older than 15
ew

I was with a bitch that told me she had slept with 20+ men, I didn't think anything of it. I may have an STD now. I get spots on my ass occasionally... Never trust degenerates, they need to be mass-gassed, not "rehabilitated into loving partners" like the media suggests.

Let me guess, you don't have any meaningful bond with her whatsoever.

>she's gone through my entire circle of friends (either fucked or dated)
Holy shit user. Forget whatever numbers, this alone should be a reason not to be with her.

>Loose women destroy societies
When has that happened?

and?

Unless you have the explicit notion that your subjective experience is reflective of some sort of objective truth, then there isn't anything meaningful to your circumstance or feelings.

If however you do have the explicit notion that your subjective experience is reflective of some sort of objective truth... well then. Maybe you're on to something meaningful.

OP you should get out now. Dont get devoted to someone who doesnt know what devotion is. Thats the reason why its bad to sleep with 70 dudes. Or really even just 10.

This. Follow your instincts OP.

kek

Having a gf is alot like having a sandwich. Id just feel alot better if someone hadnt fucked it before i get to it.

Indeed, be aware of the HPV risk

Does any of those findings imply anything at all though? What does ancient Sumerian religion have to do with anything?

>Is it really a problem if a girl has slept with 30,40,50 etc + men?
even 1 is a problem

fake and gay and what is that herbal aroma i detect?
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Look outside Sweden.

thats disgusting sir. have some fucking self respect you god damn brit and dump the whore and find a wholesome girl

I'm sure some user will post the infograph but the correlation between high sexual partner count and relationship instability is pretty fucking solid. Seems like you're setting yourself up for some pain, user. I say this as someone who thinks mgtow and all the other /r9k/ bullshit is nonsense

>Having a gf is alot like having a sandwich. Id just feel alot better if someone hadnt fucked it before i get to it.
KEK

>30
>goes up to +
mate
I read just a little bit more to make sure
>My girlfriend was the town bike
Yes.
drop her like a sack of rocks.

That wasn't particularly helpful, really.

youtube.com/watch?v=Abrn8aVQ76Q

If they only slept you are right maybe

>I mean logically it shouldn't matter she's fucked loads of guys, but emotionally it does for some reason.
this is all that matters. perhaps it is some deep rooted primal emotion based off of cavemen having to defend their women by being extremely jealous i dont know.
all i know is that women dont give a shit if a man has been around in fact sometimes they like that even more. but most men get a horrible gut wrenching feeling when they think abot the woman they love being gang banged by a squad of guys no matter how long ago it was. it is a mixture of intense jealousy and disgust that many men experience and it is not taught. the only exception to this are cucks and men who are not capable of loving a woman.

it makes no sense and it shouldnt matter but it does.

Feminists run your government. Your country is currently in the process of dying.

Fpbp

When you see it you'll shit bricks

Wrong name would be nice. The moment she thinks she can get away with it is the moment she gets fucked by some other guy.

Right, but do you have any examples of societies already destroyed?

>no matter how close I zoom in this image will never include front left's qt butthole

life is pain

She's probably not going to stop being the town bicycle while dating you. People avoid gigantic sluts like that because no one wants to get cucked.

Yeah, I made the mistake of sleeping with women who'd been with lots of guys. First off, it's not pleasant. It's an awkward situation because even you yourself can feel that you haven't "earned" the sex. You can tell she's fragile and searching for something to fulfill her through your sexuality. Even your instincts will tell you not to do it. Something is wrong here. This isn't like the other times, and there's no love here.

And because of that feeling, you'll wake up in the morning and just want to GTFO. You'll see her, and you'll know she gave it up too easy, so you want to run off, fearing the awkward experience of either A) having to let her down easy, or B) hurting her feelings and feeling like an asshole. Then she'll wonder what it was that scared you away, when in fact it's two sides of the same coin. She lured you in with her fucked up sexuality, and once you got your rocks off, that same sexuality now tells you to run far away. And she'll repeat the same process night after night for years on end, wondering why she can get so many guys into her bed, but so few of them stick around.

It feels gross, and you'll wish you'd never even done it in the first place. If I have a son, I'm going to make him perfectly aware of this fact. Don't sleep with women who will sleep with you right away. Odds are good you're not the only one she's given it up to so easily, and odds are even better that she's trying to lure you in with sex because some other aspect of her personality is lacking.

>but emotionally it does for some reason.

Yes it does.
psychologytoday.com/blog/fulfillment-any-age/201304/the-lingering-psychological-effects-multiple-sex-partners

>The Lingering Psychological Effects of Multiple Sex Partners
>When it comes to the long-term effects of multiple sex partners, less is more

Your friend will suffer a load of psychological and substance abuse issues in her lifetime.
RUN AWAY. RUN THE FUCK AWAY.

i had a problem knowing my gf had fucked 2 guys before, i cant even imagine being a cuck like OP putting your dick somewhere 40+ sweaty dicks have ejaculated in

haha that is your fault and yours alone you simpleton. you are just as bad as her

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There's a reason every culture in the entire world, ever, holds disgust for such behavior. Humans have low number of partners and invest a lot of effort in their reproduction. We're an objectively K-selective species. Hypersexuality is a trait of animals. You're disgusted by sluts because you've been programmed to do so, and righteously so . It's completely against the order of man and his civilization. Giving women social power, and subsequently power over her sexuality, has always been a huge fucking mistake.

Run Forrest Run away Now!

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Why are women so fucking gay lol OP , it's objectively bad for women to be whores. Studies show that after like 2 dicks, you can't love anymore. This makes single mothers. This makes shit sucking kids. This makes society dead and you with it.

FUCK OFF BONG YOU FUCKING FUCKPUPPET

Marital happiness declines and divorce rates go up proportional to the number of partners a woman has had prior to her marriage.

>2 guys
she is practically a virgin. fellas let me tell you the average woman has slept with 40+ men by the time she is 30. this is just the harsh truth. if you can handle that sort of thing then marry and be happy if not just put as many babies in as many women as you can to ensure your genes dont die out. start a little harem.

DIO???

>british women
>50 women
>25 of them pakis before the age of 16

Nah senpai you're just a cuck.

For thousands of years men knew that women who weren't virgins would make poor wives and mothers. This was never in doubt. Sure, there were societies that allowed women to sleep around, but if they condoned such behavior, they sure as hell didn't put these women on a pedestal and wife them up. Monogamous pair bonding is only suitable for virgins. There are many evolutionary/biological/psychological reasons for this.

Now, the problem is, we live in an utterly debased time on the downswing phase of the cycle of civilizations. You have close to zero chance of finding a virgin woman to marry. Therefore, in order to reproduce, your only option is to marry and impregnate a slut. We have to degrade ourselves this way in order to pass on our DNA, in the hopes that our descendants will eventually be able to put these whores back in their place.

Do what you must men, but never forget that you deserve much much better.

And for this particular OP- what the fuck are you thinking? No way will this hoe walk the line for you. Grow up.

I seriously wish I took that advice. I broke up with her eventually but it was stupid to have been in that relationship.

>Is it really a problem if a girl has slept with 30,40,50 etc + men
It is. It's a common indication of a lack of respect and judgement.

>.t whore who has hit the wall and none of her 200 guys in her little black book will text back.
Feels Good Man.

Holy fuck user, if you aren't a socially maladjusted autist, you know that people have sex and it's inevitable to be with someone who has a past.

But 70+? I dated a girl who was around 11 and that was pretty grating. Jesus, 70 isnt even run of the mill for a man.

Humans form exclusive romantic bonds (mating pairs). This is a chemical change that happens in their brains. The operant bonding chemical is oxytocin, which is released during physical contact, cuddling, and of course sex.

A woman who has had sex with lots of men has half-formed bonds with each of them. This makes it very difficult for her to bond successfully with another man. Not saying it's impossible, but it could be - there might be a point when proper pair-bonding becomes impossible.

dude run for your fucking life

>I mean logically it shouldn't matter she's fucked loads of guys
Sounds like you're not very good at logic. Slutty behaviour is indicative of a number of things such as: Low self-esteem, self-loathing, daddy issues, lack of integrity, more likely to get divorced and/or cheat, less able to be pleased, less/incapable of forming emotional bonds through sex etc.

Don't do it OP, you can find better

You should end it now. This will not go away and may only intensify as other problems occur. It may even come out in a fight and at that point she will know how you feel and things will be different. Save both of you time or get the fuck over it.

304,050 men is quite a lot

Man, UK girls are sluts.

I feel like reasonable people don't understand what your life is like when you're sleeping with dozens and dozens and dozens of people. Generally it means either that you're pathologically averse to settling in a relationship or that there's something so wrong with you that people drop you fast.

I've worked for six years now in strip clubs, meaning that I'm constantly surrounded by naked women yet essentially toxic to civilian girls. I've had "relationships" with girls that I've never seen in natural light, and I gave up on the multiple name thing years ago. Having tons of micro relationships and people cycling in and out of your life makes you pretty miserable after a while.

goddamn, I didnt even notice the darkie until you pointed it out.

So where the flip do I find a virgin gf in this day and age?

One of the girls is chubby, and She would probably be in my top 3 picks.

You probably like that androgynous "little boy" look in your women, don't you?

>horse front row and center
>the state of british women
better get back in the EU - you're going to need all those new niggers

Whats it like? Is there any tread left on the tires or are you throwing a hotdog into a hallway?

I assure you my friend I am not lying. She was and is a massive S.L.U.T. with a capital S. An absolute whorebag of a woman, who would have a train ran on her a few times weekly. She's been fingered by almost every guy she's friends with and has no friends who are girls.

She's generally pretty cool, smokes weed and stuff like that, a bit druggie but that's par for the course nowadays. It's just I feel kind of an idiot associating with her because of her past you know. Like I get sniggers and wry smiles my way, stuff like that.

It also seems everyone here wants me to dump her ass.

>dated a girl who was around 11

Every time you kiss her you kiss every one of their cocks. That's why you feel disgusted.

Real talk. Who the fuck does she think she is joining this photo?

your left, or t-theirs..?

Put down the gay

But I do like how they made the nigger stand in the far back.

You're just another notch on her belt. Don't plan for an extended relationship if she's burnt her way through a forest of dick.

>It's just I feel kind of an idiot associating with her because of her past you know.
Listen to your feelings. You'd have to be insanely desperate to settle for that.

bottom right looks really familiar for some reason

Before I met my wife in high school I fucked the high school slut for a few months..Great tits and ass and she even gave me a blow job a week before I fucked her first time..After that I knew I had the real deal with my now wife..She was a virgin and is cute as fuck to this day...Never marry a slut or fall in love..Get you're kicks and move on..You have to live with em. So keep a whore on side if need be..Good pussy is worth it..

There is an ancient roman play about a communist society run by feminists. Just lurk long enough and you'll see it.

Statistically-speaking, the more sex you have, the less likely you are to get married, the more divorces you'll have if you get married, the less you'll enjoy sex, the less faithful you'll be, and there's evidence in animals of telegony possibly being a thing so it could be true in humans, too. Ultimately, experience is a masculine trait, not a feminine one, which is why men typically view loose women as just a way to get rid of their boner and never a wife or mother.

A woman who's had sex with a ton of guys is a woman who'll have sex with just about anyone. She clearly doesn't have any sense of long-term gratification, which means she's probably likely to make tons and tons of mistakes in her life at the service of short-term gratification, which has long-term consequences. But also, men have it built into their biology to sexually conquer women, especially virgins as they're territory yet to be tread. If a woman is a virgin and she gives herself up to you, it feels good because it implies there's something about you that makes you better than other men. But what's more, is something worth conquering if everyone has already? Don't see a lot of cartographers nowadays, for a reason. This is also one of the reasons why policies of equity (socialism, communism, postmodernism) always fail. Something's rarity gives it value and you can't just pass something around to everyone and have it retain that value. No matter what you say, your brain knows, and it's not going to reward you for achieving something that's already so easily achievable. If you're one of a hundred guys who've slept with this girl, then your male biology is going to tell you, "She's not worth it. Go after someone better."

Not to mention, do you want this woman raising children? What is she going to tell your daughter?

>men are always happier than women, no matter how many partners they've had

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You literally have no respect for her. Leave before you knock her up and it gets harder. The fact that this is even a debate tells me you probably have no balls and may have even been a virgin before her, no?

No one in that picture is attractive.

>have gf of two years
>the more close I get to her the harder it is for me to not imagine her getting fucked by previous boyfriends
>suddenly feel disgust and rage

What do? Should I just dump the girl for not being a virgin? I honestly have a hard time getting over the fact.

Could I make her a cuck queen? If I had access to other girls at least it wouldn't bum me out so much. It's hard to be monogamous to someone who wasn't monogamous to me, if that makes sense.

This true, I just plan on getting rich then getting myself a couple young 20 year old and starting my commune/family. It will be glorious.

Yes, you won't be happy with her

Great post. Nicely summed up everything about it.