Why are good men so hard to find?

>Spend a little time with single women in their early to mid-30s, and you'll be grateful you're not one of them. The relationship scene is even more dismal today than when I was their age. All the women want serious relationships that lead to marriage, but many of the men they meet do not. All too often a woman moves in with some guy, hoping they're on the road to somewhere. Two years later, he tells her he's not ready for marriage and kids just yet. Splat.

>But wait. Hasn't online dating made the mating market easier? Yes – for men. If you really want to hear a woman rant, just utter the word Tinder.

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IMO, men should grow up and take responsibility of the situation. We can't continue like this, otherwise the society will collapse.

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If you wanted a "serious" relationship, you would have dropped every ridiculous thing you're doing financially and stayed at home as a housewife. But nah, too late, I got video games to finish and a tournament to reach.

>30 year old roasties sad that nobody wants their saggy beef curtains

Why don't you take responsibility for Tyrones baby OP?

Women date chads, get dumped and compare every subsequent man they meet to every positive trait of the chad.


Most guys cant compete with that luggage

Women continue to prove why so many restrictions were placed on them. Sadly, it's looking as if nothing short of a complete collapse will wake us up.

Girls don't care for your money. (Who would want to date that kind of girl?)

They care that you have the balls to talk to them.

who would want to talk to a girl?

>Find white girlfriend
>Have 10 kids

That's why jew.

WHERE HAVE ALL THE GOOD MEN GONE?

>Women in their thirties
>10 kid
You'll be lucky to get more than one.

They all are with good women.

>Why are good men so hard to find?
lower your standards you dumb whores, look for decent men or nice men or something

like this woman who apparently hates herself

Why are they so keen on finding a man instead of going lez?

Hassle them

Trust me, I have had many girlfriends.

Pic related fag

>Why are good women so hard to find?
Fixed.

All these clickbait articles could be made crystal clear with simple illustration. Put naked photo of author in her 18 years and another naked photo of her in her 30+ years when she complains about inability to score men again. One this photo would cost thousands words. Actually any words would be powerless to refute this point.

>early to mid 30s
>modern women think this is an appropriate age to begin to settle down and have children

mid 20s max

Sigh. Women are in a fucked up position of their own doing, and the cause of feminism has only made it worse as women have no real direction in life without a strong capable man to look up to/admire. They need dongs for satisfaction, and instinctively seek out the 20s in the 80/20 rule. Unfortunately (for them), they know that dong size is almost exclusively tied to how unproductive a male is, meaning, they are just fuck toys until beta bucks show up later in life. Every woman out there will meet a long-donged silver and try to turn him into a decent man (career, family oriented, romantic, etc.), and this is where their nature fails them every fucking time. Eventually, she'll settle for beta bucks McSmallerCock for security.

For example:
1. Lazy work ethic, super confident = large dong.
2. Successful, somewhat confident (comes from career) = average or less sized dong.
3. Rare ultra successful male with high confidence = doesn't matter, really, until 3 or so years in and then I search for dong on the side if I can get that alimoneys/child support.

I'm not even considering men without confidence as they aren't even being sought after (the 80s in the 80/20 rule).

Most females (and some males, remember, 80/20 rule applies explicitly here) start fucking around 16ish (first car, first lay). Some ladies have the most unfortunate experience of getting the biggest they'll get for a while right off the bat. This means that the subsequent numerous boyfriends will always be living up to the expectation of a wiffle ball bat (without ever knowing it). By the time women are in their 20s, they are taking antidepressants because nothing makes them happy anymore. By the time they are in their 30s, they've probably married once and had at least one kid with a guy whose member was nowhere near Mr. 8.5 inches from a few years back.

I mean, it's almost as if practicing modesty and abstinence was saving civilization or something. Then again, I could just be insane.

>Why are good women so hard to find?

Correct.

Booo hoo women are not able to trap and ensnare men as easily as before.

>aryan(na)
>deus vult
which one of you did this?

We need the collapse of society so that women know that all of their rights, granted to them by men, can be taken away at the drop of a hat when society is not able to provide protection.

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Even if you follow good advice the best you can, even if you never have promiscuous sex and keep yourself clean, even if you're good looking, white, decent, and smart, even if you try going out on dates, even if you never drink alcohol and you go to bed at a reasonable hour, even if you never went to college yet own all your time, even if you overcame your troubled past without it destroying your life, you might not meet somebody to breed with who wants to breed with you. Most people don't get what they want.

>We can't continue like this, otherwise the society will collapse.
The collapse of society takes many causes. This alone won't cause it, it will just be in disequilibrium for a bit and then stabilize. Of course, when you add this to a lot of the other shit going down like fucking immigration we're really on the edge as a whole.

If we see something like a yellowstone-type natural disaster or a sustained drought collapse is definitely going to happen.

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>you're job

oh yea that is really funny

Money talks

>40million results
wew

Women don't even notice 80% of men, it's in their nature not to.

most millennial men don't really want a stay at home housewife. they want educated women who have their own lives. especially since most young men are financially unstable anyway.

>yet all we here from you

Lost
10/10 troll article

true
also true

Even if you find someone with good pheromones he usually doesn't want the trad life and couldn't afford it even if he did. Most women don't have a choice, they have to work for money. Most guys want that combined income, most guys will pass on a girl without a career.

tick tock tick tock

>Needing to pretend
?

it's unironically true, most millenial men are complete manchildren who struggle to so much as get a drivers licence and buy a car never mind have a good career and support a family and then wonder why they can't get a girlfriend

however modern women are just as JUSTed and act like they have the impulse control of little kids who stuff their face with junk food, don't learn any life skills and fuck the first chad who gives them attention and then wonder why they feel like shit when he does a runner in the morning

I want a cutthroat businesswoman wife so I can become a househusband and live out my ultimate fantasy

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>I know this is a LARP, but still
Enjoy a life of loneliness and misery, stupid-ass roastie

>Spend a little time with single women in their early to mid-30s, and you'll be grateful you're not one of them.
To be honest the dating scene for men that age is also horrible. It's very unlikely that you'll find a woman without a child or two already. "Just get a young hot 20 year old" you might say, which is retarded. ALL men want young and attractive women. You'll be competing against men who are younger, more fit and attractive, and guys with more money. If you're an average dude with an average income and have a bit of a beer gut, then you will not get a high tier woman.

>Hasn't online dating made the mating market easier? Yes – for men. If you really want to hear a woman rant, just utter the word Tinder.
This alone is proof that the article is made-up bullshit. Only the top 10% or so of men manage to get laid on Tinder more than once or twice.

There's a different agenda going on here. What do they gain by spreading the idea that the majority of (white) men are trash? It's so common these days to read that all white men are massive manchildren, who shun work, marriage, and family, and only want to fap to porn and play vidya. This is obviously what (((they))) want, so why do they keep demonizing white men who have fallen into their trap? You shouldn't gloat or celebrate articles like these, because in the end they are and will be used against you.

>Very thoroughly roasting roasties
>Troll article
Uhmm, sweetie?

Dumb girls will remain dumb and they will be fucked allways.
They complain they cant find a good man. Its because they are dumb and look only for some of Betas.

Lets see a basic dumb girl
Dub girl sees a basic gray man "John" (You know legit job, some savings, basic respect to women, small house) because "Uhh me so pretty he is not worthy me".

Dumb girls prefer to follow typical uneployed beta male "bandit Brian" who just "look so macho". But well most of "Look so macho men" mostly dont have job, all time sit in gym, they dont give shit about anything, his only "Hobby" is to "Fuck bitches, beat thingies, drink alcohol, take drugs" .

Or they follow "Abdul" cus "Muh arabic prince" but well abdul from kid has learned "Women are not people, women are stuff like cooker or dishwasher" so of course we know how relationship with abdul ends.

Or same as "Jamal" who also is something between "Brian" or "Abdul"


But then dumb girl realize she get older they gray man like "This single john who works in our company" is a better husband material than "Bandit Brian", "Abdul" or "Jamal". But mostly is too late because "John" is no logner interested with 30 old woman who also has kid made by beta male.

Because the kikes have destroyed the ability for single income households to own houses and raise successful kids dual income has become a necessity for anyone who doesn't make 250k + a year. Even then, if you really want to be able to fund the best life for your kids, you will need dual income.

Too true

It's easy - if the women respected themselves more, they would have no reason to complain. Don't give it up before marriage. It's that easy. Flick your bean in the mean time if you have to.
Men nowadays have no respect for women, because women don't respect themselves.

> me so pretty he is not worthy me
Kek, work on your english, having studied your language I see what you did there

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Pretty much, yeah. Men don't want the trad burden and can't afford it even if they did. Women have to work or else there isn't enough money, but this means we all either breed late, do it wrong, or don't breed at all. That's "women's liberation" for you, that's "equality." Blame women for it but it's a systemic problem. I've never voted for feminism, I never voted for liberation, I was born into it like everyone else.

>They care that you have the balls to talk to them.

Nobody is buying your bollocks anymore roasty.
Pic is how real women "think".

Someone post the version where the author extrapolates to an optimistic scenario where a bunch of women suddenly get married at 30.

LONG TIME PASSING

Typical "Why i'm so fucking alone i cant find nice man" and then she adopts shitload of cats

>manchildren who struggle to so much as get a drivers licence and buy a car
Ha! Joke's on you. I can't be struggling if I don't actually even try!

>having studied your language

Nobody believes you speak anything but bad english, burger. It's like claiming you own a passport.

>mid 30s woman
>only now looking for a serious relationship

Where were you 10 years ago? Oh yeah, getting blind drunk and spit roasted behind the local nightclub. And now you wonder where all the good men have gone. Well they got married 5 years ago and the ones that didn't can do a lot better than a used up slut who's hitting the wall.

Is it really a good deal to go to work while she stays home all day?

Traditionally, yes. Now, not really.

I have a serious question! So everytime I see these threads I wonder if those posting behind it are normal guys or just cucked betas who were hurt by a girl at some point in their lifes and could never get over it?

I mean I constantly find myself with opinionated women. I'm not a genius but after a good serious talk they always end up agreeing with me. I haven't had those conversation with extreme feminist because either they are ugly or not worth my time.

I wouldn't consider myself an alpha male but I've always had success with women even those that were out of my league I got them after working hard at it.

I own a small marketing firm and now I'm married with a traditional girl who is also a business owner. We both come from rich families.

Why is there so much hate for women? Is it a real problem in the US?

Dumb broads dont realize they hopped on the cock carousel and will never find a good chad to marry. Their only hope is beta orbiters once the cock carousel gives them the boot.

>that flag
>plebbit spacing

You need to go back.

The guys who can see her as the roastie she is and would only ever use her for sex.

/thread
Roasties gonna roast

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>Sup Forums
>normal guys

An overwhelming majority of people here are losers user

That's an awful lot of projection onto anonymous posters there m80.

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Fuck off roastie.

It is men's fault. Our ancestors didn't whine about women being the weaker sex. They took command and dominated them. It's what women evolved to want. It's literally what makes them wet.
>roasties will deny this.

It's neither men nor women's fault on an individual level. The structural changes allowing the ease of resource collection (does anyone in the West starve? No.) reduces the need for women to rely on men to provide. This allows women to pursue their sexual desires without fear of pregnancy being a virtual death sentence for them and their offspring.

Combine that with the fact that men (in K-selection) actually are motivated to provide resources and don't particularly like "strong, independent" women who provide their own, the pill and widely available pornography...boom, you have all the ingredients needed to destroy a well-functioning K-selected sexual marketplace.

Only collapse will solve this problem - it won't get better on its own.

How I imagine most of posters on this thread bashing women.

Or this

>Can't argue the logic
>Instead imply some kind of personal flaw
Yup, it's a woman.

Evolution every man is either an alpha and wants the best genes and will fuck someone else if he thinks they're better, or a beta and worthless.

Not me.
>pic related

You look like fag

Maybe you're a bad person.

What if she's actually traditional and cooks/cleans/has dinner ready when he get home? Why is that such a great deal for guys, or, why was it I wonder

Coming home after a days work to a hot meal, a clean house and a family who loves you is a great feeling. In fact it's what makes slaving away at work worth it too.

Hm. Does sound nice.

I think most women don't think it's as easy as that.
I think they have been tricked into thinking they have to make money if they want to bring something to the table with a man.

A friend of mine quit her job and is homemaking while her boyfriend goes to work. They must do fine financially if she's not working. I know she cooks and keeps their place clean and does his laundry. She seems to like it and I think the guy does too. Must be something I don't "get".

Why do so many women think they're hot shit when they have some average office job? Boggles my mind. Youre average and always will be.

God, I love Sup Forums

They all died in war

I've been with my boyfriend for 15 years, never cheated, he didn't want unplanned kids so I never forced or ooopsied them onto him. I've respected his wishes and done my best to be a good partner. I do all the housework except garbage and killing spiders, I stay fit, put effort into my appearance and I work full time at a job he decided would work out best with his work schedule.
He's never going to marry me. He'll never want kids, or care about me. I should have left years ago but for what? So I can enter the dating game where guys don't stick around if you don't put out? So I can meet a bunch of guys who already have kids and crazy slutty ex wives that always have their claws in?
He said he wanted kids and marriage, he said some day, when things are right. I wanted that too, so I waited. Half my life I have waited.
There is little option now but to go down with the ship. I thought patience, loyalty and understanding would be rewarded. What did I do so wrong?

You did not do anything wrong. You are a victim of the insane sexual marketplace that is literally making its third generation miserable as we speak.

TL;DR: The Unabomber was right.

>bato.to/comic/_/comics/alcohol-is-for-married-couples-r21428
cute

no he fucking wasn't. his entire rhetoric was that machinery dictates your life, but the world around tribal and less technological people where also determined by the movements of the animals and seasons around them. they too marched to the orders of the world around them. the guy had a point but he was a dumbass who didn't realize theres no escape from this. even a single cell organism is subject to the whims of the chaotic machinery that is subsitance.

nothing, but I hope you find a way to make it better between you two. if nothing else, having children is a decadent conciet, given the limited resourced our world has to offer. maybe you could adopt? make up for lost time that way. it wont be perfect, but the enemy of any good plan is the dream of a perfect one.

>Be me on Tinder
>180 matches
>Most are desperate 33+ women whose looks are either fading rapidly or have already faded and they look 40

It actually makes me a little depressed. No wonder they do shit like vote for refugee borderless parties, they have no stake in society and are desperate to claw back whatever smv they can.

The new era will be one where sex bots provide emotional surrogacy for both men and women, emotional prostitution is almost as commonplace as physical.

>this is what roasties are telling themselves

Society will collapse before any of this matters. The damage is done, the average American male is completely cucked and they don't even know it. The best thing for any of us to do is learn how to grow food, learn how to shoot, and get your shit together. Brace for impact Sup Forumsacks . This is a slow ride but it will be here before we know it.

>women in their mid 30s

Of course quality men don't want to settle down with a stronk career women who rode the cock carousel for 20 years. Can they possibly lack this much self awareness?

>spend some time with moldy pizza and you will realize men don't want to eat it. Fuck you so hard men! REEEE

Do they think these arguments will sway men or do they just love to bitch?

Act broody around him. Henpeck. Be subtle and make him think he is the one who wants children. Do not give up until you've saved the white race.

Personally I just think it's globalization and social media being the problem. She's not wrong about tinder. Now little Billy can go onto his phone and meet little Kathy and have some fun with each other. The internet means that their wanderlust can be satisfied by staying at home and just watch videos and picture of distant lands. No more ambition and drive, you can stay in your city and live with your parents and live a satisfying life. Young love isn't there anymore because there's no more relying on your spouse to survive. There's no need for that.

1) Improve your attractiveness 2) Fix any small annoying things you might do 3) Give him an ultimatum and reason with him. I assume you are in your 30s. You can still find another man (especially if you put work into self-improvement), but it will probably be someone who isn't quite on his level. Yet, what if you break up in another 15 years? Then you don't have a relationship and have little hope of having a family.

>Says men should grow up and blames men
>Thread image accurately explains that the problem is feminism, which was started by women
Try not to contradict your own bait, OP.

What you did wrong was stay with a man who did not have the same goals or lifeplan as you.

If you wanted kids you needed to bail early and find a man who wanted a family.

Sorry.

You must be that age range too then dumbass. Tell me, is your belly growing bigger and your hairline receding?

>no more ambition or drive

You're right there user. On the internet there is ALWAYS someone better than you.

>better artist
>better writer
>better memer
>better gamer
>better job applicant
>better boyfriend material

There's literally no point in competing anymore because it's an uphill struggle for nothing. Diminishing returns. It's demoralising.

You're not them. You're you. The only one the world. It's okay if you're not the best. As long as you have a long term goal that makes you productive and want more in life, it's fine.

Im 31, and no. Im fitter than I have been in my life, my hairline hasn't started to recede yet because genes.

I get matches from 18-40, mostly so I can laugh at the old women who don't have a clue.