>be decent looking male
>only ever been in relationships with women I cared about
>only have sex with women I was committed too
>never had a one night stand
>friends realize I have not had sex in over 6 months
>decide to take me out to parties and clubs
>every time I am about to have sex with a women I have never been with, I bail at the last moment
Am I just a pussy or am I not a degenerate? My friends keep calling me a bitch but desu I am very glad I have not had sex with a stranger.
You're a pussy.
>I have not had sex with a stranger
so like a virgin but with more money
You pick up an incurable STD (and God knows Gen Z doesn't like wearing protection) and it might be a deal breaker when/if you finally meet a woman you want to marry.
Stay classy user.
Sounds like you're a mentally well adjusted and decent person. Hookups will just leave you feeling drained and disgusted with yourself, as I have found in my (limited) experience.
Honestly you just don’t swing that way. I’m of the same mould. I don’t have sex with girls I’m not in a relationship with. It’s how I’ve always been and how I probably always will be. Nothing wrong with it. There’s girls out there like that as well. :)
Had sex with two women and both initiated it with me..
If I could go back I would stay a virgin, its overrated
fuck off kike
>do you mind if we talk about your ACE score?
fai enough
Makes me feel a little better. I have been getting non-stop shit. They call me a "born-again virgin". Kinda funny I guess haha
Sir you human and its natural to want monogamy and when someone tries to shame you they are being deceitful. All men want one wife. Some larp thinking they're cool being immoral. You want love and commitment that is normal and natural dont cuck to idiots who are unhappy.
nothing really wrong with that
i don't like having sex with strangers, although i'm down for a one night stand if we have really good chemistry (i'd usually try to segue it into at least a recurring fuckbuddies kinda deal though)
you do you man
plus less risk of stds which is always a good thing
sex is definitely a lot better when there's an emotional component imo
Just do what you're most comfortable with. Don't let others push you into doing something you don't want to do because it's "cool". Abide by your principles, otherwise they're worthless.
Thanks for the advice anons. Feel much better.
Where a condom....stop being a pussy.
In general, having sex with strangers increases the likelihood of getting STDs. Maybe you won't get AIDS ( that's mostly the gays) but there are plenty of other risks - next morning regrets become rape accusations, herpes, pregnancy etc.
i'll give you another grain of wisdom: don't take advice from Sup Forums, this is the very rare case where they're right
this describes my very existence. last time I had sex was with my ex in May. I'm starting to just give up entirely. every women I have talked to is a whore. I can't close the deal because my heart's not in it
A lion doesn't concern itself with the opinions of the sheep
>be a decent looking man
>no sex
fornication is a sin, we should all dedicate our lives to Jesus Christ.
I call myself that, and it's a good thing. Think of how they and their ilk are incapable of truly loving someone. They go through people like disposable plastic bottles, while you cherish memories of past relationships instead of chasing a high that you will never be able to feel again.
You know society has gone to shit when decency and respect for the process of pair bonding has been broken. Break these, you ruin the family unit, and you demolish a society.
You are decidedly not a degenerate, especially when you resist opportunities that are right in front of you. When your friends are dealing with messy relationships, jealous partners wondering who else they've slept with, STDs, etc., you will be free and clear of all of those problems.
We are living in a degenerate age but that doesn't mean we should sink into it. You've managed to stay above it - keep holding your head high.
Reported and spiced
"Omg I'm so like lame guys I haven't even been laid in 6 months ~~~"
I've never even had a girlfriend
You're a fucking woman because if you whined about this shit in real life your male friends would rightfully call you a faggot
Kill yourself
When the Lion gets those painful little blisters that come back every 6 weeks he may.
Don't go on the internet asking. have some fuckin confidence and pride in who you are! Do whats right for you!
>french
>not a relativist leftist commie
Surprising.
Fair point but I am going with the other anons have said.
Yeah decided to post it and see what they would say. Have been pleasantly surprised but I know in general you are right.
It'll get better user. You will find her
Fuck. I like that
I am religious
Solid advice. Thanks user.
Keep doing what you are doing
Appreciate it.
>never even had a gf
sounds like a personal problem
>You're a fucking woman because if you whined about this shit in real life your male friends would rightfully call you a faggot
never complained about it. My friends knew I was not having sex, took me out, and set me up with chicks, I denied them, and they figured it out.
Will do.
thanks user. I hope so man. all I can do is focus on myself and take the time to improve my character and work towards my goals and features. smite this sodomite mods for removing /SIG/. those threads had some solid kernels of truth on dealing with women and relationships in general
If you have a faithful woman then you better dont fuck it up by dipping it one time
Yeah I really did appreciate those threads as well. And good for you, user. Striving for self-improvement is admirable. Everything comes in good time.
you like miriam leon mr burger, don't you?
No problem, I understand because I'm the same way. And I understand how little recognition & respect we receive for honorable behavior. It's easy to do something that gains you social praise and acceptance, it's much harder to do something that comes with no such payoffs. So it's an even bigger testament to character to stick with it. But rest assured there will be a payoff in the long run.
Yes. She is a beautiful women. You guys are lucky bastards.
>It's easy to do something that gains you social praise and acceptance, it's much harder to do something that comes with no such payoffs. So it's an even bigger testament to character to stick with it. But rest assured there will be a payoff in the long run.
Very nicely put. That seemed like the only benefit which was to impress my friends. And it was not enough for me.
you know that she has been blacked, right?
If you don't wanna have sex with em then don't.
Also if your friends are making fun of you the trick ISNT to ignore it or act tough it is to over exaggerate your reaction.
Think like super over the top fake sniffling and play acting like your a whiny lil kid throwing a tantrum. Call yourself a bitch etc. and make fun of yourself harder than they can.
Then you are past it all, and you can do what the fuck you want.
What a shame.
yeah it is playful teasing with a hint of truth to it. I just play along with it. It does not get me worked up. I am happy with what I did no matter what they say
dont sweat it dude. Escorts are working for a reason and its because women have unrealistic standards for men. One night stands are empty and you have noidea of what caliber of crazy youre dealing with.
actually no, seeing her perfect porcelain skin and her red lips next to a big muscular Tyron has been one of the most exciting experience of my life
Why haven't you killed yourself, whining about non problems?
Whatever floats your boat Vito.
Too true
You seem upset.
Yea, so? Stop avoiding my questions
Absolutely fine. These kind of encounters aren't always great anyway (too drunk, uncomfortable, etc.). Not wanting STDs is not pussy behavior.
Besides, if you knock one up, your life is basically over. Not worth the risk.
>ask question on Sup Forums
>kys bro
why don't you lie down?
>If I could go back I would stay a virgin, its overrated
Me too, user.
Old married fag here. But how old are you? The secret sauce is marrying a woman half your age plus 7 years. In you early 20's build your business. Focus totally on career goals. You don't have to be a monk, but women should not keep you from your goals at all. Around 26-28 you can start dating. Real dates. And these dates are interviews for the position of wife. If she is the least bit problematic, jettison her ass. After about a year+ consider getting married. Get married around 28-30, and do not have kids later than 32-34.
3 month rule.
No sex for 3 months. Why? A crazy woman can not hide it for 3 months. Crazy women are great in bed usually (I came up with this rule for a reason), this will lead you to continue a bad relationship longer because of much dick wants it.
Why not wait till marriage? That can risky also because you may like something they refuse or some other incompatiblity.
Also before engagement clean a house together. Marriage is better when you can enjoy each other during the shitty times. There are more shitty times than happy times.
I like this. Yes, right now I am currently focusing on my career. I am a medical resident so I do not have much time anyways but in a few years maybe.
Solid advice. 3 months are solid. Ive also found the best girls tend to wait for sex and would prefer to have it down the road. The girls that want sex by the second or third date always cause problems with me.
As you know, residents get worked like slaves. Yeah, don't waste time with PITA females. Get your creds, and go to work. Save for a home. If you are still at home, move out as soon as you get your regular position. Medical professional and own home will put you in the driver's seat. They are interviewing to be YOUR wife. At no time should they believe otherwise. Do not waste time with duds. Fire them without hesitation or regret. Remember, you will be dating slightly younger women. They are already impressed by you because you have your shit together. Truthfully, you can ride this train most of your life. The world is filled with men of little ambition and no prospects.
is there an age for a lady to be wary? say I turn 26, a 20 year old woman seems young and inexperienced and we might not share a lot in common
If you were comfortable with your choice you wouldnt be posting here seeking approval from strangers.
Decent advice, but i'd push up those timelines a little bit. I just had a first kid at 33 and I feel old as shit. Ideally I think a guy should start having kids at like 27-29.
Your honor is worth more than a one night stand
now TITS or GTFO.
You already admitted that you are not married, have never been married, and yet you are also not a virgin.
You are, in fact, a degenerate.
if you are 26 I think you should absolutely be looking for a 20 year old girlfriend. You don't want an "experienced" girlfriend. Find someone young enough to not have fucked 50 guys, and you can teach her the ways of the world. She will love picking up all the wisdom you gained from age 20-26.
congrats
you're now a demisexual
you can come out to your friends and family to help dismantle the stigma
I'm like you op and that's the way I like it. don't let your degenerate friends, who think one needs to have sex every week or else they die, inference you.
you're doing it the right way.
influence*