Why are young men so lonely these days and what can be done about it?

Why are young men so lonely these days and what can be done about it?

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nothing.
DIE.

fucking KILL YOURSELF

what the fuck is that me? except the part about trying to love myself lol

>Who caused it?
((( )))
>What can be done?
Final Solution.

>tfw people love me but I dont love them back
>tfw they love me for free
pic related just replace life with love

hung out with losers alll through middle and most of high school had an epiphany that i didnt want to be a loser towards the end of highschool started droppin my friends and didnt have time to make a new friend group before the end of highschool eventually leading to just about no friends

>Why are young men so lonely these days
Destruction of a society via integration/forced cohabitation with niggers and mass immigration of non-Whites. Destruction of the family and the church via Jewish brainwashing.
>what can be done about it?
Race war.

dam. I was thinking about staying home tonight but after reading this ima hit up a fuck buddy and get drunk with her tonight haha. How can people be so socially retarded that they post shit like this?

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Sometimes they aren't the problem. Sometimes it's women who are the problem when it comes to the mid-20s. That's when women want to party and when men want to grow up and work. Perhaps it's just western women too. Regardless, men want love and women just want instagram likes, fun, and money. If can't offer those, then you are going to have to wait until they grow up.

Nice normie meme, Faggot

Holy shit you are a brainlet, dude.

It's the internet (outside of social media). I was a chad from 13-16 then around 17 I started using the internet hardcore Sup Forums,online forums, etc that began the downfall into depression.

Escorts are the real redpill. It'll take care of any of your physical urges while you get your shit together and become a functional human being.

>paying for sex
>redpill

Are you for real?

You pay for sex one way or another young one.

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This. Welcome to the modern world. Western wide prostitution.

Make my life easier.

Last paragraph hits home. I can relate. I have no connection to those around me and as a result, have isolated myself from the world. No future.

Unironically church. One of the easiest ways in the world to have a low pressure way of meeting people and making friends and connections.

Beta-males are not interesting to women so they end up alone, it's normal.

It's all futile.

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They're not yet crushed by reality. Current state of marriage and companionship is so bad it could make a man crack. Just look at what happened to me. I can't be comfortable around others anymore, there's a longing for complete isolation in me. I talk to myself, only when others aren't around, although that's slowly changing. I'd suggest those men start talking to themselves more, you can't be lonely if you fool your mind through gibbering.

I own around 1000 games on my PC (boxed & digital) and a doggo. I receive welfare while still in college & have some $ in the bank so I think I'm good for a while. I meet people regularly enough to not feel TOO lonely. By the time I'll finish college universal basic income will likely become enough to provide for food & bills (Currently it's only 30$/month)

The churches in my area are all old women and niggers. I've seen maybe two young white girls there and they were only there for a baptism, never saw them again

This, historically only 40% of men havr reproduced. Half the female rate, now even fewer women are reproducing so now irs even worse then 40%

He didn't say he's in search for sex. Having some regular interactions with people who might enjoy your company is a good start, even if it's just a bunch of old ladies.
They might give him tips and encourage him to meet more people, old people have some life experience after all.

This is why the White race will go extinct. Good luck competing with Mohammed and his 5 kids and all of their children later on. Civilization was our downfall.

As an older male I reflect on how life was when I was 20. No cell phone, no internet... human interaction was valued and learning to be alone and at peace with isolation was taken for granted. Suffer and grow and stop viewing th natural human condition as something to be overcome but rather embraced.

I really fucking wish I didn't have to share the planet with shallow dickheads like you, you and women are just a step above sandniggers; no sense of romanticism, honor or aesthetic beauty.

>inb4 spergy virgin loser
Purpose & emotion precedes socioeconomic value; your life philosophy will be the West's undoing.

>I want affection
>I won't talk to women

HMMMMMMMM

>only 40% reproduced
Source?

Roasties have so irreparably broken the relationship between the genders that men are literally becoming this desperate to have physical affection and feminine companionship.

The only solution is artificial women. The content beta upon which society and civilization relies will become so desperate that he will engineer a technological solution that comes to replace biological women wholesale.

>tfw good life where I get whatever I please

*Why strive when NEETBUX are readily avaiable and no one else is trying? I feel like I'm on autopilot sometimes but otherwise at least I'm not blowing my $ on dumb shit like drugs/parties. Also SEXBOTS are coming LOL (Who needs women when you can have Miku-chan) Biding ones time and seizing small opportunities is so much more effective than forcing your life to be "socially-approved"

Debbie: [seductively posing on a tombstone] Fester, before we go any further, I have a confession. I'm a virgin.
Fester: You are?
Debbie: Yes.
Fester: [pause] What's that?
Debbie: It's someone who's never...experienced...physical love.
Fester: Ohhhhh, you mean with another person!

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Hypothetically, How would one, say, become a recipient of these public welfare "Programs"?

This is basically my story. Social media hit the world like a hurricane and I was left behind.

Nothing is wrong. Everything is fine. We need these people. Some will succeed. Some will fail.

Just accept that.

They need fascism

I know you're shitposting. I still want to see how many needles can fit in your gums.

Edgy. You should go on reddit they have thousands of you identikit nobodies.

Here is the cure.

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zyzz is a faggot. here is the real cure.
>Church of Gronk

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even hambeasts are welcome to suck gronks cock.

>Drink it in maaaaaaaaaaan!

My parents both died but they were insured. I only receive welfare and long as I'm in education. An average Joe can only get the UBI here (And even then, only so long as he is a Romanian citizen - Explains why we aren't invaded)

State-issued girlfriends

Grab her by the pussy!

I don't know user
I had something a kin to a gf some time ago.
It was a massive waste of time.
She was useless and could not be employed to solve let alone alleviate any of the problems I was dealing with.
What makes it worse was that I thought she would be a yandere so she would be a valuable asset but boy I was wrong.
And she was the most likely to be one at the place so there went any chance of a gf that would be anything more then a cock sleeve.
Then some time later some dumbass girl attempted to convince me to date but she was waaaaay to stupid she also cause me problems beforehand so her attempting to date me was even dumber.
So in summary just wait for the sex robots; they may be what your looking for and if what the SoftBank CEO said holds any merit then we should have human comparable AGI within 30 years.

>economy in the shitter
>promiscuity is at the highest level its ever been for humanity
>degenerate hedonistic culture
only this that can fix this is war

>life was better when I was a kid
>but shits fucked now
>just deal with it faggots
kek

you can always make more money and pay off some slut for what will hopefully only amount to a couple hours worth of work for guaranteed sex.

or you can spend countless hours engaging in useless conversation and "wooing" for the chance for sex.

you can never get that time that you wasted back, and then once you are on your deathbed and everything goes black you will hopefully not despair at how much time you wasted when in actuality you could've gotten what you wanted instantly for money

>Just become a complete meathead Chad, it's easy bro.

it's totally easy if you're not a lazy bum.

loved the movie. dunno why

heres the full version
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Technology is reasons one, two and three. Reason four is perhaps individualism- the idea that happiness is something that comes from within.

>it's totally easy working your ass off to completely change your lifestyle to become someone you hate so you can live an entire life you never wanted just so you'll be attractive to vapid sluts you can't stand.

Narcissism.
People seem more inept at taking a long, hard look at themselves and asking "am I actually desirable?"
Women have it easy, they can be narcissistic thots and men will still go nuts over them, but men have to demonstrate some kind of value instead of just feeling like we deserve love and affection like females.

Pick up your suffering and bear it, cunts, sort yourselves out.

Young men are lonely because they are desperate. Being desperate makes you worth less.

I'm lonely because I want to be. I don't have to be here in front of my computer on a Friday. I have friends I could call and go drinking with them. I just don't like people very much.

The sad irony being he is most likely a child with a single mother user

He's just never learnt the trick to being a man. No masculine role models

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another young man fallen victim to the pernicious roastie/single mother

I don't speak Nord.. Wish it had English subtitles, I really want to watch this film.

no.

what can be done about it is, to take rights away from women.
it's what women want anyway, everything would be better for everyone.

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it's worth the watch if you ask me. even if only to find out wath happens to dennis

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exactly

>25 years old
>Been trying to get a girlfriend for many months
>months
>25 years old
>months

Technology has made bonding with others difficult. No real bonding is alienating, and pseudo-bonding on technological devices is alienating. Use technology for a specific purpose instead of doing what I'm doing and you're doing right now.

i assume he means he is now actively making a regular effort rather then just talking to a few women here and there and making a vague effort. but like the actively going to places searching for women and making approaches and getting rejected hundreds of times etc that it takes to get a gf for an unattractive person. i don't even bother, there's no way to do that without creeping people out

There are LDS wards for ONLY 18-30 year olds and they basically exist to help them find someone to marry.
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Its all fun until you get a STD

>actively going to places searching for women
predator

Then sort youself about what you really want faggot

no you don't, you're supposed to find a woman that'll drive you around, pay your bills and buy you things like a mother, it shouldn't be the other way around.

>t.manlet

>needing other humans

>What kind of solitude then remains? what want? why do we make ourselves worse than children? and what do children do when they are left alone? They take up shells and ashes, and they build something, then pull it down, and build something else, and so they never want the means of passing the time. Shall I then, if you sail away, sit down and weep, because I have been left alone and solitary? Shall I then have no shells, no ashes? But children do what they do through want of thought (or deficiency in knowledge), and we through knowledge are unhappy.

well i don't do it, but i presume that's how its done. guys go to clubs for what reason? to search for women. you have to basically hunt them like a predator yes. they're not going to come to you

The problem with the metric you're using is the amount of time being measured.

From a purely genetic view, yeah. You'll find something pretty close to the Pareto's principle in male reproduction in nature. Once you get to agricultural societies things drastically increase quickly even out. Especially if you only include males that make it to the age of 25.

Autsists don't even know how women approach and flirt with men.

They don't do it directly, they don't hunt for you.
They just happen to make themselves available and cute nearby you hoping you will notice.

Women go to clubs for what reason? To have men seek them out and validate them.

yeah sure. but what happens when you know about how women indirectly flirt and they notice it happening to others but never to themselves. they either give up. or they hit on women that never once indicated attraction, and they keep doing it till some woman gives in for some reason and goes with it for a while. some guys are not attractive and so they have to put more work into it. it's not my cup of tea, too aggresive and creepy, women are sour grapes anyways i'm better off without

Nothing can be done about personality disorders like this young 25yr old fag has. Best action is to kys.

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I was stuck in Miami with ugly cuban refugee trash people so my only alternative was attempting to talk to virtual females I was on Twitter alot during this time and, can confirm.

This

Normie meme faggot

You got some interesting replies here, guy with same concern as me

Shut off gaming networks on weekends and watch the world lurn

i feel for the guy. sounds like he's living through a nightmare. unfortunately being a nice and decent person isnt enough to make you likeable or attractive. in fact the most popular/socially capable people are not very nice people at all.
thats just how life is. id be his friend but the affection thing he's going to have to figure out himself

The chirch is were the beta women (old used up "Latinas" aka ugly trolls) or womanlets go as a refugee from their undesirablity wearing their Ross dress for less. When they see you in public while theyre in their pathetic group make sure to look away to remind them of that your no dumbass and well aware that they are shame encarnate

I want to have a LAN party with you where we don't say anything, we just chill, listen to music, watch anime and smash faggots on Battlefront 2 (The old one). Or we could shit on BRs on Halo:CE just for laughs, or just do whatever I'm beyond giving a shit anymore, we could just go shoot some shit.

Not everyone is a needy faggot who needs to be entertained constantly, I think some people grow out of that WAAAAAY faster than others.
I also think everyone will get there eventually, it's an extremely immature trait to need to be tended to like some literal autistic child with ADHD.

Take me for example.
>BRO GET ON DISCORD CHAT
>REEEEEEEE LEAVE ME ALONE FAGGOTS, JUST IM ME FFS I HATE TALKING TO PEOPLE

Plus I got some really strange hobbies so I'd rather be alone with them then have to constantly explain myself to the ignorant masses.
>nb4 gay
Actually more like autistic, I have this thing for databases and media....not really important.

I guess people are just really complicated, more than you would think by far, I know I am anyway. You probably are too.
I don't really know where I was going with this.
Whatever, have a great day.

yep. pretty much. find some sort of compromise between becoming somebody you hate and retaining those parts of yourself you like that dont make you a social outcast

The answer is here faggots.
GET IN HERE

yeah, in the same sense you "pay" for deer meat when you hunt a deer

quit being "nice" and just be yourself, women like everyone else can instinctually pick up on insecurity

People don't want to admit it or just want to not be cliche and """""""scapegoat"""""" women, but it is women that is the problem. Lack of parenting, kike influences via media,education,etc, general whoredom and lack of discipline, women asking for equal treatment but only wanting it in very specific areas of life, pretending to be capable people because they have nigger-tier pride and don't want the world to see them as weak when all they have done is made a new avenue for the government to tax people
I started dating at 15 and stopped at 16. Too many whores and this was a decade ago. I had about 5 different girlfriends and they all turned out to be literal whores in the most defining sense of the word. Couldn't control themselves, slept with questionable people (this was after I broke up with them, not a cuck whatsoever and knew the premise of cuckoldry at that age), all had shitty or liberal parents. One of them has a mom that actually encourages her degenerate behavior

>Get told to just b urself for years
>Finally do it
>Huh, turns out i'm an extremely cynical and analytical eccentric
>Women hate these qualities more than literally anything else
>Oh well, "myself" doesn't really like any of them anymore either
>Nothing really is fixed at all
At least I don't really give a shit anymore I guess, I guess you could call that a win.

Know yourself and find Jesus you'll never be lonely and become a tree of life for the world