Need help!!! Im only coming to pol for this as a last resort because honestly have no where else to go. I have tried everything and its has got me nowhere.
My story and my problem ( i can't go into complete detail but ill tell you what i can). So i am 26 years old, have a missus who is 25, no kids, well no kids untill about 8 months ago when child protection came into my sisters life ( she has 3 kids and is a single mother). My sister does not smoke, drink, take drugs or gamble, but for bullshit reason child protection took 2 of her kids because one of her children had a fall and she thought the child was ok untill the next morning when she seen is arm was swollen and took the child to the hospital.
Now because that child had that fall and she didnt rush the child to hospital straight away and the child had some brusing on him ( like all children that age) she had had 2 of her kids taken by this corrupt department.
My missus and I step in before they could put the children in forster care thank god. But its been 8 months and this department have done nothing but make up lies about my sister and not tried to have these children return home.
Before all this happen i always had this impression that someone who had their child taken from them must be a pretty shit person, but then this all happen with my sister. So i started to a bit of research and found this is happening all over the western world, children being ripped away from loving homes over bullshit to start with, then these department make things worse by telling lies about them to the court, and when you read in the family law acts they can do this, most family court and care courts laws state that the " rule of evidence does not apply" which is bullshit, dont we like in a society where you are innocent till proven guilty? (Cont)
If my sister was a shitty person this would not be a problem but she is not. She is not a perfect parent but who is? The biggest problem i have with this is how care free these caseworkers are about the mental harm they do to these children and they act as if they are doing the right thing and know everything and are better then everyone, when in reality they just got out of uni with their shitty left wing ideas about saving the world and have no idea about the real world. They dont care that these children they remove and put in forster care have a 1 in 13 chance of being abuse, they act if they are good odds to roll with, yet they probably remove 20 kids a week.
So you can understand how useless these departments are, my sister does not smoke, drink ,gamble take drugs or have a criminal record. She has rasied 3 children for the last 13 years without a problem. Then they remove 2 of her 3 child and gave them to me and my partner, who have never rasied children, i smoke and drink on occasions, i gamble a little bit and have had a criminal charge ( when i was young and dumb) and did not once check on them for over 3 months.
After today i decided to come to pol for help as the department made me sit at the hospital for 2 hours because one of the kids had a scratch on his arm, they full investigated it as if i was abusing them, its was a scratch on him for fuck sakes, did they really needs to waste the tax dollar on that and make a child that was really sick wait longer because i had to be their for that bullshit, it was the final straw. (Cont)
Logan Martin
I have given up my whole life for these child, to make sure what they are going through right now isnt a hundred times harder on them then it should be. Before this i was formen where i worked, did tones of overtime and interstate jobs to make the big bucks, but have had to give it all up so i can be at the department beg and call at all times, every week i miss days off work to take the children to the departments bullshit appointments. But its not just these children this is happen to but thousands and its not right.
I have made 100s of complaints to minsters and who ever will listen but it seems everyone is scared of this department and they are untouched.
Too be honest i could go on forever about all the bullshit they have tried to pull and put me and these children though but ill leave it at that.
But as i said at the start i have came to pol for help as this is my finale options, to be honest i dont expect it to happen but thought it was worth a try. I know about the whole not your person army, but im not asking for me, I'm asking for these children that are ripped away from loving homes to be given to some fucked up uncle tom cunt.
What could you do to help, the most ideal would get all the dirty on these department ( and their would be tones) and their case workers to show the world what these fucker are like. But in reality i doubt i could get pol to do that. Even some advice from people who know this process and the family courts would be nice please.
Im honestly here to beg pol to do something, i really wish i could fully explain how bad this situation is, but have a look around on the web and you will find hundreds of stories where these department let these children down and every government know the system is failed but dont seems to care, ever few year their is an inquest into these departments and its always the same, they know its does work. (Cont)
Ryder Barnes
Oh before i forget, i have even seen stories where caseworkers removing children cause they have a Vendetta against the parent, these caseworkers are given way to much power and they all get god complexs.
Please pol you are all i have left and its pretty sad to be honest Also feel free to ask me anything about this situation and ill try my best to explain it to you.
Daniel Nguyen
Sounds tough. I see you went to sitting politicians but what about just a conservative group? Maybe they hold more sway and could get someone to actually listen.
Evan Wilson
Im not going to hild my breath but i am honestly at a loss and have no where else to turn too. Trust me I wouldn't be asking pols help if I wasn't despite
Jackson Kelly
It is very tough and not fair on these children, I have thought about that and was thinking about seeking the nation one party but my state did just call an election, so im sure they are too busy for me right now
John Johnson
talk to the local Angels m8 authorities and lawyers ain't gonna help jack shit
Ayden Phillips
These departments are nothing more than suppliers for elite pedophile cults. You no doubt saved these children's lives. These departments also steal children from people who are publicly Christian or conservative as a form of political persecution. Has your sister ever voiced such views, even just on Facebook?
Hudson Green
A woman senator in Georgia was killed over trying to expose the harm child protective services was causing in her state.
It’s a completely unchecked power and cps can always hold the unquestionable position “but think about the children” to validate their erroneous power.
I’ve thought about what would happen if they started snooping around my house. And honestly I’d probably just take my kids and disappear. There’s no guarantees to a parent in the USA at least.
I hope you can find a less dramatic solution.
Benjamin Butler
Child protection services are is legalized pedo kidnap and trafficking
Google Nancy Schaefer who was killed after investigating cps
also hire a lawyer
Carter Ward
They really do scare the shit out of me, thats why i always do as they say but because i have strong views and passionate about what i believe in, it can be very hard at times to bite my touge and not lash out at them and their bullshit corruption
Liam Hall
I have been told this by people and seen people on the net say this also. I am sure i saved these children from a life of hell in that fucked up system, but im scared they may try to take the children off me because they know how hard im fighting for them to be returned home
Josiah Allen
I dont think she has ever had a political option, i think they targeted her because of her intellect, she has a learning disability
Wyatt James
Who are these angels??
Hunter Anderson
i think he meant hells angels
they gave some child protection action goin on i heard about
Brandon Morales
The idiot norms need to wake up and realise whats going on with this bullshit. Like i said i use to think also that yeah child protection make mistakes and left children with the wrong parents but anyone who had their child taken was a shittie person, i was definitely wrong and now that experiencing what they do its a real eye opener
Dominic Myers
Something must have changed. 20 years ago I couldn’t get CPS to give a shit about children who had been terribly traumatized in the home. I was involved in several cases where I actually caught the CPS bitch trying to sneak out of the ER to avoid the hassle of protecting the child. I pronounced a 5 year old dead who had been reported 5 times previously.
Wyatt Thomas
Sorry to break it to you, user but your sister is a piece of human garbage. You have no idea, well you probably do, how hard it is to get an order to remove a child. There's checks. Double checks. Triple checks. Senoir social workers have to review it then managers have to review it then it's passed to legal who review it then it goes before a judge who reviews it and while all this is going on your shitty sister gets her FREE legal team who are trying to find the tiniest flaw in the case to get an extension and the kids returned. Work in this area so I know.
TL:Dr OP's sister is a skank
Caleb Campbell
>child protection services >CPS >child pornography services >CPS really makes u think
Brandon Williams
/FreeTheChildren/ ? We the heroes now?
Gavin Nelson
>The idiot norms need to wake up and realise whats going on with this bullshit. Like i said i use to think also that yeah child protection make mistakes and left children with the wrong parents but anyone who had their child taken was a shittie person LOL TOO LATE IDIOTS LIKE YOU GOT YOU HERE the only thing you can possibly do is a black ops attack on the opressors, good luck with that
Aaron Brown
That is very sad and yes its the total opposite these days, i am not lie about them sending me to the hospital late today when all he had was a scratch. I think they cracked the shit with me before hand because my sister called me asking how the child got it and told her why and she said well you better call them because they are making out like she did it. So i called them and had a go at them about making out bullshit and contecting dots that aint there again, told them they should have asked me about it instead of jumping to conclusions, and said please stop wasting my tax dollars and job your job right please.
Well dont think they liked it, anyways when i was talking to them they said oh i they you should kust take him into the hospital so we can do some test as he is always getting bruses, i thought finally they are listening and might look into the child a bit more, but no it was a dirty trick. I got their and they questioned me and checked the child head to toe. Told me they dont think anything is suss and will report back to cps that everything is ok. Their were no test, they were seeing if they could say i was hurting the child i think. Lucky im smart and knew every mark on the child and explain it all unlike my sister
Julian Bennett
I am sorry user I wish I could help. We do have plans to start gathering autists that are willing to dedicate them selves to helping people like you fight the zog agents that take our children from us.
Luis Hernandez
This is part of how they've driven the birth rate down so low. People quite understand the uncontrolled power they wield and so many won't have children, because why deal with the nightmare of the government stealing your children. They literally make faery tale witches look good.
Henry Cox
Bait faggot i think, because none of this happe with my sister. For one she still has one child. Two there was no risk for one of the children that is in my care and third i know my sister and been around her and these children their whole life and know my sister aint garbage. Fourth you dont know shit, its easy as fuck to get a child protection order, seen it myself and read every fucking act in their laws and its a fucking joke. So bye bait, we are here to talk serious
Michael Peterson
I really do hope so, one day
Easton Lopez
Yep its bullshit. I was planning on starting my family and contributing by having 3 kids but now that will be delayed, if happen at all now
Asher Roberts
Oh and they only pieces of shit that have needed extensions are your shitty department, its been 8 months, still no order with the department having to get two extensions and like 3 adjournments, still waiting and all you faggots want is a 1 year order, like what the fuck, useless cunts. All because your "under staffed and need more funding" fuck off pleb
Brody Sanchez
That sounds like a good plan for everyone.
Jeremiah Miller
Bump for interest
Andrew Murphy
For real mate if you work for the department, please tell me why you have to lie in your reports and make shit out to be something it aint, and please dont say this is bullshit because you know it happens. I have pull the department up on lies and paid for this child to see specialist and called out their crap they like to over exaggerate, please explain why you need to do this
Nolan Ortiz
sounds like bullshit. CFS has tons of oversight and requirements to apprehend any kids and they can't and don't do it for the reasons you listed.
Kevin Adams
Im telling you they do, the only thing my sister has done is be retarded to be honest, but she has always had her family for help but she has always been a good mother so it hasnt been to much of a problem. Like i said mate she dont drink, smoke or any of that shit and the department admit that, and they only thing she did wrong was mistake a broken wrist from maybe 10 hours. I am sure they have just profiled my sister as she is a bit over weight. The only concern we have ever had for my sister was being with their fuck wit of a father but she finally left him a year and a half ago with our help. Believe what you want mate, im living it so dont care if you think its bullshit because i know its aint buddy
Hudson Perry
Nah mate, these people take away children because they want to, later they make up their excuses. It happens a lot in Scadinavia with Barnevernet, which is a private company that takes children from their parents in the name of the state.
Joshua Watson
I know you said you have contacted Ministers, but have you contacted your mp. If not, you should even if you don't agree with their politics. Explain your case to them and try to focus only on your case. You can't take on the whole system and you have enough on your own plate to deal with at the moment.
Also, it really needs to be your sister who is showing that she should be getting them back. You should work with with her to get as many different professionals as you can to support her case. So family doctors, social workers, friends and relatives. Even things like doing up her home to make it look like a good environment for the kids. Food in the house, nice and tidy, making sure there are not undesirables like dangerous boyfriends coming around the home. Anything you do to make it look like her life is in order. There are lot of problems with these sorts agencies the problem is there are also a lot of problems with kids who genuinely are in danger
Austin Gonzalez
And explain the bullshit today about me having to take him to hospital so he could be checked over about a scratch, i have told them tons of times about bruses the child gets and my worries that he cluld have a problem and maybe look into it but they never gave a shit untill today over a little scratch. It was because i finally told them off and they realised i aint going to suck to them and side with their bullshit. I didnt see anyone from the department come to the hospital with me, oh because they wanted to be home on a friday afternoon and not stuck in a hospital over bullshit
Aaron Rodriguez
Looks like one of those MedicalKidnap.com stories. For everyone saying CPS is regulated and /ourguy/, look at the senator that was suicided with her husband when she was openly investigating nationwide child trafficking within CPS and monetary incentive of child removal.
Connor Ortiz
CPS beat and rape kids
Cameron Williams
A lot of social work is fake. Its like psychiatry. Social workers need problem families like psychiatrists need mental patients. It's their business. It's why we keep having to have new mental disorders and they will always find more and more problem families.. If they don't have problem families then they have nothing to do and are out of work
Hudson Martin
Thanks it really does help to know people out there do care. Also we have all been helpping out my sister alot and the child she still has in her care, to be honest that child is hurting the most the poor thing, its just them two at home and it would be silent and lonely. Also my sister was working a bit before this but cant now as all the course and appointments she goes too which is a dam shame, but we have help her financial aswell so the kid that is at home doesnt have to suffer more. Also it is my sister who makes the appointments and stuff i go to, i have just paid for them as she cant right now, she really is try and even the counselor i seen even agreed that it wasnt kinda fair and doesn't understand what my sister has to do to get the children back because like say if it was drugs it would be get help for that, stay off the drugs and you will ahve your children back. But with my sister what course can you do for making a mistake on a broken bone ( also couldnt have been that bad, the kids was in plaster for 11 days) which you did end up taking the child to get checked.
Bentley Robinson
Bump
Elijah Jones
Soon. Keep an eye out when we do we will probably recruit openly and often on this board. We will be looking for lawyers, propagandists, and people to tell stories like yours and hopefully we can get some CPS agents and others on that side to get some dirt out. This will not be pizzagate but we will directly target these government agencies and mother fuckers for taking our children from us for to long.
Jacob Flores
Thats is spot on what they do. So making fucking lies, it makes me sick to own my tax dollars go to them. They either have god complexs or are into adrenochrome
Noah Reyes
ill just say, even the courts don't have records theyre records offices are corrupt.
its going to take a news crew to take them down..
Matthew Harris
>so many fucking lies, it makes me sick to know my tax dollar goes to them.
I will keep an eye out most definitely
Samuel Anderson
Like I said propagandists.
Tyler Reed
>learning disability >bullsh*t reasons in your OP case f*cking closed you piece of human trash. Your sister is not fit to raise a child if she's retarded. Get over yourself.
Eli Hughes
I know some social workers and I wouldn't trust them with mine.
One has three kids by two different fathers and she is now living with another guy. Her kids are forever in trouble with school and she blames this on them being black and therefore being subjected to systemic racism.
For some reason as part of her training in this last year she went to Sweden.
Lincoln Clark
I also know they do not record phones call which i thought was odd for a government department. You have to record them when you talk to them because they are untrustworthy
Aiden Garcia
Ok, so let me summarise what you've said so far. >she a good mom >not her fault >she dindu nuffin >she turning her life around You keep harping on about how good a mother she is because she doesn't drink or smoke. You then mention she is retarded in some way. You say the house will be quiet with only one child - why? Doesn't she know how to interact with her children? Emotional, physiological and mental abuse/neglect are just as serious as physically harming a child. You and your sisters inability to even reflect or consider that some of her behaviour may be causing harm is very telling. It's surprisingly common with people that have kids removed. I'm guessing your sisters upbringing wasn't what you'd call ideal either? Stop your 'wall of shame' or as I like to call it 'wall of stupidity' and listen to what social services are saying. Change and she stands a good chance of getting her kids back. Stay in this state of lies and denial and she's going to find it hard to get them back.
Adrian Garcia
no they don;'t have records as in the records office is corrupt
Thomas Reed
Not real retarded, if you knew her you wouldnt even think she had a problem. Also she has rasied 3 children fine with no problem till now. Her eldest is a straight A student, well mannered, so she just be doing something right
Owen Bailey
like they make it up as they go along, just to harrass you and frame you and hurt you. there are no records of anything in the records office
Zachary Richardson
Bump
Landon Taylor
archive.is/6Yign 5 kids removed cause of them being (((poor))) and having paraphanelia... prison time 5 kids 2 husband and wife broke up the whole family
Yeah, it's not as though hundreds of thousands of vulnerable girls were plucked from the frying pan of somewhat disfunctional family circumstances and callously cast into the Pakirape Archipelago fire.
Jeremiah Allen
Bump
Christian Garcia
Are you an abbo? It would explain a lot.
Lincoln Howard
For real that's what im sick of. We have listen to everything that have said, she is doing everything they want. I have gone out of my way to help them make their job easier thats why i had enough after today. As a family we agreed my sister has always needed help and we have been there for her but to be honest when she had her first child my mother was very worried as she was younger and her learning disability but she turned out to be a very good mother. Also i meant the house would be silent as in quite, my bad. And im sure both would not be doing so well, and no even the department admits she plays well with her child and compared to the people they see a hundred times better. They keep saying their concerned was the broken wrist and her not taking the child to hospital straight away and the bruses on the childs back ( the child is very young , 2 and a half) Im telling you at first i didnt agree with the department but told my sister she must do what they say and everything will be ok. Its been 8 months and they wont give her more contact because we have to wait for the order in court but they are the ones delaying it ( my sister is only fighting for one of the child as the lawyer advice because their is no reason the child to be taken at all, no harm or anything) she is fine having to do as they say. My sister is really a humble person and had a fine up bring. To be honest if this happen to my other sibling i wouldn't be surprised but its her. And i honestly know few people who dont drink or smoke or anything like that, so am proud of her for it and she has never even wanted to try that stuff when she was younger
David Perry
Is this a fucking math problem?
Josiah Morgan
You fucking idiot! They left those girls with the families because they couldn't get enough evidence to remove them. Thats EXACTLY what I'm trying to explain to OP, it's bordering on the impossible to get kids removed even when there's evidence. To have a child removed means there is enough evidence to go before a judge.
Adam Rodriguez
Fuck off idiot, no kek. Wish it was something like that but its just bitches on a trip of power. Alot of these caseworkers i have dealt with are as young as me if not younger making life changing decision on families without having any life experience themselves
Justin Wilson
I call LARP bullshit with that shitty grammar and spelling. Either that or you're subhuman and no one cares anyway.
Lucas Young
CPS is a racket. A child's best hope in life is with its parents. They care the most. Sometimes you get shitty parents but usually they try to the extent they can. It's best to leave children with their parents in almost all cases. If the parents have trouble providing help them, rather than pay a bunch state meddlers to intervene.
Cooper Rivera
CPS usually comes in and kidnaps attractive white children.
There's a million nigger babies in the inner city rolling around on the ground covered in AIDS needles, CPS doesn't send anybody to go save ugly black babies.
But if you've got a little blonde-haired blue-eyed angel, you're goddamned right they'll snatch her away from you the first chance they get.
They actually have quotas, like, "okay, this month we got a big order, so we need about 25 blonde kids, 20 brunettes, 15 redheads..." etc.
Julian Garcia
I wouldn't be so sure. There's things he's mentioned that makes me think he's on the level. You'd have to work around these sorts of people to notice it. >no empathy for the children >constantly seeks to avoid blame >threatens to record phone calls (very common) >refuses to acknowledge problems >blames social services as if it was their fault the child was hurt The next one will be threatening to take them to court for compensation or gibs
Eli Rivera
I believe alot of caseworkers remove the child if they get any report or anything because they are scare they might fuck up and leave the wrong child with the wrong parent to keep their jobs safe and no blame on them. But i keep seeing them remove child from homes who need support, not some cunt caseworker fucking up those children. Read any child protect act and it states, to ensure the safety of a child the first and best way is to support the childs family. Well why do i never see that, also you said my sister was turning around her life, what because she could get away from the childrens fuck wit father untill a year and a half ago. I have seen cps lie and lie in reports and caught them out myself, thats how you get your "evidence" by lies. And remember people what i said and look it up, in these courts the "rules of evidence" does not apply. So fuck your so call mountain of bullshit evidence you pull out of then air. Like i said you contect dots that are not there.
Also i have never told my sister nothing is her fault because just like you said before the department would see it as unhealthy and make bullshit out of it, i wont fall for their games after seeing how they work.
Camden Perry
they threaten to record conversations? hahahahh how? theyre corrupt record, what?! ahahah sure i dont who your even talking about
James Scott
Do not care for grammer right now, trying to type fast and it's early morning and i haven't slept yet and i now have kids to get up too. So so fucking sorry about the poor grammar buddy
Angel Williams
motherfuck this is insane... what i'd do if i were her, get the kids and move to another country in europe
Christopher Campbell
But it's quite common. They do it because they don't have the proper resources.
Are you for real. I have done everything for these children, they are my family. I have given up my foremen position for this fucking department, all i do is for these children because it hurts me to see what they have to go though. As i have told many people, i will give up anything for them as they are kids and if they do have someone their for them right now it will affect them forever. Im an adult, i can get up, dust myself off and get back to life, so i will be fine. Its the kids i worry about. Also im just trying to get you to understand whats going on, maybe if you did work for the department you could give me advice on how to make this move along because im sick of hearing this is a slow process, well these children are suffering and you know how long 8 months would feel like to child this young. Thats the real upsetting part
Liam Campbell
I am a victim of barnevernet, I was taken away from my mother when I was 13. They sent me to over 12 different homes because it didnt work out with me and my "new" parents. shit was wild.
Isaac Torres
I still remember that day the cps and the cops came unexpected to my school and just dragged me away to a new home, I couldnt say goodbye to my mom or nothing. They also removed my access to phones and internet for over 2 years because they were scared I was gonna "contact" my real mother.
Ryan Morgan
Never been in exactly the same situation but I can relate to everything you say user... these institutions are soulless machines, and the only thing their employees are concerned with is the mental gymnastics they perform to convince themselves they are not the bad guys in the majority of cases.
dont interact with any such niggers without recording every single interaction. make sure those conversations get backed up in the cloud and timestamped, so that you can always prove the file existed from a certain point onwards and wasnt altered.
that way it hopefully doesnt take too long to catch these niggers in their motivated reasoning. best thing is to always record everything, so you always have an alibi as well. costs you maybe a few $ a month in cloud storage, but its an investment in my piece of mind i happily make after being hounded by false accusations by niggers of this kind.
Brody Thompson
Thats what woulda happen to these children if i didnt take them on. Also the department never sat me down and told me this would be a long process or nothing, at the time they seen i lived in a wealthy part of town, had a good job. Glad they came to me because i make sure the department keeps to their contact with the children and the mother
Asher Hill
I have been thinking about doing this and telling my sister. I dont think my sister would as she is so scared of them and wont do anything that pisses them off. Me on the other hand do not trust them because i dont feel they do their job enough. They had the hide to ask me after i work fulltime already to do supervision on the weekends for them and take notes as they are unstaffed and its getting hard to keep to the twice a week the department supervise them. Told them its not acceptable for me to do their job and take notes in supervision for their case as im not qualified to do so
CPS is probably the most corrupt and disgusting organization ever conceived. They are basically a domestic terrorist organization and should be shut down.
Juan Clark
those kind of things are only a concern if you are trying to hide stuff; in this case, you are trying to document the truth. it leaking out isnt you enemy, but losing your data is. nobody cares about going through your 1000s of hours of audio recordings; 999.9 of which will be boring as fuck. the hard part will be to get anyone to care, even the judges to whom it ought to be relevant.
get a cheap synology NAS in your home, and it comes with excellent zero hassle tools to sync it to amazon glacier or as many storage locations as you want.
just keeping it on drives in your home out of paranoia is the ultimate fail for these kind of records. enjoy your house fire.
Dylan Lee
ever heard of getting copies out? and well, lets see here, the internet and your calling that safe?
why dont you put your credit card details on taht safe computer thats somewhere elses but not on your own hidable, tradable, sharable media your a stupid fuck
Jason Green
ive never heard something stupider in my life >DUhhhh other peoples computers are safer or safe compared to your very own
huh what? go ahead what sense does that make? explain your discrepancies, go on. i want to hear it.
Ayden Gutierrez
See I can't help and I'm sorry for that shit, but honestly the kid had a broken wrist and bruises on his back?
Like, cmon bruh, explain it man, that and not drinking and smoking are not golden certificates for being a good parent, that and your sisters mysterious "she has it but not really" learning disabilities. What the hell does she have? Leaving us in the dark only makes it sound like she's a window licker. They are obviously using that as some kind of cudgel against her in court right?
Is there a history of abuse in the family at any level?
Either way, good luck m80. Doesn't take much digging to see that most child protection services are corrupt fucking viper dens.
Jack Evans
Also no body wants compensation, we just want this family to be back to atleast kinda normal again, something csp should be wanting to. I see no help from them and you say i am here just blaming them, well yes here i am. But out there no because i am to scared to, yes i have pulled them up on lies and confronted them about it a few times, but i have had many specialist in the private health department back me up when i have had the child check out for a second opinion. But want i haven't done is tell csp about thoese reports backing me up from those doctors because i have read what they have done to doctors and specialist who havent agreed with them, so dont want to drag them in to it, i have it atleast for my own peace of mind and to know the child is ok and had the right checks done
Also csp first refused to let my sister come to my house or see her, it only recently because they want me to take over doing supervision so they dont have too.
Jack Bennett
Prior juvy officer. These orgs follow policy and only policy. If you are looking for humanity stop. It isn't there. Your sister must follow every step of the reunification program to the letter or this will never stop. One thing you all can do- move to another district where the case will be transferred to a new agency- fresh eyes. The nicer the place the better the results. Once you are in the system and you choose to stay in the district where this all originated, they will not take any chances of this being abuse and them being liable, prob per governor mandate to take every precaution. If any of you stay that district, get plain info on her steps to reunification and God help if she fails to do any. Also, you better follow your provisions as well or you can and will be brought up on contempt and they will remove them. Don't skimp, skip or ignore what they have spelled out. What is she "charged" with doing? If it is withhold or delay medical care then she should cop to it and work the plan. If it is abuse then it has levels and plans accordingly. Even if she not abuse stop trying to convince them it not. She needs get busy working the steps and even add some of her own, like free group parenting meetings at churches. The more you all do to assure them you are working the plan and adding some helpful self-work, the faster this will resolve. Best of luck.
Dominic Perez
Sorry your right i didnt explain her learning disabilities and might have been wrong saying disability, its more a learning difficulty and i just call her a retard because so use to doing it when i was a child kek. To be honest csp wouldnt have even known about it if we didnt tell them. Also kids fall mate, all the time and it wasn't a bad break at all. Had that looked into, it was more of a tear and doctors have told be they probably only put him in a cast because they weren't sure if it was broken or not, thats why they cast wasn't on long
Oliver Torres
Thanks heaps. My sister is doing every step for the reunifications that they want her to do and more. I have told her to do a first aid course and a couple of extra parenting courses. Also no its not abuse, not seeking medical attention for the break but she did take him to the hospital the next morning. The child had a fall the night before, she called the home doctor that night and the department accept that she did as they found recordings.
Also i do everything the department as, take the children to every pointment and made it very clear to my sister we have to play their rules and you cant come over my house and can only call the child on times you are given. She understands that, she has made this whole thing alot easier for us by being so understanding that we must be so strict on the rules, im sure most parents would be extremely bitter without someone telling them when they can and cant call their child but she is very care about it and knows we are only doing whats best for the children and thats to follow csp
Ian Rivera
8 mos seems long to you but not in the legal process. All of you lean in to the process and do all,you can and even more to better those kids and resolution will happen. 8 mos is nothing if a child is really being abused. Surely, you don't think an abuser could solve their issues in this short if time.
Angel Foster
Unfortunately user, if the case worker does have a vendetta against your sister, it will be hard to prove. Here's the thing CPS/DCF or what ever acronym the agency goes by now, has a higher then average turn-around rate for employees. Social workers in that agency tend to burn out quickly, and quit. So the agency tends to overlook some of the more eccentric behaviors of its employees. Unless you have rock solid evidence to prove that the case worker is in the wrong, the agency will consider the complaint as being from a disgruntled individual and will almost certainly ignore it.
Jonathan Hall
Well you all are doing it right. Keep up the process. Keep supporting each other and be patient. The day in court will come. Be aware they may ask even more of you when you might be expecting reunification at that point. Don't lose heart and just be open to the process. It is normal to vent and rail against the machine. Even those of us who worked in it got exasperated at times. You are doing good. Hang in there.
