How on Earth can people spend their entire lives with just one person? (Married or unmarried.)

How on Earth can people spend their entire lives with just one person? (Married or unmarried.)

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When you find the right person and she reciprocates your love with the same devotion and adoration that you show her, it's an extremely special thing. You'd never dream of hurting her by leaving. You can't imagine there ever being a time where you won't ever again hear her laugh or seeing her smile or sleep next to her. She gave you the greatest gift in the world by mothering your children, and is your best friend as well as your lover. You would die for her in an instant. To you, she becomes more beautiful every single day. You don't say to yourself "I'm really stuck with her for the rest of my life...?" Instead, you say "I don't believe that I'm lucky and blessed enough to be able to spend the rest of my life with her."

I dunno. I can’t even stand being married to one girl in Skyrim.

It’s thought man. Alpha here going from smashing ass on the daily to married to one woman. She’s fantastic, awesome personality, we crack each other up, she’s a boss who’s hot and makes bank, everything a guy could want....except. She’s a prude with sex. Even suggesting something out of her comfort zone makes her feel insecure and that she isn’t satisfying me or that she is worried I will cheat. I’m not insane her father is a former capo who would have me killed and gone in a heart beat if I every hurt his perfect daughter. I feel the only way to keep my sanity is to go full1950s leave it to beaver. Stop looking at porn, delete any insta ho’s or Non married FB friends. Just make my reality the new norm. Try to unbrainwash myself after years of will sex with 20 something’s with zero morals. It’s a fucking daily struggle but I’m going to do it for my marriage.

If I can elaborate on this a little more, which was excellent btw. Not everyone can find "the one."
You just know it deep inside. Its called the assumption belief. Where you know deep down in your heart this is how its meant to be and to question it would not only be silly but unthinkable. Its like user said. You feel like you have known them all your life yet only really met them 6 months ago, a year ago...years. It just took a while to find them. Because you are absolutely sure they are the one the thought of hurting them would never enter in your mind. Them not being in your life is unthinkable as well. They make you that happy

According to my parents, grandparents... quite happily. Monogamy is sexuality that is optimized for happiness.

Women will be replaced

You cannot be happy. That is why the happiest and most prosperous have 4 wives

Subhanallah

only by satanists.

There's literally no man in existence that can do it without some suffering. That's just how we're built.

So cheat a little now and then, you'll appreciate the girl you love even more and you'll feel better.

Its a natural part of being human. Children take immense effort to raise so about 70% of people are programmed for monogamy. It naturally stable societies monogamy continuously arises. Why else do people flip out when they find their partners cheating. Husbands or wivs would kill for it

Kinda like most of us would keep the same dog our entire lives if we could.

Because we aren't degenerate.

Because children need a stable household to have the strongest chance of succeeding in life. It's all about sacrifice, user. The nuclear family is the core of a prosperous society.

Love

Before I met my girlfriend of seven years, I was a complete sexual degenerate, having fucked over 30 women in all shapes and non-disgusting sizes.

Let me tell you, after seven years with my girlfriend, who I will marry and impregnate soon, I don't miss that life one bit. Not even a little, ever.

I'm glad I got to experience it, I don't regret it at all, I just don't miss it and feel like that is a closed chapter. I'm comfortable with my girlfriend being the one, because I know what I am (not) missing out on.

Of course, her being so great contributes greatly to me not wanting to go back to that life or not having second thoughts about it. I really did win the lottery with her.

Because my parents aren't divorced so I don't find marriage scary, it's a massive relief to have someone who knows me better than anyone else to the extent that they just automatically know what I want to happen in every situation and I don't have to navigate around them or negotiate with them like you do with any other kind of interpersonal relationship.

I would pay money not to cheat if I had to, it would be like saying I'm tired of wearing my own perfectly fitting shoes every day so I'm going to try on a random persons ones that are probably going to be uncomfortable, might give me a disease, might make me pay for it for the next 18 years and exclude me from wearing my own shoes again.

Its called a partner, a real one, not just an ornament or a quick fuck or a wallet.
Marriage and sharing the good and bad of life was the norm for most of human history. In fact I'd posit that we've destroyed our ability to properly bond by societally forcing marriage later and later in life. Realistically you should be marrying and having kids by the age of about 16 so that you don't even know a life without your partner so that the idea of abandoning them just isn't even there. We've all been tricked into becoming old and set in our ways before meeting that someone who is also set in their own, finding room to truly let someone in at an older age is a much tougher task than anyone ever will warn you.

that gives me hope, thank you

>Not everyone can find "the one."
They can indeed.

Is right.

However, marriages and long term relationships take time and they take effort. It's not always rosy, there is rough patches that you work through together.

You're scum.

It's hard to find that special one (I personally think there is more than one) but whichever one you pick, if she picks you, you create something special that can last a lifetime.
Been married 10 years, 2 kids, happy as fuck and know we'll go the distance, and I'll tell you the most important thing I've learned about marriage:
>So long as you're compatible on a level you both need to be (core beliefs, personality, etc..) a marriage is almost 100% commitment, a choice to stay in that relationship and make it work from both of you.

It's fucking jaw-dropping how pathetically fickle the younger generations are. You can blame no-fault divorce, immaturity, degeneracy by sleeping around and never having to commit, etc.. and these are all very valid reasons, but in the end, I believe that 2 people can make it work through pretty much anything if they CHOOSE to commit and never give up on that.
You'd be amazed if you knew what you could get through when you simply know that both of you will never just walk away.

Hear hear.

Kids are key too. Not only do they of course propagate the species and the values of their parents/society, on an individual level they really grow you up.
That's why all of these stupid millennial cunts who are 35 years old acting like 18 year olds with their nerd culture and video game streaming career from mom's basement that don't want kids are wildly immature and wind up desolately lonely and fucked later in life - they chose themselves and their own stupid selfish bullshit pursuits instead of partaking in the greatest journey that two humans can take: creating and nurturing a wonderful new life, just like someone created and nurtured them.

In a way it makes me happy that libs and these other faggots that don't want kids won't replicate themselves. It's poetic justice.

>They can
statistically impossible

This user does not know the power of love
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>100% of the world is actively looking and wanting to get married 100% of the time

You're not going to be "the one," ever, if you have no desire to be in a long term relationship.

For others, there is always someone with whom they will want to spend their live's with.

What if you find the one but neither wants to be married?

Easy

I’ve been with my wife 31 years and it’s fucking awesome. I was watching the seven nation army remix of Hitler and she just said “I’m glad you’re enjoying yourself so much”.

Find the right woman lads, it’s super comfy and worth the occasional bullshit.

>Find the right woman
You're an extreme outlier

I did it too. 90% of women can be molded into whatever you are if youre persuasive enough and they think youre cool.

i want to know what love is

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Just wait till you find the one OP, you will know. Here's how I knew:

>Meet for the first time
>Felt like I was meeting an old friend rather than someone I never met
>We can have each other in stitches with laughter easily
>Instinctively know what the other wants.
>Finishing each others sentences
>When you do anything the other is shocked because they were just thinking that exact thing. It's to the point it doesn't even phase us now
>Liking the same things so when one of us says "let's do this" we know the other will find it fun
>When you wake up with her using your chest as a pillow
>Hearing that laugh
>Seeing that smile. Not an amused smile, a smile of genuine happiness, I can't describe it.
>Holding the same values so you know you both want the exact same thing from the relationship (marriage, big family)

We had the mad hots for each other but I always found it strange we never went all the way:
>One day tells me she can tell I'm very sexually active
>Explains she is Christian and that it is very important to her
>That means no sex before marriage
>Terrified that now I know I will leave for someone I can fuck faster.
>Did the complete opposite, made me more determined to be with her

When you find that wholesome gem of a woman it is one of the biggest red-pills. It's like a veil is lifted and all of a sudden all those roasties you looked at and thought were hot are now utterly disgusting when compared to a wife you know has only ever had you.

Search far, search wide user, she's out there waiting.