Ok I know in America or UK it is probably not a big deal but here it is. I am African and we have values.(not saying other communities don't have values, but what Africans see as values they live by it diligently and sometimes feel the world should have these same values) If you are not a virgin and you get married, the husband would find out and you become a disgrace to yourself as well as your family... My dad puts it like this: you can’t have your cake and eat it too. Us African men would want their girl to be a virgin. For example: in the UK I was at a friend’s wedding after the ceremony a couple of men stood and started talking about the bride. What were they saying? Well they were talking about how they each had had a piece of the girl. They were boasting and bragging. She wasn’t a virgin and all those men had slept with her.
How do you guys handle this? Don’t you have any pride that the woman you chose to marry weren’t their choice (in fact temporary). That you’re having their sloppy seconds?
In African community It’s a thing of pride if a father can give off his daughter as a virgin. It shows that the girl was brought up right and society would respect those parents.
>Inb4 MGTOW (I’m definitely not them)
>Inb4 Nigger (I’m giving a valuable advice as I see you guys value traditional marriage)
>Inb4 Virgin (I’m married to a light skin woman who was a virgin.)
You can take this advice or ignore it. But I think you guys should see what the African community is like.
Lurking African man's advice about marriage to Sup Forums
Such absolute tautology, remember the ancient words of your ancestors, NO HYMEN NO RING
Show your flag nigger. Which one of our countries are you in?
UK. I already mentioned that.
People aren't objects africant
Why are you in the UK
go back to your homeland.
Also, if that is truly the African values you guys have set... I applaud you.
I'm doing masters in engineering. Plan to go back user. But I just thought I should share what my community is like.
So you're okay with men talking about how they slept with your wife. In your wedding day. Men have pride. It seems you don't.
why is it okay for men to not be virgins, but disgraceful if a women isnt one? Stop radicalising white guys
Pretty decent advice actually. I left my last gf after three years because I couldn’t get over the fact that there was carnal knowledge of her floating out in the universe and possibly images as well. If you date a non-virgin all of her friends are thinking,
>lol look at male A dating her when just a few months ago she was doing depressed shit with male B
Anyway, thanks for the advice, nigger