How are you single when OkCupid exists?

Its a free dating app that asks you certain questions, and matches you with people that answer similarly.

There's plenty of questions that give you the ability to filter out the thots, atheists, nigger lovers, and lefties in general. Certain questions such as:

>Trump?
>Should the border wall between America and Mexico be built?
>Should an immigration ban be enforced on Muslims?
>Would you date someone who holds a strong negative bias towards another race?
>Are you a Christian?
>Are you a virgin?
>Would you prefer to date someone the same race as you?
>Is communism bad?

You can also put emphasis on certain questions, and there's a section where you can specifically match people who answer correctly for those emphasized questions.

I met a Russian qt this way who is completely redpilled on communism because her family lived in the USSR.

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Degenerate proto-Chad reporting in. I got laid more using Tinder, but I did have a short relationship with a MILF divorcee. One of the more fun relationships I've been in. She dumped me after I told her I wouldn't meet or take care of her kids. Her excuck took her back.

Generally speaking girls on OKC are much less attractive, at least in my area. There are plenty of hamwhales and meatplanets who will go for literally any male. There is no concept of "leagues" or anything similar.

>girls on OKC are less attractive compared to other dating apps

Dating sites only work for the top 20% of men
Women get inundated with so many messages from guys they pick the top guys only

I like being single, I have no problem being alone.
People are just so demanding.

cringe

I'm an actual sperg and prefer being a loner. Would like to get laid some time though.

Have you seen the women on there?

>proto-Chad
Keep dreaming faggot

met my wife on there 6 years ago. redpilled nigger hating cutie.

women on okcupid have autism or are criminals and they hide the rest unless you pay their premium price

I have literally 0 matches on Tinder, what am I doing wrong?

>thots, atheists, nigger lovers, and lefties in general.
Which is about 95% of OKCupid's user base. Then you filter out the single moms and that takes out about 4% of the otherwise hot "trad" (ie, desperate to find someone to settle down with now that their market value is in the toilet) white girls. Don't look like model? There goes your chance at getting anywhere with the remaining 1%.

Also OKCupid is shit now after they changed how messaging works.

There are about 10 people in my city of around 100k on this piece of shit site, they're all fat ugly SJW-looking bints.

Not being a perfectly chiseled alpha 6'4" frat college douche party boy

I have zero luck with OKC aside from single mothers and landwhales.

shit like this makes me grateful I met my wife in university.

Jokes on you. I met my wife on Craigslist.

If a selfie is your pic, that's why you're doing wrong.

meeting girls online is for men who have no self respect, go out into the world and speak to people

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(((Okcupid)))

Sorry bro. I work overnight and my day ends at 2pm. What are my dating options? Meeting single mothers in grocery stores in the day?

I don't believe in dating online.
It is below my dignity to do that.
Moreover, the sample of women on such venues (eg: Tinder, OKC, Plenty of Fish, etc), are of low quality, being loose, vain, and lacking dignity to have stooped so low in the first place. Why would I want the company of such a creature? What benefit would it confer? Only shameful licentious acts for the point of sexual gratification is the only rationale. This is why chronic masturbators try to replace the hand with the vagina, and not try to attack the root cause itself and solve their sexual habit in the first place. Indeed, quitting self-abuse, has allowed me to change my priorities and I believe if everyone quit this most pernicious habit, their goals would change likewise.

It is better to die a righteous man, than to live as a degenerated one.

user, was your self-abuse a sexual habit?
What was most successful for you in attacking it?

Indeed. Self-abuse is simply another term for masturbation.
The best strategy is to resolve never to watch video pornography ever again because moving images are burned into the mind much more strongly than static images, and the rewarded provided is much stronger. There also is a biological response that I read where hearing sex or seeing a competing male in the scene makes you more aroused than you otherwise would be, so keep static images to just women, not engaged with anything or a sex toy even.

I emphasize this because most fail the actual advice and if they revert back to video pornography, the addiction is reinforced with every single setback.

Now, as for attacking the habit itself, you need to do quit it in a state where you are not horny and the window where this happens is very slim.
I once read something that equated pornography addiction to a highway, "There are many entrances to it but few exits", which is very true. The window for an exit is only possible if you are in the right state of mind.

Once you quit, you must resolve to dismiss any and all sexual thoughts that creep into your mind. They are of no benefit to you and are simply the old instant gratification pathways trying to provoke you to action. If you do not entertain them, these thoughts will abate. Likewise, deliberately avoid all sexually stimulating material.

Then, fill your day and efforts with constructive hobbies, activities. Play chess with a friend, it will help reverse the hyporfrontality which the highly sexed stated induced. Reward yourself for your efforts.

Read old literature from the physicians of old. They will strengthen your resolve and realization of how terrible this habit truly is.
For such, I defer you to:
"Science Discovers the Physiological Value of Continence"
antisex.info/en/contin.htm

Good luck.

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>not using japancupid

Fatties and liberals galore

Bullshit. I'm not that attractive, and fucked girls within our below my league on okc

Dating sites gives even 4s and 5s out of 10 a circus of horny betas wishing too woo them. Dont even bother with impure primadonnas or straight roasties. Do your search locally in thr real world.

Good wifey material ladies get permanently hitched by the first or second lucky man they come across, so the key is being the first. Use your youth wisely. If you fucked that up, then you might find good natured girls at religious groups, animal shelters, libraries, working non-food industry jobs, state universities, etc. Ancedotal: find a girl to "rescue" from a low income, but well meaning (although failures) parents. Humbleness with all the appreciation of a man that brings stability more than they ever knew breeds loyalty.

I tred this. I had no one with a high match.

>within or below my league
This is how a cuck thinks.

I can't think,of anything to say or why any woman would want me

Because there's about 5 people in my area- Okcupid used to be great. I'd spènd nights there just doing quiz after quiz. But now it's shit and they want you to pay for everything. fuckthem.

can't stand Western women.

only Russian I met on OKC is married.

A wet hole is a wet hole.

Pump and dump, move on.

>There's plenty of questions that give you the ability to filter out the thots, atheists, nigger lovers, and lefties in general
and once you do there is nobody left in your matches

And your wife?

I can't date / gf

I'm poor

Illegals are everywhere....
They will ask me for niger license scores if I qualify gf / wife

Every millennials are magick / related, feminist,liberal

I don't really like normal women / non normal women...

There aren't many women on okcupid in my country. All of 2017 I didn't go on any dating sites, which was one of my new year's resolutions for that year. I had the same resolution for this year but I broke it yesterday. Tried going on Tinder. Only had one picture and no text, maybe that's why I got no match. I'm kind of annoyed I broke my resolution but whatever, don't think it matters.

this is a trap. never met a single woman on here as an average guy. they simply refuse to message you.

Really? Cuz was enjoying the fresh supply of punnany

There are nothing but fat leftists and trannies on OKC.

I've used it in Chicago and I'm an 8/10 compared to these fatties, every girl is a hideous manbeast. Maybe it is just Chicago but my buddy in Florida says the same.

Use Once, it's pretty good.

No most of the attractive ones don't need a dating site. There's gonna be a lot of fatties and single moms. However, just realize that, and know that they are all dtf

is okcupid the old-fashioned option now that tinder exists? it seems like writing a clever opening message is quaint in this new "directional swipe to for hard cock" paradigm

I don't fuck fatties or single moms. That's how you get herpes. That's where niggers nut.

I feel you dog

haha i hope you don't actually believe this

kek, I never thought about it like that. Making an okcupid profile is like an ancient form of dating now that everything is based purely on the physical response of your penis in that moment.

>based
keep dreaming swedecuck

i'll start a hybrid dating app that works like tinder but assigns an old catholic lady to chaperone you during your date

>Ancedotal: find a girl to "rescue" from a low income, but well meaning (although failures) parents. Humbleness with all the appreciation of a man that brings stability more than they ever knew breeds loyalty

Holy crap. Thanks for explaining this.

I think I'm a 7-8/10 but I have never gotten a date from any online dating service. Most girls who message me first are obviously bots or catfish accounts. I was promoting a center right wing view on relationships.
>loyalty
>kids
>marriage
I'm guessing that's why I got no where on dating sites.

Yikes bro how can you ever trust?

Met my current gf on pof. She is a nice, shy humble 8/10 school teacher. Total non whore. I was actaully just about to delete my app out of disgust for roasties and whores, and thought i would give her another try since she was actaully one of the 1/100 nice girls i chatted with on there. We had chatted a couple weeks before and it sort of fizzled out.

Being ugly is a curse.

> within our below my league
that makes you a manslut

>5 people in my area- Okcupid used to be great.
>But now it's shit and they want you to pay for everything
This is true. I live in the Capitol city of Canada and even I only get a dozen matches, at least one of those people is a fucking tranny. The site is dead.

Shilling for your data mining app lmao

I used to just blatantly tell off the trannies on OKC and Tinder, thing like
>nice costume
>You will never be a woman
They usually just unmatch you pretty quick, never got V&

TLDR: be your wife's dad.

Women just use OKcupid as self validation tool.
> non whores exi

Hey i knew she was rare that's why i went for another attempt. Believe me bro i was right on the precipe of giving up for good i had enough of the skanks and filthy roasties coming on to me.

This is the exact picture of me and my wife. Spot on commentary.

Exactly, if you remind her of her dad she'll love and respect you for life. And if she doesnt have a dad or hates her dad, move on

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Do you seriously expect me to date this kind of people?

>Swedish flag.
Opinion discarded.

Any dating site you don't pay for will be filled with hamplanets, single mothers, genderspecials, trannies, degenerate couples looking for a threesome, polycucks, and, sadly, undatable women. OKCupid is the worst of them all.
Paid sites have their own problems, but the pay wall encourages people to self-improve before making the investment.

Just got no social skills at all.
Also don't want a used up whore.

Not bad advice desu.

How does a NEET shut in get anything else?

>Shilling tactic of muh you have no womman
Not political.

You are a sandnigger, aren't you?

That's why.

He doesn't. You must stop being a NEET. Get friends and go out. Friends are as easy as being social at the right place and the right time. Most guys will share your conservative views, or at least bitch about women with you. That's how I met my two current roomies. Now I've got a bunch of pictures from going out drinking and doing holiday stuff with them.
If anything get's in the way of this then solve it.

It’s the other way around Ronaldo, German roasties are all about the muzzie cock and all the remaining krauts die kissless incels

I used OK. It was mostly damaged headcase that didnt actually want to go out when it came down to it. Tjey sent me an email saying "Congrats you're hot, you'll be getting more attractive matches" I did, but also still socially inept headcases. Had a few good dates, no love though. I didn't join because I cant meet them in real life. I just wanted to meet different types of people, outside of my circle. Where else can you meet a doctor a gardener and a lion tamer in one day? My highest match was in Norway. What good is that? I gave up on online. It became work and not fun.

> Using jew-owned sites

That maybe before 2015, but since then german girls were "forced" to review their liberal opinion. I was there, in Germany, between 2014 and 2017 and I saw how all girls went from "muh refegee" to avoiding non-german guys for pure fear of being raped. They just don't speak out because it is considered to be racist and also because they are woman, they will keep for themselves but will guide their choices based on that.

Fucking glow-in-the-dark CSISnigger data miners think Sup Forums anons are going to reveal their powelevel in a desperate rush for pussy.

>How are you single when OkCupid exists?

Regardless of specific platform/service men outnumber women like 10:1 in these dating places..

Its basically wasted effort for the most people

This is why you never trust dataminers, social networks, dating sites, or CSISleafs:
cbc.ca/news/business/ashley-madison-says-1-in-5-ottawans-subscribed-to-adulterer-website-1.3162638

There are too many fat, ugly guys on OKC compared to tinder and real life

Because the women of OKCupid are the embodiment of the Dunning-Kreuger effect.

I have a date next wednesday, first date in years. Wish me luck.

>okcupid

Good luck user.

OKC and other online dating services have nothing but the dregs left over since the advent of Tinder. Maybe it was okay once, but now it's just single mothers and minorities.

You forgot the uptight bitches in pantsuits that wasted their childbearing years and are now desperately begging for seed.

How do you move past the first dialogue about work and general questions?

I usually ask them about school, work, whatever, try to make some witty remarks, and then it fizzles out.

Also these dating sites are shit because men vastly outnumber the number of women, and most women get bombarded daily by hundreds of horny men, so they can pick and choose only the best Chads with the best profiles. It's really skewed in favor of women, most of whom are old, ugly, single moms or on the cock circuit.

You won't find quality.

Don’t worry Hans, i signed up to tinder got 72 likes in first week and I didn’t like one of them. When you get likes there often crazy lefties, single mums or boring normies. Avoid. Hookups make you feeling empty as well, just avoid. Women like it more anyway when you approach them in real life.

Fuck there are millions of these in canada . My inbox used to be full to the brim of 33 yo plus roasties basically begging me for a relationship. I have even had roasties ask me to committ to them before i even met them

You're not following rules 1 and 2.

What is a quality woman anyways?
I used to think I was supposed to go for the uptight bitch in the pantsuit because that's what society told me I was supposed to want. But look at the state of the west. It's a fucking dumpster fire because the traditional family is dead. This was the lesson of an upbringing that mistakenly told me women and men were equal.
>You want a smart girl in a pantsuit and a big career user

Here's what really makes a quality woman:
>Fertile - Otherwise what's the point?
>Subservient - self explanatory.
>Smart enough to function, but ditsy enough to guide.
She doesn't have to be a knockout beauty either. You need to be able to throw her in a cocktail dress and take her to the company Christmas party but as long as she has good hygiene raw aesthetics serve no further purpose.

Someone hasn't actually used Tinder. You both have to "like" (swipe right) for a match to occur. You have no idea who has liked you unless you like them back.

I think he meant he got 72 matches. This happens to me when i used to travel in the states, i would turn it on and have sometimes over 100 matches. Funny thing is in canada here i could only score second tier roasties or hambeasts but in the USA im actaully turbo chad for some reason

No you faggot, it’s called Gold tinder where you see who likes you.

>Be me
>tfw no gf
>install lovoo
>text with some girls
>hey this one is really cute, smart and lives in the vacinity
>meet up with her
>wow she's really sweet and attractive
>meet her again two days later at my flat
>we talk and laugh a lot and watch netflix together
>meet her a third time few days later
>again at my flat
>we're cooking, she brings the salad
>have a lot of fun again
>get the feeling I should make a move
>hug her
>want to kiss her
>she turns her head down
>"b..but user - I thought we were friends"
>get out of my house bitch
>tfw no gf and the only attractive one that seemed interested friendzoned me
>fml
Fuck women

I would argue that apps like OKC actually help eternally single people stay eternally single. I don't know anyone who's has a successful relationship with someone they met from a dating service. There's a reason why single people desperate enough to hit up tinder or pof are single.

Fuck OkCupid, some user recommended BUMBLE app, women are forced to make contact first. It worked.

I want to filter out all religious nuts.