Starting from tomorrow I will be building my life up from scratch.
I have no money. No family. No permanent place to stay. No real work experience and am covered in tattoos (hands, not neck.)
I want to be a good man. Help me figure out exactly what to do from this point onwards and maybe other lost young men will be able to use the same formula.
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Go to a good neighborhood where you would want to help people. Then help people! You'll be alright mate.
>Go to a good neighborhood where you would want to help people. Then help people!
this, I was going to say this... it will be rough at first but people will notice.
1. Look up local trades(electrical/plumbing) 2. Call all until one will hire you as a helper. 3. Rough it till u get 1st pay. 4. Rent cheapest room. 5. Buy peanut butter/jelly/bread so you do not starve. 6. Work hard, showup ahead of time, and rest will work itself out. Godspeed.
Go to a church.
Ask if they can help point you in a good direction.
How do you mean? Should I just try and find a job in a small village?
Do fucking stretches if you do decide to work out. I went too hard too fast for months and now I've been dealing with a persistent injury for over 6 months.
In England you need a CSCS card before you can step on a building site and they cost £200
Oh. In that case sell ass to faggot nigger. You r fuked annyway.
>Starting from tomorrow
fail
SEPTIC TANK WASTE REMOVAL
Dirty jobs like this are the easiest industries to get into and among the highest paying ones. Go towards the things nobody else wants to do
sell your body to mudslimes
>I have no money. No family. No permanent place to stay.
Me too user.
Read "If" by Rudyard Kipling. It keeps me hopeful.
You already received good advice user, I don't know what else to add.
I know you will make it user.
You could always get a passport together, get in shape and save up for a ticket to France and try join the Legion.
I was in a similar situation 5 years ago, OP. What's your situation? Family a shit?
Move. Move somewhere cheap, outside of a city. You need a spiritual reawakening, something to rekindle the flame. Reject everything that this society offers you, reject happiness, reject pleasure. I did this after being a NEET for two years and even though I am still nowhere, at least I know where I want to go.
either start today or yesterday
tomorrow never works like user above said
Why don't you start today? You could spend the rest of the day cleaning your room. It for sure looks like shit. You haven't vacuumed under the bed in 6 months! Fix that.
never stretch and never had that problem. Use proper form instead of more weight and warm up if you get injured easily
If you hurt yourself you did it by force. Force = Mass x Acceleration
Slow down or scale back on the weight
Learn to be comfortable in your own skin.
Stop drinking mother fucker! Hold your head high and don't let shit bring you down. KEEP GOING.
I'm not all the way there, nor would any man quite be. This is a lifelong journey of betterment and struggle.
How old are you OP and where are you based?
Forgetting qualifications, what are you are good at and what do you enjoy?
I'm somewhat in the same boat except it's more like I've realised that I just haven't been putting that much effort in - Ad Infinitum - First Us
How old are you OP?
You could always get a passport together, get in shape and save up for a ticket to France and try join the Legion.
You're right and wrong. You don't need a CS card for domestic work (house installation). Don't go for firms who do site work. They're usually multinationals like Carrillion or Laing. They're cunts to work for and offer no security. Find a one man band who's willing to train you and the world is your oyster.
Plumber here. That was my route. Life is good.
>tomorrow
HAHAHAHHAHHHHHAHA
I'm 24 and I live in Leeds.
I'm good at talking to people. Im strong and tall. I know a lot about art and literature and culture in general.
join the french foreign legion
do the CSCS test which is 30 quid pass that then pay for the card which is 39 quid. it doesn't cost 200.
This
www.gov(dot)uk/student-finance
Do everything that you need to do to go to university. I have a real cursory knowledge of how it works for bongs, but there's gotta be a way that you can get into some community college equivalent and apply for financial aid.
In the short term, if you drink or do any drugs, stop immediately. In your situation, there can be nothing for people to point to in order to justify your current situation. Even if you just drink a beer now and then... quit ENTIRELY.
Start going to Church as much as possible. Be honest about your situation, but don't go begging for help - if people don't see self improvement, they won't reach out to you to help. Get a bible and have it on you at all times. You don't have to read the whole thing, but read up about the different books, etc, on wikipedia. Remember some passages that are relevant to your situation (Francis of Assisi favored Matt 19:21, Luke 9:3, Matt 16:24 - memorize these).
Couch surf if you can, but plan ahead to have to sleep outside some nights. Wear dark, neutral clothing, or camo if available. Scout spots - don't just go looking for one when the sun starts going down. Don't go anywhere obvious; someone is probably already camping there. If it's raining, parking garage basements are great.
Get on EVERY SINGLE POSSIBLE government benefit. Food stamps, healthcare, etc. It's there to help people in your situation; take advantage of it.
Don't sleep in homeless shelters. You'll get your stuff stolen, and you'll probably get bugs, too.
Don't touch other homeless people. Don't pick up anything cloth from the street. Scabies are your second worst enemy (next to the cops).
Try to get a job as a dishwasher. The service industry really doesn't give a shit who it hires, as long as you get the job done. This will keep money in your pocket until that sweet sweet school money comes in.
find a dragon or like, a really fuckin big snake or sommat, rite m8? and then get like a 2 kilo dumbell, rite, and just clobber the piss out of that wyrm rite quick like eh wot
It's my best friend (the guy who is letting me sleep on his sofa) 's 21st birthday and he's having a huge party. Im not even going out afterwards, it would just be disrespectful to not hang out with him.
where about in leeds mate? near wakefield here
That's one of the coolest things I've ever seen.
Don't follow the jelly/bread advice. Get fucking good food. Understand how to cook simple meals, like ChickenRicewithEggs or make good healthy sandwhiches. People pay lots of money now for convenience food, but its easy 10$ a day(!) for coffe, snacks and sandwhich.
Kill yourself, simple as that.
something about being a professional snake wrangler doesn't seem right.
Go to a migrant neighborhood. Do a mass shooting.
Seek God
I don't mean cuckstianity or any other religion. Abandon all degeneration, distractions and ungodly deeds. Get down on your knees, accept that you know nothing and sincerely ask for guidance from those who protect and overwatch you
And rise as a new man
Do the hard thing.
Do what you need to do
Not what you want to do.
Don't do this.
You know. Your pic shows it. Jesus Christ is the one who crushes the serpent's head.
He died for your sins and rose again. Believe, call on Him and admit you can't fix you. He will save you. Pick up your Bible. Read. Study. Learn. Grow.
Yeah try some hipster area shops ie a coffee house, camping store clothing store.
Tattoos are the norm there so your tats will only make you more accepted.
>Starting from tomorrow
start from today
These words mean nothing to someone with no direction.
how old are you?
Then he's fucked.
>go to oilfield
>dont do the drugs
>flip house
>keep flipping and renting them out if you get low on money back to oilfield
>find some sort of life meaning
its going to be hard but its doable
People like you need to have all your wealth confiscated. What you suggested is as impossible as it is absurd.
Try and eat healthy.
I don't mean go expensive, I just mean don't eat crap (pasta, bread etc).
You're going to need all the energy you can get for what is ahead.
If you are a smoker, try and quit right now.
If you can find some time to exercise, do that too.
Build up tiny amounts of responsibility from here and live up to the task.
This is ultimately the goal of any person.
The more responsibility you can handle, the better and happier you will be.
I know your pain bro. I have maybe one month left to find a job since I had to leave my last one due to certain shit. I don't want to be homeless again but 50 applications later with nothing showing up is disheartening. I hope I get my license soon so I can do one interview. If I can just get back to work I can be ok. But I don't know if I'm going to end up ok or taking a walk in the woods so I can just end it.
Join the military. That's what I'm doing.
You can't just go to an oil field and get a job without experience at this point in the game.
I imagine you'd need a bachelor's at this point, because every other field demands it. In what? Probably a managerial field that won't be used.
Stop fap, watching porn and dreaming about exclusive girls and impossible things. Brain consumes up to 25% of your daily energy, so use it smart.
Don't worry about paesant superstitions and memes. As long as you have hope and will, you can start whenever. Sometimes you have to wait for opportunity, and there's no way to rush it.
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Filter your water{taps and showers}.
Consider supplementing with Iodine(salt has this if Iodized) and Borax{also known as sodium borate}.
Iodine increases IQ and Borate removes fluoride from the body as does Iodine: archive.is
If you are brave consider following Tory Smith's youtube channel.
It's not easy but it's not easy doing anything against the wicked. He's a fighter.
OP did not mention he went to university.
If what you said is true, the guy is even more retarded for suggesting it (aside from the fact that oil in the UK is limited to off-shore Scotland mostly). (Although, working as a "rough neck", on the fields, doesn't require a degree. However, they want experience. They will hire some migrant from Texas with a criminal record that has "experience" over someone with none, despite the fact that training would be very short)
Consider, university is 4 years, and costs money. If you lack money in the first place, you probably won't be able to go, at least in the US. The federal subsidized loans for an individual (NOT THE PARENT PLUS) and even the subsidized ones, simply will not cover COA + tuition.
All that time and effort, just to be 50k (max, because of the cut off point for these loans if you are on your own) in debt.
What is funny is that how the world is currently set, the easiest way is military. Either join up with your national military (UK should be easy enough) or hop across the canal and join FFL. Both are viable options and both can send you to the right road if you are able to rough it up for a few years.
t. Did the same few years back, it somewhat worked.
I already know that pain, brother. Got an associate's and paid maybe a total of a grand without financial aid, but that means jack shit today. Given how starting January of last year, everything started demanding a bachelor's, I honestly wouldn't be surprised if even shit like that required some education. As to why, I just can't say, other than making it seem like they're that much better of a company.
I can't help you, user, but Jordan Peterson literally can. He's spent his life trying to figure out how. If you listen to his advice on getting your life together (youtube it) and take it fully seriously, that is the best path forward I can concieve.
Best of luck.
Potatoes
as soon as you're able to, buy a piece of land and live there. slowly but gradually build a house and start agriculture.
you can live in a tent when you start.
You'll need this album. Godspeed user. GODSPEED.
he cant do that because guns are banned in the u kay
Do those people exist anymore? Who would help some poor opportunist?
My thoughts exactly, it's boomer tier advice, "just hit the bricks and ask people for jobs, it's what I did 40yrs ago".
Kekd more than I should have.
So you're useless as of now. Time to get you a skill to start developing
Conversely, the fact that 'everyone' knows thats not how it works anymore is exactly why it still works. Because 'everybody' (that's the retards with literal mouth-drooling level IQ) 'knows', and what everybody knows means most follows.
If you act like the others, you'll get the results of the others. If you act like a man, you'll get the results of men. Men take the road less travelled.
>no family
>no money
go monk mode my dude
Shut the fuck up with your reject societies norms and find yourself.
You wanna get gassed with the roasties that go to Africa?
He needs to get a job.
Get a job at a Gas Station or whatever you call them, a small one owned by a sikh or a white.
Show up every day. Do a good job. Small gas stations you will see alot of the same people everyday, you'll get to know them and make connections, especially since you said you have good people skills.
People will notice your hard work ethic and will offer you jobs, people with trades and careers.
I worked 6 differemt jobs fromy gas station time. Machine shop, printing press, delivery, electrical stuff.
Worked for me, I'm no longer at the station.
Get rid of the tats as soon as you can afford it. No flak in the face. Reduce drinking to only a few times a year. No drugs. Lift. Run or do some kind of aerobics every day (suggest martial arts training). Read. educate yourself, and learn to speak well, force yourself to do it.
And remember: we become who we pretend to be.
Keep your boomer advice to yourself, that era is over, most places use agencies to hire and vet their staff. Just because you do something different doesn't mean it will work, it'll just fail in a different way.
This.
Stay away from simple carbs and sugar.
One of the best, and most dependable sources of income is undertaker.
Everyone overlooks this.
People are just dying to be your clients.
>morgen, morgen, nur nicht heute, sagen alle faulen Leute.
This.
I've read the entire bible, and I'm not even Christian. There's a lot of fairy tales in it, but there is also a lot of common sense and very good advice in it.
I suggest everyone read it.
I'm sinking into a similar position as you user. I'm not sure how you've landed where you are in life, but for me I'm forcing it on myself in a way.
I'm 21 with no job experience, 1 1/2 year of college, and ~$200 to my name.
My girlfriend and I are starting to seriously consider relocating to the Philippines and starting a life there.
Her grandparents will be leaving for there soon. It's their homeland, and they don't have much time left. I have some family there as well, so we wouldn't be completely on our own.
Realistically, we'll likely be staying here for at least a few more years before going anywhere. Further education, find small employment etc. I'm stuck in the middle of California; very hard to find any work.
>No real work experience and am covered in tattoos
Get some roughneck job for now to get stabilized. You need a roof and an internet connection. Find something you can teach yourself. Programming, graphic design, video editing, etc. Something that only require a computer and some software. Then study the fuck out of that and build a portfolio. Udemy, Khan academy, Youtube, etc.
I know people, no fucking lie, who have 6 figure careers, are tatted from head to toe, no college, all self taught. You just gotta Shia that shit.
>exactly what to do from this point
the start
peopleready.com
they will put you to work in 2 days and pay daily
Giving up has never solved anything, brother.
Keep pushing, something will give.
There is no tomorrow, there is only now.
Youve gotten much good advice. Getting into a trade being one of the best pieces. Trades need young men and they give you a well paying skill that offers a great utility you need that can take you anywhere. Focus on HVAC or Electrician in particular- they will take you on as a helper, as it can be tough work that many avoid.
Oh, read The Stars My Destination. It is just what you need at this point in your life.
>Getting into a trade being one of the best pieces. Trades need young men
that takes years. anons fucked now
When you have literally no money to your name, peanut butter bread and milk is an actual life saver. You can’t afford to eat healthy when you are that poor, trust me I would know. Best you can do is throw in vitamins and electrolytes on top of that.
Can confirm.
Self-taught industrial automation/process controls engineer.
I live very comfortably and more or less dictate my own hours.
Just an FYI, don't buy a Model 3 Tesla. It's gonna be a massive shitshow.
Walk up to the gate and ask for your new life.
>I'm stuck in the middle of California
By Jove, I think I've stumbled on to the crux of your problem!
You guys have obviously never been so poor you have to eat like that. Peanut butter, bread, milk, tuna, multi vitamins and electrolyte packs. Literally saved my life and allowed me to live long enough, and cheap enough to save money.
Good for you. Don't let anyone deter you.
you need a pretty bitchin portfolio to pull this off. the people you are referring to probably also have a substantial amount of natural talent/affinity for design/art/etc. very few people are going to take some courses on udemy and produce anything of note or land any kind of design job. that said, you're right that it's totally possible, but it's a hard, and frankly risky path to take. the other problem with "self teaching" is you are not afforded the network opportunities by means besides mostly dumb luck.
Sup Forums spergs about college for some reason, but OP, community college > state school in a timeless but in-demand/technical field is easily doable while working full time, and is a much more stable/safe way to go...accounting, comp sci, engineering, whatever. in light of what i said previously about networking, this route will introduce you to fellow students, teachers, internship opportunities, etc. that you simply won't get by being "self taught". once again, not saying the former is impossible, but in reality very few people are capable of disciplining themselves to pull it off...not to mention they likely had connections to begin with.
God will give you a second chance. That's why He sent is His Son. To fix what was lost.
Good luck and God's speed.
>God will give you a second chance
prosperity nigger detected