Why are Finns so antisocial? Is it abnormal to talk to each other in Finland?

Why are Finns so antisocial? Is it abnormal to talk to each other in Finland?

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if you think not trying to make awkward "small talk" with everyone you meet outside is antisocial then yes

Small talk isn't awkward, nothing wrong with being friendly

It's like this in most of the world

forcing people into having a conversation with you is not being friendly

Most people I've met don't mind

They lost their social skills during the Hyperwar

>forcing people into having a conversation with you

I like how you put that, like you'd be holding them against their will. LOL you're clearly autistic.

because you are from america where people talk when they have nothing to say

Come on now, don't act like we're the only people in the world who talk to each other

I wish more people had this mindset regarding personal space and privacy.

Again, there's nobody in America that will point a gun at your head and force you to have a conversation.

In America we have this. It's called your personal bubble, but when social interaction is engaged, I.E communication, said bubble pops, and social skills come into play.

If you don't want to interact, you easily give them the look of "fuck off" and no harm no foul. Not complete sperg out about "forcing people into having a conversation" like this retarded snow gook thinks.

One day i'll go there and start random conversation with random people, just to see if they break.

yet you still wonder why people dislike americans

It's just banter

Nobody wonders, only you dumbshit. Holy fuck keep digging that hole

>mfw some yuropoor thinks we give a shit what anybody thinks about us

If you don't talk to strangers you miss out on opportunities to make friends.

Please take me in Finland I can't handle this overly social atmosphere anymore.

if a non-finnish person would start a conversation with me while im waiting for a bus i wouldn't mind them or think that they are doing something wrong, but if a random finnish person comes up to me and just randomly asks me "hey how are you" i would instantly start thinking something like wtf does this person want from me

Be nice to Finland

>openly admitting you people hate each other

This just keeps getting better and better. Keep going.

You don't deserve those trips

I personally find it to be a major nuisance when random people try to engage a conversation with me in public. It's a nuisance, it's disrespectful, intrusive behavior like this uneducated simian probably does on a daily basis Giving them a look is kinda assy, but most people within my age group just put on their headphones and pretend they're not listening. I can easily respect Finns if they respect each other's personal space like that, because you never know the person's mood or willingness to talk, and the simple act of just leaving people alone is in itself a sign of respect.

How exactly did you get your first girlfriend then?

>it's an 'americans try to justify their social invasiveness to europeans' thread

>because you never know the person's mood or willingness to talk, and the simple act of just leaving people alone is in itself a sign of respect.

That's why you don't initiate conversation with someone who is obviously in a bad mood... Holy shit are all of you this retarded I have to explain basic human interactions? I'm done here.

This 2bqh

>That's why you don't initiate conversation with someone who is obviously in a bad mood
What if they're in a bad mood but that ain't showing? You really can't tell that easily, it's always intrusive behaviour, regardless.

You're acting like human interaction is somehow a bizarre phenomenon

>hurr i'm bipolar don't come near me hurr

Are you a fucking women?

You can always tells when an American is pissed off. Always. Sorry if we're not emotionless autists like the rest of the World.

Done.

Wat

There is some small talk here. For example in markets you sometimes see strangers small talking to each other.

Sounds nice, this normie hellhole is too much for me

It's not that we don't value social interaction. It's more about respecting personal boundaries and the fact that people are usually busy when they're on and about. If you have a strol in the park during the summer and run into some chillaxing swedes you won't be a weirdo for striking up conversation. I guess our countries practice pretty diffrent forms of individualism.

I think we have the highest number of single households per capita as well. And we're unusually okay with that.

Assburgers around the world, we welcome you to this land of kind of high but manageable living expenses, where you will experience long winters and get some sunlight, where it is not that likely that a stranger will strike up a conversation with you if you are in public and they feel it would disturb or annoy you.

>talking about socially interacting with random individuals in public on a autistic board

I'm done

Wow, what a load bullshit.

In what planet are you living in? I was going to ask but I'm most certain you're from São Paulo, with that lifeless robotic personality of yours. All that carbon monoxide and lack of sunlight really took a toll on your neurons.
It's called human social interaction, more widely known as REAL LIFE, something you're probably unaware of, you know, when you talk to people, IN PERSON, in REAL TIME and not through a fucking computer screen.

Where I live people talk to each all the time, about anything, at anytime. Even when I'm in a bad mood I love when someone talks to me, it's always nice to meet someone new, and maybe even make a new friend.

I'm happy if Americans still behave like normal human beings and not like a bunch of drones. And yes, maybe if I was living in a frozen wasteland where the sun never shines I don't think I'd be willing to social with people either, but thankfully that's not the case for most of us.
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Good for you, man. Someone as understanding, accepting and social as you must really be the kind of guy everyone would love to talk and to hang out with, regardless of personality, mood or other circumstance.

They have been indoctrinated to behave like that.

It's no surprise their women are choosing Muslim migrants over native European men with no social skills or personality.

>HI HOW ARE YOU HOW ABOUT THIS WEATHER WE'RE HAVING, PERSON I'VE NEVER MET

>Fuck off, retard

>OMG RUDE IT'S JUST SOCIAL INTERACTION WHY ARE YOU SO AUTISTIC

Fucking kikes

you know what to do guys, just stare in the eyes for 4 min. every cute girl you see

that's how every bus stop everywhere is. Nobody goes to the bus stop to socialize, not even Americans.

This is just the finnish in general. I know a guy who lives there and apparently your not even supposed to make eye contact with a stranger let alone talk to them.

>this is what awkward manlets believe

>HI HOW ARE YOU HOW ABOUT THIS WEATHER WE'RE HAVING, PERSON I'VE NEVER MET

>OMG RUDE I HATE SOCIAL INTERACTION WHY ARE YOU SO AUTISTIC

Yes, exactly. I'm glad you understand.

Now the healing can begin.

This fucking thread. I hope you foreigner scum when visiting just stfu. It's my personal space and when some random ass cunt comes to babble about how my day went you can assure i'll punch him in the face. It's only 6 hours of sunlight here and fucking cold, the last thing i need is some hypersocial burger coming to sperg in my face. Fuck off and die.

Here its normal to have small talk with random people as long as you don't make it personal.

Everyone should mind their own fucking business.

Autism

Autism

>Cunt whose language sounds like german with a hot potato in your mouth.

Your language is cancer and you should neck yourself.

Doesn't change the fact that you have severe autism, autismo.

Every finn has autism. It's a compliment

I noticed several days ago that sometimes in Russia people wait for bus in the same way.

autism

you murricans really can just start talking with a stranger?

In California it is customary to talk to someone as a sign of politeness

The jokes on you. I have only been diagnosed with asberger which is a bit better than the usual full blown autism we tend to have.
This must make me the king of all of Finland or something.

lmoa we bullied kids like you

Here it would only make you seem reaaally suspicious and leave the victim wondering wether you are trying to scam, mug, rape or just abuse him or her and the whole situation just leads to the usual fight or flight or burgerimus reflex on the Finn and leaves you talking with a potentially violent and confused Finn

We are the Finnish Illuminati, Rulers of all the Burgers

Honestly I rarely talk to people I don't know but when I do it's almost always with old people.

They tell you interesting stories and all that, and it's just fun talking with them.

But I never talk with people my age(20).

I thought smuggling monkeys in a plane is illegal.

Just wondering, how do finnish people make friends if they dont like talking to people they dont know.

I get that you know people through school and university but what happens if your friend from university meets your friends from your home town. Do they talk to everyone or just mainly talk to you 90% of the time after introductions are over?

I don't like how autistic everyone is because it makes me even more autistic. I wish I could move somewhere where I could actually talk to and meet people

>but what happens if your friend from university meets your friends from your home town. Do they talk to everyone or just mainly talk to you 90% of the time after introductions are over?

To be completely fair this happens everywhere, it's super awkward when you go with a friend to a party or somewhere and he leaves you alone even if he's already introduced you to people.

Well not having small talk with strangers is one thing but everyone standing at the bus stop in a line with 2 meters of personal space is quite autistic desu senpai

Nah it's not awkward. I just go chat up with them. Just not strangers.

how do you even build your relations in that country?

Just remember to avoid eye contact or walking directly towards them

Wouldnt they be strangers though? Even if your friend introduced you two and he left to go talk with other people. Would those 2 people talk?

If there were an Sup Forums meet, would you talk to other anons from all the different countries or just stay against the wall or near the door waiting for the party to end?

We talk when we are drunk.
>First day in university
>Class full of stangers
>Dont know anyone
>No one talks
>Go drinking together to student party
>Talk
>Make friends

>muh memes

You know the feel when many people have extremely distorted view of your country but you can't really prove them wrong either?

Most here are turbo normies, we just respect personal space. It's up to you whether you consider that autistic or not, I personally wouldn't.

>tfw you have to shit but you are waiting in the queue

Very slowly.
Sometimes things just match up, I have best friend from 1st grade, I come along well with his little brother too.
When we went same high school, we got two dudes to our group. Those two newest get along well with my friends little brother as well.
So we are pretty damn solid group of five.

Not him but depends how many are there. I can manage about 80~ people in the same house then it gets just too full and I drink myself to sleep

>chocolate train

life doesn't end in high school, to this day I speak with literally 1 (one) of my high school partners

also if I must form my group of friends only with people from my school or job I'd kill myself

this

>poo poo

they dont
finland has state organized insemination program
its scadinavian socialism

nigger, brazil is 100 times more normie than the us

We are not Scandinavian.

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>I speak with 1 of my high school partners
And ditching your old friends is preferable why exactly?

>somehow everyone ignores the fact that half of the people in this picture are standing 10cm next to each others

Its just how it works, different friends for each life stage I think?

>there's nobody in America that will point a gun
Why lie?

Why the FUCK are you trying to talk to people at the bus stop?

That's not how it works here.

>just randomly asks me "hey how are you"
wait, what? i have plenty of experience being subjected to small talks, and so far no one started a conversation like that.
they always start with a comment or question regarding a situation at hand. E. g" cyкa влят This bus is shit" "true that, pidorashka" "the other day i was triyng to ride a bus and..."
Going to some stranger and saying " hey how are you" is something only uncultured savages would do, i'd immediately leave because it's probably someone trying to scam or rob me

What the fuck??

i do talk to strangers at bus stop sometimes and old people are always chatting about something

this is great. personal private space is important even if its outside and snowing there. finns know their shit.

>10cm apart

Fucking autists. This is how normal people do it

>Brazil
>normal in any way

>being a nigger
>being normal

We're not the ones who unironically elected a literal nigger for president twice, nor *almost* knowingly elected *the* most corrupt person alive today, but we're unironically the ones who mercilessly impeached our first female president. Guess which of us also unironically falls deeper into the normiedom.