My girlfriend said she was putting things on hold a few days ago as she didn't want to be in a relationship. Last night I finally got her to tell me what was wrong because I was worried about her and she told me there was another man she found.
I tried to commit suicide with a gun of mine last night but my roomies walked in on me before I could do anything and wrestled it away from me.
She was the only thing keeping me going and I wanted to spend my life with her.
Music for this feel? I played so much of my own music with her and showed it to her I can't even listen to my library without thinking of her.
This is the third time I've had this happen to me and every time the women always say it's my fault and that I couldn't have done anything and that I deserve better then them and I'll find it eventually.
But I just end up getting hurt again.
I hate it
Camden Gutierrez
Use this as a catalyst to get into new music, OP. Also, learn how to love yourself before you love others.
And that's the thing. I just get too emotionally attached. Before her and I were in a relationship my life was overall actually in a worse place but I was doing fine but once I'm with someone I get very attached to them. I wanted to show her the world and be with her for the rest of my days. She was perfect for me. But I wasn't perfect for her.
My life went from a sort of dawn period to the brightest and sunniest day when she was in it, but without her the light of my life is gone and I'm being swallowed in the darkness.
It's not fun. Any Recs?
I'm probably going to go relisten to Heroes by DB and The Doors S/T as those are some of the few things I never listened to with her that I hold dear.
Xavier Ramirez
>She was the only thing keeping me going and I wanted to spend my life with her. You pushed her away dumbass. you're a male you can never want a female more than they want you. its against biology not trying to be edgy but just giving you advice why she probably left you.
Cheer up you can only go up from here. find ways to make Yourself HAPPY fall in love with material items or music etc never put your faith in another human being they will let you down
Sex with a man is really great though. Give it a try.
Anthony Bailey
Write a song about it or something.
David Ramirez
First of all, don't kill yourself. There will be a day when you have something you didn't have before, and it will feel great.
So, you need to either
>be more dominant And very occasionally act like an arsehole. It sounds counterintuitive, but if a woman thinks you're a work in progress, and that she can change you, she will instinctively want to see that through. Also if you push her away then her natural response is to want you more, because pushing her away is a way of saying she's not good enough for you, and that's what drives woman a lot of the time. The thought they need to prove to a man that they're more than good enough for them.
or >find gemuinely kooky girls You know the type - not the 'kooky' with thick eyeliner and laddered tights, but the geniunely kooky who are neurotic and damaged. Try going to a support group for victims of childhood trauma or something like that. If you befriend one of these women and show her loyalty (don't be an arsehole with a damaged girl, unless you're nice for so long that she gets better, and thinks she's better than you, and you need to bring her back down a peg or two) then they will be loyal back.
Of course I'm speaking in generalities - not all women are, deep down, vapid cunts who secretly need nothing more than to be manipulationed, and not all vulnerable women are more loyal/easier to be with.
But as long as you always hint at something more - that you have an ambition you can show you're working towards, that tempts the woman into getting hot for your life aggression, or you have an inner fucking 2edgy darkness that fascinates the woman with your enigmatic creativity - you should be able to push and pull women away enough to be in control.
>source >sociopath/pick any random personality disorder user who quit a high flying London job to live on a council estate with a nice girl (type 2) because there's more to life than just being a cunt >but make sure you're a cunt at least once in your life
Brayden Hill
you sound insufferable, no wonder she broke up with you
Thanks I've never Listened to Pinkerton and now I may start. That song hit way too close to home.
Well then I can never be in a relationship. She had wanted to be in a relationship with me for 2 years before I finally accepted and once I did I wish I had dated her sooner. I fell hard and fast. But I guess I shouldn't have expected anything different. She's never really had a long relationship and she's bipolar so I suppose it's my fault for being so hoping. Thanks for the rec Actually I have when a friend paid me to be in a porno for him. I didn't enjoy it and couldn't even stay hard. Not for me man. If I had any musical talent i would consider it
I can't kill myself now but no promises on the rest. I just can't be that sort of guy. And all the women I've been with have been damaged in some sort of way. That's probably why I've gotten fucked so hard every time. I'm going to be done with relationships for a long time I think. Because I can't handle it. Thanks man
Connor Hernandez
Finish the fucking job, you worm.
Henry Cooper
Shouldve just verbally abused her to get all your anger out and been done with it
Landon Gray
I would if I could I'm not going to slit my own writs or anything like that A gun was final and instantaneous. I don't have the courage for anything else and my roommates are constantly checking on my now because they're worried. I'm not angry though. I'm just sad that I wasn't good enough for her. I wish I could be the other guy. I want her to be happy. Even more then I want to be with her with is quite a bit. Love is unconditional man. I just wish she had loved me back because I'm fairly certain she never did now.
Ryan Richardson
well tell her that ffs. you seem like you just wimp out and let these women off the hook let them know you're suicidal
Jeremiah Russell
I did let her know that's how I feel and told her as much And the reason my roomies checked on me is because I told her I was going to kill myself and she texted them to check on me. She said it's all her fault and I did nothing wrong etc but that doesn't help me feel any different
Adrian Scott
good now you gotta cuss her out lad or just diss her you need some narcissism
Xavier Gutierrez
I also get emotionally attached very easily OP, it's awful. I don't have any advice for you since I also have someone in my life who I am very attached to right now. It's horrible having someone you love feel nothing for you, but that's the way it is.
Try to distract yourself. Wallowing in sadness may be cathartic, but isn't good for you in the long run. Find any friends, like your roommates, and just chill with them. Also work on your own music and the entire experience for inspiration.
can you fuck off with your pseudo-science you can't explain away the problems of a relationship, of which you've only heard one side, with 'nah that's just wot women r like'
all bullshit lmao sure if you want to be devoid of emotion and manipulate women into being with you go ahead, fucking hell
you're holding on to this idea of her being your saviour but mate you need to find a self worth that doesn't require validation, you've got the rest of your life to have fun and do shit, even if you're in a terrible place right now, that doesn't mean you'll be in that place forever
you'll find happiness, THEN you'll find someone, then honestly whether they leave or not you'll know you've still got yourself.
yeah I'm speaking in massive generalities like everyone else here but shit the bed at least I'm not suggesting being a sociopath lmao
Cameron Turner
m8 you just agreed with what I said
Jeremiah Myers
>love yourself before you love others lmao >implying anyone actually loves themselves
Christopher Morris
I guess But I don't want to say anything more to her right now It hurts too much I'll just let her live her life and hope for the best for her. Yeah I feel you bro I really do it isn't fun I hope shit works out for you even though it rarely does in these types of situations Thanks for the rec and advice Yeah I appreciate that Thanks man I'll try to do that I've gone through this enough times to know I will eventually but it still hurts at present I guess I just have to wait
Brayden Reyes
>caring about girls Men are truly fucked Give as many shits about womemes as they give about you, ie none Apathy is attractive
Daniel Wood
>killing yourself over a grill
kek
Brandon Miller
>it's against biology >never put your faith in another human being mate
hey man its possible u kno just gotta send an uwu or :3 or >:3 to someone occasionally (or yourself??)
wow pretending to not know what love and affection is sure is a good form of self-help, is edgy and cool, and definitely doesn't just contribute to a toxic and stagnant hive mentality
good lad check out pinkerton it's a self-aware, introspective, ultimately positive album we're all gonna make it senpai
Tyler Smith
Are really advocating going to support and trauma groups to pick up "damaged" girls? What the fuck is wrong with you? Go back to r9k where you belong.
Jack Green
i don't know any of these bands
Alexander Evans
>never put your faith in another human being m8 its the same thing you said about self love. you can't put your faith into somebody else making you happy you just said it nicer
Also majority of women don't like submissive/needy guys. if you can disapprove those facts i'll admit im wrong were on the same page tho.
Jason Collins
>wow pretending to not know what love and affection is sure is a good form of self-help, is edgy and cool, and definitely doesn't just contribute to a toxic and stagnant hive mentality "Love" is a trap women use on beta males like you to keep you around Start looking at things rationally, stop "falling" for every single girl, keep telling yourself that you don't need them and eventually you won't
Dylan Bell
>Love and affection
That's why she cheated on you, right? lol this shit is too funny to be real
