Has complaining a lot and having a pessimistic attitude ever gotten anyone a gf before?

Has complaining a lot and having a pessimistic attitude ever gotten anyone a gf before?

no, but it makes you feel better.

>le gf le gf le gf
grow up

How does complaining make people feel better? Isn't it just bad for your mood?

Makes me feel worse, but at least I feel something.

Other people will also share their experiences of how they don't have boyfriends, so we kinda have this circle jerk, you know? pic related

it makes me feel like i'm not the only one.

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But is that really a good thing?

You're not really getting an actionable solution to your problem but rather just affirmation of it.

If there was a way to fix the problem why would we be here?

I don't think we're solve this problem anyway, so we might as well share our experiences and feel sorry for ourselves.
It's free therapy.

Isn't the way to fix the problem of no gf to talk to girls?

Bottling up your frustrations will only make you go crazy. Being able to put it out can be exhilarating, which is why psychologists exist.

Yeah but therapists and psychologists give you advice to fix your problems. Posting "tfw no gf" just wastes board space

Complaining is cathartic, though, so long as you don't wallow.

Complain, be upset for a while, then shake it off and move on.

I talk to girls plenty. Don't see how that gets you a gf.

How do other people get gfs?

I don't know.

Have you tried going on any dates with girls?

>Yeah but therapists and psychologists give you advice to fix your problems.

Nah it's mostly "just bee yourself" or "take these meds".

Only a neuroscientist can actually give you the understanding of your problem.

Yes, twice with the same girl 5 years ago.

And how did it go?

Terribly on the first one, ok on the second one and then she said she was not interested in me so that was that.

Oh. And did you try again? Or was that it, one girl in 5 years?

>And did you try again
No.

>Or was that it, one girl in 5 years?
Yes, that was it.

>No.

Do you think your number of attempts has anything to do with your results?

Obviously.

So if you know the answer why don't you attempt it more?

Because I cannot just "do it" like that, it took me months of talking myself into it to even ask her and I bottled it five or so times when I actually got round to doing it. Also I do not really know that many girls anymore now I finished education, only ones I know are at work or gfs of my few friends.

>it took me months of talking myself into it to even ask her and I bottled it five or so times when I actually got round to doing it

What exactly stops you from doing this?

Anxiety, panic, lack of confidence etc. Typical things.

do you ever wonder if you just make these things up and the only stopping you is yourself?

Well I don't make the anxiety or panic up, but it is myself obviously.

wew lads

also, teach me how to go on dates

>start lifting/lose weight
>acquire confidence
>suddenly talking to girls doesnt seem that bad + your new aesthetics

you can thank me later

Doesn't fix the autism.
Also, I made a promise to myself that I would only lose my virginity to a finnish person.

>Doesn't fix the autism.

yes it does

unless you unironically have autism

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