Do you bang girls? Do you have many years of experience?
If you do, is there something you know about sex that you wish you knew about earlier?
Share some experience with bros.
How to fuck efficiently? Let's discuss techniques.
Also, random porn thread, if pics related to discussed techniques, the better.
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Touch yourself to control sensitivity (stroking pulling hair, hand on throat etc) so you can give the right combination of pain/pleasure
Eat out. Always. always go down first. tease. when she likes something, don't stop.
Communicate - i use the hair gripping method, i tell the girl to grip my hair a bit harder when she's really into something (when eating out), that way I know when I'm doing something right.
Communicate - ask simple questions - does she want it rough, or sensual? "Tell me baby, how do you want it"
never thrust mindlessly, deeper =/= better. try 'stirring the pot' in otherwords, when you're fucking, try and add small circular motions to your hips so you're not just going in out on the same spot. Once again, contrast. Go slow, slow speed up, go really quickly, then suddenly back to very slow.
source - i am a beast
Experiment - every girl is different
I got a lot more and can elaborate if needed
go on.
Women love sex as much as men do and they want to get laid. The thing is you just cant tell them straight into the face if they want to fuck. Bit if you give them the right signs (woman language or wathever) its so easy to get every chick into your bed - message to my self 10 yeary ago
gonna need tips to get women down to fuck first, anons.
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>If you do, is there something you know about sex that you wish you knew about earlier?
Not to ask if it was hurting, fuck i'm cringing hard
don't rabbit hump a girl
don't use your entire body to move your dick, just your hips
and like the other user said; change it up. try different positions and speeds throughout sex so it doesn't get boring and awkward
These aren't about sex itself but make the experience better, and your room/house more appealing.
Checklist of things to have :
Clipped nails! keep your fingers cleaaaaan, clip em and clean em before a date! always!
Scented candle - on the evening, switch off all lights except the candle. I usually go for 1-3 normal candles and 1 scented.
Lube
Condoms
Tissues
Bin next to bed
Clean bathroom
Clean sheets (optional, they shouldn't be stained though)
Don't touch yourself to porn all the time. Take some time out of your day, get naked, on your bed, and touch yourself, rub your nipples, stroking your skin, gripping your butt, these kinds of things.
A very very neat trick when going down is to use one hand to 'squeeze' (not hard but kind of twist and rub, like you're spreading a pinch of salt over a dish) the clit as you lick it, while the other hand is stimulating her gspot with 2 fingers. if you use ring and middle finger you can also use your thumb from that hand to mess around.
Watch videos - How to's, sex guides, anatomy diagrams. Find out where the G-spot is. Learn how (and when) to go for the clitoris. There's an amazing video that teaches how to eat pussy, im looking for it now
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I don't have a huge dick by any means, have been told I'm average but I think I'm prob slightly below average.
And every single girl I've dated and fucked numerous times, does not like it too deep.
It's about finding that sweet spot where the head of your dick is catching and releasing in her puss. You dont want to pull out all the way though or she might dry out or get uncomfortable from queefing
How many orgasms in one day did your girl have?
What's your high score? Please, be honest.
aww yeee, found it.
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3.
A stand beihnd his words, but not the same guy. My best is 14 in one night of fucking but this girl was beast getting off. Mostly clit orgasams, alot of licking and foreplay.
Ty user. Will watch it later
I heard about guys doing 9, I wonder how they're doing this.
It's physically impossible for a girl to have this many orgasms. Some were fake.
Also, watch these after you've just jerked off so you can concentrate.
Get into yoga, or mobility. I recommend doing this at least once a week phraktured.net
You don't have to do this, but it makes things nicer. It makes you more relaxed, and that's always a good thing.
Also, learning to dance, or doing sports like Brazilian Jiu Jitsu, Gymnastics, Bodyweight Training, or Climbing help a lot more than strength training (don't tell /fit/) or muscle building (basically, any activity where you learn to handle your bodyweight.)
Do you want general dating / turn on advice?
It is not imposiblle, i had girls where i did wonders to get her only once, this one was clit sensible and she was not faking it, since we did agree to see how much.. she actually begged to stop. Licking and fingers mostly, this was over 5-6 hours during a night. At the end we smoked a joint and she got off 3 more times in row. Im telling you, not imposible at all.. she would probably go more if she didnt worn out.
>Dating advice
Talking to 4 women right now, hard to decide which one I want.. is it bad to be hooking up with all 4 even though it seems like kind of want a relationship? I feel guilty sometimes..
Might be toys, might be fakes. It depends on the women as well, some girls orgasm quite easily, for others it's quite hard to reach.
The truth is, the girl doesn't care if you make her orgasm a million times, the sex itself should be the great part. the orgasm is just the cherry on the cake. If you do things right, one or two sessions in one day are more than enough.
Pic. Rel, not that night thou
I have to make her orgasm 9 times in a day.
It's personal. The bad thing is, I've got only one year of sex experience with one girl and compete against a score made by people who fuck probably since childhood. Mission fucking impossible, bro, that's where am I right now.
Do what your heart desires. I'd just date all of them with whom I feel chemistry. That's what dating is. You're not in a relationship yet. I wouldn't mention that you're seeing the other girls though.
My dad used to say, 'When you go into a shoe store, and you see a shoe that seems nice, you gotta try it on before you purchase it.' Nothing wrong with trying out a few different pairs to see which one you're more comfortable with.
would second that
If you tease/lick her really good, she will enjoy the sex much more and you will feel better, because you can actually be effective.
If you want them to do something do this (message to my former self, who wanted to get his gf to try anal - took me 4 years):
1. Make sure she trusts you and feels totally comfortable naked and with her body. (got this one pretty early)
2. Tell her a story about how a the girlfriend of a friend did that. (the thing that eventually did it)
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You are too serious about this, never ever aproach sex and girl about sex this seriously or personally. Why do you give a fuck is it 1,2,9, 23 times mate. Make her that time special and smthing to enjoy, have laugh, overall positive memory and she will ALWAYS want more. Dont strech yourself about banal things mate. Its self destructive, be more open, talk, ask, experiment..
You don't buy a car without test driving a few first user, don't feel guilty
23 here, only had sex once and it was with a female friend last year
despite everyone saying that first time will be awkward/it will suck/wont even be able to get dick up, it was pretty fuckin amazing
I cum In about 5 min, it's fine since my fiancee is as quick as I am. But I wanna hold out longer, any tips?
Candles, tissues and so on are overrated and only a problem once you are already done.
Nails + clean bathroom and sheets are important
I agree with you on a logical point of view, but emotionally I just can't stop thinking about this challange. I know that it's probably impossible for me to achieve, but this makes me want it even more. I'd sell my soul now to make it happen.
Make breaks when you know that you will come, stop thrusting and kiss her or do something that will make you lose the orgasm mode. It requires practice, don't worry, you may even come to a time, when you won't be able to cum. I assume it's a fresh relatiionship, yes?
I learned from tantra that having your hand on her chest when she cums, for some reason is extremely powerful, if you don't the woman will never be fully satisfied. 4 thousand year old PROTECTED secret. It seems so simple but when you do it you will see it makes things very personal.
Do you know what that will do to your bed game? Limp dick. Srsly, get over it, have fun, make her enjoy you and everything about you, she will be comig back mate... or be like this and when time comes get yourself embaresst a bit more
Virgin detected. I, a guy with a 14 cm dick can make my girl cum 3-4 times with the right foreplay
For me it was that i was not able to cum + had problems with condoms, dick would go soft when trying to put them on.
I wouldn't 'give up' but I would keep the idea out of my mind. It will corrode your confidence and you'll be less manly for it.
But if you really gotta go for it :
a) try and find out her fetishes if she has any (communication, once again) ask her when you're in bed and just had sex, bring it up casually 'hey, so i was wondering, do you have any fetishes? something kinky you'd like to try out?'
b) play to those fetishes
c) find out if she's okay with toys, if so, get a vibrator, learn to use it. (search for how to's on pornmd.com ) probably a good idea to try it on yourself before using it on her.
d) book a hotel + plan activities (spa, restaurant, movie for the hotel). Don't make the day too packed with activities, you don't want her to be too tired to have sex.
3-4 times is possible, everything over 9 defies anatomy of a girl.
I just can't stop thinking about it, but I agree with you on the logical level. You are right. Maybe it's because of my complex issues that I can't let go of this challange. I don't feel good enough, ever.
just jerk your dick over the condom so you don't go soft
Sure, I do the candles because I like having them even when I'm alone. And they make my room smell good. Tissues are not just for sex, they're also to make sure I can blow my nose or whatever if I need to.
Lol almost never go down on her. Focus on getting yourself off. She's just there to be your bitch and she will love it if u treat her that way. If she begs enough go down on her only if u want to.
6 1/2 years in bro. Far from fresh. I still wanna bump up the time tho, mostly for my own sake and self confidence
Ad a) I know all of them and use them.
Ad b) see Ad a)
Ad c) The guy with 9 cums didn't use any, and I don't want to also
Ad d) I know about this
I'm happy that you're seriously discussing this with me. Finally someone to talk to. Thanks, bro.
That's a good thing that she's so hot for you after all these years, because you won't have the flaccid dick problem. Exercise the way I mentioned, when you know you'll cum, make a break (go slower, don't pull out, but stop if you have to). It's a skill, you'll learn it. Good luck!
how long did your longest relationship last?
Nobody posts any pics, come on guys, it's an imageboard after all, post whatever porn pic does your mouse click on.
Not sure if troll, virgin, or retarded. I'm gonna assume all three.
Belive me, you do not know all her fetshies.
Nina Hartley explains it pretty well I just followed what she said a lot.
Hes a Chad. Or in this thread obvius bait.
Why are you so sure about it? We know each other very well, she'd tell me anything.
Just wanted to thank everyone for discussing this in a serious manner.
Love from user
You're happy and you're not even OP, because I am OP! Thanks, bro! I like how this thread is going too, I thought it'll 404 instantly, but there are so many quality posts it makes me feel really good. Or maybe it's those 4 shots of Finlandia vodka. Anyway, I'm happy!
Thx m8. Far from flaccid. Get hard every time I see her chubbntuck and her fat tits. I'm a lucky guy
No she would not, bcs deep down she is asheemd of things. Would you tell her you fanatszied about fucking your mother?
Okay, serious question: Have a gf since a few years, sex goes well, but cannot get her to properly orgasm. The usual stuff: Starts to cry or can't take it anymore.
So I try to get her to cum, so sex takes a long time until i finally give up and cum myself.
Problem: Obviously it takes to long and she does not want to have sex so often, because as you can imagine she could be having more fun.
What do?
Women don't want to 'make love' They like to fuck and be fuck. Women like to feel used. Its part of their DNA.
I'd say, get her to give you a blowjob and make you cum once, then eat her out for 'recovery time' and then have sex with her as soon as you can get hard again.
Could be that she needs more foreplay, or maybe she's just a girl who likes her bean flicked.
anybody have any tips on actual penetration/gspot orgasms? I can only get my girlfriend to come from clit stimulation and its just not as hot when she doesn't come from me fucking her and we never come at the same time which is fucking amazing
Yeah, I would if I did fantasize about my mom.
I did fantasize about moms, but not mine exactly, she knows about it.
>Starts to cry or can't take it anymore.
Never experienced this, mine always says "more", even when I can't deliver moar.
Try to make it fun, instead of making her cum.
From my observation, there's no rule for orgasms in girls, they're indeterministic. You may happen to make her orgasm while not trying to do so. That's all I know, but I'm very inexperienced, so other anons may provide better pro tips. Good luck.
Yes, some do, some don't. Nothing new to me, bro.
Try with sensible spots on her body, start from neck, over tits, hips, belly to tights and then vagina. See how her clitoris breaths, touch it, play with it, lick it, see if shes a penetrate orgasam girl or clit, i had times when i did qith foreplay and sensual touching enough things to just put it in her and she would orgasam, learn to fuck and rub clit. Find postions where she is not in pain
>Do you bang girls?
in my dreams
The girls says she doesn't like when you go down, is it true or all bitches like that, just don't admit?
What's stopping you? It's easier than you think.
She starts to cry? During sex? Sounds like she might have some psychological issues which are inhibiting her. A mental block of sorts.
My last GF had the same problem, I tried everything except toys, we got near but never all the way. I think it was because of the combination of poor diet, lack of exercise, and general mental issues.
Thats a lie, every male has in some point fantasized about fucking it own mother. Dont deny it, its just how thing are. My point is, god knows what goes trough her had and deep inside her mind.
Deep spot/A-spot. Can make her anal orgasm there from ass fucking too. I just gave away the keys to the kingdom.
Best guide book are porn movies. Last a long time, get a good tongue game goin and word gets around. Confidence vets them, not arrogance. 20+ years and still going here
Shallow shallow deep is a counting technique. when your sensitive sequence 2 shallow penetrations ta 1 deep. shallow shallow deep shallow shallow deep, Keeping a FLUID rhythm. at first you should start with 4 shallows and deep on the 5th or if your penis is still sensitive do 8 shallows then deep on the 9th. At the point that is after a body rub, fingering and licking her clit then after a few sets of 8ta1 and 4ta1 is about the point where my penis tip becomes desensitized, I live religiously by holding back cuming untill i at lest hit that point, after that you can pound em out like an animal and that is were it seams to be that we are very likely to cum at the same time, and they are more then satisfied
Too bad I don't believe in God. Anyway, what are you trying to say? I can ask her about fetishes again, but I don't think it'll bring anything new to work on.
I heard about anal orgasms from her, but I still don't know if it makes her orgasm more than from the standard input? Any comparative analysis (pun intended)?
I'm well educated in porn, friend. Neesa is my favorite porn star for when she said:
>I've got the pussy, so I make the rules!
What do you mean 20+ years? How old are you?
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definitely helps and she enjoys it, but for me it seems like she is even farther away from it when licking her
it's not that uncommon, have heard it from friends, too,. You are probably right, I should relax.
Did that, been with her for years. In a sense I know what to do, but it stops with "I cannot take it anymore" or when i goe past that, crying.
Mh, don't think so. She is pretty open minded and cool in almost every sense. It's not like she slowly starts to cry, it's like I described: She cannot take it anymore and if you push her through it she just bursts into tears for a moment.
Could other anons please confirm, that this is a thing? :D
that looks like a really uncomfortable computer chair
Ty this is going in the folder
Don't use porn as reference. Good communication skills are key. Ask her what she prefers. She may be shy and won't open up. Have respect for her. She has been damaged by movies and magazines. She will most likely have body dysmorphia because its how they sell products. If she has a lot of beauty products tell her she's the most gorgeous woman you've ever met. It goes far. I try to be as audible as possible when I am eating her pussy so she feels like she's worshipped. Another thing. Worship her only in the bedroom. Any other time she's just a friend and confidant. Pay attention to her needs while fulfilling your own. Use words like I have never when talking about sex and her performance. I got a dead fish to do a split after I said she was tighter than most but not the most active I have ever. They're competitive and you should use it against them.
Wouldn't you be happy that you found a different way to orgasm? It's probably like the difference between cumming anal/BJ/vaginal for men. I like all three.
I don't know man, I'm pretty shy and not that interesting so I don't know what to talk about with them. Also I'm pretty sure that I can't read signals, either that or no girl ever shows interest.
Having said all of this, there is one thing: I never approach them.
There have been a child porn but I reported it
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most I have accomplished with my gf is 3-4 orgasms in one sesh last orgasm I made her squirt
Laying a chick on her stomach while her legs are closed lets you get in deep and rub every part of the pussy. Sticking the tip of a finger in when shes wet as fuck allows you to make her cum without losing it yourself.
Thank you mods, you're doing God's work. That was extremely fast.
Sound very strange but also plausible. I'll try that user :)
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Just have positive thoughts. 50% of the population are woman, you are probably average so 25% of the population is even less interesting than you to woman but the number of virgins is significantly lower than this, so it has to work.
For me there was an age when I thought, okay, you should not be a virgin past this point, so I just stopped being a virgin. Isn't there such an age for you? I tihnk sex is overrated, especially by virgins, but you still should find the motivation to at least try it to not feel like a failure.
Just work to have some friends that are also girls. Don't try to fuck them, have some friends. This way you will work out the necessary social skills, fucking is next. It's really easier than you think, there are plenty girls with low self esteem that also want to fuck, the thing is to know many people, so you will get around them. Don't think about sex yet, but about socialization, then, once you learn enough, you'll be ready to explore new possibilities. Godspeed.
CheesePizza my friend, havent seen u here for a while. Ah the days when you poped up on daily basis..
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That's a nice score, bro, you're better than me.
1 to 2 is a complete maximum. I wish I knew more to be better than this.