So there's this girl that I have a huge crush on. I've kind of been in love with her for like 2 years. Coincidentally, she's my gf's best friend. We've kind of been friends the whole time, but only recently have we been getting to really know each other. I've been wrestling with the idea of telling her how I feel about her, even thinking I might be willing to leave my long-time gf if there was a chance between us. A few weeks ago we were at a party together and we were drunk and for a few minutes we were alone and she held my hand. It didn't lead to anything, but I've been beating myself up, telling myself I should have kissed her but I didn't. Tonight I got a hold of her phone after she went to sleep and looked for nudes. I read her texts and she's been fucking some guy for a couple months and she's super into him, meaning there's no chance in hell she feels anything for me. I don't really have a point. I'm just jealous and depressed and horny and a mess. I simultaneously want to talk to someone about it and distract myself from it. Here are her tits. She texted this pic to the guy she's fucking.
So there's this girl that I have a huge crush on. I've kind of been in love with her for like 2 years. Coincidentally...
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Well at least you saw her tits. Now go fuck your girlfriend and picture them, and then forget about her.
Somehow your girlfriend seems entirely non-existent in you story. Why do you even date her?
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Well, if shes into another guy... there is probably no shot with her. Then again... if shes only fucking him, it could be a fuck buddy situation, in which case you COULD have a chance. It just depends on how deep her relationship is with this guy shes fucking. My advice? Keep being close with her, talking to her, hanging out as much as you can. If you get another green light (like her holding your hand) fucking go for it man. Life is too short to worry about shit not working out. Besides, if it doesn't work out? At least you know and can move on with your life.
Other than all that.... If you have a girlfriend already, why not just stay with her?
This is why you don't go looking for pie when you have a plate of it in front of you. Honestly, it sounds like you're not really that into the current girlfriend, and dating your current girlfriend's best friend immediately after breaking up with the current one is practically begging for misery.
Sounds like you need to find a new pond to fish in, bro.
Op post her kik
Not many guys can say they saw their girlfriend's bestfriend's titties... so be thankful you did. But dude.... give it up... just imagine those huge fucking warlocks when you're pounding your girls pussy. Keep it as a fantasy and move the fuck on bro.
I didn't expect to get replies, but I really appreciate them. My current girlfriend and I have been together a long time and we make it work and we enjoy each other, we just don't seem to be excited about our relationship anymore. I know dating this other girl or moving forward in any way is just asking for trouble, but I think it would be worth it even if everything exploded in my face. I'm sure I'll feel normal again in the morning,I just wanted to vent. I'm not asking you guys for anything,I just appreciate you taking the time to read this.
Lol you think I haven't done this already?
You're right. I have to be grateful for even seeing her tits. I know giving it up is the smart thing to do. I've known it the whole time. But I feel this way about her and it's not going away. If I could have just stopped feeling this way I would have already, but I can't.
>You're right. I have to be grateful for even seeing her tits. I know giving it up is the smart thing to do. I've known it the whole time. But I feel this way about her and it's not going away. If I could have just stopped feeling this way I would have already, but I can't.
Yeah man, definitely should feel greatful for at least seeing her tits, most of us guys only DREAM about seeing our gf's bestfriend's tits. That's a fantasy for most guys. So you're already ahead of the game where that is concerned. But yeah dude... I don't even say it to be mean, but you should give it up. Be glad you're in a good stable relationship. It's HARD AS FUCK to find good women now days. I also understand the attraction you have for this other girl though. You can't help who you're interested in. I am in a SOMEWHAT similar situation... I have been with a woman now for almost 6 years, but I am in love with my best friend (she lives in another state and is married...) so yeah.. I TRULY understand... I've been into my best friend for close to 15 years now... but I know it'll never go anywhere. Fact remains? You love who you love. Me? I'd never try to act on it.. I just stay in my current relationship. I still love my best friend though... shes wonderful. I often wish she was married to me instead of the other guy shes with. but life is how it is. Anyway.... no matter what route you go, I wish you the best.
Left my current wife (back when we were engaged) to try a relationship with a girl I was obsessed with in college, who just got divorced from an acquaintance. The sex was unbelievable for about 5 weeks, then the emotional baggage started rolling in on a conveyer belt. After she went full crazy train, I went back to my fiancé to patch things up.
Lesson learned: all relationships ebb and flo, but a girl who'll take a good dicking on command, will cook dinner on a regular basis, and enjoys video games (and plays them while wearing nothing but panties) is worth holding onto, even if the grass may look greener on the other side.
No matter how much you want to fuck this other chick, your brain is programmed to spread as much of your genetic material as possible. Don't confuse that biological drive with your feelings.
I'm going to need to see your GF's tits to compare.
I kinda have a similar story and this is the best thread that I found to post it in so here it is
> be me
> be 16
> go to an college with a friend for an event
> meet a girl that is like 2-3 years older than me
> she was Asian and cute as fuck
> 8/10
> she was standing close to me all the time
> she was practically rubbing her 9/10 ass into my dick
> I was a virgin so I didn't take the memos, and I was shy af
> ended up not hooking up with her
> sometimes I still jerk off thinking that I'm banging her
> fml
>Asian
>9/10 Ass
Pick one
Thanks for sharing. It makes me feel better to know someone else knows how this feels. I wonder if going for it with this girl just to have it burn out and not go anywhere and then get over it would be better to be stuck here for years and years more?
This is what I'm talking about. Maybe it might be better to "process" these feelings (lol) and deal with the consequences rather than sitting on them.
Tits are about on par, but my gf's are pierced. Over all though, this other girl is hotter.
Both dude
I think every guy has been here. Realizing a missed opportunity and hating yourself for it and torturing yourself over what could have been.
Didn't ask what your opinion of them was, asked to see for myself
Need pics. You may have found a unicorn.
Wish I would have pics. Her face wasn't that pretty though
OP look at it this way:
she's probably super easy. she probably does have feelings for you, but obviously since her best friend is your gf she is trying to not do shit with you. i say you power forward and tell her whats up. say you dont feel about your current gf as strongly as you do her. she sounds like a whore so im sure she will buy it and suck your dick
post more nudes
Lol. I honestly don't have any of my gf on my phone. I would have to dig through my computer to find some. We dropped the whole sending nudes thing when we moved in together. Sorry user.
post more of the OPs girl then, the tits look decent
This is what I'm talking about! I knew you guys could make me feel better. I think I'll tell her what's up and see what happens.
I've dated a lot of Asian chicks. Here's what I've learned:
1) They love to get fucked. Hard.
2) They're not universally tight, but the ones that are tight are unbelievably tight.
3) They're all secretly (or not so secretly) crazy as fuck due to suppression in their culture (their parents treat most of them like shit and treat their brothers like princes) and being immersed in a culture where white is beautiful.
4) Every man should fuck one at least once for the sounds they make. If you know, you know.
I know what you are talking about only from porn. Thanks for sharing your learnings though
For those of you asking for more nudes, this is all I have. I got this a few months ago off her computer after she asked me to fix it. I looked through her phone and there's just normal, non nudes. I wish I had more.
you gonna tell her how u feel?
I mean, probably. Just to put it out there. Next time we're drunk together. It shouldn't be too hard. She loves to drink and when she does she tends to get wasted. Happens almost every weekend.
Something else I've forgot to mention: for reasons I won't get into, in a few weeks I'll probably never see her again. We'll be living in different parts of the country. So I feel pressured to do something now. No matter if things go good or bad,I won't have long to deal with it.
Go for it
i agree with user, go for it. might as well at this point, and you will have less regrets later than if you spent all your time wondering what would have happened
If you trying to get some more pussy when you got for sure pussy you're going to end up getting no pussy
1 and 2 true for all women. 3 true and not attractive. 4 yeah they're fucking annoying