Any one else here had their life taken over by a girl...

Any one else here had their life taken over by a girl? she basically got drunk and told me how she has taken conscious steps to make sure i can never leave her

>user why are you always seeing your friends, if you keep seeing them ill cheat on you
>you cant go to the gym without me, you have to wait for me if you get there early
>i want you to get a 9-5 job in an office
>im tired so you have to come to bed as well.

if i refuse she starts shouting, my trick is to let her fall asleep then i can go back downstairs. shes also best friends with my mom. i do love her but shes literally the only person in my life. i have to keep her happy, otherwise without her id be truly alone.

anyone else in the same situation

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Face the facts, you're already alone

its all in your head dude, nobody can trap you unless you let them. tell her to go fuck herself, tell her you are leaving here. it might be hard but it will get easier.

Also, you think you love her, but your just scared to leave. thats whats shes done to you

this qualifies as an abusive relationship.

Explain to yur moother how yu feel and the Stand up to your gf.

you will only become very unhappy with her and shotgun shells are expensive and make a hell of a mess, so save you that trouble.

end it now.

Just don't let it fucking happen. I dumped a girl because she said I wasn't romantic enough on valentine's day.

Solid advice, Also, Look into some legal shit, If she decides you're gonna be a rapist with her fucked up logic, the law will see you as a rapist

Seek help.

You sound like you emotionally being held hostage. Sounds like a shit life.

slap her in the fucking face and tell her shes no longer in charge and if she fucks up you will beat the shit out of her. trust me this works...

Stand up to her, tell her she's being overly controlling and you won't put up with it anymore. I played that game for years trying to make my wife happy. She's trying to break you, for the sake of your soul don't put up with that shit.

>shotgun shells are expensive
Yea that 30$ box really broke the bank eh Jamal?

>user why are you always seeing your friends, if you keep seeing them ill cheat on you

dump this useless cunt

Here is some advice:
dont leave her.

if a dog leaves his master he becomes very sad and may never find another pack.
Just bring back the sticks back to her everyday and hope for a quick little handjob as a treat. she may even rub your belly a few times, but only if you have been a good boy and you will be a good boy, isnt that right? Isnt that right? Hmmmm? Who is a good boy, hmm? Whos a good boy, YES, you are a good boy, you are, yes you are!
Come here, look Mistress wants to rub ur fluffy tummiw wummie, come on, NO Bad dog drop that! dont eat that, you stupid animal, NO!
Ohmygawd why are these little buggers so stupid....
Oh yes, whos a stupid boy? Whos a stupid boy, hmm?
YOU are my stupid little boy, now sit, Mistress has got to pick up her Dog whip, just wait here I will teach you a lesson you stupid little fuck.
No dont walk after me, sit, SIT!
Good dog, now staaay, ill be right back and beat the everliving crap out of you...


good boy OP

No, that kind level of crazy is obvious from about a million miles away so I've never had trouble avoiding it.

lucky dubs

woof woof OP

OP is cucked, you fucktard

Dump that co-dependent bitch

Yes her titties are too small and snatch to worn

boo hoo

OP here, ive tried to leave her but i always go back to her, its fucking horrible being alone. at first its ok, but im cooking alone, eating alone, distracting myself with porn and Sup Forums. then she'll text me and i always end up seeing her and shes very good at manipulating me.

she mentions how many other guys are after her, and how she needs to be sexually satisfied and that shes sad because she wants me to be in her life. just the thought of her being with someone else makes me feel sick so i have no choice but to get back with her.

pic is us

in ten years will you regret not looking for someone who cares about you
>ps. she will cheat too

she even looks crazy
get the fuck outta there OP beforebecomes you

Do you want to be a cuck?

Because that's how you get cucked.

Move to another city?
Thats ahwt drug addicts that want to get clean always have to do. get away from the bad influence.

you have to decide for yourself:
do you want to be under her rule or do you want to be alone? Both options are fine, but you should decide on one and then stick with it.

she obviously enjoys pushing you around.
I guess she is a little bit older than you, sexually expirienced and you have had only no/bad luck with girls before her, rigth?

Stop dwelling on being alone you cuck, and find a hobby to keep you busy that isn't watching porn and crying. Low and behold you may learn to love yourself, and then can have a normal relationship

Dude, that bitch even looks crazy!!

You're not ugly at all, you're average if not above. You can find someone wayyy better, trust.

Are you british? Go buy some OTC Morphine or Codeine and take that shit until you got your shit together, kills your sex drive and makes everything awesome, even being alone

Christian? Is that you?

OP, to get away from the BALLBUSTING GREYHAIRED TSUNDERE you must be as lucky as

OP!

So I did this thing recently... Because I've always been terrified of being alone which has lead to all sorts of problems with bad girls and friends in my life. The terror of being alone lead me down a variety of dark paths and recognizing it was a huge thing for me.

I realized that I needed to get out of my life. I needed to shake EVERYTHING up and get out of my element and see what happened. So I did.

I took a job in a city 1000 miles away from home where literally EVERYONE I met was new and fully disconnected from my life.

And I am truly alone. My company put me up in a hotel and I'm lonely as fuck until I really think about it and I realize... I'm not lonely at all.

All those shitty girls I kept around because they made me feel less like what? Like this? This isn't all that bad. I socialize with the people I work with, I go out and get food and coffee and sit in parks and read. I'm just kicking it.

What exactly is the need to have... Anyone? Especially someone toxic.

I can make friends. I do make friends. I'm actively sheltering myself a little just to avoid making any until I'm a little more comfortable with just being... Alone.

You might think about it a little. There are things to be missed... The support system for when things go wrong is nice. But that's part of being an adult is handling your shit. I got severely sick when I moved and was stuck in bed alternatively passed out in weird positions so my stomach wouldn't hurt or shitty liquid fire... So my stomach wouldn't hurt.

Normally I would have called up my mom and she would have picked me up and I probably would have lived on her couch for a few days but I'm 1000 miles away so what did I do? I dragged my disgusting sick ass to work, got immediately sent home by medical, went to the store and got the supplies to survive stuck in bed, and then went home and tried not to die. No one to rely on.

Being alone is okay, you have no one to blame but yourself.

personally shes the most beautiful girl ive ever seen

this pic is so special to me, it was the after the last time we kinda went on a break, we went for a walk in the countryside, i was so happy to get outdoors again. she really looked amazing, i can tell she went out of her way to look sexy. at first she was really forward and when i told her i felt the same way she said she didnt believe me. she was saying how she needs security and she didnt think i was right for her. i told her she was wrong, that i didnt stop thinking about her, i also dreamt about her.

she responded well when i said that so i basically kept telling her what she wanted to hear.

Holy fuck that's mach 5 crazy.

I don't know what it is about crazy girls, but you can always see it in their eyes...

I should clarify that last sentence...

You have no one to blame but yourself, so you set a standard that represents you.

It's how you find out who you are and either change it or live with it.

If you're a slob piece of shit it will shine through because you'll never make an effort to clean up after yourself because who are you trying to impress, you're alone.

If you find something about yourself that YOU don't like, you can fix it and you're fixing it for YOU.

It's kinda fuckin' surreal the introspection that goes on when you don't have anyone to talk to.

It will either make you a better person, or drive you nuts. You decide.

dude

everyone in this thread is giving you solid advice.

you should open your eyes and look at it, instead of telling us some boring stories of your cross country hikes.

yeah am english, but really dont think morphine is a good idea
nope thats not me

Angry joe?

jesus this sounds like my nightmare. how do you deal with the crushing idea that no one would care if you died today? what about the feeling that someone is there, that loves you and you love them.

i respect the sheer courage to do that, do you ever get anxiety when you socialise with people?

you rolled dub trips, now let us see what you have saved as 1.png

i understand where people are coming from, but i have tried what they've said. ive stormed out the house, deleted her number, told her i never want to see her again. even when she was crying i didnt hold her or anything, i was a real dick.

its just the part that comes after that i cant handle. she just makes me feel alive, in a way nothing else can, but i have to live my life on eggshells.

i will admit she can be intense at times, i just need a way to make her more laid back and less controlling

You'll never find another woman like that again. Ask yourself what other woman has ever thought you were WORTHY of trapping?? Stay with her and never look back. Of course she's not "normal". But normal women will dump you and replace you in a instant. This woman is MANIPULATING you to STAY with her. You're worth that much to her. You'd never find another woman like that

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Jesus H Tap Dancing Christ On A Cracker

>no on cares

>i just need a way to make her more laid back and less controlling
No.
You need to establish a relationship on the basis of mutual respect.

Oh my god! This happened to me too.
Is her name Stephanie?

Bait or retarded

>>user why are you always seeing your friends, if you keep seeing them ill cheat on you
> i have to keep her happy, otherwise without her id be truly alone.

anyone else in the same situation


THIS IS THE TROLL LINE

dont listen its the fun 14 y o again

...why....

The fact that you even have to ask what to do, is proof you would never do it.

>Hey Sup Forums , I've been in the hospital for a week and every day the doctor comes in and takes a ounce of blood. I'm getting lightheaded, what should I do?

I'm a victim of financial domination, so yes, my life has most definitely been taken over by a girl.

She made me her fucking bitch.

youtube.com/watch?v=ad6bpsQmV5Q

perfect analogy...

Fucking nigger go to twitter and tweet #MaybeSheDontHitYou but you're a faggot

Of course someone would care if I died. You don't have to talk to someone every day for them to exist. It's this fucking internet generation that thinks if you're not in constant umbilical contact you've fallen off the face of the earth.

It's simply NOT true.

You can literally not see or talk to someone for weeks and see them and nothing will have changed but you'll probably have some stuff to catch up on.

I've had a LOT of girls in my life, fair number of girlfriends in the mix, too. I left a girl I was in love with when I moved. She was a piece of garbage but she still claimed to love me. I'll never talk to her again and I'll be better off for it.

First week was hard being alone. Second week I was sick. Third week I accepted it and it was a relief. Fourth week I was able relax and release all the bullshit and drama from my hometown. All the garbage I was involved in, all the gossip, all the everything... It doesn't matter here because those people have on presence here. Sure they're on social media but I barely am and wouldn't care if they were doing something. It all looks so stupid from 1000 miles away.

I don't get anxious when I meet new people because I meet people in my element. If I'm out and I make a connection I just say, "Hi," and go from there. Worst thing you can do is never try. Because you can never fail if you never try. So it's a safe little boring bubble where nothing ever changes but nothing bad ever happens and you're safe but simultaneously dead inside.

Women's power is what we let them do, and you're letting her walk all over you because you're a pussy bitch.

Get okay with being single you fucking faggot. You're a pathetic numale. Next time she does something cunty, say fuck you, no, and when she screams her head off you keep pushing until she realizes being a fucking shrieking slut isn't going to get her way anymore, and she'll respect you. Women are abusive, you have to fucking fight back. Goddamnit I want to be there so I can show you the ropes.

don't put all your eggs in one basket. that bitch sounds like a psycho. are you her boyfriend or her slave? jeez, stop being such a beta faggot. if a woman threatened me with "ill cheat on you" i'd dump them on the spot.

wow I wish a girl actually liked me that much lol

There's literally nothing wrong with financial domination. It's just another way to please a Woman.

>current year
>falling for the female jew
Having a gf always sounds like hell. Coincidence? I think not.

You pussy faggot, be a man.

that's a sick jacket, bro

Stay with her. What other woman thinks you're worth trapping? You have a need (not wanting to be alone) and she meets it. Quit making life difficult. You're acting like a bitch. Complaining about how much she loves and cares about you. Complaining about how she values you to the point she'll trap you if it meant you'd stay with her. Get over yourself

You're a mangina. That's your problem. Do or don't, but shut the fuck up along the way.

She looks like the type of skank that sucks my cock while I watch tv.

Pro tip.... She is already cheating on you.

This has to be the worst advice anyone has ever given in history. This is it, in this thread, the dumbest thing ever said to another human being.

You love her, stay.
You find it too much, break up.

I'm not one to say anything, I mean.. she quite clearly is manipulative whenever it comes to the cheating part, you should try it back on her, tell her if she does something you dislike then you cheat. She complains then you tell her to stop pulling that one on you.

bro you need to dump her ASAP. No bitch should ever tell you to get a 9-5 office job. you can always just get another one

hey you got cuck my shit up hair!

this seriously my fetish. ideally, she'd be cheating on me too

(OP)

Here is some advice:
dont leave her.

if a dog leaves his master he becomes very sad and may never find another pack.
Just bring back the sticks back to her everyday and hope for a quick little handjob as a treat. she may even rub your belly a few times, but only if you have been a good boy and you will be a good boy, isnt that right? Isnt that right? Hmmmm? Who is a good boy, hmm? Whos a good boy, YES, you are a good boy, you are, yes you are!
Come here, look Mistress wants to rub ur fluffy tummiw wummie, come on, NO Bad dog drop that! dont eat that, you stupid animal, NO!
Ohmygawd why are these little buggers so stupid....
Oh yes, whos a stupid boy? Whos a stupid boy, hmm?
YOU are my stupid little boy, now sit, Mistress has got to pick up her Dog whip, just wait here I will teach you a lesson you stupid little fuck.
No dont walk after me, sit, SIT!
Good dog, now staaay, ill be right back and beat the everliving crap out of you...


good boy OP

goddamned cucks

shit man you sound exactly like me...

Does she have a hard time making lasting friends that are girls because she's a very hard person to be around; thus, she traps you by saying you can't go out because if you do she'll hang out with dudes which are the only people that can stand her because they obviously want to get in her? Does she get upset over the stupidest shit and make you jump through hoops just so she'll stop being a bitch?

You seem like the future version of me.

keking intensifies

>its just the part that comes after that i cant handle. she just makes me feel alive, in a way nothing else can, but i have to live my life on eggshells.

You stupid cunt, you're ruining your own life with neediness. She sees you can't leave her so why the fuck wouldn't she see how badly she can treat you? She's seeing how much power she has, did you think women were gumdrop fairytale creatures? You could easily have a good relationship by not needing her, but your weakness is making her treat you like shit.

>Nice Bait

Listening to you guys will have him with a woman that'll dump him for the slightest shit. At least he's with a woman that'll never let him leave. That shit is rare.

>Any one else here had their life taken over by a girl?

No, because you've got two choices:
>leave her
>kill her

Either way problem solved.

Stay with her, but actively try to find a new girl. Then abandon ship.

this user knows. its those eyes that shout crazy. leave her ass for your own good.

Sounds like she has a shitty lonely life and can't imagine not having you around to obey her.

But sounds also like you are too scared of being alone to leave her.

Being alone isn't always that bad. Plus you need to learn how to be happy alone before you'll ever have a stable happy relationship with someone. I've been alone for 3 years now, haven't dated anyone and I'm the happiest I've ever been. I avoid dating unless I can find someone who is mature and adult enough to deal with.

Dump her ass, learn how to be happy with no one else around, it might take awhile but it's better than a toxic relationship.

Dude what the fuck, you need to leave that bitch ASAP. Grow a pair and dump her ass, get some respect for yourself and you'll be 4NEVAR ALONE.

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>you're acting like a bitch
>what you should do is stay with a heartless cunt who treats you like a dog

Cuck detected

forget it man the faggot is beyond saving. he's doomed to a life of mediocrity in some nameless suburb driving a subaru he talks about incessantly. he won't listen because he loves his slavery. the sick fucker.

yep, definitely just like megf is currently not talking to me because i groaned when she woke me up from a nap after work.

Psycho bitch I would kick the fuck out before she can open her filthy mouth.

kill yourself op and rid the world of your cuckery.

Fucking run. Run away.

>At least he's with a woman that'll never let him leave.

I can tell you've never had success with women. If you had any idea what you were talking about you would understand that she's stepping on him in order to see how much shit men will put up with before leaving her, and the next step is breaking up with him.

Why the fuck would a woman stay with a man she doesn't respect? You don't know what you're talking about, stop giving him advice.

This.
Tranquility is the real form of happiness; not love. Get away from there.

hey here's a solid piece of advice user

let her cheat on you and leave her. if she's going to cheat on you then she's a fucking piece of shit.

solved

Slav squat /10

>without her id be truly alone

>shes also best friends with my mom

pick one

She's already a piece of shit you fucking dumbass.

>Nice bait
You want him to be single and heartbroken. I'm just telling the truth. He's with a woman that'll be with him for life. You're just upset you don't have that. As a result you want to ruin what he has. The last time your dick has been in a woman was when you were being born. You fool nobody

if OP is like me, then he isn't afraid of being alone

it's always the same shit with my current gf of 8 years. We break up or she breaksup with me because she's a cunt and i'm very satisfied and content with my life alone. I spent two years without her happy as fuck just working for my own needs which are practically nonexistent.

but something about seeing her upset because you won't go back to her just gnaws at me and I eventually end up getting back together after she fucks my brains out and makes me feel like shit for making her sad.

Judging by this post, we can all tell that you realize you are a complete piece of shit. Either your balls drop or an hero. Either way...

OP, I've been there. Just don't give a fuck. Plain and simple. Bitch cheats on you? Pff okay cool, go fuck her best friend and snap it to her. Can't go to the gym without her? Fuck her, ditch her and go to the club. You wanna work night shifts? Nigga do it, no one should stop you. You wanna stay up and do something adventurous after bed hours? Bruh you're getting the formula here. No woman should ever control you, let alone a person control another person. First it's not healthy for you, her, or the relationship.

She's obviously insecure and has daddy issues, that's why she has the need to overwhelm you with outrageous threats. Second, she's afraid to lose you. If you give her the slightest bit of attention, you've lost already, along with your pride. Just ignore her and act like you don't care. Even if she does cheat on you or some shit, nigga you win. She's a hoe, and you're innocent. Then she'll realize she fucked up and come crawling back to you.

If you're in fear of her, who has the power? Stop fearing. If you can walk away, she'll stay.

But too bad you're braindead. You might be the dumbest person on planet earth.

take the pussy off the pedestal

>I can tell you've never had success with women
>tells op to dump gf resulting in failed relationship
Your argument is invalid

>He's with a woman that'll be with him for life

Are you fucking retarded? She's going to leave him after she's drained him of his manhood.

Stop posting. I'm serious. Take your hands off the keyboard and let the big boys talk. You're self inserting because you're desperate, and it's life destroying advice.

I was in the same situation as you, and something happened to me outside the relationship that made me extremely depressed. After I told my ex to stop bothering me, he still bothered and attempted to manipulate me, so I broke up with him. The key to not go back together is ignoring her. Do not do anything with her, and you'll be good after a few months. Hell I think about my ex every so often and its a year, yet I am happier than I was with him.

tl;dr have something bad happen to you, and it'll prob make you realize your gf ain't shit, or just break up with her period and ignore her.

Cut your hands off, nobody should be subjected to your ignorance. You don't have the slightest fucking idea what you're talking about.

op you look like a pretty decent guy tbh. yeah if you break up with her there is a chance you will be lonely for a while , but you cant keep yourself in a toxic relationship like that. Youll find another one

Here is some advice:
dont leave her.

if a dog leaves his master he becomes very sad and may never find another pack.
Just bring back the sticks back to her everyday and hope for a quick little handjob as a treat. she may even rub your belly a few times,
but only if you have been a good boy and you will be a good boy, isnt that right? Isnt that right? Hmmmm? Who is a good boy, hmm?
Whos a good boy, YES, you are a good boy, you are, yes you are!
Come here, look Mistress wants to rub ur fluffy tummiw wummie, come on...
NO!!!
Bad dog drop that! dont eat that, you stupid animal, NO!
Ohmygawd why are these little buggers so stupid....
Oh yes, whos a stupid boy? Whos a stupid boy, hmm?
YOU are my stupid little boy, now sit, Mistress has got to pick up her Dog whip, just wait here I will teach you a lesson you stupid little fuck.
No dont walk after me, sit, SIT!
Good dog, now staaay, ill be right back and beat the everliving crap out of you...


good boy OP