Sup Sup Forums anyone been with a girl who has no initiative to make moves in bed?
I'm with one, she will let me do anything with her but does not act upon herself.
Have you been in this situation, what would you do?
Pic somewhat related, girl just lays there but open to play whenever
I wouldnt mind. My ex was like that, I could just do whatever and it was fantastic. I kind of like the rapey thing though.
It gets old after while though =|
Does she hace low selfesteem?
My ex was like that, OP. She'd be into it when we got going, but never initiated. I had no complaints though. Do yo u have a problem?
I agree.. I miss my ex's that expressed hunger for cock. My girl now is kind of boring as fuck.
anymoar of this gurl?
Hell mine shaves it shows me and then bats me away when I try for it fuck that shitt
Sorry mate. Talk to her, it's the only way.
I was only with the whore for a few months so I didn't have much time for it to get old.
my ex wife and current wife. never initiate, just lay there like lazy bitches/slobs.
likely, it's me. will an hero soon
OP, if she is not going to start it up, then just take her when you want.
Just not in the bedroom.
She wants to just lie there? Then throw her off her game and make her react.
Jump in the shower with her.Pull her pants down when she is doing dishes and take her.Pull her around the side of a building into a relatively safe alley and take her.
If she refuses? Then tell her she needs to decide what to do next then.
Bitches get lazy man.Especially when the guy has a higher sex drive.
gf always ready to initiate and take it, but is super vanilla. And I've only gotten a bj twice. TWICE. FUCKING TWICE. And I had to ask for the second one. God damn. Been with this girl for 2 years.
you can either dump her or accept her as she is, bitches are either frigid or sluts in bed and thats what a relationship is for, to find out who you b spend your life with
That's what I may start doing, just take her in random spots of the house.
However I still find it more exciting if she would just be sexy and dress up and shit
That's my wife man. I can have sex nearly whenever I want. Blowjob's whenever I want. She's always willing to please me.
That said, she never initiates. She never tells me she wants something new or different. Always says the sex is good, but never gets too excited about it. She has no problem cumming and cums almost too fast but will only choose to cum about 20% of the time.
It drives me nuts, but I guess it's a good problem to have.
my gf was so bad in bed for the first two years but I turned her into a slut who ended up sucking dick and licking my ass everytime we had sex
I would eat her pussy till she she begs for it. Mission complete.
Dem Starfish Blues... when your woman just lies there like a starfish
Introduce her to anal sex c.f.
That will get her moving, or her wriggling her ass to avoid anal penetration will be some movement.
yeah actually, do you want that to change this?
i liked this for a while almost like a rape fetish, or sexing a young girl, so i enjoyed it personally
but eventually i wanted her to make all the moves and be dominate it wasnt difficult for me but i guess its different for every one
lol youve been with wat two girls?
Be grateful with what you've got you fucking loser. The last girl I rid had a fanny that was as deep as a puddle and my dick was sore for a full week after
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I have a similar problem. my bf is completely docile and super submissive and its kind of dissappinting. I enjoy being dominant but he just has no backbone in or out of bed. whenever i bring up anything related to him fucking me he seems really disinterested but talking about pegging really gets him going. i love him to death but its kinda boring not having any variety and I don't think its something we can talk through
probably spends too much time on sissy/trap threads here
have you talked to him about it?
Of course, be sexy if she cosplayed or something. Maybe just start sucking my cock if I am playing a game.
Something is better than just being a plank
he's never expressed an interest in traps but he is obviously bi so I wouldn't be surprised. though he's too meek to ever try Sup Forums. I'm sure if he saw the word faggot he'd start tearing up
I can use my finger in her ass but she still does the ouch and pull away with the cock
He's gay, he just likes the safety of being in a straight relationship. Pretty obvious.
hey man thats not necessary.
try weed, the ultimate sex stimulator
>smoke her out
>eat her pussy to send her to the top of a mountain
>tease her with the dick
>bodda bing bodda boom
This.
OP, either change your tastes (this is hard) or find a different girl (this is easier).
I loooove when a girl is passive. Putting up no resistance to me groping her, bending her over, shoving my dick inside her.
Also, I recently found out that I *really* enjoy choking girls while fucking. It's a complete power trip, someone giving your their body, controlling their breath... it feels like such a basic, animalistic experience. I used to think choking was for fucking weirdo deviants, and now I'm really interested in that, pet play, dominance, etc.
I think there are two sides to my change in taste. The first, of course, is I just enjoy doing it. It makes the sex hotter, it's "taboo", and controlling someone is now a big fetish for me.
The second is going to sound a lot more fedora-tippy but fuck you, I know that I'm right. The overwhelming majority of women want a strong, dominant guy to lead them (at the very least) in the bedroom. I would guess that a majority (at least a large portion) of women like rough sex, with the guy holding them down, pounding hard, "taking them" to put it poetically. Past that, a not-small portion of women enjoy more kinky things like choking, being tied, slapped, hit, etc.
It was because of the second point that I've deliberately changed my tastes to become more successful with girls. I'm a senior in college now but before, I was not at all dominant. I was scared of doing the wrong thing, looking stupid, freaking her out, the list goes on and on. I was scared of messing up. Now I don't give a fuck, if a girl doesn't like something she tells me and I work around it, it's really not a big deal to be corrected in the bedroom.
Basically OP, you should learn to enjoy having complete control over women, and they will enjoy it too. Don't make women take the lead, and if you do, it shouldn't happen often and not for too long. It's just uncomfortable for most girls to lead a guy in bed.
I've hinted and expressed a desire for him to be more dominant but I don't wanna force him into a role he's not comfortable with. whenever he tries to after some begging and sweet talk i end up with really half hearted fingering/nip sucking and just wind up making him eat me out and tug his hair while he does. definitely gets more reactions. ah well, just thought I'd share my similar experiences. I'm not completely dissatisfied or anything and its no deal breaker, just leaves me a little bored
i wish my gf would be like u
nah we're both bi, hes just submissive and meek with no self confidence. we live in a super gay friendly area so there's nothing more "safe" about being in a straight relationship
yeah plus forcing him into dominance defeats the purpose anyway,
how long have you been together, wondering if maybe he may get bored with his role as well. maybe you gotta peg him till he tires of that
I had a GF in high school who was super horny and kinky, and would initiate all the time, actually too much. She'd rub my dick through my jeans in public if she had the chance.
Then I dated this chick who would not make a move, ever. She always had a boring, casual look no matter how hard I fucked her, and for some reason this made me diamonds. I would just do crazier and crazier shit with her not giving a fuck. It was like having a real living sex doll that I could do anything to, and not have to pretend to be sexy.
Man I miss her. Pic unrelated.
Get a riding crop and just beat the fucking shit out of her ass(literal) if she dosent respond then,she has a issue
Bonus points to tie her up without her knowing about the crop and just start whipping the shit out of her
and introduce scat unexpectedly!
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a little over a year. he's been opening up a little more socially so I hope he gives dominance a chance when he gains some confidence. his dick is too good to not be put to use
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Yell "AT LEAST ACT LIKE INSIDE OF YOU!" cum, go home forget her name.
mang...my ex would give me a bj half the time she saw me, fuck. I miss that shit. Road head any time we went somewhere. fml
awe true love :^)
yeah probably. not to judge but i think two bi's in a relationship is a mistake to start
vagina=overrated specially that one
wasnt begging for attention faggot.
lurk more
Take her to the mall. Let her pick out nice things.
Then tell her you were just looking and that it's time to go.
Yeah op I have. She wasn't the biggest with anal is all. It is hard at times. But that's life. She's good to me so I can get over it
Other way around, my girlfriend has a crazy sex drive, higher than mine. It gets kind of tiring
>begging for attention
>"my bf"
Thats breaking user.
Notice how people are talking to her more now then other people?
GTFO newfag
that picture is hot because you can tell she's already horny
her pussy is engorged
dildo
viagra
>It was like having a real living sex doll that I could do anything to, and not have to pretend to be sexy.
Nail on the head right fucking there.
wtf is up with that guys head
Me and my current gf. I finally stopped initiating and we hit the muthafuckin Saharan desert of dry spells. Eventually, I became convinced that it was me. It sucks. I'm sorry, op.
Maybe when she's older, if you know what I mean fam (^;^;
its on topic. a convo isnt attention you idiot if that were the case then thered be no point posting ever. im as much against whoring as you just been here long enough to tell the difference
i was reading all the other replys and its bullshit. do u kno why she lets u do what you want and doesnt fuck u back, it's cuz she is cheating on u OP and that way she feels less guilty about it. if your ok with that then fuck her brains out but keep that in mind.
i like that nigger.
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>not to judge but i think two bi's in a relationship is a mistake to start
really depends on the person. if they're the super slutty type avoid at all costs unless you just wanna fuck
HOLY FUCKING SHIT you just described my sexual life with my wife. I hate it so much
moar
girls that don't at least offer sex or agree to it in a relationship should be single for life. We need to stop these women from procreating so hopefully their gene's will die out.
oh yeah boooooiiii
Yep, sounds like me a year or two ago. Having a big dick and knowing (basically) how to use it got me multiple fwbs who'd come over when I hit them up. Learning how to be dominant, a proper "man" in bed, has given me multiple fwbs that actually hit *me* up to have sex, not just "okay, big-dick-user is free tonight, I guess let's have sex".
I wish I could give advice on teaching someone else to be dominant. The only thing I can say is talk to him about it, directly, and don't give bullshit "hints". Talk to him, as in actually say "I want you to be more dominant in bed, you should try it."
somebody's been cheated on b4. those wounds still fresh user?
>i was reading all the other replys
and there's your problem
What a little faggot, lol
Literally me. Highschool girls are always horny as fuck
You're both showing your newfag pretty damn fucking hard.GTFO with your PC shit
You can have a convo,but admitting you're female in any sort of the matter,is an attention grab.
Ditto
I dont like fucking while Im high. Love doing it drunk tho
that was years ago. im good now but u learn shit along the way.
Been with the same girl for 5 years since highschool, our sex drives are both still high. I finger her whenever we go out to movies or under tables in public places. We were both alone in the school library a few years back and we fucked in a corner
what do u mean?
>tl;dr
i'm outta here
i'm a reddit. where's my consolation prize, fucker?
Yes my ex.
I brought it up to her all the time, but she said I gave her butterflies and she got too nervous to initiate. She was a damn good lay too. If she would've initiated, we'd probably still be together since it caused fights.
out the fucking door
yey i'm cancer
the thing is, he's soooo sensitive to criticism and takes everything super personally. if I told him bluntly he'd probably feel terrible about himself and think he can't please me. but its something I've considered. I just have to be really careful with the wording the next time it ever comes up
I second this oldfag
could you be more pacific?
tie her up, fuck her rough, gag her, pump your seed into her until you can't get it up anymore, go to bed, rinse, repeat until you get bored, then dump her.
me too. god damn do i do crazy shit and my boner stays hard for longer
how did you find out hasnt happened to me yet. wanna keep an eye out though
don't forget to film. we don't want another snafu like with that twitch streamer. fucking faggot can't even setup a cam when he's raping.
My girlfriend does exactly what you're saying and it fucking pisses me off
lol wtf
rape her dumbass.
yeah thats like my relationship man.. i miss it
true new fag hasnt become comfortable posting yet. awwwwww
My GF used a pocket taser on my ass while I was fucking her. Her friends told her I would enjoy it and that it would not hurt me on my ass cheeks. My GF is very gullible. They still laughing. I have a scar.
plz go
Shut up newfag,
Take solace that you almost had a quintuplet
i feel like that would make you cum instantly
wasnt there a law and order svu like that?
Doesn't really apply here man, it wasn't like "hey femanon here" gender played a roll in her story
But would appreciate tits
i'll have you know i'm a bonerfied reddit. i have over 500 confirmed desu's and only fags use zozzle. i bet you're a zozzlefag yourself. prove me wrong
>protip
you cant
longcat is long
here's my treeforce
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clearly samefag lol and on a phone.
you peice of shit, must be baiting me