Hi Sup Forums,
I am a 22 year old femanon and I have a huge crush on this 31 year old guy I met in a bar last week. I don't usually go to bars because guys I meet are all too drunk and horny, but this one-- We had a great conversation.
However his friend was very persistent in getting my number, and I gave it as he said he'd invite me out with all of them (with the cute one too)
What do mature guys in their 30's want in a girl? How can I get him to like me
tits and timestamp or gtfo
This or /thread. I'm 32 btw
I concur
Like any guy wants--what do you look like?
guys always want the same thing in females: cuteness and youth
anything else, like brains, is just icing on the cake
he wants to ravage ur pussy and then he will 100% drop u. u wont get any close to a relationship.
maybe he will share u with his buds in the end lol and ull do it because u want him to like u so much.
I second
So it's just good looks mainly?
I won't let him have sex with me of course. I only do that in serious relationships. That' slutty as fuck.
> bait
tits or gtfo
this. 30 m, we only go to clubs to refresh our resource pool.
Depends on his history of relationships. I'm around that age but I'm not looking for anything serious because I've already had long serious relationships over the last 15 years and now I'm just looking for a girl to hang out with and mess around a bit without the whole love shit. Basically Netflix and chill
Do I sense an angry white knight?
>2016
>not knowing what white knighting is
top zozzle bro
Well, as I said, he's different. He was only there cause it was his mate's birthday
Hmmm thanks, I'll try to find out more
more than 5 mins with no tits×tamp
/thread
>So it's just good looks mainly?
at first, yeah. and that remains important. but if you can hold a conversation and be cool, that goes a long way towards an actual relationship.
tits and timestamp. Also to answer your question. We want a woman that don't complain/whine about trivial stuff, we don't want some needy cunt that are insecure. We want a woman that enjoys the small things in life and are contempt in what she have instead of craving for something better. We also hate woman that thinks romantic comedies are good movies.
This
And profiling averages you should die in a hole sheldon.
indeed this
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What is it with you guys and the tits? There are literally millions of tits going around the internet at any given point of time, what would make mine so special? If you think every piece of advice or kind thing done for a woman has to be some sort of sexual transaction that you're destined for whores and no decent woman will love you.
I'm at a good start then. He seemed to enjoy talking to me about practically everything. Im just afraid his friend trying to keep him from wanting me... as a "bro code" thing
his friend that likes me*
we dont fucking care about your tits
it's needed as a form of proof
ok maybe we want to fap too but still tits or GTFO
>late 30s supercute whiteknight user here
dont bother, OP. males all pretty much suck, and even if you get him to like you he will be annoying.
become a lesbian, feminist, ect.
also tits/timestamp/gtfo
tits and timestamp or gtfo
31/m here
Currently dating
>18 year old
>21 year old
>28 year old
They all know Im dating, so its no big deal, but the reason Im dating the younger girls is because theyre hot and chill. Hot, chill chicks are hard to come by.
If youre hot and chill, fuck him and enjoy it. If you want a relationship, be up front, so he can go find what he wants.
Also you asked for advice - TITS or GTFO is kind of the rule. And youve gotten advice too. Time to pay up.
checkem
also timestamp
im not sure that is "bro code". his friend sounds like a closet faggot who wants to fuck the guy you are into.
>I'm 32 btw
>notice me senpai
>it's needed as a form of proof
I know guys with bigger tits than most women I know, so it's no real proof lol
That's not really an option for me, I'm straight as a ruler
Hmmm will definitely make that clear then. I'd have thought 30something guys are looking more to settle down than 20 year olds who just wanna have fun.
Oops, first reply meant for
Its all about the timestamp Sup Forumsro.
I have seem enough pixels in my time to detect a photoshop, tits are really beside the point. And I doubt you could even turn me on, no matter what you look like.
so, tits or gtfo
Depends on the guy, but dont be surprised if he just wants you for a little fun.
Lord knows I dont wanna be with the 21 year old forever - shes still hot as fuck and chill as shit to hang out with.
Also tits or GTFO. Youre basically ignoring Sup Forums rules because youre a cunt. Stop being a cunt.
You asked, you got, now pay/prove
>Also you asked for advice - TITS or GTFO is kind of the rule. And youve gotten advice too. Time to pay up.
There is no reason to pay up after getting advice. There would be a reason to post tits before getting advice, but fucking newfags like you mess everything up and white knight into obvlivion. Fuck you.
I mean, his friend who was persistent in getting my number and hanging out with me. The fact that he's the good friend makes it of course less likely for him to make any move? I made it clear though that I wasn't interested in the persistent one because I was turned off I saw him making out with some random hoe right after
Be interested in something fun. Have a passion for it. Let him know what you're interested in. If he's interested in it too or you can get him interested in it then he'll be interested in you.
You're too young to know this but simply fluttering your eyelashes and laughing at his jokes only works on guys who don't have anyone else interested in them.
Things are very different when it's a buyer's market.
oh, in that case, sounds like the friend wants your ass. avoid him from now on.
You don 't understand .... it's the fucking rules ... these virgins should not be answering any of your questions, until you have abided by them... alas they are weak...
>I am a 22 year old femanon and I have a huge crush on this 31 year old guy I met in a bar last week.
Bar girl.
>I don't usually go to bars because guys I meet are all too drunk and horny, but this one-- We had a great conversation.
Pathetic girl.
>However his friend was very persistent in getting my number, and I gave it as he said he'd invite me out with all of them (with the cute one too)
Easy girl.
>What do mature guys in their 30's want in a girl?
Not you. Except in magazines. Or on porn sites. We love you there.
Tits and GTFO.
>newfags
>been here since 2005
>am 31
comon newfriend roodypoo peanut butter - tits or gtfo only works if the chicks feel at home and constantly berating them doesnt work
Or dont and be a faggot
well i simplified it a little but if you want the real reason(s) for TITS OR GTFO then here
>strait as a ruler
on Sup Forums?
No, you're a faggot.
If you don't understand, might as well just take your tits with you and gtfo.
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28-year-old male here who recently had a 20-year-old girl claim to fall in love with me and spend months trying to "get me to like her". Here are some tips from the man's perspective in these situations based on my recent experience:
• Having psychologically intimate interactions with others, including younger women, is just fun sometimes for its own sake. It may not have meant to him what it did to you.
• We (men in that late 20s/early 30s age range) cannot feel as deeply as you. This is neurologically true. People your age rely more on their amygdala to process information than we do; at about 25 years old, your brain will stabilize into something like its final form, and much of that heavy lifting will be done from that point onward by your prefrontal cortex. Experiences that may be teeming with significance to you can appear barely above casual to us, even if we may have felt otherwise at your age. Even if you succeed in winning his affections, if he is neurologically normal, he will never care for you as passionately as you do him, even if he may be able to express his affections in more lucid ways.
• Men my age who are able to come off as charming to women your age are generally able to screw younger women when we like if we just want to enough. That's not to say all such men singlemindedly pursue this objective, or even do so frequently or at all — but we could, and he probably realizes this. If you are wanting something really meaningful out of this, seriously step back and ask yourself if you have more to offer him that your body, because he can probably get that anywhere.
• Think back on this "great conversation" you had a bit. Was it great because both of you stimulated each other, or were you merely enchanted by HIS insights and wit? Do you honestly have grounds to suspect he found you half as fascinating as you did him?
>constantly berating them doesn't work
just gtfo.
What do guys want from girls they pick up in a bar?
I mean are you seriously asking that?
>dat bitterness
>dem logical fallacies
Guys, tits or GFTO is for attention whores. This chick just wants some advice.
this
Cringed, kys.
gtfo, and take OP and the other faggots with you.
>calling all spideys
/thread
Thanks for the solid advice.
I know for sure there is that danger he just wants fun and won't be as intimately interested. But I know I won't give him my body before a relationship anyway, so there's no danger of giving him what he wants (if it's just sex) before I get what I want.
>Do you honestly have grounds to suspect he found you half as fascinating as you did him?
I don't know, but he asked me a lot of questions about my work/ hobbies/ love life. It was pretty insightful and interesting both ways.
>I don't know, but he asked me a lot of questions about my work/ hobbies/ love life. It was pretty insightful and interesting both ways.
Oh, for the love of fucking Christ.
respectable human beings don't "cringe"; they facepalm... faggot.
Some dudes can date a girl for 3-4 months because they know she is holding out on se, and dumps her once they get it. Holding out it not cool.
What? Asking questions indicates interest right? I find the horny ones just flirt without substance.
Very experienced 45 year old male here:
1. Dress Sexy but not slutty
2. Laugh at his jokes
3. be relaxed and easy going
4. Don't get too wasted
5. Give off some signs that you want to know but don't be too obvious, guys like a chase
6. Leave him wanting more, don't give it all up on the first night
7. Don't be too clingy, give him time and space to roam and enjoy being with his friends
8. If his buddy tries to get with you quietly and politely ask him to deal with it
>work/ hobbies/ love life
You can't get more generic. That's not chemistry, that's basic math.
It's just my own thing because I can't get turned on without deep connection and commitment.
(Cont. from .)
Things this girl could have done to possibly get me to reciprocate her feelings:
• Assess what she had to offer me aside from readily available young pussy, which the world is full of. Protip: men my age do not, in general, require the same emotional catharsis from a partner that women (and men) your age do. We have been down that whole road of trying to be "understood" and have ten years more bittersweet experience in all of that than you do. Most of us have learned to approach others with some reserve. If we meet a women who brings out those feelings in us, great, but we know better than to seek it from anyone we feel a connection with. We are, at the end of the day, able to live with not having an other who sees into the depths of our hearts and knows all our more intimate secrets. And will be extremely put off if a women your age appears to be explicitly offering herself as such a bastion of emotional support. See also comment on neurological differences in previous post.
• This is honestly the big one: SHOW AN INTEREST IN HIM. This must be a sincere interest that you will either feel or do not. He will know from day one whether you actually like him, or just like the way he makes you feel. You need to know it, too, and not waste his time if it's the latter.
nah there were more posts afterwards faggot
Suuuuuuuuuuuuuuuureeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
>what do mature guys in their 30's want in a girl?
for her to be young.
better settle down before you get too old
4. Don't get too wasted
This. So much this. Seeing an otherwise attractive and interesting young women turn into an obnoxious, sloppy drunk every time she drinks is a massive turn-off and usually means she's avoiding dealing with something major in her life.
one post... fix ur plural. #rekt
Well, it's a first conversation. How much deeper can you expect?
Thank you.
Isn't it a scientific fact that females generally take longer to develop sexual interest? I read it somewhere.
Haha, thanks, this motivates me
I agree, I've actually witnessed this in one of my friend that really turned off potential boyfriends from pursuing her.
>femanon
tits or GTFO
Women generally know if they want to fuck a guy within the first few moments of meeting him.
better than you have tried.
>Well, it's a first conversation. How much deeper can you expect?
That's just it. You're too excited over a first conversation and gave up your number to his wingman in hopes of getting closer to him. You're making way too much of a bar encounter. If you didn't pull his digits directly, his wingman won't likely be working it in your favor. But we'll take your noodz here as payment for the advice, let's face it... you'd probably end up sending them to him anyway in the long run. Even if it's "not your style". Now tits and GTFO. And I don't mean "or".
Thanks for this. I'm saving this for future reference because I really do prefer older men.
>scientific fact
probably doesnt mean what you think it does.
Knowing if you would want to is not the same as wanting to immediately. A guy can be sexually attractive but until I get a unique emotional connection I can't actually imagine doing it with him.
and we prefer tits or gtfo
Also, thanks for using herpes-riddled Scarlett Johansson as an OP pic to talk about a relationship struck up in a bar. It's somehow appropriate.
And will you tell all your friends
You've got your gun to my head
This all was only wishful thinking
This all was only wishful thinking
HOW STUPID ARE YOU? TITS OR STFU AND GTFO
I don't think it was his wingman. The guy trying for my number was the first one to talk to me before I met his friends and until I met his friends that's when he offered to get my number just to arrange a hang out with the others. Likely scenario is I'll see all them again with my own friends too rahter than any one-on-one date-setting yet.
Sorry, but girls (and boys) who take nude pics and send them to anyone are stupid as fuck. Posting them on the internet is just another level of moronic.
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This is why we generally prefer older women - they're far less neurotic about sex.
i think we're long past that point
OP: gtfo or gtfo
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I don't get it. Guys say they want girls who aren't "easy" and "slutty" but now it's a disadvantage to value sex? I just dont get it.
Well, it catches attention doesn't it?
You're leading a guy on in order to get with his friend. This situation is already fucked and won't end well for either of you. Also post your goddam tits
You sound like the most boring, desperate bitch. You think you're special and won't give up 'the sex' until he's given you what you want?
Try it. Hold out on him and watch him show you no interest ever until your cooch dries up, you can't have kids, and you die a hairy old cat lady.
Fuck you and get off Sup Forums.
nm.
GTFO and GTFO
Stop acting like a desperate whore for someone you don't even know.
See:
Either a slut or a prude huh? It's my own personal preference, not to "hold out" on anyone but because I just need a relationship to feel that way. I also know lots of guys with this attitude.
>ITT the new Sup Forums community
>Well, it catches attention doesn't it?
And implies you share something with her. Maybe he's dodging a bullet by ignoring you?
>I know a lot of guys with this attitude
>fortykeks.jpg
Lol why so bitter?
Anyway, THANKS FOR THE FREE ADVICE, Sup Forums. Very helpful. :-) I'm out.
Just taking things to their logical conclusion, given that OP isn't very forthcoming with either tits or details. Pretty weak OP, to be honest.
OP, if he was into you, he would have asked for your number himself. He didn't, so he's not interested.
No one will be.
Might be an idea to just off yourself.
Guys don't want women who are easy and slutty with everyone but guys want a woman who'll be easy and slutty with them.
Every woman I've ever been with has turned into a cock-hungry fuckslut when I was in a relationship with them and what's what men want.
If you really can't differentiate between those two things then you should just stick to your own age range.
There she goes, as useless and empty as her vagina. What a waste.