>be me, mid 20's
>chat up grill on fb for a while
>grill abandons her life and fly's across country to meet me
>no serious relationship but fuck a lot
>grill stays with me for a few months
>fuck almost everyday
>grill love giving BJ's
>i get bored
>put her on a plane back to where she came from
>she doesn't want to leave, tears at the airport
>leave her at the airport and I get on with my life
>made her buy both plane tickets
Am I an asshole?
>pic unrelated but kind of looks like the girl
well it's mostly her fault for trusting a scumbag like you, lol women
Yes
Also
Check'd
This
"Fly's"
Illiterate faggot.
Why do people lie on an anonymous image board?
Figured I'd ask someone with recent experience.
Complain to Google about their fucked up autocorrect.
Checked
Sounds like you already know you're an asshole, what do you want from us? Confirmation?
OP is a faggot asshole... Can we move on now?
Really isn't a lie.
It really is though OP.
>no real relationship
Theres nothing wrong with you. You dont have to be with a bitch for any reason. You can end a relationship with no reason at all. A relationship is something two people have to want equally.
Maybe you coulda helped her pay for the flights home lol. But regardless. If theres no relationship and just sex whats the point. you could just pick up chicks on nights out with your mates for the same effect.
I did the same thing.
I didn't feel bad, bc she was trying to get knocked up so she could sue me for paternity.
OCF not, stupid whores are stupid whores, and deserve no better.
dont trick girls into love just for sex user. and dont be proud of it, or crating this thread
Thank you! We both knew what it was before anything happened. Before she came out here she knew we weren't going to be in anything serious and that it'd be casual and fun. And it was at first. But then I think she started to catch feelings. I didn't key on it until we got to the airport and the waterworks started.
She chose to come stay with me knowing it wouldn't become anything more than fuck buddies.
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There's more to the story if you all want me to share.
She abandoned her life.
no loyalty = no remorse.
her loyalty was too op.. who sent her packing. no matter how you justify this its fucked up. judt knowing the way girls are.. you cant fly one out just too fuck and then send her on her way without feels involved. its more than a 1 night thing when aircraft and hundreds of miles are involved
I didn't trick anyone. She knew what it was going to be before she ever flew out here.
Please do
Funny you say that.
She messaged me on fb a couple months after flying back home to tell me that she was pregnant.
you should have known man, is all i can say.if youve ever been witha women before you should have known. you actually are an asshole.
logically she agreed.
but the only way a girl is not gonna catch feelings in a relationship like that is seeing other dudes and NOT living with the dude she's fucking.
she set herself up to get fucked. on many levels.
if anything, OP just executed the perfect relationship.
Fuck her until you're absolutely tired of her, then move on. Fuckin, how I wish so many of my relationships had such closure.
That's how she was trying to land you. Regardless, you did the right thing. Being suckered into a relationship you don't want is shitty and would have wrecked your life.
>fly's
Stopped reading there.
>a couple months after flying back home
>fb message from her: "I'm pregnant"
>FML.jpg
>she says she hasn't been with anyone else since being with me
>has to be my kid
>talk to her for a while about what's next
>she want to keep the kid
>great... fuckin great
>make plans for her to come back
More?
Sure
>she wants to come back where I live and give a relationship a try
>over the next week i think about the prospect of being a father
>at first I was terrified and felt like my life was ending
>i start getting excited about having a little kid
>we make plans for her to come back
>found her a nice place to live and a few decent job prospects
>two weeks after finding out about the baby, I'm really looking forward to it.
>starting a new chapter feeling
More?
Go on
>another couple weeks rock along
>plane ticket bought, bags are packed
>talk to her almost everyday
>we're both excited about the baby and the change it means to our lives.
>we're both scared but happy also
>three days before she is to fly out
>text message: "call me asap"
>call her, she's crying uncontrollably
>almost couldn't understand what she was saying
>lost the baby. early pregnancy miscarriage
>my chest burns, I feel hollow
>i don't know what to say or do
>i was so ready for this and now it's gone
>why
mas?
>inb4 OPs girlfriend was missing plane
more
No more. Please stop. Only because I hate you... and, not for the asshole that you are, it's just the way you keep asking for validation that your story is interesting. It isn't.
>The stories and information posted here are artistic works of fiction and falsehood. Only a fool would take anything posted here as fact.
>she flies out anyway
>spend the next few weeks with each other
>we talk a lot about the baby
>we talk a lot about what could have been
>she stays and moves in to her new apartment
>she finds a decent job
>we talk a lot
>we start going out
>this chick's not half bad
>starts getting serious
>date for about a solid year
>going great, girl is awesome, chill af
>holy shit I'm looking at rings
>wtf am I doing
>i never wanted this
>i wanted to be single and fuck chicks. why am I looking at rings?
>get scared and go home
>whole ride home I'm telling my self it's the wrong choice. I shouldn't get married.
>i get home and she's not at work like she was supposed to be and she's at MY place
>walk in the front door, she's wearing one of my t-shirts and her black and yellow Batman panties
>she looks at me and smiles and tells me she took a personal day off work to surprise me.
>she's holding a big plate of spaghetti and already has GoT in the Blu-ray player.
>i ask her to marry me
>she laughs
>we eat and watch some GoT
>the next day I buy the ring and ask her for real
We've been married for 3 years and have one 2 year old boy and a girl on the way.
Life is crazy sometimes. I regret nothing.
well that was a stupid fucking story. time to neck yourself my man
I donno, I am a Sup Forums neckbeard, I have never experienced such things, 2 years away from becoming a wizard
This. The children are better off if you die now, maybe they can still be saved.
Yes you are. You know how much you meant to her if that is what she was willing to do for you. Next time, just don't even get started.
That doesn't sound half-bad, OP. Family life is hell if you're not ready to settle down, but it's something most people at the same time yearn inside.
> turning 30
> lots of friends having babies
> gf wants babies
> not so sure myself
...
THIS
xD
Trips faggit. Yes ur an asshole