My girlfriend of 8 months is asking me to co-sign a $30,000 loan or threatening to end the relationship

My girlfriend of 8 months is asking me to co-sign a $30,000 loan or threatening to end the relationship.

Back story: She bought a dilapidated house last year (when I first met her). She is originally from an Eastern block (US citizen) moved to a large U.S.A city for half her life and then moved to my city.

She is a model and her agency isn't working her like they used to for the past 5-7 months. She is utterly broke and when she first started dating me said she needed a man that could take care of her.

At the time she was making money and things were extremely good between us. She recently ended a modeling trip overseas because she wasn't making any money. She is renting her broken house out and this is her only source of money (which I am helping her rent).

She flew back in recently (to large city USA where all her friends/family are) and told me to not come to see her. She will fly to see me in 2-3 weeks.

She has been SHIT depressed for the past few months and it's getting WORSE. She wants to badly fix her house up and has NO JOBS/NO MONEY coming in. Her friends are married to millionaries wall-street bankers, men in their mid to late 30s.

She is comparing our relationship to theirs and says her friends ask why don't she ask to borrow money from her boyfriend (me) since she is in such dire trouble with her house and bills (she had to let her phone lapse cause she had no money to pay it at one point).

Yesterday she gave me an ultimatum. To co sign $30,000 loan for her house or she'd find a man that would support her. THIS FUCKING CRUSHED ME AFTER ALL THE SHIT IVE DONE FOR HER/HER SHITTY HOUSE.

What should I do Sup Forums? She is giving me 2-weeks to decide.

Pic related, not her but looks exactly similar to her. To me russian models all look the same.

Break up with her you fucking cucklord

Honestly, breakup is the best choice. Kick her ass out and use your money on yourself

bruh, you gotta end it, because this is only the beginning of her sucking you dry

Don't even think about it. Do not cosign. Big mistake

We are so integrated into each others lives. I basically go to her house everyday doing airbnb shit for her. Then she has a third of her shit at my house and I've taken her to so many nice places and we would spend 24.7 with each other. We'd often spend nights just at my place not doing shit other than watching movies and her cooking russian meals.

She would constantly be around me and we wouldn't take breaks. But past 2-3 months I haven't seen her cause she's been overseas and now shes in another city.

She is getting very angry at her job situation and taking that shit out on me. She thinks shes too good to work a normal job too.

>help me with payments or I'm leaving you

Fucking dump her you moron.

If bait, fuck you
If not bait, holy fuck you're pathetic

You wrote all that shit and none of it fucking matters you god damn moron if you didn't want to take the advice I gave then don't fucking ask for it you fucking idiot

Listen to this carefully. This is literally the best advice you'll get.

Break up with her and act like you don't care. Tell her you don't want to be with someone just because of money. You break up, act like you don't care. She will either come back crying to you 2 weeks later and realize she's mistaken or she won't because she doesn't love you and only seeks money.

In both cases, that's for the best. If she's with you only for money, this won't be the last thing she asks of you. There will be more and more. Be wise, OP.

This will fucking crush me. I love this girl with all my heart. I love her family/her family loves me and Im friends with her close friends....

I love flying to visit her family and hanging out with her friends as well...

I'm afriad I'll loose her to some faggot wall street banker or some shit. I think she's being COMPLETELY IRRATIONAL.

I SUGGESTED SHE GET A FUCKING JOB AS A WAITRESS/HOTEL AND SHE SAYS SHES TOO GOOD FOR THAT

even her mom said she has a princess syndrome.

She wants a man that will fucking pay everything for her so she no longer has to work. How realistic is her fanasty?

You'll have so much regret, Don't do it! Leave her, she clearly only cares about money, else she wouldn't do this to you.

Then kill yourself

Kill yourself

Sometimes you just gotta let go.

Here you can let go of this girl or you can let go of the weak grasp you still have on your testicles you fucking pussy.

Nobody gives a fuck about what you like to do and blahblahblah you asked for advice the thread has been crystal clear you refuse to accept it

Thread is over

Tell this cunt to get gone.

Ok. Then it is clear. The relationship needs to end. I'm fuck all a mess.

Since she said this shot yesterday I barely texted her but she texted me earlier acting like nothing happened.

Now she isn't really talking to me, but I havent bothered trying to text her.

I have to do one final airbnb shit thing for her house and I'm done with it (she has a friend taking care of it now anyways, this was planned month in advanced and he is a good family friend of hers and he told me the same advice. That I need to end it and she is being sinister)

Youre fucking pathetic. Seriously, youre pathetic even for a chineese cartoons forum standards.

I hope she will exploit you even more, you deserve it. Disgusting cuck.

Also saged

this
dubs speak the truth

Put a bullet in your temple, people like you shouldn't be allowed to breathe

You're a stupid fucking idiot, break it off NOW or live like how you're feeling for the rest of your days. Sometimes you must cut your losses and man up for yourself, take it from us shitheads that she is NOT worth your time if all she wants is cash from you.

>She recently ended a modeling trip overseas because she wasn't making any money
escorting.

leave that hoe, man. she's only interested in money and has already cheated on you.

good girls don't give ultimatums.

OP you're an incredibly annoying bitch. Stay with this cunt and let her run you like a dog. You're pathetic.

Can u afford a trophy? Answer no? GTFO

fuck no user, i've been with my gf a year and even a few hunded is too much. Just don't mix financial shit with any relationships, gf, frind, or famalams

Leave her you fucking cuck

Ok instead of breaking up with her I will simply tell her no I won't cosign. She'll break up with me and I'll listen to your advice and not act affected by it. I want to wait 2 weeks though to make myself strong and break all attachment and feelings for her so when it happens I'm ok

now i feel like i can never do better than her. How could I possibly top dating a fucking model?

Beat the living shit out of her. That's all those eastern bloc rushans understand. Fuck her up!

Fuck you and fuck her. Run far, and run hard, Sir.

She will keep demanding, and you'll keep giving, until you're broke as fuck and irretrievably wasted as a human being.

Have her get her shit in order, make demands of her in return; it's only fair. Then you'll see her find the next sugar daddy, i promise you

Poor fellows 30k is not much :D

Drinking bleach well help your particular situation newfriendo

Kill yourself

What sucks is over the 8 months Ive learned part of the russian language and russian culture. now i just associate her to all that shit.

Go away evil dogger!

You got in to a relationship understanding that you would have to pay for her, now you're surprised she wants more? Seriously? Idiot.

bang her one last tine abd tell her you dont date money grubbing whores.
I married a Russian girl. Very much in love with me, I dont make a whole lot but its enough to support her, myself and our son, while she slowly makes it through college. Every night my diner is on the table and ever morning my lunch is made for me.
Ots not one sided though. I do a lot for her, like check her homework, reassure her, take care of her...anyway, relationships are like that, they are a team effort. When one says "do this or else." its no longer a team, its now a slave and master.

You could date someone with a shred of humanity, dude.

Everything else is just a fucking fleshlight with legs.

Put your head on some railroad tracks and wait, faggot

No, no no! You must be the one to break up. You must show she can't control you and that you don't care, even if you do. Don't even make a mess out of it. Tell it to her quickly and shortly and leave.

i didnt think it'd be to this level. i thought she meant pay for her shit when i took her out on dates.

On special occasions I dropped $120 on lunches in Manhattan on her ass and she acted like it was nothing.

Post her noodz, faggot. FFS.

You may not find another model or even girl for a while but that is better than getting walked over m8, have some self respect.. You got to learn to love yourself before someone will love you back OK.

>I dropped $120 on lunches in Manhattan
should have took her ass to mcdonalds. gold digging hoe.

whatever you do, don't sign that fucking paper. You will be on the hook when she defaults. Is that worth it?

Should it be before she flies down here over the phone or after she flies here? It'd be the first time ive seen her in 2.5 months

>She flew back in recently (to large city USA where all her friends/family are) and told me to not come to see her. She will fly to see me in 2-3 weeks.

There is your problem. she is trying to find a way to dump you, because she has a new boyfriend back home. She is going to kick you to the curb regardless if you co-sign or not, so she is trying o squeeze every penny out of you before she ditches you, so tell her you know about her boyfriend(even if you don't), and that you're done with her. Show her you're not a cuckold who can get extorted that easily, and it will put her in a position she is not counting on.

8 months. Cut her loose before you find yourself saddled with a 30k loan.

So you had a girlfriend. And did boyfriend and girlfriend stuff. Big deal. You can find another one, much more cheaply. Guys break up with their girlfriends and get new ones all the time.

ok i wont pay. i wont do it
i took her to cheaper places but manhattan is fucking expensive

Her wish is realistic. If a bigger money bag/banker type comes along she is gone anyways, so fuck her and drop the bitch.

Invest in yourself, not the most expensive hooker you met and think you are in love with.

Also, laugh really hard at her

>she is trying o squeeze every penny out of you before she ditches you
This.

How are you guys falling for this?

Looks aren't everything. The best looking girls will upgrade the moment they can, but the plain girls will do anything to keep YOU.

this is excellent advice, you guys are starting to make some sense

also she claims its so she can work with her agency, as there isnt a big agency down here

She obviously only wants you for your money
Move the cunts things to her house and leave her
If she actually loved/cared for you, she wouldn't pressure you for money like that

they have mcdonalds in manhatten.

All this is b8 as fuck but I'll bite. Do it over phone call as she told you not to come see her you faggot. I bet she's getting fucked right now while you act like a bitch.

throw this shit away

thissss

don't be fucking stupid OP. Dump her wth a straight face

Don't sign, and move on from golddiggin cunts like this. Just keep contact with her mother to fuck around.

Pics of said bitch.

8 fuckin months???!!!!! if you are really in tight with her family then talk to them first. and tell them what is happening. fuck it. then if they are telling you that this is a bad mistake.

and it totally is, 100% a bad fucking idea. you could get stuck paying probably over 40k after interest. she will fuck you and take the money. give you fucking set of fucking balls and move on. just do it man.

> If a bigger money bag/banker type comes along she is gone anyways, so fuck her and drop the bitch.

she threaten me yesterday she was looking for such a man to take care of her and if she found him for me to not be surprised. this was after i didnt answer about cosigning.

but how likely will a wall street faggpt agree to give her $30,000 dollars?????

i hope she doesnt find what she looking for and ends up alone


she may look hot but she has a horrible attitude and gets angry a lot

here's what you do. Since she's already fucking another man... tell her you'll sign it. Have sex. Tell her you changed your mind, not signing it and also dumping her. say with straight face.

Leave and don't answer her calls.

>SUGGESTED SHE GET A FUCKING JOB AS A WAITRESS/HOTEL AND SHE SAYS SHES TOO GOOD FOR THAT
>her mom said she has a princess syndrome
>She wants a man that will fucking pay everything for her
Obviously you need to leave this woman.

>obviously money is more important to her.
she has no way to pay back the loan. do NOT sign. you will end up owing all this money and she will dump you anyways eventually when someone with money comes along.

ok i can do it over the phon ebut she will physically fly down here in about 2 weeks

i thought about telling her then in persn

LOL - no.
Tell her fuck off.

how old is she turning? it sounds like shes not getting jobs because shes getting older, which is common with models.

>girlfriend of 8 months
>$30,000 loan
>Eastern European
>model

red flags all over the place OP. end the relationship now, save yourself a lot of debt and headache later. trust me.
women that make financial support a condition of the continuation of the relationship deserve to be selling pussy in the gutter, which is where they end up if they can't find a daddy.

She doesn't love you. If she did she wouldn't give you an ultimatum.
Break up. Or better: burn her alive. One less stupid idiot on this world.

I'll bite. Co-sign the loan and be a cuck. That's obviously what you want to hear to fulfill your cuck fantasy.

Instadump this person!

Dude she's only in it for the money. She has no income and she wants you to cosign a loan? So basically she wants YOU to borrow 30 grand and just give it to her which she's going to expect you to pay back by yourself. Even if you do that, she's going to want more and more. When you can't afford to keep her happy anymore, she'll find someone who can. Get out now and deal with the broken heart before you have to deal with a broken heart + a huge debt.

Dude she will suck you dry then find a rich sugar daddy, dump her while you are ahead and next time date a 7/10, it's what I did and I have never been more happy

Tell her you are gonna co-sign. Fuck her brains out while the loan is pending. Make her do anal. Then don't show up at the closing. Get your shit out of her place and block her phone calls and text. Send her an email and tell her to fuck herself.

32 turning 33
she looks 25 at most

how likely is it some wal street dude with money is going to pick her ass up with all her baggage?

I HOPE NONE

and i forgot to add honestly if you got with one model you can get with another. chill out and enjoy the worlds endless supply of poon while you can. shes probably not one in a million even if you think she is.

She's might stab you

same here

also a russian model-girlfriend.
i help her with rent and anything. around 5000 euros a month.

>but how likely will
lol you did.

some other moron will too.

is she even hot? is the pussy even good? any head game?

what the fuck are YOU getting out of this?

I need pics.

ok then ill tell her over the phone im not doing it before she flies down.

100% she will end it

*she

dump her OP she just wants a cuck to pay for all her shit and will probably cheat on you

If the money is that important to her I'd tell her to fuck off

OP isn't going to listen. He's waiting for someone to validate what he already wants to do. What a little bitch.

If someone has to tell you how to be a man, it's because you aren't one yet. Grow up.

Also, check em. Pussy.

your fucking pathetic. stay with her, your clearly retarded and cant see it, you deserve it...you fucking moron. you should be wearing the skirt

she is a 10/10.

blonde hair, blue eyes, tall, skinny, nice perky boobs. she'd be nude around me when we were home and just watch movies and shit.

she'd also cook every night and i didnt do shit

She's not a model. instagram doesn't count. and most instagram "models" are escorting for rich clients.

shes a prostitute, dude.

exactly the same... damn. i even care for her airbnb-shit. and still she needs arouns 5k every month. and when i ask for just giving her 6 or 7k instead of doing airbnbshit, she refuses.

dump her
get a better gf

it doesn't fucking matter if they do. if you got one model you'll get another. theres an endless supply of poon in this world. you might think you've found the "one", but they are tons of "ones". trust me.

>I love this girl with all my heart
she doesnt feel same way smol friend
money is what she wants

Tits or gtfo

ok i will tell her fucking no and then man up when she dumps me and act like it doesnt bother me.

i need the 2 weeks to get over her first though

yet, no pics?

lies.

my girl isnt half as bad and I'm leaving her \
get out NAO ! OP do it!

This motherfucker creates these elaborate cuck threads with different themes, every fucking week. And most of you dimwitted drooling faggots fall for it, every fucking week.

Don't.