I've burnt through a lot of women, and I really, really love this girl. She's like, 100% of my confidence and my drive. She's why I can struggle through all the bullshit.
Losing her would be completely devastating, and this shit is going south, but I've no idea how to stop it.
Ryder Davis
Just quit and find another job. Something that allows you to spend more time with her, it's that easy.
Easton Parker
>I've burnt through a lot of women, and I really, really love this girl. She's like, 100% of my confidence and my drive. She's why I can struggle through all the bullshit. >Losing her would be completely devastating, and this shit is going south, but I've no idea how to stop it.
have you said this to HER and not just to Sup Forums ?
Nicholas Foster
Yeah, well.. Okay I'm shit at communicating. We've had the conversation though, and she knows how important she is, and she gets the whole job thing, but what I'm super anxious about is leaving the fucking country for most of a year with minimal contact.
Cooper Robinson
People pay good money for advice half as good as this.
Kevin Turner
No man, if you really do love her and really wanna stay with her, you'll get good at communicating real fuckin fast. Tell her, cry your eyes out and show her you actually care. How much money are you making? If it's not a "life made" type of job.. consider quitting.
Luis Butler
I put in for an SRO (school cop) position but I can't switch over until the beginning of the fiscal year, so basically when I get back from my deployment I'll have normal hours, like 8-4 Monday - Friday
Kevin Perez
Yeah, if u love her just quit. Even if u didn't it sounds like the job is pretty draining anyway and you don't even want to go to Kuwait. Just quit and tell ur higher ups how you're feeling so u have better chances of going back if money really is that tight and u can't work anywhere else. Good luck man, spend some time with your woman
Ryder Smith
Start looking for another job, now. Ask her to help you with looking for one so that you don't have to leave her, shell help.
Cooper Ward
This. Trust me OP, I lost a girl I loved over shit like this and I will regret it until the day I die.
I worked my ass off trying to work my way up, thinking 'once I'm promoted again I won't have to work so much, and I can give her the life she deserves'. Well, she didn't want the life I thought she deserved, she wanted me to actually be there with her, and by the time I figured it out it was too late.
Grayson Walker
tell her fine i will quit then be there for her the way she wants watch as time flies and soon she is complaining about something new she isn't getting or you not working or etc etc etc
tbh Sup Forumsro she sounds just a lil selfish like i understand only getting to see the person you love a few hours a day but thats part of life, you struggle, you cope, you sacrifice, you fight to keep your love strong not just one of you it takes both of you compromising and understanding of the others' needs
if it is only temporary before getting more normal hours then you shouldn't have to quit a career just so she can be happy at night when she is feeling lonely it is up to her to lay there at night and realize you are sacrificing your safety, your sanity, your happiness for her, so she doesn't have to live on the streets, so years down the road, you two can have all the time in the world to do the things you love with no worries
Grayson Baker
So you sign up as a civil servant, but can't stand that your life doesn't revolve around you family? Your job is to throw away your life so everyone else can have a better one. You don't want to make the commitment the job requires so just quit.
Gabriel Perez
fuck this copypasta from 8 years ago, faggot
Bentley Hernandez
what movie that gif from?
Josiah Robinson
Psssh, women, if you weren't working this hard she would be complaining that "your life isn't going anywhere, you don't have any goals"
Adam Long
No clue. Found it on /ps2g/.
Jason Reyes
Que? I can assure you this is pretty legit..
She really wouldn't, I don't think. I've done this since we've met, but recently with my promotion to SSgt. and the disturbances I've seen like, 0 of her, and the reserves are deploying me to work on jets for half a year.
Ethan Sanchez
A little selfish? You're a fuckin moron.
Benjamin Fisher
I'll rephrase it for you OP.. if you leave for 9 months, your relationship is done, unless she's absolutely out of this world amazing, which she probably isn't but that's totally fine. You're either quitting your job, or quitting her.
Henry Brooks
adjective (of a person, action, or motive) lacking consideration for others; concerned chiefly with one's own personal profit or pleasure.
Nolan Kelly
A short film called "Envoy" apparently.
Anthony Gray
thanks Sup Forumsro +5 interwebz to you
Landon Allen
Yeah.. the job thing might be doable, but I can't just quit the military, even the reserves won't let me just, not deploy.
Aiden Long
Nigga you are gonna get cucked
Adam Edwards
THEY DONT TEACH YOU TO BE A PUSSY IN THE FORCE SON, SHAPE UP
Christian Lewis
OP here, pretty much what I'm worried about.
Pic related.
Mason Scott
>Implying you can just quit the Army like that Haha dumbass
Blake Morris
Hey OP my names Chad.
Jace Morales
popping positive is the easiest thing in the world m8
Zachary Mitchell
So OP, you are still going to have your job as a detention officer when you get back?
Kayden Butler
No but honestly OP, you're being a pussy. Dude everybody loses shit, it's the way life works. Yeah it will be hard the first time, but that's cause you've never been through something of that caliber. Plus women take your money, your goal is to MAKE money. Stop being a pussy OP. Tables turn, bridges burn, we live and learn.
Kevin Gray
Yeah, in fact the way it's set up they pay me for "military leave."
Basically for the first three months I have enough "military leave" to collect double paychecks.
When I get back I'll be an SRO (probably) and have normal hours.
The main thing I'm worried is leaving until like, after Christmas on a bad note. More than likely if I leave and it's shitty, I'll come back to an empty home.
Kevin Gonzalez
Tell her how you feel, you raging fucknugget.
Dylan Moore
Yeah I've been through enough women to know which ones are useless pieces of shit. This one is considerably less shitty.
Nolan Davis
You don't think your fellow soldiers will have your back on some shit like this? You can always find someone better. There will always be a better.
Dominic Russell
Yeah after how long? She's fucking awesome, and I have no idea how long it'll be before I find someone as good.
Jack Barnes
So you complain on Sup Forums? You got advice already. Go and speak with her
Tyler Gutierrez
Yeah OP. Do not quit your job. That sounds like a pretty good deal honesly. And you getting deployed is what is going to end your relationship, and that is happening regardless. So if you quit you won't have a job when you get back either. If you like the girl this much stick with her. Try to make it work through your deployment, and maybe she will stick around if she truly loves you as much as you do her. If she doesn't, then she didn't love you as much apparently. Might be hard at first, but you need to realize that she isn't really worth it if she can't handle the relationship when things get a little tough.
James White
>We've had the conversation though, and she knows how important she is,
Yeah, no. Women don't work like that. You can tell them a million times but they don't get it unless you somehow prove it, and this usually involves something totally unrealistic, like quitting your job, going AWOL, etc. That's what she's asking. You're not going to win without doing something completely and totally retarded. Because women.
Chase Anderson
hahahaha OP dont listen to this virgin Just communicate brah it ain't embarassing
Evan Edwards
You seriously think just telling a girl a hundred times that she's important is going to make her believe it? Have you ever been with a woman? They don't think like men. They don't listen to words. They don't debate. They don't reason. All they do is feel. If you can stir feelings, then you're not getting your point across. I've been married 15 years. I've seen some shit.
Angel Howard
This, OP, is a defining moment in your life. It's time to have the hard talk with yourself, and with your woman. Do you want this career? Is this what you really want to do in your life? If this is truly what you should be doing, then be 100% open and honest with her about that. If she loves you and cares about you, she will support you in that. It will be hard and you do take the risks of putting a lot of strain on your relationship. It can either take that strain or break, which is an indicator of the strength of the relationship. If it's not what you want to do, if it's just a paycheck and you jeopardize your relationship for something that doesn't matter to you, then you're an idiot and deserve to lose it. I get that money is important but is it more important than her? What does she think, is money more important than you? Would you both sacrifice and live frugally to be together? Man up OP, live your destiny like a boss, either it's to sacrifice to be with her, or its to sacrifice to provide for her. But either way you BOTH need to agree on that course.
Andrew Morales
The problem is the thing is going to put the biggest strain on the relationship is happening regardless of his decision to quit his current job. He cant just not get deployed.
Jordan Thomas
The thing that is**
Xavier Rodriguez
Take a shit on your boss's doorstep LOL! TOP KEK LE HUE!!!
Kayden Rodriguez
It's ok op she still loves u
Liam Howard
Oh is that so?
Connor Foster
Lol when you leave she's gonna fuck some nigger and let him ram it up her ass
Oliver Allen
Nah if shit's going south I'll probably kick her out before I leave.
Aiden Perry
Works for Pimps but the name of the game is cop and blow
Carson Hall
when you go overseas to war your relationship ends. this is not the 1940s. a woman can find a good looking, educated man with a job in 30 seconds by opening a cell phone app.
your girl WILL cheat no matter what, you WILL come home knowing your pussy has been used for who knows what purpose. so end it. for your own good
Daniel Adams
Bro just ditch that bullshit career and run away with her! If she makes you happy do it now.
