Should a man leave his wife if he finds out she's sabotaging her pregnancy?

Should a man leave his wife if he finds out she's sabotaging her pregnancy?
For two years me and wife, Carmen, were trying to get pregnant with our first born. During that two year period I've been to dozens of specialist getting my sperm count checked and making sure everything was in working order. Likewise she's been to gynecologist as well as other specialist to make sure her eggs were okay and her ovulation cycles were on track. After all that back breaking hassle, still not the slightest hint of a child, despite the doctors telling us we're perfectly healthy. I for the love of me was going off my nerve wondering was just wasn't clicking between us. Well a few days ago she and a friend of hers got into an argument at a get together and her friend blurted out that she told her she had been taking birth control at work this whole time because she didn't actually want kids.

I am... incensed to put it lightly. I can't even look at or speak to her right now. She lied to me and wasted precious years of my life. I've been sitting here crying and reflecting on my feelings for her and I just don't feel like I want her or love her anymore. Funny that a couple of days ago she was my universe and now... where that love was, it's just empty. Considering what she did to me, should I move on?

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Yes.

Way tl;dr

Im pretty sure the answer is, kys.

Kek

You should thank her.

If you want kids, then yes, it's more than right for you to leave her. In the catholic religion, for example, it's enough reason to cancel a marriage and for getting a divorce, this kind of thing is enough for her to don't get a fucking penny.

Follow your dreams, OP.

just wait a few days before you do anything you might regret, think it over

She lied in a big deal so yeah thats betrayal.

share the nudes

Why do u want a kid so badly, faggot? How old are you? Prob 30's or something I would guess... nice part about being a man is that u can have babies whenever the fuck u feel like. So why r u so desperate to knock this dumb broad up???????? U sounding mad retarded now.

Yes get rid of her, she lied to you for two years.

I don't really see how having kids at 31 is in any way early, I'm financially stable and it would be nice to have grown up kids by the time I'm 50

yes.

cunt move percetly justifying a brake up

That is not just a white lie op, thats pretty heavy. You deserve better. Just imagine what else shes a cunt about if something so serious is petty in her eyes

yes. also if you get the chance: kill the bitch.

This. A million times this.

Do make sure that the friend isn't lying though. She could just be a mega cunt making shit up to hurt your woman.

this

kill her

how else do you explain the lack of pregnancy in 2 1/2 years when theyre perfectly healthy?

Listen to these cunts. They are giving the good advice.

she doesnt want a child fam, just fucking deal with it or get out, dont be a betafag

how dumb are you you should never get married they can steal fucking everything never marry man its to fucking risky and then theres alimony because america is a sexist pile of shit

Use chainsaw on leg. Dubs decide if yours or her leg

i think yau have a big Problem in ypur couple and long before you discovered that your wife take the pill...
sure that she alsay really wanted a kid? or she just said "OK let's do it!" for you OP but inside her she wasn't ready?
why she hided it from you?
she must had fears...

The problem, I guess, isn't that she doesn't (yet?) want children, but that she lied to you so extremely. That is such a fundamental breach of trust that you both will probable be unable to overcome it. Take some time and DO NOT make any hasty decisions. Let your emotions settle and come to a conclusion. But then, trust your feelings and act accordingly.

But first, talk to her. See what she has to say. Does she admit it? Or does she deny it? That will present you with the problem that you have to find out the truth. And in that case, I would consider marriage counseling. But if she admits it, sleep over it, take a holiday alone, whatever you need to do right now. And then either forgive her and commit to her again, or decide that you can no longer trust her and have lost your love for her, and then make the cut.

All the best. That is some of the worst shit I ever heard. Crass.